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题型:阅读理解-七选五 难度:0.85 引用次数:102 题号:17727540

We need to be conscious of the fact that people around us influence us in subtle ways that may encourage us, or hamper it. Motivational speaker Jim Rohn famously said, “You’re the average of the five people you spend most of your time with”.     1    

If this “circle” of people is goal-driven, and encouraging, we can experience a positive impact on our actions. On the other hand, if the people around us are negative and restrictive, we may subconsciously “live-up” to these qualities and stop our own personal growth in the process.

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How do you identify who is influencing you? Be mindful of the conversations you have with people and the activities you engage in with them. What are the opinions that dominate in your social group?     3    If there is a discrepancy between what you are and where you want to be, look at your circle of five and you will see how instrumental they are in influencing your path. Identify and exclude time and energy vampires from your circle of five.

Nourish your circle

Once you identify the people who belong to your reference group, it is important to nourish these relationships.       4     Different individuals evolve at a different pace. The important part is to be aware of this living and changing “circle of five”. Of course, five is a rough guide. It could be slightly more or less. Let this circle of five motivate you, help you gain courage, and take the right actions.

    5     Play this role sincerely and demonstrate a growth mindset to anyone who lists you as part of their circle of five.

A.Know your circle
B.Dominate your circle
C.Over time, this core circle may change.
D.It means that this “circle” can help you live a better life.
E.The influence of those around us can be quite significant.
F.Also remember, just like others influence you, you also have an influence on others.
G.What are the similarities between you and the five people you are constantly close to?
【知识点】 社会关系

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