You scroll through Instagram and like every post you see. You read an acquaintance’s story as soon as they post it. You leave a comment on a post or two. Then it hits you: Didn’t you just leave a comment on that person’s post yesterday? And the day before that? And last week?
An Instagram creep is someone who offers unprompted significant attention online to certain individuals they’ve taken an interest in. It is a strategy to send a signal of affection -whether it is to a romantic partner, or a close friend, but it can also be perceived as being too much, too interested and too involved. At worst, it might be seen as being possessive, as the person absolutely has to be the first to comment, to establish his importance in front of others.However, not every Instagram creep has the same intentions, with some lighthearted and innocent. “For example, people who have a higher frequency of being online may have a higher likelihood of seeing the posts quickly, “said Maryanne Fisher, a psychology professor at St.Mary’s University in Canada. “In a way, it could be simply an exposure effect.”
“If you feel like you’re the creeper, there’s a quick way to fix the problem. Resisting the urge to comment or like every post would be helpful,” Fisher said. It’s important to be aware that while you might be doing it to express affection, it can be perceived as being possessive. You should ask yourself what your intention is. What need is getting met by that behavior? If it makes the recipient feel uncomfortable and excessive, that should be attended to. If it’s a pattern and if it’s a “need”, then there might be something more significant going on.
All told, remember that anything you put on the Internet has consequences. If you think you’re being creepy even for a second, take time to separate yourself from it.
1. Who is likely to be an Instagram creep?A.An old man unfamiliar with social media. |
B.A young guy having a preference for a certain brand. |
C.A woman having a tendency to talk online with friends. |
D.An adult who is paying special attention to his friend’s Instagram update. |
A.Ways to fix the problem. |
B.Effects on the recipients. |
C.Possible reasons for being creepy. |
D.Differences between serious and lighthearted creepers. |
A.The person likes the behaviour. |
B.The person wasn’t aware of that. |
C.The person might not feel at ease. |
D.The person might feel like the creeper. |
A.Less is more. |
B.Look before you leap. |
C.Love me,love my dog. |
D.Put the cart before the horse. |
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【推荐1】A man was looking for things of old times. One day he came to a village and found a blue bowl which looked very old. The bowl was on the ground and a cat was drinking milk from it. A farmer, the owner of the cat, was lying beside the bowl. In order not to draw the farmer’s attention to the value of the bowl. The man said to him in a soft voice,” What a nice cat you have! Won’t you sell it to me?’’
“How much would you give me for it? ” the farmer opened his eyes and asked.
“ Twenty dollars. Would it be enough?”
A few minutes later, the farmer agreed. After he paid the farmer, the man said, “ My cat will certainly feel thirsty. May I take the bowl so that the cat can have milk?” But the farmer said, “ I’m sorry I can’t give it to you. Thanks to the bowl, I have already sold twenty cats.”
1. The man liked __________.A.keeping old things |
B.travelling from village to village |
C.meeting farmers |
D.buying cats |
A.the bowl should go with the cat |
B.the bowl had a beautiful color |
C.the farmer didn’t know the value of the bowl |
D.the cat couldn’t live without the bowl |
A.let another cat use it |
B.sell more cats |
C.sell more bowls |
D.use the bowl himself |
A.had only one bowl | B.was very poor |
C.didn’t like cats | D.was clever |
【推荐2】Nowadays there seems to be an app for everything. And mobile apps have been a part of our life. The following apps are part of the most popular apps.
Ctrip can be the best helper when you feel it hard to buy the train or airline tickets. You can buy tickets anywhere at anytime. | |
Ximalaya Reading has millions of books including poems, short stories, novels and even fairy tales for children. What’s special about it is that you can use it to download book recording that can be listened to. It has more than 1 million valuable resources. | |
Baby Bus is a very good friend for children under three years old. Kids can learn to speak, understand numbers and draw pictures with the help of this app. | |
World Hero may help learn more English words while you’re playing games, so if you have problems remembering the new words when you learn English, use it! |
A.Booking tickets | B.Learning English |
C.Drawing pictures | D.Playing games |
A.poems | B.novels | C.news | D.fairy tales |
A.Ctrip | B.Ximalaya Reading |
C.Baby Bus | D.World Hero |
【推荐3】The world is designed for right-handed people, but why does a tenth of the population prefer the left?
The answer to it remains a bit of a mystery. Since scientists have noticed that left-handedness tends to run in families, it’s assumed that left-handedness has a genetic(基因的) component to it.
Historically, the left side and left-handedness have been considered a negative thing by many cultures.
A.In other words, left-handers are born that way. |
B.Left-handedness used to be regarded as a disability. |
C.The unfavorable associations of the use of the left hand among cultures are varied. |
D.Why do they prefer to use their left hand rather than their right hand for routine activities? |
E.Why do some parents force their left-handed children to become right-handed when writing? |
F.In Ghana, pointing, gesturing, giving or receiving items with the left hand is considered rude. |
G.Fortunately, nowadays most societies and cultures no longer reject left-handedness like before. |
【推荐1】In the modern age, social media platforms have emerged as powerful tools for communication, networking, and self-expression. With billions of active users worldwide, these platforms have profoundly influenced the human interaction. Recent psychological studies have delved into understanding the influence of prolonged (长期的) social media usage on individual self-esteem (自尊) and identity formation.
Context and Prevalence (流行)
Social media platforms, including Weibo, WeChat Moments, Douyin, and Little Red Book, offer ways for individuals to project curated versions of their lives. While this can serve as a medium of affirmation, it also compares one’s daily life against the specially edited highlights of others, which could potentially lead to feelings of failure and unsatisfactory.
Research Findings on Self-Esteem
A study conducted among adolescents aged 13-19 showed that extreme social media use correlates with lower self-esteem scores. Participants who spent over five hours daily on these platforms demonstrated significant tendencies towards self-devaluation (自我贬低) and negative self-perception (自体感受). The study believed that the constant exposure of idealized images and lives leads to an involuntary (不自主的) comparison, often placing the individual on the lesser end of the spectrum.
Implications for Identity Formation
For adolescents, a critical time of identity formation happens during the teenage years. Social media can often blur the lines (模糊界限) between personal identity and digital persona (面貌,形象). A study tracked teenagers for five years and found that heavy social media users often experienced identity confusion. Their digital avatars, formed under societal pressures, sometimes overshadowed their real personalities, leading to internal conflicts and a confusion to real selfhood.
Possible Solutions and Future Research
While the negative influence of social media on mental well-being are evident, it’s also essential to highlight its potential benefits. Platforms can help to add a sense of belonging, provide informational support, and serve as outlets for creative expression. Future research could explore potential interventions (介入,干涉) to reduce the negative effects.
In conclusion, while social media offers a huge number of opportunities and ways for expression, it’s important that teenagers approach it with awareness. The psychological landscape it shapes is hard to understand, and understanding its depths requires continued research, empathy (共鸣), and active measures.
1. What do we know about the study involving adolescents aged 13-19?A.It took five hours for participants to take part in the study |
B.It suggested that we should not compare our lives with others |
C.It caused self-devaluation and negative self-perception to participants. |
D.It showed that too much social media use resulted in low self-esteem. |
A.Social media algorithms (算法). | B.Digital marketing tools. |
C.Online versions of individuals. | D.Digital assistants. |
A.They cause identity crises (危机) to them. | B.They lead to feelings of unsatisfactory. |
C.They project version of their lives. | D.They overshadow their personalities. |
A.Entirely negative. | B.Quite positive. | C.Mixed with caution. | D.Indifferent and neutral. |
【推荐2】Something strange is happening to the millennial workers of America. After a year spent with their computers, they are turning over the carefully arranged chessboards of their lives and deciding to risk it all. Some are giving stable jobs up to start a new business, while others giving up the career altogether.
If this movement has a battle cry, it’s “YOLO” — “you only live once”. The term is used when people are making irresponsible bets that sometimes pay off anyway. More broadly, it has come to characterize the attitude that has captured a certain type of bored office worker in recent months.
“It feels like we’ve been so locked into careers for the past decade, and this is our opportunity to switch it up,” said Nate Moseley, 29, a buyer at a major clothing retailer. Mr Moseley recently decided to leave his US$130,000-a-year job. He created an Excel spreadsheet called “Late 20s Crisis”, which he filled with potential options for his next move: Take a coding class, start mining Ethereum, join a 2022 political campaign and open a tourism business. “The idea of going right back to the pre-Covid set-up sounds so unappealing after this past year,” he noted. “If not now, when will I ever do this?”
It’s possible that some of these YOLOers will end up back in stable jobs if they spend through their savings, or their new jobs fail. But an adventurous spirit seems to be infecting even the kinds of risk-averse overachievers who typically hold on to the career ladder.
One executive at a major tech company said she and her husband had both been discussing quitting their jobs. The pandemic, she said, had taught them that they’d been playing it too safe with their life choices, and missing out on valuable family time. The executive then sent me a quote from the Buddha about impermanence, and the value of realizing that nothing lasts forever. Or, to put it in slightly earthier terms: YOLO.
1. What strange things are US millennial workers doing?A.They prefer doing work online. | B.They are taking more risks. |
C.They enjoy playing chess more. | D.They are making extra money. |
A.To encourage people to take brave moves. | B.To stop people making silly decisions. |
C.To cover up a person’s past failure. | D.To gain trust from other people. |
A.It didn’t pay well enough. | B.The business was in a crisis. |
C.He missed the pre-Covid set-up. | D.He was eager for new changes. |
A.The bad effect of the pandemic. | B.The significant influence of YOLO. |
C.The potential danger of changing jobs. | D.The future development of different careers. |
【推荐3】When you want to buy a pair of running shoes, will you choose Nike or Li-Ning?
It’s a choice between local and foreign brands ( 品 牌 ). According to a latest study, Chinese people generally prefer local brands to foreign brands. They choose the local brands because of the low price, good quality (质量) and creative design.
Some Chinese brands have risen in these years. They have even started to win some fans abroad. A research showed that 71 percent of customers said Chinese brands were important to them.
Chinese brands like Huawei, Xiaomi, DJI, Feiyue, Li-Ning, Shein and Huaxizi have all become more popular abroad. For example, Huawei is the world’s second-biggest mobile phone company. Its products are used in more than 170 countries and areas. Huawei is also a leader in 5G technology. Shein, a “fast fashion” brand, made more than 10 billion dollars last year, a 100-percent increase over 2019, Global Times reported. Many European people like Shein products because they’re affordable, fashionable and of high quality.
In the future. Chinese brands will continue to develop. Thanks to a bigger market, improved supply chains (供应链) and efficient (高效的) producing, “This is the best time for the development of local brands,” Yan Qiang, a partner with Beijing-based Hejun Consulting, told Global Times.
1. Which of the following is a foreign brand?A.Li-Ning. | B.DJI. | C.Nike. | D.Shein. |
A.more sports stars buy them | B.they are not so expensive |
C.they are easy to buy online | D.they have good after-sale service |
A.more people aboard are choosing Chinese brands |
B.Huawei is making a lot of money |
C.Huawei makes the best mobile phone |
D.Chinese brands will replace (代替) foreign brands |
A.潮流的 | B.实惠的 | C.创新的 | D.耐用的 |
A.How to Choose a Chinese Brand | B.Chinese Brands Becoming Popular |
C.How to Develop Chinese Brands | D.The Future for Chinese Brands |
【推荐1】You are a member in a full-time school called “life”. Each day here you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or hate them, but you have designed them as part of your curriculum.
Why are you here? What is your purpose? Humans have sought to discover the meaning of life for a very long time. What we and our ancestors have to overlook is that there is no one answer. The meaning of life is different for every individual.
Each person has his own purpose and distinct path, unique and separate from anyone else’s. As you are travelling your life path, you will be presented with numerous lessons you will need to learn in order to achieve that purpose. The lessons you are presented with are specific to you; learning these lessons is the key to discovering and achieving the meaning of your own life.
As you are travelling through your lifetime, you may meet challenging lessons that others don’t have to face, while others spend years struggling with challenges that you don’t need to deal with. You may never know why you are blessed with a wonderful marriage, while your friends suffer painful divorces, just as you cannot be sure why you struggle financially while your peers enjoy abundance. The only thing you can count on is that you will be presented with all the lessons that you specifically need to learn.
The challenge, therefore, is to arrange yourself with your own unique path by learning individual lessons. This is one of the most difficult challenges you will face in your lifetime, as sometimes your path will be different from others. But don’t compare your path with that of people around you and focus on the differences between their lessons and yours. You need to remember that you will only face lessons that you can learn and are specific to your own growth.
Our sense of fairness is the expectation of equality. Life is not, in fact, fair, and you may indeed have a more difficult life path than others around you, deserved or not. Everyone’s circumstances are unique, and everyone needs to handle his or her own circumstances differently.
1. According to the passage, how can the meaning of your life be realized?A.Gathering different opinions from others. |
B.Taking the distinct path from others. |
C.Learning the lessons presented to you. |
D.Doing the different things from others. |
A.everyone has his own track to follow |
B.unexpected things usually happen to the peers |
C.a painful divorce must lie in financial problems |
D.a wealthy man must have a wonderful marriage |
A.are beyond your power |
B.keep you from growth |
C.limit your development |
D.help you with your success |
A.All things should be equal and justice to everybody. |
B.You should learn to deal with specific problems differently from others. |
C.One has to fix his mind on unfairness of circumstances. |
D.You can complain life is unfair whenever possible. |
【推荐2】In bringing up children, every parent watches eagerly the child’s acquisition (学会) of each new skill in the first spoken words, the first independent steps, or the beginning of reading and writing. It is often tempting to hurry the child beyond his natural learning rate, but this can set up dangerous feelings of failure and states of worry in the child. This might happen at any stage. A baby might be forced to use a toilet too early, a young child might be encouraged to learn to read before he knows the meaning of the words he reads. On the other hand, though, if a child is left alone too much, or without any learning opportunities, he loses his natural enthusiasm for life and his desire to find out new things for himself.
Parents vary greatly in their degree of strictness towards their children. Some may be especially strict in money matters. Others are severe (严格的) over time of coming home at night or punctuality for meals. In general, the controls represent the needs of the parents and the values of the community as much as the child’s own happiness.
As regards the development of moral standards in the growing child, consistency is very important in parental teaching. To forbid a thing one day and excuse it the next is no foundation for morality (道德). Also, parents should realize that “example is better than precept”. If they are not sincere and do not practice what they preach (说教), their children may grow confused when they grow old enough to think for themselves, and realize they have been to some extent fooled.
A sudden awareness of a marked difference between their parents’principles and their morals can be a dangerous disappointment.
1. Eagerly watching the child’s acquisition of new skills ________.A.will make the child lose interest in learning new things |
B.is universal among parents |
C.sets up dangerous states of worry in the child |
D.should be avoided |
A.should encourage them to read before they know the meaning of the words they read |
B.should expect a lot of the children |
C.should create as many learning opportunities as possible |
D.should achieve a balance between pushing them too hard and leaving them on their own |
A.parental controls reflect only the values of the community |
B.parental restrictions vary, and are not always for the benefit of the children alone |
C.parents should be strict with their children |
D.it’s parents’ and society’s duty to control the children |
A.opinion | B.punishment |
C.behavior | D.instruction |
A.be aware of the huge difference between adults and children |
B.follow the rules themselves |
C.always ensure the security of their children |
D.forbid their children to follow hook teachings |
【推荐3】Even though people have been paralyzed (瘫痪的) playing sports like rugby and football, extreme sports take the whole ordeal (磨难) to the next level. Sports like downhill cycling are very dangerous because one would be going downhill, over rocky or dirt zone, through forests, even at potentially deadly speeds. A slip up could be your downfall.
Nobody who gets into extreme sports goes with the desire to do harm to themselves. With that, athletes train for years and years before they attempt anything extreme. To most people, extreme sports are extreme simply because they take more skill than what an average person has. An athlete with skill and training makes an extreme thing become a daily routine, which does not wipe out the danger, but greatly reduces it.
Even when there is a lot of skill involved, things might not go the athlete’s way, not at all. Luck and circumstances have a lot to do with how things develop, whether above 8,000 meters or in a wood, going downhill. In some places, crossing the street is an extreme sport, considering how wild traffic can get.
Some view parkour, the sports of running, jumping and climbing under, around and through buildings, as an extreme sport, while it is more of a life philosophy, where the athlete does not have to do anything remotely dangerous. Free soloing, which means climbing a rock or ice face without safety gear, is absolutely deadly, where one slip means almost certain death, depending on the height, of course. Skateboarding is relatively safe, but if you constantly find ridiculous places to practice on, like the fence of a bridge, then things can get very complicated. The extreme part depends on the athlete.
To summarize, yes, extreme sports are dangerous, but the danger depends on the athlete, their choice of sport, direction in which they take it, as well as the circumstances. Some things are out of our control, while others we can influence through exercise and healthier risk choices.
1. Why is downhill cycling mentioned in Paragraph 1?A.To call for attention to extreme sports. | B.To introduce the origin of extreme sports. |
C.To illustrate the danger of extreme sports. | D.To show the complexity of the extreme sports. |
A.Extreme sports differ from one another. |
B.Skill matters a lot in maintaining safety. |
C.Athlete’s luck is a key factor that influences safety. |
D.Extreme sports are more dangerous than regular sports. |
A.explain danger depends on the athlete | B.show free soloing is the most dangerous |
C.compare which one involves the most skill | D.demonstrate how to choose an extreme sport |
A.Doubtful. | B.Objective. | C.Intolerant. | D.Uninterested. |
A.Do Extreme Sports Test Your Courage? |
B.Why Should Extreme Sports Be Banned? |
C.Why Do We Love Extreme Sports So Much? |
D.Are Extreme Sports Really That Dangerous? |