America is a mobile society. Friendships between Americans can be close and real, yet disappear soon if situations change. Neither side feels hurt by this. Both may exchange Christmas greetings for a year or two, perhaps a few letters for a while—then no more. If the same two people meet again by chance, even years later, they pick up the friendship. This can be quite difficult for us Chinese to understand, because friendships between us flow more slowly but then may become lifelong feelings, extending (延伸) sometimes deeply into both families.
Americans are ready to receive us foreigners at their homes, share their holidays, and their home life. They will enjoy welcoming us and be pleased if we accept their hospitality (好客) easily, but truly can’t manage the time to do a great deal with a visitor outside their daily routine. They will probably expect us to get ourselves from the airport to our own hotel by bus. And they expect that we will phone them from there. Once we arrive at their homes, the welcome will be full, warm and real. We will find ourselves treated hospitably.
Another difficult point for us Chinese to understand Americans is that although they include us warmly in their personal everyday lives, they don’t show their politeness to us if it requires a great deal of time. This is usually the opposite of the practice in our country where we may be generous with our time. Sometimes, we, as hosts, will appear at airports even in the middle of the night to meet a friend. We may take days off to act as guides to our foreign friends. The Americans, however, express their welcome usually at homes.
For the Americans, it is often considered more friendly to invite a friend to their homes than to go to restaurants, except for pure business matters. So accept their hospitality at home!
1. Where are we expected to call our American friends if we go there by plane?A.On the bus | B.At the airport. |
C.Near their home. | D.At our own hotel. |
A.Friendships between Americans usually last for all their lives. |
B.Americans always show their warmth even if they are very busy. |
C.Americans will continue their friendships again even after a long break. |
D.Friendships between Americans usually extend deeply into their families. |
A.Treating friends at home. | B.Sharing everything they have. |
C.Taking days off to be with friends. | D.Meeting friends at the airport at midnight. |
A.Friendships between Chinese | B.Friendships between Americans |
C.Americans’ hospitality | D.Americans and Chinese’s views of friendship |
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【推荐1】A friendship doesn’t begin with the hope that it will end. We invest time and energy, not believing that our efforts could ultimately be fruitless.
If you and your friend need to have a serious heart-to-heart conversation, it’s a good idea to select the right time and place to talk. Choose a time when you both have some open availability. Don’t try to jam in a heavy conversation in a half-hour lunch break on a workday.
There may be moments in the conversation when you feel-yourself tense up, want to shut down or explode in anger.
Friendships take time to rebuild especially if trust has been broken. Don’t expect things to go right back to normal once you and your friend talk through things.
A.Also, find a setting that’s private. |
B.You can’t fix a problem you don’t make out. |
C.Nevertheless, friendships aren’t always forever. |
D.Try to notice these urges without acting on them. |
E.Whatever the reason, don’t hesitate to take action. |
F.Instead, go slowly and gradually reestablish closeness. |
G.You both have a say on how to strengthen bonds with the other. |
【推荐2】It's said that making friends gets harder when you get older. People settle into their existing friendships during childhood or at university. However, new research suggests that's not what happens. According to a recent survey, the age group that feels least confident in chatting to strangers is those aged 18 to 24. Similarly, it was found that 59% of Millennials (千禧一代) spend more time chatting to friends on social media than they do seeing them in person
Author and expert on friendship, Kate Leaver, said, "Young people are not confident when speaking to strangers not only because they're afraid of refusal, but also because they've really been socially conditioned not to. Previous generations had a much stronger sense of community in public, shared spaces. We don't have as much access (接近) to that because the way we structure our modern lives means we are less in touch with our communities. Shared public spaces like parks and libraries - places where people might get close to a stranger - are being shut down."
Laura, 27, hates meeting new people. The majority of her friends are from university days. "I'm pretty chatty and open when I get to know someone, but during that first meeting, I'm very shy. I get very anxious about what to talk about, and people judging me or just not understanding my sense of humor."
But not all young people feel the same way. Hayley, 31, regularly meets people in unusual ways and makes friends with them. "I became good friends with someone who I met on the plane," she said. "It just shows how you can really connect when you're offline."
If you're comfortable with your present friendship situation, that's great. But, if you do want to enlarge your social circle, here are some tips. Avoid unpleasant silences by searching for people with common interests - join a book club or a local sports team. If it is too stressful, there are some friendship apps that you can use.Or, strike up a conversation with someone in a public place.
1. What can we get from the recent survey?A.Seniors prefer to make friends online |
B.Teens spend less time on friends than before |
C.Making friends gets harder when you're older. |
D.Young people build relationships with difficulty. |
A.refusal |
B.a stranger |
C.the sense of community |
D.the social condition |
A.She fails to contact her old friends. |
B.She is skilled at making new friends. |
C.She prefers to make new friends online. |
D.She is unwilling to get close to new people. |
A.Developing a sense of humor. |
B.Enlarging friend circles offline. |
C.Joining groups with shared interests. |
D.Keeping strong ties with old friends. |
【推荐3】Family isn’t always blood. They’re the people in your life who appreciate having you—the ones who encourage you to make progress in healthy ways.
☆Free yourself from negative people.
Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Choose friends who you are proud to know, who you admire, who love and respect you.
☆Give people you don’t know a chance.
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Treat everyone with kindness and respect. Any good relationship is based on sincerity and respect. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother. People will notice your kindness.
☆Forgive people and move forward.
Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.
A.Be kind to your family. |
B.We meet no ordinary people in our lives. |
C.Show everyone kindness and respect. |
D.They will make your day a little brighter. |
E.However, you should find ways to change your life. |
F.Here are four tips to help you find these special relationships. |
G.Generosity doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. |
【推荐1】Dog owners say dogs are smarter. However, this may not be the case. Cats tend to hide their intelligence: they don’t want praise from their owners. Cats are independent, whereas dogs are social and mostly travel in groups. Because of this, many people believe that dogs are more intelligent, but the ways of measuring the intelligence of cats and dogs are different because they are different animals. Therefore, the intelligence of cats may be underestimated.
The senses of a cat are more developed than dogs. They hear and see better than dogs. The memory of cats is a lot better than dogs. Cats have both long-term and short-term memory. The memory of cats is two hundred times more than dogs. This means that the memory of cats is even better than monkeys and chimpanzees. Scientific American states that a cat can hold 1,000 times more “data storage” than a tablet computer.
Cats have better cognition (认知) than dogs. It is true that dogs have a better social IQ than cats, but that doesn’t mean that they are smarter than cats. Cats can solve complex problems, and can also distinguish between complex shapes. Also, the observation of cats is greater than that of any other domestic animal. If something new and different enters a house, the cat can quickly figure out what it is. This makes training a cat very easy because they are able to observe what happens very quickly, and are able to learn quicker than dogs.
In conclusion, cats have the brain, but they don’t want to show it because they don’t want love; they want food and just the basic necessities in order to survive. The Huffington Post says, “Dogs come when they’re called; cats take a message and get back to you.” This quote can show us that maybe cats are the smarter ones.
1. From the first paragraph, what do we know about cats?A.They’re social. | B.They’re independent. |
C.They’re stupid. | D.They’re lovely. |
A.Dogs>Cats>Monkeys. |
B.Cats>Dogs>Monkeys. |
C.Monkeys>Cats>Dogs. |
D.Cats>Monkeys>Dogs. |
A.That the cat doesn’t want love. |
B.That the cat has a better social IQ. |
C.That the cat has better memory than the dog. |
D.That the cat can observe and learn more quickly. |
A.By inferring. |
B.By listing examples. |
C.By comparing. |
D.By giving explanations. |
【推荐2】The United States has more tornadoes (龙卷风) than any other country in the world. In a normal year there are 800 to 1,000 tornadoes. Most happen in the middle part of the country. Tornadoes form when warm and cool air meet. In the Midwest, the warm air from the Gulf of Mexico often meets the cold air from Canada.
The usual tornado season is March through May. Tornadoes form most often in the afternoon and early evening. There is often no warning of a tornado. People who live in the Midwest know the signs (征兆) of tornado activity. The sky becomes dark, often a greenish color. Dark clouds appear in the sky and there is often large hail (冰雹). Suddenly, there is a loud sound, like a train or a jet plane. Sometimes, two, three, five, ten or more tornadoes can form over a large area.
This type of tornado activity hit Oklahoma and Kansas in May 1999. The day was stormy, with heavy thunderstorms in the afternoon. As the storms continued, tornadoes began to form. Dozens of tornadoes hit towns and neighborhoods in Oklahoma, then in Kansas. Some stayed on the ground for several hours, destroying everything they touched. The tornadoes killed 43 people and injured 600 others. They destroyed thousands of homes and businesses. In some areas, not one home stood. In other areas, the tornadoes destroyed every home on the left side of the street, but didn't touch any homes on the right side. The tornadoes lifted people and cars into the air and then threw them back down to earth. So it is important to know where to hide and how to protect yourself in the face of a tornado.
1. What can we learn about tornadoes in America?A.There are more tornadoes in the Eastern States. |
B.They usually happen in the summer. |
C.They may appear in groups. |
D.There are more than 1,000 tornadoes every year. |
A.took place at the same time |
B.brought death and serious damage |
C.came and went quickly |
D.were the biggest in history |
A.Tornado dangers and warning signs. |
B.How a tornado forms. |
C.Different kinds of tornadoes. |
D.How to stay safe during a tornado. |
【推荐3】Billionaire businessman Elon Musk recently confirmed he is still interested in buying the social media service Twitter. The move came after Musk withdrew an earlier offer to buy Twitter for $44 billion. In a recent tweet (推文) on the subject, Musk wrote: “Buying Twitter can greatly support the plan to create X, the everything app.” Musk did not provide details on his brief statement. It has led many people to question what he meant by “the everything app” .
A super app, or what Musk calls an “everything app,” has been described as one that offers a series of services for users. This could include messaging, social networking, direct payment services and online shopping.
One industry estimate shows that Chinese super app WeChat has more than 1 billion monthly users and is a huge part of daily life in China. People can use the app to call up a ride-share or taxi, send money to friends and family or make payments at stores. In 2018, some Chinese cities began testing WeChat for an electronic identification system that would be linked to users’ accounts. Another leading super app across Southeast Asia is called Grab. It offers food delivery, ride-sharing, on-demand package delivery, financial services and investing.
During a question-and-answer event with Twitter employees in June, Musk noted that there is nothing like a super app like WeChat outside of Asia. “You basically live on WeChat in China,” he said, adding that he saw a chance to create such an app.
Adding more tools and services to Twitter could also help Musk reach his high growth goals for the company. During his meeting with employees, Musk said he wanted Twitter to grow from its 237 million users to “at least a billion.”
1. What does “It” refer to in the first paragraph?A.The tweet. | B.Twitter. | C.An earlier offer. | D.X |
A.It offers everything for online users. |
B.It has more than 1 billion monthly users. |
C.It should be available to users worldwide. |
D.It provides services for a huge part of daily life. |
A.Grab is the biggest super app in Asia. |
B.Both of the apps offer financial services. |
C.Only WeChat provide ride-sharing service. |
D.WeChat has more monthly users than Grab. |
A.The number of Twitter users is still fast-growing. |
B.He gains confidence from WeChat’s success in China. |
C.He believes Twitter can be improved to reach the goal. |
D.There is little competition for super app market in his country. |
【推荐1】Japan is a nation that appreciates the virtues of silence and good manners. Yet, when it comes to eating noodles, Japanese people can be the loudest in the world.
According to lifestyle website Grapee.jp, slurping (发出喷喷声) when eating noodles is encouraged in Japanese culture. It’s believed that taking air into your mouth can enhance the flavor of the noodles and help cool down the food. It’s also considered to be a way to show appreciation for the dish. Sometimes, just making the noise alone seems to make the noodles more enjoyable.
It was not until a new expression — “noodle harassment” — came out on social media that Japanese people started to realize the problem. They found that the slurping noise was making some foreign visitors uncomfortable.
As a response, Japanese instant noodle maker Nissin introduced a so-called noise- canceling fork last month. The fork looks like an electric toothbrush. It is connected wirelessly to a smartphone. When the person using the fork starts to slurp, the fork will send a signal to the person’s phone. Then the phone will play a sound to mask the slurping noise.
But is it really necessary? Dining traditions and table manners do vary. In India, people eat with their hands. They think they build a connection with the food in this way. However, people who are used to eating with forks might find it unacceptable to get their hands covered in oil or sauce. But this eating method is part of India’s culture, just like Japan’s slurping is part of its own.
“So, if you are eating noodles, please slurp as you like,” wrote a Japanese food blogger. “If anyone gets annoyed while you are doing that, ignore them. They’re missing the point entirely.”
1. The following are the reasons for slurping when eating noodles except ________.A.Showing love for the noodles. |
B.Improving the flavor of the noodles. |
C.Showing good manners. |
D.Adding to the pleasure of eating noodles. |
A.Annoyance. | B.Anxiety. | C.Politeness. | D.Appreciation. |
A.The fork removes the slurping noise. |
B.The fork can be used as an electric toothbrush. |
C.A smartphone reminds the user to stop slurping. |
D.A smartphone receives a signal from the fork and plays a sound to hide the noise. |
A.To tell us the culture of India. |
B.To show that forks are unnecessary. |
C.To give an example of cultural differences. |
D.To show the Indian way of solving the problem. |
Americans are very direct people. When you want something you say “Yes” and when you don’t, you say “No”. If you want something different from what is offered, you ask for it. Westerners will not ask you again and again or try to press something on you after you have said you don’t want it. In fact, if you say “No” when you really want something to drink or to eat, you may find yourself very thirsty or hungry.
But there are a few Western customs which are very important and you should try at all times to observe.A Westerner doesn’t leave his paper or cloth on the table. He puts it on his lap where it’s supposed to protect his clothes from spilled food or uses it to wipe his hand or mouth when necessary.
A Westerner doesn’t put his own fork, knife or spoon into a serving bowl. He uses it in the bowl to put some of the food on his own plate, and then returns the serving fork(knife or spoon) to the bowl.
A Westerner doesn’t spit food anywhere. If he has bones in his mouth, he takes them out with his fingers and places them on the edge of his plate, never on the table or floor.
A Westerner doesn’t belch(打嗝) out loud. If he does, he says “Excuse me” quietly and goes on with the conversation.
1. People in America __________.
A.come from different countries in the world |
B.mainly come from Europe |
C.mainly come from Asia |
D.come from China |
A.a Westerner will ask you again and again |
B.you will be forced to eat |
C.you will feel glad and happy |
D.you will surely find yourself hungry still |
A.care what they wear very much |
B.care who offers the first toast at dinner |
C.do the same things as Chinese do |
D.don’t care what you wear, who sits next to whom |
【推荐3】I ran into quite a few language problems while vacationing ( 度假) with my family last summer. The most embarrassing was when my Mom apologized to the people we were staying with because her “pants were dirty”. They looked at her in amazement, not knowing how to react. You see, Mom had fallen over and gotten mud on her jeans. But in Britain, “pants” means underpants or knickers( 内裤;衬裤), not trousers as it does back home.
Katie — From America
I went to stay with a friend on the west coast last summer. Her flat was on the first floor of a high-rise building so I got the lift up. Then I wandered round for ages looking for her flat but couldn’t find it. Fed up and tired, I finally had to go out to find a phone box. She explained that her flat was on the first floor, which for me meant the ground floor.
David — From Britain
When I asked for the “restroom” in a big department store, people kept directing me to a room with seats where I could sit and “rest”. It took me years to get through to (使...明白)someone that I only wanted the toilet!
Tom — From America
Last summer we went on a two-week family touring holiday, so Dad hired a car over the Internet. This was an old vehicle and there turned out (结果是;证明是)to be lots of things wrong with it. When he phoned the hire company and tried to explain that the lock on the boot was broken, they thought he was talking about footwear! He had no idea their word for “boot” was “trunk”. In the end we went to a garage and just solved the problem.
Mary — From Britain
1. David went out to find a phone box to ________.A.phone the police for help | B.phone his friend for help |
C.tell his friends he couldn’t go to visit her | D.apologize for his being late |
A.he wanted to have a rest. | B.he wanted the toilet |
C.he wanted a chair | D.He wanted to go to a department store |
A.a parking place | B.a car |
C.a gas station | D.a place to repair cars |
A.Pants. | B.Ground floor. |
C.Restroom. | D.Trunk. |