We’ve all been there: in a lift, in line at the bank or on an airplane, surrounded by people who are, like us, deeply focused on their smartphones or, worse, struggling with the uncomfortable silence.
What’s the problem? It’s possible that we all don’t have enough conversational ability. It’s more likely that none of us start a conversation because it’s embarrassing and challenging, or we think it’s annoying and unnecessary. But the next time you find yourself among strangers, consider that small talk is worth the trouble. Experts say it’s a valuable social practice that leads to big benefits.
It is easy to consider small talk as unimportant, but we can’t forget that deep relationships wouldn’t even exist (存在) if there weren’t casual conversations. Small talk is the grease (润滑剂) for social communication, says Bernardo Carducci, director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast. “Almost every great love story and each big business deal begins with small talk,” he explains. “The secret to successful small talk is learning how to connect with others, not just communicate with them.”
In a 2014 study, Elizabeth Dunn, professor of psychology at UBC, invited people to a coffee shop. One group was asked to interact with its waiter, the other, to speak only when necessary. The results showed that those who chatted with their server reported obviously higher positive feelings and a better coffee shop experience. “It’s not that talking to the waiter is better than talking to your husband,” says Dunn. “But interactions with peripheral (边缘的) members of our social network is important for our happiness and health.”
Dunn believes that people who reach out to strangers feel a greater sense of belonging, a link with others. Carducci believes developing such a sense of belonging starts with small talk. “Small talk is the basis of good manners,” he says.
1. What does the underline word “casual” in paragraph 3mean?A.Addictive | B.Public | C.Personal | D.Informal |
A.Showing good manners. | B.Making business deals. |
C.Focusing on a topic. | D.Keeping in contact with other people. |
A.It raises people’s confidence. | B.It makes people feel good. |
C.It improves family relationships. | D.It matters as much as a formal talk. |
A.Conversation Counts | B.Ways of Making Small Talk |
C.Importance of Small Talk | D.Uncomfortable Silence |
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【推荐1】Most people who own iPhones use them as their alarm clocks — making it very easy to check emails one last time before falling asleep and hard to ever feel away from work and social networks.
Several years ago, my boss fainted due to exhaustion after staying up late to catch up on work. She banged her head and ended up with five stitches (缝针) — and became what she calls a “sleep evangelist (传教士).” Now she leaves her phone charging in another room when she goes to bed and encourages her friends to do the same.
“I sent all my friends the same Christmas gift — a lovely alarm clock — so they could stop using the excuse that they needed their very attractive iPhones by their beds to wake them up in the morning.” she said.
If your phone wakes you up in the morning, it may also be keeping you up at night. A 2008 study showed that people exposed to mobile radiation took longer to fall asleep and spent less time in deep sleep. “The study indicates that during laboratory exposure to 884 MHz wireless signals, components of sleep believed to be important for recovery from daily wear and tear are severely affected,” the study concluded.
A quarter of young people feel like they must be available by phone around the clock, according to a Swedish study that linked heavy cellphone use to sleeping problems, stress and depression. Unreturned messages carry more guilt when the technology to deal with them lies at our fingertips. Some teens even return text messages at midnight.
Most of us choose not to set limits on our nighttime availability. Nearly three quarters of people from the age of 18 to 44 sleep with their phones within reach, according to a 2012 Time poll. That number falls off slightly in middle age, but only people aged 65 and older are leaving the phone in another room as common as sleeping right next to it.
1. Why did the author’s boss give her friends alarm clocks as Christmas gifts?A.Alarm clocks don't give off any radiation. |
B.Alarm clocks are better at waking her friends up. |
C.She advised them to replace phones with alarm clocks. |
D.She used alarm clocks to remind them not to work too late. |
A.Mobile radiation makes people unable to fall asleep. |
B.Mobile phones can release 884 MHz wired signals. |
C.Sleep can help people fight against radiation. |
D.Components of sleep can be seriously affected by wireless signals. |
A.How Mobile Phones Affect Sleep |
B.Why Alarm Clocks Are Better than Phones |
C.How We Can Sleep Better at Night |
D.How Mobile Phones Affect Health |
A.Her friends encouraged her to sleep on time. |
B.Mobile phones couldn't wake her up on time. |
C.Her friends sent her a lovely clock to wake her up. |
D.She got hurt due to working too late. |
【推荐2】Australian cities can keep their native wildlife — but only if they can kick their habit of urban sprawl (无计划的扩展). That’s the finding of a new study by leading Australian environmental researchers Jessica Sushinsky, Professor Hugh Possingham and Dr. Richard Fuller of the University of Queensland.
“While urban development usually reduces the number of birds in a city, building more compact (紧凑的) cities and avoiding urban sprawl can slow these reductions greatly,” says lead author Jessica Sushinsky. “Compact housing development leaves birds’ homes untouched, leading to fewer losses of birds.”
The researchers surveyed native and wild birds in Brisbane’s urban areas, including living and industrial areas, public parks and gardens, major roadways and airports. They then used statistical modeling to find out what will happen to the birds as the city grows. The first setting was compact growth — where multiple homes are built on land that previously had only one house. The second setting was sprawling growth — a familiar pattern where homes are built here and there beyond the city’s current boundaries.
The team’s forecasts showed that a much greater diversity of species was lost over 20 years in the sprawling setting compared to the more compact setting. “Urban sprawl resulted in the disappearance of many urban-sensitive birds — birds that only live in areas where there is native vegetation(植被), such as parklands and woodlands,” Ms. Sushinsky says.
“On the other hand, we found the city with the compact development attracted more birds because it kept more of its parks and green areas.”
Now the Queensland Government has adopted the more compact urban growth strategy, which, Dr. Richard Fuller says, is good news for Australia’s native birds. These birds are environmental specialists — they need a particular environment to do well. “While compact development means smaller backyards, it can also make our entire cities more bio-diverse,” according to Dr. Fuller. “The study shows that we should hold on to our green spaces instead of clearing them for sprawling development.”
This is the first time science has modeled the effects of different urban growth strategies on birds, the researchers say. “Statistical models like these are important because they help us to understand the ecological consequences of a particular decision,” says Dr. Fuller.
1. The study deals with the relationship between ______.A.city development and birds | B.the environment and birds |
C.humans and wildlife | D.climate and wildlife |
A.It makes the cities more beautiful. | B.It gives people larger backyards. |
C.It is money-saving. | D.It is bird-friendly. |
A.It is based on the statistics in the past. | B.It is strongly against urban development. |
C.It criticizes the city environment in Brisbane. | D.It suggests leaving more green spaces for birds. |
A.A news report. | B.A travel guide. | C.A health magazine. | D.A history book. |
【推荐3】An experimental device that turns thoughts into text has allowed a man who was left paralyzed by an accident to construct sentences swiftly on a computer screen. The man was able to type with 95% accuracy just by imagining he was handwriting letters on a sheet of paper, a team reported Wednesday in the journal Nature.
“What we found, surprisingly, is that he can type at about 90 characters per minute," says Krishna Shenoy of Stanford University. The device would be most useful to someone who could neither move nor speak, says Dr. Jaimie Henderson, a professor at Stanford and co-director, with Shenoy, of the Stanford NPTL.
“We can also envision it being used by someone who can't move but wants to use email,” Henderson says, “or, say, a computer programmer who wants to go back to work.”
The idea of decoding the brain activity involved in handwriting is 'just impressive, says John Ngai, who directs the National Institutes of Health's BRAIN Initiative, which helped fund the research. "But it was only on one subject in a laboratory setting," Ngai says. "So at the moment it's a great example of proof of principle."
The man who agreed to test the device is unable to move his arms and legs as the result of an accident. A few years ago, the man agreed to take part in a study of an experimental system called BrainGate2. It allows people who are paralyzed to control computers and other devices using only their thoughts.
The system relies on devices surgically implanted near the part of the brain that controls movement. In previous studies, participants had learned to control a computer cursor or robotic arm by imagining they were moving their hands.
This time, Henderson, Shenoy and a team of scientists had the man imagine he was writing individual letters by hand while a computer monitored the electrical activity in his brain. Eventually, the computer learned to decode the distinct pattern of activity associated with every letter of the alphabet as well as several symbols. Once that process is complete, Shenoy says, “We can determine if the letter you wrote is an A or a B or a C and then show on the screen and you're able to spell out words and sentences and so forth one letter at a
In previous experiments, participants had been able to use their thoughts to “point and click” at letters on a screen. But that approach was much slower than imagined handwriting. Also, because the new system relies on familiar thoughts, the participant was able to use it almost immediately.
1. By imagining handwriting, a person can type about ________ correct characters per minute.A.43. | B.45. | C.86. | D.90. |
A.Guide. | B.Imagine. | C.Suggest. | D.Promote. |
A.Favorable. | B.Cautious. | C.Ambiguous. | D.Disapproving. |
A.have the electrical activity in their brain monitored |
B.first learn to take control of a computer cursor or robotic arm |
C.be able to use their fake hands to “point and click” at letters on a screen |
D.have devices implanted near the brain part controlling thinking |
A.Entertainment. | B.Health. | C.Education. | D.Medicine. |
【推荐1】Do you have a spare room in your house? Do you like to share your driveway in front of your garage with others?
Perhaps the best-known example of a company in this field is Airbnb—an American web business which allows you to rent out your spare room to holidaymakers. It says it operates in 34,000 cities and it has 800,000 listings of rooms and apartments.
A British company is doing something with parking spaces. Just Park’s founder, Anthony Eskinazi, says, “When I had the original idea. I spotted a driveway close to a spots stadium. It would have been so convenient if I could have just parked in that driveway rather than in a commercial car park.”
A.They seem to have occupied the majority of the market. |
B.Both of these can help you make money. |
C.And there is another problem. |
D.And his great idea has proved a success. |
E.But the new business of renting has its competitors. |
F.There are many ways to earn money. |
G.A commercial car park is inconvenient. |
【推荐2】Recently I spoke to some of my students about what they wanted to do after they graduated, and what kind of job prospects they thought they had.
Given that I teach students who are trained to be doctors, I was astonished to find that most students thought that they would not be able to get the jobs they wanted without "outside help". "What kind of help is that?" I asked, expecting them to tell me that they would need a relative or family friend to help them out.
“Surgery(整形手术)”,one replied. I was pretty alarmed by that response. It seems that the graduates of today are increasingly willing to go under the knife to get ahead of others when it comes to getting a job. One girl told me that she was considering surgery to increase her height. “They break your legs, put in special extending screws, and slowly expand the gap between the two ends of the bone as it regrows. You can get at least 5 cm taller!”
At that point, I was shocked. I am short. I can't deny that, but I don't think I would put myself through months of pain just to be a few centimeters taller. I don't even bother to wear shoes with thick soles, as I'm not trying to hide the fact that I am just not tall!
It seems to me that there is a trend toward wanting “perfection”, and that is an ideal that just does not exist in reality.
No one is born perfect, yet magazines, TV shows and movies present images of thin, tall beautiful people as being the norm(标准). Advertisements for slimming aids, beauty treatments and cosmetic surgery clinics fill the pages of newspapers, further creating an idea that “perfection” is a requirement, and that it must be purchased, no matter what the cost. In my opinion, skills, rather than appearance, should determine how successful a person is in his chosen career.
1. Many graduates today turn to cosmetic surgery to________.A.marry a better man/woman | B.become a model |
C.get an advantage over others in job-hunting | D.attract more admirers |
A.Thrilled. | B.Surprised. |
C.Delighted. | D.Furious. |
A.everyone should pursue perfection,whatever the cost |
B.it's right for graduates to ask for others to help them out in hunting for jobs |
C.media are to blame for misleading young people in their seeking for surgery |
D.it is one's appearance instead of skills that really matters in one's career |
【推荐3】Lonely? You’re hardly alone. That’s the finding of a new study. And that appears throughout industrial nations across the globe. The study linked rising loneliness to a greater use of smartphones and the Internet over the same years.
Jean Twenge, a psychologist, took part in the study. Her team has found that since 2012, US teens have been spending less time together face to face.
“Smartphones can help keep us connected with friends,” says Twenge. “But they can also make people feel excluded (隔离).” Girls, especially, may feel this way. One reason may be that they like to post more photos and selfies than boys. Studies have shown that if those images don’t get a lot of “likes”, it can affect a teen’s mental health.
And there’s “phubbing”, a mixture of “phone” and “snubbing (冷落)”. It’s that moment in which a friend or family member takes out a phone and keeps looking at it,paying no attention to everybody else, including you. Phubbing is one way that technology can affect you, even when you’re not the one using it.
The new study pulled its data from a survey. Some 1 million 15-and 16-year-old students from 37 countries took this survey in 2000, 2003, 2012, 2015 and 2018. Its questions mostly dealt with education. But they also included six statements about loneliness, such as “I feel awkward and out of place in my school”. Students could strongly disagree, disagree, agree or strongly agree with each statement.
If technology causes loneliness, should we stop using it? “No, not at all,” argues Twenge. “Everybody of all ages is trying to figure out how we can best use these technologies and stay mentally healthy.” Her advice is to “use your smartphone for what it’s good for. Then put it away.” That includes putting it away overnight—ideally in another room.
1. How do girls differ from boys in smartphone use?A.They prefer to post pictures with it. | B.They depend on it to keep in touch. |
C.They use it as a learning tool. | D.They need it to stay in style. |
A.To introduce a new term of the smartphone. |
B.To give an example of communication. |
C.To introduce an embarrassing situation. |
D.To show the harm of the smartphone. |
A.Smart phones only do harm to teenagers. |
B.Parents should buy phones for their kids. |
C.Boys are in greater need of phones than girls. |
D.We can use our smartphones to benefit ourselves. |
A.The Smartphone—the Focus of a Study |
B.The Smartphone—a Friend of Teenagers |
C.The Smartphone—a Source of Loneliness |
D.The Smartphone—a Communication Tool |
【推荐1】Everybody knows that Coca Cola is red and Starbucks is green. Most of us can name companies and their own brand colors. What we may not know about is the science behind these companies' choices of these colors. Color psychology is the study of how colors affect people's feelings, actions, and decision-making. Companies use color psychology when they develop their brands and advertisements in order to encourage us to buy. In fact studies have shown that around 90 percent of people spend money depending on color and appearance. Because of this, companies use colors to influence how we feel about their products. For example, it’s no accident that many tech products use white; it's simple and clean. At the same time, cosmetics companies prefer colors like purple, black, or pink that mean love, comfort, and romance.
Companies often choose active colors that make you buy right now. Red, for example, is a high-energy, exciting color that moves people to take action. Yellow is the color of summer, and it’s bright and remarkable. In fact, most big companies have something to do with certain specific colors. Studies show that customers prefer brands that they know. Then those with a proper color plan, such as LEGO or Facebook are likely to perform more strongly on the market. Research has also shown that men and women like different colors. Men prefer blue, green, and black while women prefer like purple and pink.
1. What products are usually made white?A.Food and drinks. | B.Clothes for women. |
C.Computer and earphones. | D.Starbucks |
A.They pay attention to the color plan. | B.They may be popular on the market. |
C.They may be bright and remarkable. | D.They decide to choose red and yellow for the plan. |
A.A coat in pink. | B.A pair of shoes in green. |
C.A handbag in black. | D.A T-shirt in yellow |
A.Few companies use color psychology. |
B.Colors influence our shopping habits. |
C.We should buy something according to it's color. |
D.colors don’t affect people's feelings, actions, and decision-making. |
【推荐2】In the U. S., people eat more protein than they need to, which might not be bad for human health, but does pose a problem for the country’s waterways. The nation’s wastewater is loaded with the leftovers from protein digestion: nitrogen compounds(氯化合物) that can feed harmful algal blooms(藻华) and pollute the air and drinking water.
Maya Almaraz, a biogeochemist at the University of California, Davis, and her team wanted to see how much of this nitrogen entered into the U. S. wastewater system because of a protein-heavy diet. The researchers found that the majority of nitrogen pollution present in wastewater—some 67 to 100 precent—is a by-product of water people consume.
Once it enters the environment, the nitrogen can have a series of ecological impacts. It helps algae grow much faster than they would normally, which is harmful to humans, other animals and plants. And when the algae eventually die, the problem is not over. Microorganisms(微生物) that feed on dead algae use up the oxygen in the water, leading to “dead zones,” where many species simply cannot survive, in rivers, lakes and oceans.
Although it is possible to treat algal blooms, many of the current methods are not always effective at getting rid of all of the harmful growth. Some of these methods can even lead to additional pollution. So the best strategy for dealing with the effects of nitrogen pollution is prevention, says Patricia Glibert, an ocean scientist at the University of Maryland. Almaraz and her team suggest that controlling nitrogen pollution could be approached more quickly with a change in eating habits that could save billions of dollars in the long term.
1. Which aspect of Americans’ diet does Almaraz’s research focus on ?A.Its variety. | B.Its effect. | C.Its make-up. | D.Its amount. |
A.No oxygen for many species. | B.Death of lots of healthy algae. |
C.Microorganisms’overconsumption of nutrients. | D.Poisonous chemicals released by harmful algae. |
A.They are costly. | B.They may kill all algae. |
C.They are slow to take effect. | D.They may cause secondary pollution. |
A.It is high time to treat wild algae growth. | B.Eating too much protein harms the planet. |
C.Prevention is better than cure in treating air pollution. | D.Researchers find solutions to the wastewater problem. |
【推荐3】The Department of Health and Social Care is carrying out a new programme, giving the National Health Service (NHS) and local councils in England £70 million to pay for up to 700,000 overweight or obese people to go on weight management courses, or work with a personal coach to help them shed unwanted pounds.
As part of the development process, those involved will investigate (研究) previous and present programmes all over the world that have been successful in their mission to get people moving more and eating better.
An example of similar programmes that have worked well is the step challenge in Singapore, a nationwide physical activity programme aimed at encouraging people to do more physical activity.
Experts will look whether initiatives (首创) such as the national step challenge in Singapore could work in England. Citizens are offered cash payments if they do a certain amount of physical activity, such as walking and running, and their progress is measured through wearable devices.
Research published in the British Medical Journal last year found that 1.6 million Singaporeans—26% of the population—had taken part in the government-backed programme. In return for undertaking certain numbers of steps, participants earned “health points” which they could exchange for rewards worth up to US $10.
Downing Street has recently been exploring the use of financial incentive to help people lead healthier, more active lives and has privately sought the views of leading health charities, such as the British Heart Foundation and Cancer Research UK.
Boris Johnson, who has become determined to undertake meaningful action against Britain’s obesity crisis after his stay in hospital last year with COVID-19, supports the latest government action on bulging waistlines. He has slimmed down from a reported 108kg at the time he went into St Thomas’ hospital and is eating more healthily and taking regular exercise. “Being overweight increases the risk of becoming ill with COVID-19. If we all do our bit, we can not only reduce our own health risks but also take pressure off the NHS and solve the social obesity crisis,” he said.
1. What will the department do in carrying out the new programme?A.Base the new programme on deep research. |
B.Follow the example in Singapore closely. |
C.Give money to whoever wants to lose weight. |
D.Make people turn to personal coaches. |
A.It is unpopular with young people. | B.It gets support mainly from charities. |
C.It is unknown to most Singaporeans. | D.It gives rewards to the participants. |
A.Advice. | B.Technology. | C.Service. | D.Encouragement. |
A.Overweight will eventually cause serious illnesses. |
B.Eating healthily is more beneficial than taking exercise. |
C.Small changes in losing weight can make a big difference. |
D.He owes his success in losing weight to St Thomas’ hospital. |