A new study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family claims that all that time you spend parenting just doesn’t matter. But it’s a claim that, despite the enthusiastic and widespread coverage by the media, does not hold water.
The research suggests that child outcomes (including behavior problems, emotional problems, and academic performance) are barely connected with the time that parents spend with their children. The researchers examined the time diaries of 1,600 children, looking at parenting time and outcomes when the kids were aged 3 to 11 in 1997, and again in 2002, when they were between 8 and 16. (A time diary is a detailed report of all activities you carry out in a day. )
This research largely reflects the failure of the authors to correctly measure parental input. It just looked at time diaries from two particular days-one a weekday and the other a weekend day.
Trying to get a sense of the time you spend parenting from a single day’s diary is a bit like trying to measure your income from a single day. If yesterday was payday, you looked rich, but if it’s not, you would be reported as poor. You get a clearer picture only by looking at your income — or your parenting time—over a more meaningful period.
What you did yesterday should not be taken as representative of what you did last year, This is why most high-quality studies of parenting time focus instead on how often parents read to their children, play with them or help their with homework over a period of a month or longer — long enough to represent their different approaches to parenting.
As an exhausted parent who doesn’t get enough time to work out, and who hasn’t seen a movie for months, I understand why so many of us might seize on studies suggesting that we should take more time for ourselves. Perhaps we should. But I agree with Ariel Kalil, a developmental psychologist, on the suggestion “that when parents spend high-quality time with their children, their children are more likely to succeed.”
1. By saying in Paragraph 1 “ ... it’s a claim that ... does not bold water”, the author means the claim is not ________.A.reasonable | B.surprising | C.confusing | D.usual |
A.children’s habits and parents’ influence | B.parenting time and child outcomes |
C.time diaries and child development | D.daily activities and children’s problems |
A.By giving descriptions. | B.By analyzing the cause. |
C.By making a comparison. | D.By offering research findings. |
A.be completed in one month. | B.adopt some different approaches. |
C.concentrate mainly on learning time. | D.be based on data of a longer time period. |
A.He goes to bed early every night. | B.He has little interest in movies. |
C.He has little time for himself. | D.He leads a very easy life. |
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【推荐1】On Feb. 21, four students were standing on the side of Pacific Coast Highway in Malibu when a driver going 110 miles per hour lost control of his car and it crashed into the parked vehicles.12 people were killed at the scene, including 2 drivers.
This kind of traffic death shouldn’t be called an accident. In Los Angeles, we seem to have accepted constant carnage (屠杀) in our streets in exchange for maximizing driver speed and convenience. The official responses to proven traffic dangers are mere gestures, if even that.
Los Angeles is a uniquely deadly city with a death rate that is four times the national average. Unsurprisingly, it’s also a city that has been designed with one thing in mind: a concept called level of service, which grades streets on how well they serve those in automobiles. To many Angelenos, that makes sense — to design our streets for car traffic, which is the way many get around the city. Unfortunately, we don’t recognize that there’s a trade-off. We can either have streets bettered for free-flowing traffic, or we can design streets for people to move around safely outside of cars.
City leaders consistently choose for the easy but deadly option. In one recent example, a resident asked the city’s Department of Transportation to block drivers from using Cochran Avenue at Venice Boulevard as a cut-through street, as they were speeding through a quiet residential neighbourhood. The department responded by suggesting a “speed awareness campaign” in which neighbours put up yard signs urging drivers to slow down.
People don’t drive based on signage, but they drive on the design of the street. The trunk roads of Los Angeles such as Venice Boulevard all need to be revised so that people are prioritized over cars. This would include narrowing travel lanes (道), building bike lanes, and banning right turns at red lights. These measures would make drivers feel like they’re in a city and not on a highway. A recent John Hopkins study says this would have substantial safety benefits.
With more than 7,500 miles of streets in the city of Los Angeles, they won’t all be rebuilt anytime soon. But with each road construction project, or each crash, we should be revising streets to make them safer for all road users.
The solution to traffic jam isn’t to make more space for cars. It’s to design the streets to be safe enough for alternatives such as biking, walking and mass transit, especially for the 50% of trips daily in Los Angeles that are less than three miles. The solution to protecting people dining outdoors isn’t crash barriers. It’s a street design that forces drivers to go slowly. The problem is carnage in the streets, and we know the solutions.
1. Why should the traffic death in Los Angeles be called “constant carnage”?A.The traffic accidents happen quite often. |
B.Too many people are killed in the traffic accidents. |
C.The drivers’ speeding is to blame for the traffic death. |
D.City leaders’ consistent choice contributes to the traffic death. |
A.Balance. | B.Guideline. | C.Conflict. | D.Resolution. |
A.To widen travel lanes. | B.To add more crosswalks. |
C.To arrange more traffic police. | D.To punish speeding drivers. |
A.Drivers first or walkers first? | B.Traffic death or constant carnage? |
C.More warning signs or safer designs? | D.More narrow lanes or speedy highways? |
【推荐2】“The price of books for our students is just getting higher and higher and,combined with the rising cost of tuition,it’s killing these students,”said Peter Jason,a college professor. “Remember,students are one of the poorest groups of people in America. Almost half of them have at least one part-time job. In fact,one of my students has three jobs. And she still manages to have high scores and go to school full-time. ”
Textbook prices are traditionally high. Adding to that problem, many college teachers change textbooks year after year; they either upgrade to a new edition or switch to an entirely different textbook. This further hurts students because if an instructor no longer uses a particular textbook,that book has no resale value.
Dr. Jason decided to make reading a little easier and a lot cheaper for his students by writing his own book on public speaking. “Many books have an increased price because of CD-ROMs,lots of color photographs and pictures. I talked to my students,and many of them,like me,prefer to keep things simple! So,a few years ago,I wrote my own textbook. Compared to most other public speaking books,mine is half the number of pages,and one-third the price. That is,$30 instead of $90. When I wrote a second edition last year,students only had to buy the 35 new pages, For only $7. 00,they had almost a new book. Now my loose-leaf textbook enjoys great popularity among the students. Maybe in the future more writers and publishers will try it. ”
1. What did Dr. Jason say about students at college?A.They are short of money. |
B.They need better textbooks. |
C.They should do part-time jobs. |
D.They are trying to get high scores. |
A.To choose cheaper textbooks. |
B.To write a textbook himself. |
C.To speak to his students. |
D.To use old textbooks. |
A.About 7 dollars. | B.About 30 dollars. |
C.About 37 dollars. | D.About 90 dollars. |
A.Dr. Jason’s textbook has CD-ROMs and nice pictures. |
B.More writers and publishers will write simpler textbooks. |
C.Dr. Jason teaches public speaking at a college. |
D.Dr. Jason’s textbook is not well received. |
Animals can help people, too. Dogs can be taught to become the “eyes” for a blind person or “ears” for a deaf people. Scientists have found that pets help people live longer! They make people happier, too. Because of that, animals are brought into hospitals for “visit”.
Americans hold “Be-Kind-to-Animals Week” in the first week of May.
Pets shows are held during the week. Even if you don’t live in America, you, too, can do this. How? First, think about how animals make your life richer. If you have a pet, take more time this week to play with it. Remember to give it delicious food. Also, be sure to keep your pet from those unwanted babies.
If you don’t have a pet, be kind to animals around you. For example, if you see a street dog, don’t kick it or throw things at it. Instead, just leave it alone, or better yet, make friends with it. If others around you do bad things to an animal, try to stop them. As people, we must protect animals who can’t speak for themselves.
1. “A few even leave all their money to their pets when they die!” means that__________
A.pets have the right to inherit (继承) money. |
B.money can give pets happiness. |
C.it’s the best way to spend money. |
D.some pets are taken as children. |
A.Because they are ill and need to see doctors. |
B.Because they can make the patients happier. |
C.Because they can find out the problems of the patients. |
D.Because doctors can do experiments on them. |
A.Holding a pet show in the week. |
B.Playing with pets the whole week. |
C.Cooking delicious food for pets. |
D.Making friends with other people’s pets. |
A.A lot of people are interested in dogs. |
B.Dogs can help people do many things. Z+X+X+K] |
C.Pets are lovely and need care and protection. |
D.We have done a lot of things for pets. |
A.the friendship between people. |
B.the friendship between people and animals. |
C.the friendship between animals. |
D.the friendship between men and women |
【推荐1】There is a Website called the “World Database of Happiness”. It combines and analyzes the results of hundreds of surveys from around the world that have been conducted on life satisfaction. Most of the findings are predictable, but a few are surprising.
The database makes it clear that there is not a strong connection between material wealth and general satisfaction. It is a cliche to say that money can’t buy happiness, but the old saying seems to be supported by research. Many people still believe that gaining riches will be the answer to all their problems, yet they are probably mistaken.
Studies have been carried out on people who got sudden wealth, such as lottery winners. In most cases, after the initial joy had worn off, people were not left with a sense of lasting happiness. In fact, they tended to go back to the way they felt before they became rich.
If material wealth does not bring happiness, then what does? Perhaps happiness has something to do with where you live. The authorities at the World Database on Happiness have surveyed levels of happiness in different countries. Obviously, people in America, Canada, and Singapore are very happy; people living in India and Russia, not surprisingly, are not happy.
Other surveys consistently point to the importance of relationships. Family relationships in particular seem to be the key to long-term happiness. The website suggests that falling in love and having children are two of the situations that bring the greatest happiness.
Nowadays people look to technology as another source of satisfaction. People increasingly spend more time alone watching TV or surfing the Internet rather than spending time with family. Can technology truly make people happy? It is too difficult to tell, but one thing is sure: If the website’s research is right, time spent with your family is a better investment than time spent making money.
1. The Website World Database of Happiness is designed to______.A.share stories of happiness | B.find out the reason for happiness |
C.conduct surveys around the world | D.tell interviewees how to be happy |
A.Traditional custom. | B.Proved theory. |
C.Famous report. | D.Popular belief. |
A.An unhappy man who has won a lottery in Singapore. |
B.A student who has three high-income part-time jobs in India. |
C.A mother who stays with her family everyday in America. |
D.A Russian falling in love with a soulmate recently. |
A.Levels of happiness vary from country to country. |
B.Making money is not the only way to happiness. |
C.It is uncertain whether technology make people happy. |
D.A good family relationship is the key to lasting happiness. |
A.Neutral. | B.Dissatisfied. | C.Supportive. | D.Doubtful. |
Many of us let our lives become so busy with work and other commitments that we don’t get around to scheduling time for pleasure and renewal(叙旧)with the friends, relatives and acquaintances we already have.
Making the effort to call your friends more regularly and to accept more of the invitations you receive from others can improve your social life in a hurry!
Are there any people you could call right now and be assured of a pleasant welcome? Are there people that you could count on to help you in time of difficulty? Can you have close talks with them? Do you have fun when you are together? Are you happy to have them in your life?
If you haven’t seen much of them lately, is it because you have become too busy? Have you grown apart? Was there an argument?
If the main reason you haven’t been getting together with the people you already know is that you have got too busy, take a good look at how you spend your time. Compare it with your real values and priorities(优先考虑的事)in life. Is your busy lifestyle really bringing you the quality of life that you want?
If you have become too busy for friends, why has this happened? Are you seeking material toys in your life at the expense of relationships with other human beings? Have you allowed your time to be over-committed because you never say “No” to anyone? Do you insist on doing things yourself that could be appointed to others? If so, why? Do you believe that everything depends on you?
Examine whether the way you are now spending your time accurately reflects your deepest values and priorities. Make sure that you schedule adequate time for the things that are truly most important to you.
If you really want to keep friends in your life, make a space in your schedule, and a space in your heart for them.
1. In this passage the author mainly discusses ____.
A.how to balance friendship and work |
B.how to spend our spare time |
C.whether we should keep friendship |
D.whether we should invite friends to dinner |
A.You have someone to count on when you are in trouble. |
B.You have someone to have close talks with. |
C.You have fun when you are with someone. |
D.You feel depressed with others in life. |
A.you spend too much time seeking material toys in your life |
B.you feel it difficult to keep friendship |
C.you stick to doing everything all by yourself |
D.you never refuse whatever other people ask you to do |
【推荐3】Happiness is for everyone. You don’t need to care about those people who have beautiful houses with large gardens and swimming pools or those who have nice cars and a lot of money and so on. Why? Because those who have big houses may often feel lonely and those who have cars may want to walk on the country roads in their free time.
In fact, happiness is always around you if you put your heart into it. When you are in trouble at school, your friends will help you; when you study hard at your lessons, your parents are always taking good care of your life and your health; when you get a success, your friends will say congratulations to you; when you do something wrong, people around you will help you to correct it. And when you do something good to others, you will feel happy, too. All these are your happiness. If you notice a bit of them, you can see that happiness is always around you.
Happiness doesn’t mean money. It is a feeling of your heart. When you are poor, you can also say you are very happy, because you have something that can’t be bought with money. When you meet with difficulties, you can say loudly you are very happy, because you have more chances to challenge yourself. As the saying goes, life is like a revolving door. When it closes, it also opens. If you take every chance you get, you can be a happy and lucky person.
1. When you do something wrong , people around you will .A.quarrel with you | B.help you correct it |
C.do something wrong like you | D.laugh at you |
A.Oh, so do I | B.Congratulations! |
C.Good luck! | D.Just so-so |
A.People who have cars would never like to walk in the open air. |
B.You can get help from others when you are in trouble. |
C.You can still be a happy person even if you have little money. |
D.Happiness is always around you though difficulties come towards you. |
A.parents always care for our life and health | B.we’re not happy if we meet with difficulties |
C.happiness is always around us | D.life is colorful |
【推荐1】Every parent wants their children to develop well.
Way of communication. A game for a child is also a way to convey to an adult their experiences: joys, anxieties, fears, hopes, expectations. Often, through the game, the child tells parents something important about himself and learns something important about his parents. The game is a way to be closer, to feel the support, care and love of parents.
Development of social skill and familiarity with social roles.
Pleasure and joy. The game brings pleasure, joy and a lot of other positive emotions to the child and the significance of this cannot be underestimated (after all, even for adults, positive emotions are very important: they support us, help us develop and look at life positively).
A.Knowledge of the world. |
B.Education and development. |
C.Therefore, it is very important that parents find time to play together with their child. |
D.Joint games best teach adults to understand their children and find a common language with them. |
E.Also, through the game, the child learns to be proud of his success, which supports his self-esteem. |
F.In games, children learn to follow the rules, control their behavior, develop communication skills with peers and adults. |
G.Sometimes it seems that a child’s game is empty entertainment and it would be better to replace it with something more useful. |
【推荐2】Spare the rod, spoil the child (不打不成器). Many parents believe it.
“We are not saying that spanking (打屁股) children must cause violence, but parents are taking it as an example for their children.
In the study, Temple’s group interviewed 758 persons. About 69 percent said they were spanked during childhood, and
Parents are the most important people to children and
A.children learn nearly everything from them |
B.they thought spanking was nature and that no one was perfect |
C.A new study showed that physical punishment was not good for children |
D.Spanking may be useful in the short-term for children |
E.When children who were spanked grow up |
【推荐3】Educational authorities have asked schools to make sure students have 10-minute breaks between classes after hearing complaints that some school students are not allowed to leave classrooms during breaks-unless they need to go to the toilet-- to ensure their safety.
Some students said teachers often overrun by a few minutes, and that some start their classes a few minutes before the breaks are scheduled to end. In these cases students do not even have time to go to the toilet.
A mother of a primary school student in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province said her child’s school does not allow students to leave the classroom building during breaks. They are also forbidden to jump, run around or speak loudly.
The issue has caused a heated discussion on social media platforms.
“Teachers do not want to supervise students during class breaks. However, if students have accidents, some parents will still hold schools accountable,” said one netizen in a comment that received more than 10,000 likes. Another said, “Teachers are also tired, but the school makes such a requirement, and they have to follow.”
An official from the Ministry of Education said that it is important for schools to ensure students have time to rest during class breaks, which can help students relax, be healthy and avoid myopia (近视).
The ministry attaches great importance to class breaks, the official said. Apart from breaks between classes, schools should also make sure students have a 30-minute break each day for exercise. The ministry will urge local authorities and schools to implement the policies and prevent the practice of restricting class breaks in the name of “ensuring students safety”, the official said.
1. According to some parents, who is to blame if students have accidents during class breaks?A.The children. | B.The schools. |
C.Educational authorities. | D.The parents. |
A.Because they have a lot of homework to do. |
B.Because the teachers often end the classes late than scheduled. |
C.Because schools want to ensure the students’ safety. |
D.Because the students are told to do so by their parents. |
A.relaxation for students. | B.avoid being short-sighted. |
C.wellness of the students. | D.playing happily. |
A.Schools will be urged to ensure students to have moderate class breaks. |
B.Although tired, teachers are willing to supervise students during class breaks. |
C.Students do not have time to go to the toilet because teachers often overrun by a few minutes. |
D.Parents are in favor of not allowing the students to leave classrooms. |