My interest in body language began with a professor of mine at university. He mentioned “Pinocchio” to me one cold morning after saying that I always rubbed my nose when giving excuses for being late to his courses. Actually, when someone tells a lie, the person’s blood rushes to the nose and the extra blood makes it itchy (发痒的). This little example of non-verbal communication inspired me to become a body language expert. Now, I earn my living by training people in non-verbal communication. Knowing when someone is lying and knowing how to persuade people you’ re telling the truth are two of the most important skills you’ll ever learn.
I have spent a lot of time studying the ways the human body gives more reliable information than the words we speak. The words say one thing but the body may say something completely different. We know that crossed arms can be seen as either defensive (防御性的) or aggressive (攻击性的), but what about facial expressions, postures and gestures? All of these say a lot and can only be understood if you know how to make sense of the signs.
Business clients are always in need of my services and I try to improve their confidence by teaching them about body language. I give advice about handshakes, which should always be firm and steady, and I teach the importance of personal space. They may seem like minor matters, but these codes of behaviour can be the key to making or breaking a business deal.
My working life gives me a great deal of satisfaction. I feel that I’ m providing a public service, but it is a service that has had its downside. Whenever I meet someone new and I tell them what I do for a living, they immediately put their guard up and they’re no longer relaxed. They quite literally freeze in the attempt to hide all the signals that they think I’ m reading. It makes life difficult at times, but I consider it a small price to pay for a job I enjoy so much.
1. What is the author’s purpose of mentioning his professor?A.To describe his professor’ s success. | B.To explain why he chose his career. |
C.To show his professor’s study of the “Pinocchio” effect. | D.To introduce what impressed him most during his career. |
A.It usually tells the real story. | B.It always benefits one’ s career. |
C.It plays an important part in persuading people. | D.It provides people with great career opportunities. |
A.They dislike his services. | B.They think he is too proud. |
C.They consider him unreliable. | D.They believe he is studying them. |
A.He thinks little of minor gestures. | B.He travels the world giving advice. |
C.He is happy with his work. | D.He is good at pretending. |
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【推荐1】Rick Guidotti put aside his career as a fashion photographer to turn his lens (镜头) to people living with genetic, physical and behavioural differences.
He says what changed his perception (看法) of beauty was a chance encounter with an albino (患白化病的) girl. “I was just tired of people telling me who was beautiful. Every season that face would change but I was always told who was beautiful. As an artist, I don’t see beauty just on covers of magazines. I see it everywhere. So that was my original intention — that opened my eyes a little wider and wider.”
Guidotti has created Positive Exposure, a not-for-profit organization that uses photography and video to transform public perceptions and promote a world where differences are celebrated. Guidotti and Positive Exposure are featured in a new documentary called On Beauty.
One of the women featured in the film is Jayne Waithera. “I never thought I was beautiful because nobody said that to me, but meeting him was my profound moment. I remember that particular day. He took my picture and I felt so good like I felt there’s somebody who, like, really loves me and sees me for who I am and who sees me more than my condition.”
Guidotti is travelling from city to city to promote On Beauty. He says his tour is not about money; it’s about the message. “As I travel from community to community, I’m taking photographs and I’m empowering (给某人……的权力) individuals with a positive sense of who they are. They’re seeing beauty in their reflection but I’m also empowering their families and they in turn are empowering their communities as well. All is based on the philosophy of change — how you see, how you change.”
1. Why did Guidotti change his career?A.The beauty on covers of magazines is not beautiful. |
B.He wanted to create his own company. |
C.His comprehension of beauty changed owing to an albino girl. |
D.He couldn’t earn enough money from his former career. |
A.It welcomes differences in the world. | B.It brings a lot of money for Guidotti. |
C.It makes photography more popular. | D.It makes the public more beautiful. |
A.Jayne’s picture was more beautiful than herself. |
B.Jayne was beautiful indeed. |
C.Photographs gave Jayne a positive sense of who she was. |
D.It was unfair that nobody discovered Jayne’s beauty. |
A.Communities have a great influence on everyone. |
B.We should travel frequently. |
C.Your attitude to seeing the world decides your behaviour. |
D.We should make contributions to our community. |
【推荐2】Do you want to become a farmer? Do you want to grow whatever you like? Maybe your answer is “yes” . But you have never grown a crop before and don’t know where to start. Don’t worry. Here is good news.
Decide why you’re interested in farming.
Being a farmer is nothing but hard work. Any kind of farming requires a lot of hard work. Farming sometimes also gives you less money for all your hard work.
Visit with some experienced farmers.
It is highly recommended that you find those who are farming in a similar manner to what you intend to do. You can ask them to give you a tour of their work. Run a web search to find out about some upcoming local agricultural events happening and attend as many of them as you can.
This is the most important step on your way to becoming a farmer. It is because you are working and gaining direct experience. Like with all jobs, you will be entering at the very bottom. The only way you will work your way up is to work hard and do what is asked of you.
Have a good sense of humor.
A.Offer your services as a farm worker. |
B.Laughter makes the day go by faster. |
C.Besides, don’t be afraid to learn new things. |
D.Know when you are ready to begin your own farm. |
E.This article will help you realize your dream of being a farmer. |
F.You will find many active farmers you may want to visit at such events. |
G.Therefore, you need to be interested and determined enough to be a farmer. |
【推荐3】Businesses are now in cost-cutting mode. Title inflation (通胀) has crept into the workplace. Layoffs, hiring freezes and concerns about a recession (经济衰退) are plaguing employers.
To balance this unique economic environment, employers have figured out a way to comfort employees and job applicants without spending more money. They are offering impressive titles to soften the blow of not providing a raise to internal employees or big compensation to job candidates.
An employee’s title is their identity. It gives them credibility in the office and makes them feel more powerful. In this sense, the policy is a sensible way to help keep staff and attract top candidates.
But if you don’t really deserve the new title, it could come back and trouble you. Recruiters will be pleased to find a candidate who is a perfect fit for a significant, well-paying position in terms of skills, background, and previous experience. However, a stumbling block arises when they notice the candidate has a higher title than the client offers. Since a recruiter wants to make a placement and earn a fee, they won’t waste time and will seek out other candidates who are a better fit.
Even if the recruiters decide to contact the candidate, there’s a good chance the candidate won’t accept. Because most people aren’t aware that their title was inflated and believe it was a reward for their outstanding performance. Understandably, they would be offended if they received a lower-level post. Now that you are at a certain level, you don’t want to go backward.
What’s more, if your current title is too high, it raises red flags. For example, when searching for a new job, if your title is “director,” but the new role is under that level, the interviewer will curiously inquire, “why do you want to go down in title?” There will be an assumption from the hiring manager that something isn’t right. They may feel that the job seeker is leaving before being fired and willing to downgrade. Rather than trying to figure out the motivations of the candidate, they’ll move on to others who have a cleaner story without any baggage.
1. What can we learn about employees with impressive titles?A.They tend to look down upon others. |
B.Their salaries don’t match their titles. |
C.Their fear of being fired will disappear. |
D.They get a good platform for development. |
A.Consult with the client | B.Contact the job applicant. |
C.Rule out the candidate. | D.Gather more related information. |
A.Enthusiastic. | B.Dismissive. | C.Appreciative. | D.Skeptical. |
A.The impact of title inflation on the recruiting process. |
B.Strategies employed by employers to navigate economic challenges. |
C.The influence of title inflation on job candidates’ self-esteem. |
D.Consequences of layoffs and hiring freezes on workplace dynamics. |
【推荐1】Many people within the deaf community use sign language as a method to communicate visually. Unfortunately, the lack of signs about the climate had created a barrier for the disabled community. That has changed recently with the British Sign Language (BSL) updating its vocabulary with 200 new words.
There are nearly 300 sign languages around the world, with the famous ones being the American Sign Language (ASL), the British Sign Language (BSL), and the Australian Sign Language (Auslan) for native English speakers.
The use of hands in sign language to represent individual letters is called ‘fingerspelling’. While some common words like “car” have signs, a specific car like Tesla would need to be spelled out as “t-e-s-1-a”. Sign language has developed over the years as society and technology changed — the word for telephone, for example, is very different today than 100 years ago!
However, for deaf students, the lack of scientific terms has always been a handicap. They have felt held back from understanding and learning, simply because they did not have enough vocabulary to use in discussions. In 2012, researchers first developed 116 signs for scientific words such as “mass” and “X-ray” which were eventually added to the BSL.
In the U. S., Mandy Houghton, a teacher at the School for the Deaf and Blind in Florida, attended a summer program for science. She noticed that it was difficult to participate as she felt unable to communicate accurate terms. Only 20% of the chemistry terms used were a part of sign language! Houghton acknowledged the gap in scientific vocabulary and has made it her mission to expand American Sign Language(ASL)to be more inclusive.
As climate change becomes increasingly obvious, so does the information and education surrounding it. Including new vocabulary that focuses on these topics, allows the deaf community to have access to valuable knowledge and empowers them to learn and take action.
In the fight against climate crises, the new developments in ASL and BSL have a huge significance in creating a better future for everyone.
1. What can we learn about the sign language according to the text?A.There are three noted sign languages. | B.It has a history of exactly 100 years. |
C.A sign language is made up of 200 words. | D.The same sign may have different meanings. |
A.Puzzle. | B.Barrier. | C.Preference. | D.Task. |
A.Satisfied. | B.Proud. | C.Ashamed. | D.Confused. |
A.The ASL Is Changing With Time |
B.The Sign Language Benefits the Deaf |
C.The Sign Language Is Adapting to Times |
D.The Deaf Community Fights Against Climate Change |
【推荐2】For making contact and communicating with a person, effective eye contact is essential to our everyday interaction with people, and also to those who want to be effective communicators in public places.
Generally in Western societies and many other cultures, eye contact with a person is expected to be regular but not overly persistent.
Overly lasting eye contact is also a sign of a person’s over-awareness of the messages they are giving. In the case of people who try to lie to someone, they may distort (扭曲) their eye contact so that they’re not avoiding it.
However, Scotland’s University of Stirling found that, in a question-and-answer study among children, those who maintained eye contact were less likely to come up with the correct answer to a question than those who looked away to consider their response.
A.This is a widely recognized indicator of lying |
B.Constant eye contact is often considered to be rude |
C.Eye contact is the act of looking into someone’s eyes |
D.But there’s something you may not know about eye contact |
E.Overpowering eye contact can make the other person excited |
F.Even between humans and non-humans, lasting eye contact is sometimes unadvisable |
G.Eye contact, as a socializing device, can take a surprising amount of effort to maintain |
【推荐3】You may be able to answer all of the questions the interviewer throws at you, and show a wealth of knowledge about the company in question. However, actions often speak louder than words.
A weak or overly strong handshake.
A negative facial expression.
Smile! Greeting an employer with a negative expression will not make you appear likable.
Casting your eyes down for the duration of an interview is something interviewers agree they hate. It wouldn’t be a good idea to continually stare at the person opposite you. However, regular eye contact shows that you are engaged in the conversation and that your self-esteem is high.
A.Take a moment to compose yourself before going in to interview |
B.A stable handshake is important |
C.During the job interview preparation stage |
D.Take a look at the most common body language mistakes to avoid during your next interview |
E.Avoiding eye contact |
F.A handshake often opens and closes an interview |
G.Interviewer will get annoyed when you show up with a negative expression |
【推荐1】A mother of a cheerful five-year-old just returned from a meeting of the National Organization for Women. Inspired by exciting dreams for the possibilities of womanhood, she asked her daughter what she wanted to be when she grew up. Little Lisa quickly answered, “A nurse.”
There was a time when nursing was thought of as a woman’s job and the answer somehow seemed not to be satisfied. She had, after all, just returned from a new meeting.
“You can be anything you want to be,” she reminded her daughter. “You can be a lawyer, a doctor, a banker, president of the country — you can be anything.”
“Anything?” Lisa asked.
“Anything!” her mother smiled.
“I know,” Lisa said. “I want to be a horse!”
Lisa’s dream may need some improvement, but there is plenty of time for that. When do we give up dreaming about the future? When do we resign (听任) ourselves to simply replaying dreams from the past?
Maybe her dream needs to mature (成熟) a bit, but would you rather have the optimism (乐观) of a five-year-old girl who wants to be a horse, or the pessimism (悲观) of an adult who says in despair, “I can’t be anything at all”?
Teddy Roosevelt said, “Keep your eyes on the stars and your feet on the ground.” I believe that is the way to make those dreams come true. So everyone need look up and dream of something beautiful while working hard to the dream.
1. What did the girl really want to be when she grew up?A.A nurse. | B.A horse. | C.A banker. | D.A lawyer. |
A.Satisfied. | B.Puzzled. | C.Disappointed. | D.Excited. |
A.stop children dreaming of something strange |
B.advise parents how to educate children |
C.encourage adults to learn from children |
D.help children to set up a big goal |
A.Stand on the ground and watch the stars |
B.Have a big dream and work hard |
C.Protect your eyesight while working |
D.Find a good way to watch the stars |
【推荐2】I’ve spent a long time thinking about one of the lessons life has to offer uncertainty. I often hear,“ Nothing could have prepared us for this pandemic.” While it came as a surprise, some of us have had to deal with times of great uncertainty before.
This was the case for my family when my father began falling over. We would blame the ice. Then just the road.“ Who makes these things so high?” we wondered. Then, he slowed. He began to drag his feet.“ Well,” we said,“ he’s getting older.”
When his speech became worse, it became harder to explain. When did he last see a doctor anyway? We searched the Internet as he worsened—because we felt real medical attention was not required.
Uncertainty.
It’ s uncomfortable. It makes your stomach tighten. If you don’ t fight it, it will seep through (渗入)your body, lighting your brain up with anxiety. When a neurologist(神经病学家) explained the problem, it wasn’t what we wanted to hear. Instead, we opened a Pandora’ s box of even more unknowns.
When we found out he had AIS (肌肉萎缩性侧面硬化病)the uncertainty became a burden. He was losing control of his muscles, his speech, ability to swallow—and we were paralyzed on how to prepare.
ALS is cruel. It traps you in your body. When the future looks so dark, you have to take comfort in the tiniest pleasures. I wish I’d done more. But I was new to uncertainty. I’d never experienced such a lack of control. I was focused on solving problem that couldn’t be solved.
I worried about how my father would get worse. I read everything I could to try and help his situation, but there was nothing I could do. But my dad didn’t live long enough for me to prepare for his condition to get worse. Life doesn’t go according to plan and there is a difference between preparation and worry.
As we battle global uncertainty, it is teaching us the same lesson. A lesson about humility (谦卑) . About the fact that you cannot save something you love alone. If COVID -19 is disturbing everyone, we should consider what we can learn. These lessons are hard, teaching us to hold on to what matters and how to let go.
1. Why is the pandemic mentioned in the beginning ?A.To explain its impact on the author’s life. |
B.To lead up to the topic of uncertainty. |
C.To show how the author got used to it. |
D.To tell the lessons the author learned from it. |
A.Anxious | B.Peaceful | C.Annoyed | D.Optimistic |
A.It makes people stronger. | B.It leads to a lack of control. |
C.It brings family closer to each other. | D.It can remove the darkness in life. |
A.Be humble to the unknown. | B.Prepare for uncertainty in advance. |
C.Express our love before it’s too late. | D.Cherish what matters and learn to let go. |
【推荐3】Growing up on a farm, I learned from my parents about the large bees we called mangangava. But in college, when I gave a presentation about those bees, I didn’t mention their familiar name; instead I used formal terms when describing their adaptations for pollinating (授粉). I was afraid of being judged for expressing my personal knowledge in a science class. But when the instructor pressed me to tell the class whether I’d seen the bees myself and what I called them, my views and my whole career path began to change. I realized my background was valuable, and that my calling was to help educate others like me.
My parents worked on a small farm and I often helped out when I was not in school. They had a close relationship with nature, something they learned from my grandparents and passed down to me. This was why I became interested in biology.
In college, I joined a series of labs to gain research experience, but my interest in pursuing a career as a scientist began to wane after I realized my research was not helping poor people like my parents. As a black student from a rural community, I also felt out of place in most classes. The feeling of not belonging circled in my head. I sometimes thought about giving up.
My instructor’s request that I share my knowledge of the mangangava bee changed my view. She saw that tapping into my personal experiences would help me grasp the scientific concepts. No other professor had shown that kind of sensitivity, which helped me realize I did have a place in higher education and that I didn’t need to hide who I truly am.
I’m now a master’s student in education? working on a project that explores the connection between science and traditional knowledge. I don’t think I’d be here if I hadn’t crossed paths with my instructor. We need more educators and scientists like her-people who can serve as role models and know that the best way to nurture new scientists is to allow students to be themselves.
1. What did the author initially think of his background when in college?A.It was of little use for his college studies. |
B.It motivated him to carry on his research. |
C.It gave him an advantage over others. |
D.It was something he wanted to hide. |
A.Remain. | B.Withdraw. | C.Fade. | D.Rise. |
A.Value students’ personal knowledge and views. |
B.Inspire students to work as hard as he or she does. |
C.Treat students from different backgrounds equally. |
D.Be equipped with rich knowledge of a certain field. |
A.The family is one of the nature’s masterpiece. |
B.Every man is the architect of his own fortune. |
C.A good teacher is better than ten thousand books. |
D.It’s only after having a proper education that one becomes a person. |