Something strange has been happening to me lately: Women in the street have been telling me I’m brave.
I had brown hair that started going gray when I was thirty.
When I see my hair in the mirror, it’s a reminder that my time is limited, and I should spend it doing what matters. There’ s nothing shameful (丢脸的) about growing older.
A.My act of courage isn’t much. |
B.Enjoy whatever life gives time. |
C.Dyeing (染色) made me look younger. |
D.So I started dyeing it like a lot of women. |
E.Of course people should do what they want with their own body. |
F.And pretending it’s not happening is a way of giving up our power. |
G.I also like that it has given me some needed feeling that youth seems so important. |
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【推荐1】As is known to all, many things can be measured in terms of data. Sometimes data(数据) can indeed tell the truth. With the help of data we can easily know the price of a can of Coke in the supermarket or the result of a football match. Data can make our life easier and more comfortable. What is more important, data seem to be fairer than words or statements.
On the other hand, if we judge things only by data from the so-called specific research, aren’t we a little too narrow-minded? Many people often treat the so-called specific data unwisely just to make sure that they are making the right decisions.
There is no doubt that analyzing the exact data is important to assessment of an actual event. But data should be dealt with wisely. We often get wrong data which mislead us.
Data are data after all. Life is much more colourful than the pale data. So give the cold data a warm heart and we’ll find that the world is far more wonderful than the pale data can describe.
A.We should try our best to be wise thinkers. |
B.If the data are true, we don’t have to worry about being cheated. |
C.But sometimes we may find that data aren’t everything. |
D.Sometimes our hearts and mind are more sensitive than data. |
E.Now and then the so-called specific data puzzle us very much. |
F.The exact data should come from assessment of an actual event. |
G.There are many things in our life which cannot be measured by data. |
【推荐2】My name is Amber and I want to share my story with you because what you’ve shared about life and positive energy has changed my life.
This past year has been one of the hardest for me. I felt I was stuck in a position that had nothing to do with what I wanted to do with my life. In January, after two years of being together, my boyfriend left me.
I read your blog every morning as I drink my coffee at work, but it wasn’t until this March that I told myself “no more negativity (消极性)” as you taught readers in your blog.
Since then I’ve got into new habits at work to keep my energy positive. When people walk in the front door, I’m the first face they see, so I smile big when I say “good morning” to them, especially on Monday. Instead of waiting for someone to ask me for help, I offer it with an open mind. The CEO noticed my change and offered me the executive (行政的) assistant position that I wanted.
One of the biggest things I’ve taken to heart from your blog is changing my opinions on my job. Yes, it was not an important position, but when I was passionate (热情的) about it, I could make my life fulfilling.
All in all, I have to thank you somehow for having the passion to help others because it truly is inspiring to me. So thank you so much, John. My life has changed because your words pointed me in the right direction, Take care!
Sincerely,
Amber
1. Amber wrote the letter mainly to __________.A.introduce herself to John | B.ask for some advice |
C.express her thanks | D.talk about her bad year |
A.received very good education | B.spent a lot of time playing computer games |
C.didn’t like her boyfriend | D.wasn’t satisfied with her job |
A.He used to live a very negative life. |
B.He likes helping others through writing positive blogs. |
C.He doesn’t like sharing his life stories. |
D.He is a very famous novelist. |
A.A positive attitude is rewarding. | B.Bad luck doesn’t exist long. |
C.Practice makes perfect. | D.A friend in need is a friend indeed. |
When we see something we don’t like, we wish it could be different -- we cry out for something better. That may be human nature, or perhaps it’s something that’s ingrained(根深蒂固的)in our culture.
The root of unhappiness is that we decided we didn’t like it in the first place. We’ve judged it as bad, rather than saying, “It’s not bad or good, as it just is.”
An example: in my recent post(帖子), A Beautiful Method to Find Peace of Mind, quite a few commentators thought my outlook was negative, pessimistic, or fatalistic(听天由命的)... because I said you should expect people to mess up, expect things to go differently from what you planned. Above all, you should embrace that.
It’s too negative to expect something to go wrong, they said. However, I think it’s only negative if you see it as negative, or if you judge it as bad.
Instead, you could accept it as the way the world works -- as the way things actually are. And try to understand why they are that way.
Does it mean you can never change things? Not at all. But changing things is not because you can’t accept things as they are, but because you enjoy the process of change of learning and growing.
Can we make this world a better place? Again, that’s an assumption that it’s a bad place fight now. But instead, you could say the world is just what it is -- and that’s neither good nor bad. You can say that you’ll continue to try to do things to help others, to grow as a person, to make a difference in this world -- not because you’re such a bad person now, but because that’s the path you choose to take, because you enjoy that path.
As you catch yourself judging, and wishing for different -- try a different approach: accept, and understand. It might lead to some interesting results.
1. Which of the following statements is correct according to the author?
A.We can never change things because we can’t accept them. |
B.We shouldn’t try to do whatever we can to help others and make a difference. |
C.It’s wrong of you to expect things to go differently. |
D.There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. |
A.The world is a good place for us to live in. |
B.Unhappiness comes from what we want to be different. |
C.You might as well accept the world as it is and try to embrace it. |
D.Let’s make the world more beautiful. |
A.A novel. | B.A news story. | C.A travel guide. | D.A magazine. |
【推荐1】Mirrors always tell the truth. When the evil Queen asked her mirror, “Who’s the fairest of them all?” she did not like the answer:“Snow White is the fairest of them all.” In the fairy tale, the Queen tried to kill Snow White to keep herself the fairest. In modern times, she would have just chosen some plastic surgery.
China’s plastic surgery industry has been developing rapidly in the past ten years as more people look in the mirror and try to change the “truth” of their reflection (影像). A recent study shows that nearly 60% of the Chinese college students surveyed were anxious about their appearance, and that about a quarter of them would consider receiving plastic surgery to look more physically attractive.
The reasons for which these young people are concerned with their looks have partly to do with necessity and partly to do with vanity (虚荣心). Studies have shown that, in today’s competitive job market, “physically attractive” people are more likely to be offered an interview and to land a job than those who have the same abilities but look ordinary. Psychologists call this the “halo effect” a type of cognitive bias (认知偏差) in which our good impression of a person in one area naturally leads to positive thoughts about this person in other areas.
There is also the effect that social media has on how people judge their appearance and understand real beauty. In the virtual (虚拟的) world, “ideal” faces have big eyes, thin high noses and pointed chins. This easily misleads young people into believing that they are not pretty enough, or are even ugly, and that they should turn to “outside help” for complete makeover. However, plastic surgery is just a fashion trend, with different features going in and out of style.
As the old saying goes, inner beauty is more important than outer beauty. As long as you are a good person, that goodness will shine through. The evil Queen was beautiful on the outside, but inside, she was very ugly. The mirror did not lie.
1. What does the underlined “truth” in paragraph 2 refer to?A.They don’t look attractive. | B.Their looks have changed. |
C.They have only inner beauty. | D.They are fooled by the media. |
A.The Queen felt angry because she was not the fairest of all. |
B.Mary is not confident because she hasn’t an “ideal” face. |
C.Jack is considering a plastic surgery because his friends have done so. |
D.Amy looks pretty, so she is often thought to be kind and well-rounded. |
A.They need to improve their looks. |
B.Beauty only lies in the virtual world. |
C.Real beauty comes from confidence. |
D.Plastic surgery is just a fashion trend. |
A.The best mirror is an old friend. | B.All that glitters is not gold. |
C.Fine feather makes fine birds. | D.Never judge a book by its cover. |
Yet the blessings and curses of beauty have been a long-standing interest in psychology. Do those blessed with shiny faces and an attractive body live in a cloud of appreciation — or does it sometimes pay to be ordinary?
Combing through decades of findings, social psychologists Lisa Slattery Walker and Tonya Frevert at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte havereviewed all the evidence to dateand their conclusions are not what you might expect.
At the most basic level, beauty might be thought to carry a kind of halo(光环) around it; we see that someone has one good quality, and by association, our deep mind may assume that they have other good ones too.
Even in the courts, a pleasing appearance can work its magic. Attractive criminals are likely to get less strict sentences, or to escape punishment entirely; attractive plaintiffs(原告), meanwhile, are more likely to win their case and get bigger financial settlements. “It’s an effect seen everywhere,” says Walker.
But if beauty pays in most circumstances, there are still situations where it can have opposite results. While attractive men may be considered better leaders, for instance, hidden sexist prejudices can work against attractive women, making them less likely to be hired for high-level jobs that require power. And as you might expect, good-looking people of both sexes run into envy — one study found that if you are interviewed by someone of the same sex, they may be less likely to employ you if they judge that you are more attractive than they are.
More worryingly, being beautiful or handsome could harm your medical care. We tend to link good looks to health, meaning that illnesses are often taken less seriously when they affect the good-looking. When treating people for pain, for instance, doctors tend to take less care over the more attractive people.
And the bubble of beauty can be a somewhat lonely place. One study in 1975, for instance, found that people tend to move further away from a beautiful woman on the pathway — perhaps as a mark of respect, but still making interaction more distant. “Attractiveness can convey more power over visible space — but that in turn can make others feel they can’t approach that person,” says Frevert. Interestingly, the online dating website OKCupid recently reported that people with the most beautiful pictures are less likely to find dates than those with less perfect pictures.
Ultimately, Frevert points out that focusing too much on your appearance can itself be harmful if it creates stress and anxiety — even for those already blessed with good looks. “If you are crazy about attractiveness, it may affect your experience and interactions,” she says. It’s an outdated saying, but no amount of beauty can make up for a bad personality. As the writer Dorothy Parker put it so elegantly: “Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone.”
1. From paragraph one, we can learn that _______.
A.we might always dream about being bothered by others[ |
B.most people are not afraid of being too beautiful |
C.some may be bothered by their unattractive appearance |
D.being too beautiful can be a problem bothering everyone |
A.An attractive plaintiff has more chances to get away with punishment. |
B.Beautiful criminals are more likely to persuade the judge and win the case. |
C.Good-looking people are often regarded as having many good qualities. |
D.Women with pleasing appearance will always be considered as better leaders. |
A.Don’t use perfect pictures when trying to find dates online. |
B.Less attractive women are lonely because of their appearances. |
C.We may feel more excited to approach those with attractive appearances. |
D.People with perfect pictures will find dates sooner or later. |
A.Sexist Prejudice | B.Negative Sides of Beauty |
C.Blessed with Beauty | D.Beauty vs Ugliness |
【推荐3】While we like to think that people get ahead because of some combination of effort, talent, and knowing the right people, research shows that success is partly due to people’s nice appearance (外貌).
Attractive people do better in school, where they receive more help and are punished less; at work, where they get better pay and higher positions; in love, where they control the relationship; and among strangers, who think them more interesting, honest, and successful. Studies show that you’re more likely to get employed (雇佣) if you look clean and carefully dressed, that good-looking people make about 12% more money than less attractive guys, and that attractive saleswomen bring in more money than their less attractive partners. Psychologists call it the “beauty premium (美貌津贴)”. Basically speaking, the income differences between attractive and unattractive people is comparable to those between sexes or colors. In a paper titled “Why Beauty Matters”, University of Michigan information scientists Markus Mobius and Tanya Rosenblat pointed out three reasons.
1. Physically attractive workers are (wrongly) considered abler by employers.
Employers are likely to pay people more depending on how they look. In one of Mobius and Rosenblat’s experiments, would-be employers looking at photographs of would-be employees were ready to give 10.5% higher salaries to attractive people than to unattractive people.
Managers said that the first meeting and short interview only happened on the phone. In other words, you only need to sound attractive, and then you will get more salaries because of your possible beauty.
2. Physically attractive workers are more confident, and higher confidence increases salaries.
We all influenced by the “halo effect” — without realizing it, we take someone’s appearance to be showing their character. Experiments have shown that we consider attractive people as “more sociable, sexually warmer, mentally healthier, more intelligent, and more socially skilled” than unattractive people.
3. Physically attractive workers have social skills that raise their salaries when they communicate with employers.
Mobius and Rosenblat’s experiments also found that attractive people had higher level communication skills compared with unattractive people. Physical attractiveness increases social and communication skills, which in return raise an employer’s judgment (判断) on the worker’s working ability.
What do those of us who are not attractive do? We, on the one hand, should use scientific ways to make us more beautiful, such as wearing some beautiful clothes or making up. The important one is to be more confident. On the other hand, we can improve our temperament (气质) through improving our ability of expression and our knowledge. Just as Shakespeare said, love looks not with eyes, but with the mind.
1. What does Paragraph 2 mainly talk about?A.Opinions of different people on beauty. |
B.Advantages of good-looking people. |
C.Tips on how to get employed successfully. |
D.Ways of making more money in different positions. |
A.need a good understanding of the unattractive workers |
B.are ready to get along well with good-looking people |
C.mistakenly believe that attractive people have greater ability |
D.are unwilling to provide good-looking people with higher salaries |
A.To learn more about phone language. |
B.To show your better knowledge of work. |
C.To know what the hiring manager likes. |
D.To sound attractive in your dialogue. |
A.Employers believe that a good-looking person has a good character. |
B.Employers judge people according to their first impression about them. |
C.Physically attractive workers are confident about their salaries. |
D.Physically attractive workers are mentally healthier than unattractive people. |