Sharing Joy with Others
Ah Nao is a “furry” (兽迷). At Super Furry Fusion, the biggest furry party in China, Ah Nao dressed up in an animal suit, performed on stage, met friends and played games. “It was the happiest time I’ve ever had,” he told TMPost.
Furries are fans of animal characters from movies, books and video games. They enjoy wearing animal costumes and role-playing. They also draw or write furry artwork and stories. “People are like families in this community and we can really be ourselves here.” said Ah Nao.
Many young people, especially those born after the year 2000, have created all kinds of similar communities based on niche (小众的) interests. These can include hanfu, voice acting, and even pen spinning.
Hui, another young person born after 2000, is the head of a community called “Home to Pen Spinners”. In this community, people share videos of their performances and learn more difficult tricks from each other. Earlier this year, Hui led two Chinese teams to the sixth Pen Spinning World Cup. Sixteen teams from 11 countries, including the US, Japan and France, took part. The Chinese teams won sixth and seventh places.
“Young people have a strong need to build their identity (身份认同感). In these communities they can have a sense of belonging and find better ways to express themselves.” wrote Yu Tao, a PhD in cultural studies at Heilongjiang University.
“People group together based not on birthplaces, family background or any other factors, but simply on the same interests.” Yu wrote. As Chi Benben, another furry, told TMPost, “The circle welcomes everyone. Some furries feel inferior (自卑的) in day-to-day life, perhaps because they are fat or disabled in some way. But they can all make friends and have fun here.”
1. What do “furries” do?A.Play with animals. | B.Feed furry animals. |
C.Dress up in animal costumes. | D.Write articles of protecting animals. |
A.money | B.interests | C.birthplaces | D.background |
A.Because they are full of energy. |
B.Because they like to play games. |
C.Because they are fat or disabled in some way. |
D.Because they are eager to be accepted and listened to. |
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【推荐1】Everyone needs to be safe, loved and to have a sense of belonging. These are inborn and natural basic needs. In an effort to have these needs satisfied, many of us tend to please others. And it works for a while. We find that we experience less conflict (冲突) with others, but the conflict within ourselves grows. Saying “ no ” produces feeling of guilt (内疚) and saying “ yes ” brings anger.
My father was in the military, so we often moved. Being shy, I didn’t make friends. What’s more, I grew up in a household where grades, image and how others saw our family were very important. In our household a “ C ” was unacceptable, a “ B ” should have been an “ A ” and an “ A ” meant the lesson was too easy. I was too thin, my sister was too fat and my brother’s lips and ears were too big for his tiny head.
To stop pleasing others is easier said than done. It’s a long process, one in which I am consistently working to perfect. The turning point for me came shortly after I got married. The very first thing that we did to end the cycle of pleasing others was developing our own identity as independent human beings and then as a couple. And then we developed a strong set of core (核心) values and a vision for our future. The third and one of the most valuable things we did during this process was developing our own personal influence on others and we valued deeply the opinions of the wiser and more successful people around us.
Besides, we should understand that sometimes helping people at once actually hurts them. The struggle is necessary to success. The struggle strengthens character, making people determined. So sometimes allowing people to struggle is the best thing you can do for them.
1. How are we likely to feel when pleasing others?A.Angry | B.Satisfied. | C.Guilty | D.Happy |
A.He grew up doing a lot of housework. | B.It was hard for him to adapt to the moving life. |
C.He realized the value of opinions from others. | D.His parents had great expectations of the children. |
A.What steps the author took to go on pleasing others. |
B.Why the author further developed his values and character. |
C.How the author stepped out of the cycle of pleasing others. |
D.When the author turned to others for their valuable opinions. |
A.Helping others at once. | B.Thinking twice before offering help. |
C.Refusing to help others. | D.Leaving someone in trouble alone. |
【推荐2】Vienna, the capital of Austria, is graced by its wealth of art, music, museums and parks. But some locals are saying that the city’s charm is damaged by dog owners who don’t clean up after their pets.
Last week they came up with a solution. There is a citywide campaign(运动) telling dog owners to pick up after their dogs. That means they cannot leave a mess on city streets and in parks.
“We want to reach as many dog owners as possible to remind them of the rules,” said Ulli Sima, city councillor (议员) in charge of the environment. “We want to show them the easiest solution to the problem: put it in a bag and then in the next rubbish bin,” said Sima.
There are about 158, 000 dogs in Vienna. The city requires their owners to bag the pet’s mess when walking it outdoors. But it’s believed that only a few of the city’s dog lovers actually follow the rules.
Every day dogs drop between 5 and 10 tons of their waste around the city. Vienna spends 7 million euros every year just to keep the streets mess-free.
Loose enforcement(执行) is to blame.Dog owners say they pay 40 euros each year for their pets. But the city argues the dog license fee has nothing to do with cleaning up dog messes.
The fine for leaving a dog mess is high --as much as 72 euros. The rules, however, are seldom enforced.
City officials said that the campaign was not meant to be an attack on dog owners.
“The city does a lot for peaceful co-existence by establishing areas for dogs or providing bags for dog waste. But dog owners must do their part as well and accept these offers,” said Sima.
1. What would be the best title for the passage?A.Dogs Have Rules Too | B.How to Keep Dogs |
C.Dogs and the City | D.Keep the City Clean |
A.made more attractive | B.praised |
C.looked as | D.thought to be |
A.Keeping dogs will be forbidden soon. |
B.Dog owners will be fined next month. |
C.More strict measures will be taken to keep the city clean. |
D.Dog owners will be attacked. |
A.no one requires them to |
B.they don’t want to |
C.they have paid 40 euros for cleaning up dog messes |
D.the rules to fine for leaving dog messes are not strictly enforced |
【推荐3】When you feel thankful for things you’ve received or something that’s happened, that’s gratitude. “Gratitude is how you relate to others, when you see yourself in connection with things larger than yourself.” says Tamiko Zablith, founder of the etiquette consulting firm Minding Manners.
Nowadays, too many people don’t stop to appreciate what they have, and much less express gratitude. Our instant-satisfaction lifestyle may be to blame. “With commercial and social media, everything is speeding the younger generation to make them feel that they’re the centre of the universe,” Zablith says. “If it’s all about them, why thank others?”
However, studies have shown that people who express gratitude increase their happiness levels, lower their blood-pressure levels, get better-quality sleep and improve their relationships. And gratitude’s positive effects are long-lasting. Canadian researchers found that people who wrote letters of thanks or performed good deeds for a mere six-week period were able to improve their mental health, decrease their bodily pain and feel more energetic for up to six months.
What about gratitude recipients who receive messages of thanks? Research has confirmed that the recipients experience positive emotions when they’re singled out. “Those are happy surprises — you may not be expecting the favour to be returned,” says Jo-Ann Tsang, associate professor of psychology at Baylor University. When someone is the recipient of unexpected kindness or gratitude, he’s more likely to return the favour or pass kindness on. One study found that when someone is thanked, it more than doubles his chances of being helpful again. Zablith likes the reaction she got when she rewarded a stranger who held the door open for her at a coffee shop with his rightful place in line in front of her. “The look on his face was shock,” says Zablith. “He would be nicer to the cashier, the next person he would see at work. There’s a trickle-down effect.”
1. What might contribute to people’s less gratitude expressing nowadays?A.The fast-paced lifestyle. | B.Having fewer things to be grateful for. |
C.The immediate pleasure from social network. | D.Being embarrassed about speaking out appreciation. |
A.Explain a reason. | B.Introduce a solution. |
C.Add some background information. | D.Summarize the previous paragraphs. |
A.Sharing gratitude leads to positive emotions. |
B.Kindness can be passed on if the giver feels appreciated. |
C.The give-and-take of gratitude can determine relationships. |
D.Gratitude recipients actually expect the favor to be returned. |
A.How to accept gratitude from others. | B.Gratitude benefits people’s well-being. |
C.How to be grateful to people around you. | D.Kindness shouldn’t be a one-way matter. |
【推荐1】Life on the International Space Station(ISS)——the place where astronauts dwell(居住) in space-differs from that on Earth. For example, astronauts have to rely on the ISS’ life support system, which provides oxygen and absorbs carbon dioxide. But sometimes astronauts need to deal with unusual air leaks.
Normally, the ISS releases a small amount of air each day to rid the harmful gases. But recently, the air seemed to be leaking at a slightly higher rate than usual, which became a cause for concern, according to MSN. The three crew members currently on board are staying in the Russian segment(舱段) of the ISS temporarily while NASA tries to find the origin of the leak in the US segment.
This isn’t the first time that an air leak has occurred on the ISS. On Aug 29, 2018, an air leak was discovered on the ISS. Fortunately, six people on board found a hole measuring 2 millimeters in diameter on Soyuz MS-09, a Russian spacecraft temporarily docked with the ISS. The astronauts patched the hole with tape. But the question remains: What can cause holes in the hard surface of spacecrafts? Space debris(碎片) can.
In low orbit, space debris circles around Earth at speeds between 7 to 8 kilometers per second. Because of the high speed, it can penetrate the surface of the ISS. A NASA report submitted to the US Congress said the ISS has a 55-percent chance of being penetrated by some sort of space debris, according to the website New Scientist. However, finding a tiny hole is not easy.
The ISS measures some 109 meters by about 73 meters, roughly the size of a soccer field. So how do astronauts find a tiny hole in such a large area?
When air leaks occur, astronauts seal off various sections of the ISS to narrow down the area. Once the location of the leak is found, it is closed and the pressure on each side is checked.
This is exactly what NASA is doing now. The US space agency has been trying to find the hole, which is equivalent to “finding pinholes in a large airliner”, Xinhua News Agency noted.
1. What can we know about the recent air leak?A.It has exposed astronauts to harmful gases. |
B.More gas than usual is leaking in the ISS. |
C.It is happening in the Russian segment. |
D.NASA has already found the origin of the leak. |
A.It was due to the docking of spacecrafts. |
B.The hole was found on the surface of the ISS. |
C.It was repaired with tape by crew members. |
D.Space debris was found in the spacecraft. |
A.What causes space debris. |
B.What the surface of the ISS is like. |
C.Why space debris can cause air leaks. |
D.How to find holes made by space debris. |
A.finding the origin of the leak |
B.closing various segments of the ISS |
C.patching the hole with tape |
D.checking the pressure of the sections |
【推荐2】Water Fasting
Fasting, a method of restricting food intake, has been practiced for thousands of years. Water fasting is a type of fast that restricts everything except water. It has become more popular in recent years as a quick way to lose weight.
Most water fasts last 24-72 hours. You should not follow a water fast for longer than this without medical supervision. Here are a few reasons why people try water fasting:
·religious or spiritual reasons ·to lose weight ·for “detoxing” ·for its health benefits ·preparing for a medical procedure |
In fact, several studies have linked water fasting with some impressive health benefits, including a lower risk of certain cancers, heart disease and diabetes. However, water fasting has many risks and can be very dangerous if followed for too long.
How do you water fast? There are no scientific guidelines on how to start water fasting. However, several groups of people should not water fast without medical supervision. This includes people with diabetes, eating disorders, older adults, pregnant women, and children.
If you have never water fasted before, it’s a good idea to spend 3 — 4 days preparing your body for being without food You can do this by eating smaller portions at each meal or by fasting for part of the day.
·Water fast(24 — 72 hours)
During a water fast, most people drink two to three liters of water per day during a water fast. The water fast lasts for 24 — 72 hours. You should not water fast for longer than this without medical supervision because of health risks.
Some people may feel weak or dizzy during a water fast and may want to avoid operating heavy machinery and driving to avoid causing an accident.
·Post-fast(1 — 3 days)
After the water fast, you should resist the urge to eat a big meal. This is because eating a large meal after a fast may cause uncomfortable symptoms. Instead, break your fast with a smoothie or smaller meals. You can start introducing larger meals throughout the day as you feel more comfortable.
The post-fast phase is especially important after longer fasts. This is because you may be at risk of refeeding syndrome, a potentially fatal condition in which the body undergoes rapid changes in fluid and electrolyte levels.
This phase normally lasts a day, but people who fast for 3 or more days may need up to 3 days before they feel comfortable eating larger meals.
1. Which of the following content is NOT true according to the passage?A.People stick to a fasting diet for both physical and mental reasons. |
B.During water fasting, one can only drink water within 24 — 72 hours. |
C.Going on a water fast is soundly supported by experiment-based results. |
D.Generally, one should go on a water fast under the guidance of doctors. |
A.A fatal syndrome. | B.Weakness or dizziness. |
C.Lack of strength and power. | D.Inability to move. |
A.definition—risks—benefits—restrictions—procedures |
B.introduction—reasons—procedures—risks—restrictions |
C.definition—benefits—risks—restrictions—procedures |
D.introduction—reasons—restrictions—procedures |
【推荐3】Many people think that listening is a passive(被动的) business. It is just the opposite. Listening well is an active exercise of our attention and hard work. It is because they do not realize this, or because they are not willing to do the work, that most people do not listen well.
Listening well also requires total concentration upon someone else. An essential part of listening well is the rule known as “bracketing”. Bracketing includes the temporary giving up or setting aside of your own prejudices and desires, to experience as far as possible someone else’s world from the inside, stepping into his or her shoes. Moreover, since listening well involves bracketing, it also involves a temporary acceptance of the other person. Sensing this acceptance, the speaker will seem quite willing to open up the inner part of his or her mind to the listener. True communication is under way and the energy required for listening well is so great that it can be accomplished only by the will to extend oneself for mutual growth.
Most of the time we lack this energy. Even though we may feel in our business dealings or social relationships that we are listening well, what we are usually doing is listening selectively. Often, we have a prepared list in mind and wonder, as we listen, how we can achieve certain desired results to get the conversation over as quickly as possible or redirected in ways more satisfactory to us. Many of us are far more interested in talking than in listening, or we simply refuse to listen to what we don’t want to hear.
It wasn’t until toward the end of my doctor career that I have found the knowledge that one is being truly listened to is frequently therapeutic. In about a quarter of the patients I saw, surprising improvement was shown during the first few months of psychotherapy, before any of the roots of problems had been uncovered or explained. There are several reasons for this phenomenon, but chief among them, I believe, was the patient’s sense that he or she was being truly listened to, often for the first time in years, and for some, perhaps for the first time ever.
1. The phrase “stepping into his or her shoes” in paragraph 2 probably means _______.A.preparing a topic list first | B.focusing on one’s own mind |
C.directing the talk to the desired results | D.experiencing the speaker’s inside world |
A.How to listen well. | B.What to listen to. |
C.Benefits of listening. | D.Problems in listening |
A.listen actively | B.listen on purpose |
C.set aside their prejudices | D.open up their inner mind |
A.Science fiction | B.A news report. | C.A medical report. | D.Popular science |