Most of us would agree gossip (流言蜚语) is bad. In fact, gossip is something that can forever change a friendship and even prevent you from making new friends.
Gossip Makes You Look Bad
If you’re the one gossiping, other people will not be willing to be your friend. If you talk behind one friend’s back, the possibility is that you will do that to anyone.
The next time you feel the need to do so, take a moment to understand why.
Facing a Friend Who Has Gossiped About You
If you open your heart to a friend and then realize your trust was misplaced, this will forever change your relationship.
You may decide that you do not want to give your friend another chance, and this will end your relationship.
How to Stop Gossiping
A.Besides, gossiping is not cool. |
B.Once trust is gone, it’s hard to be rebuilt. |
C.If you hear someone gossiping, just stop him. |
D.You may also choose to continue your friendship. |
E.Even if someone doesn’t trust you, you can still trust him. |
F.Do you think spreading gossip will help make you stand out? |
G.The person you’re gossiping to may be friends with the one you hate. |
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Susan Calman relies on kindness to brighten her mood. The 43yearold comedian and author encourages others to use kindness to improve the lives of those around them. “It can be as simple as holding open a door for someone,or giving someone praise,or buying someone a packet of crisps while they’re feeling down,” she says.
Feeling low happens to everyone.
A.When it does, |
B.If you are lucky, |
C.Or you could talk about it. |
D.If medication isn’t the last choice, |
E.How can we get rid of such mental problems? |
F.In fact,anything that uplifts can make us feel better. |
G.What about coldwater swimming to fight depression? |
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Listen patiently. Your family member might struggle for words. Keep listening for as long as they want to share.
Use photos, music, objects and smell. Of all the senses, smell has the most direct connection to the parts of the brain.
Create a memory box. The sense of touch brings memories.What items hold special meaning for your family member? There are some ideas, such as a medal, trip souvenirs (纪念品), gardening tools, seashells and jewelry.
Mix memory gathering into daily activities. At mealtime, talk about favorite recipes and the stories that go with them.
A.Ask open-ended questions. |
B.Be ready to keep a video camera. |
C.Think of memories at family gatherings. |
D.Let their reactions(反应) guide you. |
E.Collect the items in one place so they’re easy to pull out when needed. |
F.Memories are stored just there. |
G.Ask about pictures while you’re cleaning. |
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Though you have two days between Friday and the next work week, knowing what to expect about the coming Monday will help you relax over the weekend.
Go for a walk
If you have a lunch break, recharge your batteries by getting up from the desk and taking a walk.
Visit your co-workers
Make a routine
Many CEOs and successful people are known for having regular work. Organization is key to success, after all. Take 15 to 30 minutes every Friday to clean out your email inbox, clean the office, organize your files, catch up on the latest industry news.
A.Schedule the coming week |
B.It does not have to be outside |
C.Exercise outdoors is a good choice |
D.A valuable resource in the office would be your colleagues |
E.And form a habit of clearing up the mess that may ruin your Monday |
F.No matter what difficulties you face, make sure to overcome it together |
G.Get a rough outline put together about the upcoming events, tasks, project deadlines |