During my first year in college, I was silent. I was too afraid of saying something wrong.
I declared a religion major as a sophomore and took a class from Barbara, a young theologian. My mind was split open by a range of new thinkers and writers and by the quality of Barbara’s questions, I finally had something to say and the energy to say it. I was a frequent visitor during Barbara’s office hours, a rocket of words. She listened and calmly responded, a perfect contrast to my feverish ramblings. I loved what she saw in me, which was a range of abilities I had never seen in myself. In the following years, our relationship gradually deepened, but I was always conscious of a teacher-student dynamic.
This changed fundamentally when I became a parent. I had my son in March 2010, and Barbara was one of the first to congratulate me. When, nine months later, my child was diagnosed with Tay-Sachs disease, a rare and always terminal illness with no treatment and no cure, she sent me a letter-handwritten on a white legal pad. For the next two and a half years, Barbara wrote me regular, sometimes weekly, letters, remarkable letters that are revealing, loving, and kind.
The letter written right before my son died, when he was three, was the most personal and perhaps the most profound. “I think he’s made you better by opening up the great fire of your love,” she wrote, “with his small but magnificent existence.” I have never in my life read a more deeply comforting sentence, one that spoke to my grandest hopes, my deepest fears, and the only faith that remains to me, which is a belief in chaos. Our love had bloomed and deepened from a guarded mutual respect to a richer, deeper friendship.
Mentors are meant to lead those in their charge into fresh understanding, help them sort and filter new experiences, assist in the project of making sense out of the chaos that is human life. Mentors observe and accompany the darkest despair, the wildest sorrow, and the most unexpected joy.
1. What can we learn from paragraph 2?A.The author took the class because she excelled1 in theology. |
B.Their relationship changed significantly beyond a teacher-student mode. |
C.The author was a frequent visitor to Barbara’s home after working hours. |
D.Barbara’s peaceful exterior was a contrast to the author’s overexcited talk. |
A.The way Barbara treated her students. | B.The fact that the author kept silent in class. |
C.The role of the author as a college student. | D.The relationship between Barbara and the author. |
A.Barbara’s efforts to solve the problem. |
B.Barbara’s sympathy shown in the letter. |
C.The author’s in-depth understanding of Barbara. |
D.Barbara’s congratulations on the birth of the author’s son. |
A.Demanding and dedicated. | B.Responsible and reasonable. |
C.Insightful and inspiring. | D.Aggressive and ambitious. |
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【推荐1】On the first day of school, I came across my new English teacher, Ms Kirschmann. I really mean that—I just ran into her.
As I began to apologize, she started “shouting” at me. But I soon realized that she was simply saying hello and welcoming me to her class in a very loud voice.
Kirsch, as she wanted us to call her, had a creative and fascinating character. Her hair color, fashion sense and energy took up the entire room. When we read the play Macbeth by Shakespeare, Kirsch let us play characters and wear masks (面具). There's a big drum in the classroom. Every time we read the word “thunder” in the text, she would beat it excitedly! My classmates and I would laugh every time.
During group discussions, Kirsch often told us to sit in a circle on the floor. We talked about the play and she took notes of what we said. Doing so made us feel independent and challenge ourselves more with critical (批判性的) thinking.
Kirsch is really a social butterfly. She smiles, laughs and tells jokes wherever she goes. But I found out about another side of her the other day.
After school that day, I saw Ms Kirschmann with her son. She was persuading (劝说) him to put on his jacket. She spoke with such a gentle voice that I was quite surprised. Until then, it didn't occur to me that Ms Kirschmann could be quiet. I suddenly felt a lot of respect for this lady who was youthful, calm, intelligent and caring all at once.
1. What did Kirsch do when her students read the word “thunder”?A.She greeted them out loud. | B.She hit the big drum. |
C.She laughed loudly. | D.She put on a mask. |
A.It helped them feel relaxed. |
B.It gave them a sense of humor. |
C.It helped them take more notes. |
D.It helped them develop critical thinking. |
A.was active and bright | B.was loud and noisy |
C.spoke with a gentle voice | D.wore colorful clothes |
A.Curious. | B.Traditional. |
C.Energetic. | D.Impatient. |
But really, there’s one super-important reason why you should get along with your teacher. Kids who get along with their teachers not only learn more, but they’re more comfortable asking questions and getting extra help. This makes it easier to understand new material and do your best on tests. When you have this kind of relationship with a teacher, he or she can be someone to turn to with problems, such as problems with learning or school issues, such as bullying.
As a kid in elementary or middle school, you’re at a wonderful stage in your life. You’re able to take in lots of new and exciting information. Apart from that, you’re able to think about all this information in new ways. Your teacher knows that, and in most cases, he or she is thrilled to be the person who’s giving you all that material and helping you put it together. Remember, teachers are people, too, and they feel great if you’re open to what they’re teaching you. That’s why they wanted to be teachers in the first place to teach!
Some kids may be able to learn in any situation, whether they like the teacher or not. But most kids are sensitive to the way they get along with the teacher, and if things aren’t going well, they won’t learn as well and won’t enjoy being in class.
1. Paragraph 2 mainly talks about_______.
A.new materials learned from teachers |
B.ways to develop relationship with teachers |
C.benefits in getting along with teachers |
D.avoiding problems happening around kids |
A.Doubtful. | B.Objective. |
C.Uncaring. | D.Favorable. |
A.Kids are unable to understand lots of exciting information. |
B.Kids are bullied while communicating with others in schools. |
C.Kids will leave the class when not doing quite well with their teachers. |
D.Kids will leave the class when not satisfied with teachers’ teaching methods. |
A.children’s literature | B.an education magazine |
C.a science report | D.an advertisement |
【推荐3】It was my first year of teaching. I was young and inexperienced, and had class after class of twenty kids just waiting for me to make a mistake.
After a particularly long night of grading papers and thinking about how many weeks I'd left until I could breathe, I had one of those mornings when I began to question my job choice. I'd become a teacher to help kids. Instead, I felt like I couldn't even help myself anymore. It was just Mother's Day, and as I sat at my desk surrounded by lesson plans, I wondered how I'd ever have enough energy to have children of my own.
That was when I heard a knock at my door. One of my students came in — the cool basketball-playing country boy who had accidentally broken my favorite snow globe so that I couldn't display nice things in my classroom. He handed me a large flower that probably came from his family's farm. He'd stuck a bird feather in it.
''I got you a Mother's Day gift,'' he said in a low voice. Most middle school and high school teachers don't receive presents. Christmas and Teacher Appreciation Day had already come and gone without any gifts. I was so shocked that I just stared.
Made nervous by my silence, he said, ''You know…since you're like a mother to us, I thought you should get a present, too.''
I smiled and told him he was the sweetest person in the entire world, and that I just loved it. Based on his smile, I knew I'd done enough work of making him feel quite proud of himself. What made that twelve-year-old bring me a homemade present? I'll never know. Once he left the room, I locked the door. And I cried. That moment helped me get through the rest of the school years.
1. What did the author think of her job as a teacher at the beginning?A.Interesting. | B.Tiring. |
C.Rewarding. | D.Demanding. |
A.Excited. | B.Shocked. |
C.Unwilling. | D.Shy. |
A.She was moved to tears. |
B.She didn't accept the present. |
C.She was too surprised to say anything. |
D.She stared at the boy in puzzlement. |
A.The sincere love from students. |
B.Her positive attitude to life. |
C.Her strong interest in teaching. |
D.The achievements in her work. |
One day, my mother was sewing a quilt(缝被子). I silently sat beside her. "Mum, is there love between you and Dad?" I asked in a very low voice.
With surprise in her eyes, she stopped her work for a while. Then she said, "Susan, look at this thread(线). It can hardly be seen, but it' s really there. It makes the quilt strong. If life is a quilt, love should be a thread. Love is inside. "
I couldn' t understand her until the next spring. At that time, my father suddenly got sick seriously. My mother had to stay with him in the hospital for a month.
After they were back, my mother helped my father walk slowly on the country road every day. They were so kind to each other and it seemed they were the happiest couple.
After two months my father still couldn' t walk by himself. "Dad, how are you feeling now?" I asked him one day.
"Susan, don' t worry about me," he said. "I just like walking with your mum. I like this kind of life." Reading his eyes, I knew he loves my mother deeply.
Now I understand that love is just a thread in the quilt of our life. Love is inside, making life strong and warm.
1. Why are Susan's parents busy trying to make money?
A.To send Susan to school. |
B.To go to see the doctor. |
C.To buy a strong quilt. |
A.one day | B.one month |
C.two months | D.three months |
A.while her mother was sewing a quilt |
B.before her father was in hospital |
C.after her father was seriously sick |
A.Susan' s father is very lazy. |
B.Susan' s mother is a nurse. |
C.Susan' s parents love each other. |
A.How to Make a Quilt Strong |
B.Love is Just a Thread |
C.Walking on the Country Road |
【推荐2】Nothing stays the same for long: things and people change.
I grew up on u small farm, where a flock of sheep wandered around the surrounding mountains. My father was not highly educated, but he wan smart. He was u man made of leather and chewing tobacco who rarely tried to talk with my brother or me. He was quiet and distant, I might say.
One day I came home and his car was already there.
He was predictably in that chair on his own when I came in.
A.I did not like him very much. |
B.My father never missed work. |
C.He was skillful at any farm work. |
D.I’m certainly not glad that my father got sick. |
E.He became better after some special treatment. |
F.What followed still moves me these decades later. |
G.As the disease spreads, the person who has it shrinks. |
In today’s world, most teen role models(楷模)are famous people. They appeal to the teenagers a lot with their looks, money and fame.
Build confidence.
People always believe in those who believe in themselves.
Having a unique character can really draw others to you more than being the same as others. This does not mean that you should give up the same interests you have with your friends, but just try to be a leader rather than a follower of others.
Be humble.
Play the role you have created for yourself.
After you have gotten a positive image(形象) of yourself and a good relationship with your peers, stick to it! Be guided by your desire(欲望) to be a role model in everything you do.
Having mastered the above steps, you will start noticing the positive influence you are having on others. Keep trying to better yourself as you continue to inspire others.
A.Develop your own style. |
B.Choose your own role model. |
C.There is nothing as golden as being humble(谦逊的). |
D.Let your entire life be inspirational to others. |
E.So build faith in yourself by getting to know your strengths. |
F.You should overcome your weaknesses. |
G.However, anybody can be a teenage role model if they put their mind to it. |
【推荐1】Adrian’s “Amazing Race” started early, when his parents realized that he, as a baby, couldn’t hear a thing, not even loud noises. In a special school for the hearing-impaired (听觉受损的), he learned sign language and got to mix with other disabled children. However, the sight of all the disabled children communicating with one another upset his mother. She wanted him to lead a normal life. So after speaking to an advisor, she sent him to private classes where he learned to read lips and pronounce words.
Later on, Adrian’s parents decided to send him to a regular school. But the headmaster tried to prevent them from doing so, saying regular schools couldn’t take care of a student with special needs. His parents were determined to take the risk and push him hard to go through his work every day because they want to prove that,given the opportunity,he could do anything. Adrian made the grade and got accepted. It was a big challenge. The pace was faster so he had to sit at the front of the class and really pay attention to the teacher, which wasn’t always easy. But he stuck to it and did a lot of extra work after school.
The effort made by Adrian and his parents paid off. Adrian graduated with good grades and got into a top high school. He also achieved a lot in life outside school. He developed a love for the outdoors and went to Nepal to climb mountains.He even entered the World Yacht Race 05/06, being the first hearing-impaired Asian to do so.
But none of these achievements would have been possible without one of the most important lessons from his mother.“If you believe in yourself and work hard, you can achieve great result” she often said.
1. How did Adrian communicate with other disabled children in the special school?A.By speaking. | B.By using sign language. |
C.By writing letters. | D.By making loud noises. |
A.They wanted him to live like a regular person. | B.They wanted to prove the headmaster wrong. |
C.He wouldn’t mix with other disabled children. | D.He wasn’t taken good care of in the special school. |
A.He did a lot of outdoor activities. | B.He sat at the front of the classroom. |
C.He attended private classes after school. | D.He worked hard both in and after class. |
A.He did very well in his study. | B.He succeeded in entering a regular school. |
C.He reached his goals in spite of his disability. | D.He took part in the world Yacht Race 05/06. |
【推荐2】“Oh boys, don’t throw stones at the poor bird,” said an old grey-headed man.
“Sir,” said a little fellow, “she makes such a loud noise that we can’t suffer from her.”
“Yes, but she uses the voice which nature gave her, and I am afraid the stone will rebound(弹回), and hurt you as long as you live!”
“Rebound! We don’t understand you, sir!”
“Well, come and I will tell you a story.”
“Is it a true story?”
“Yes, every word is true.”
“Fifty years ago, I was a boy like you. I used to throw stones very accurately.”
“One day I went to work for an old couple. They were very kind to everybody and everything. Few had so many birds making their nests under the roofs of their houses. The birds seemed to love the couple. For seven years a bird had come, after the long winter was over, and built her nest in the same place, and raised her young chicks there. She and her mate had just returned when I went there to work, and the couple welcomed them heartily.”
“During the day, I thought I would try my skill upon her. She sat on a pole and looked at me trustfully. I found a nice stone, and I threw it with my utmost skill. It struck the bird on the head and she dropped dead!”
“I said nothing to the old couple about it. But one of their grandchildren told them what I had done. I could never look at them in the face afterwards. Oh, that I should have told them how sorry I was!”
“They have been dead many years, and so has the poor bird; but don’t you see how that stone rebounded, and hit me? How much the memory of it has hurt me! My dear boys, I would pay a great deal today if I could undo what I did!
“For fifty years I have remembered it. I have never spoken of it before, but if what my words will prevent you from throwing a stone that may rebound, I will be happy.”
The boys at once dropped the stones they had in their hands, and the bird had no more trouble from them.
1. Why did the boy throw stones at the bird?A.Because she was too noisy to the boy. |
B.Because she had a voice nature gave her. |
C.Because the stone always rebounded to the boy. |
D.Because the boy wanted the old man to tell him a story. |
A.proud | B.uneasy | C.relaxed | D.excited |
A.make fun of him | B.educate him with a life lesson |
C.drive him away from birds | D.remind him not to play with stones |
A.The stone that rebounds. | B.The boy that throws stones. |
C.The birds that sing well. | D.The old man that tells stories. |
【推荐3】In October, Jennifer Garner was recognized by Toun & Country magazine for her charity work. Since 2009, the award-winning actress has served as an artist ambassador(大使)for Save the Children, a global organization.
Garner was honored at a Philanthropy Meeting in New York City hosted by Town & Country. After the meeting, NBC News Reporter Cynthia McFadden interviewed Garner, who grew up in a countryside community in West Virginia, where she experienced the poor life first-hand.
“When I got older, ”Garner said, “I saw famous organizations helping people all over the world. ”This led her to wonder: “Why don’t they support poor people here in our own country?”
The actress now spends countless hours on healthy food and early schooling programs in the countryside areas. She does what she can to support Save the Children’s efforts to bring healthy meals to children, educate and provide resources(资源)to parents .
When asked what kids could do to follow her example, Garner said: “You could help raise money. You could do a book drive. You could wash cars. You could find a way to volunteer. ” Shriver, who encouraged Garner to join Save the Children, agreed. “Don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t make a difference, ”he said.
Last August, Garner visited Eastern Kentucky after flooding destroyed the area. She looked into the damage at a school in the town of Ary, where even the library was flooded.
“My little primary school library totally shaped my life, ” Garner told Cynthia. “I wanted to be a school librarian. I wanted to work in a library space just like this. ”The library was one of 16 that Save the Children had helped to build in Kentucky.
Now, Gamer is doing her best to make sure more books get into the hands of children. “We have a lot of work to do, ”Gamer told Toun & Country. “But we will dig in. ”
1. Which word best describes Garner’s childhood?A.Hard. | B.Happy | C.Lonely | D.Interesting. |
A.They carried out unfair measures. |
B.They spent too much money on unnecessary matters. |
C.They should help their own people in need. |
D.They paid little attention to education. |
A.Teaching children to volunteer. | B.Making her hometown known to others. |
C.Those suffering from natural disasters. | D.Kids’ health and education in poor areas. |
A.Serving others. | B.Working at a library. |
C.Being a movie actress. | D.Selling books to children. |