Most people can think of a time when they were in a bad mood after a long day at work and a shop assistant gave them a warm smile. Or maybe they overheard their bus-mate speaking German and ended up filling the morning commute(通勤)with a stimulating conversation about an upcoming trip.
Nicholas Epley, a psychologist at the University of Chicago conducted a study. Participants speaking to strangers on public transportation during their morning commutes reported having a more enjoyable commute.
Epley shared why speaking to strangers may have such a mood boosting impact. Loneliness, Epley explained, is one of the most dangerous social stressors and is even more physically harmful than obesity(肥胖). “It’s larger than air pollution, which we spend an awful lot of time worrying about.” Making connections with those around us can reduce loneliness and its harmful impacts.
Despite all the benefits of conversing with strangers, there are some factors that hold people back from new social connections.
Psychologist Gillian Sandstrom thinks that people don’t talk with strangers, simply because most people don’t have the skills or confidence to do so. To address this, she ran London-based events to help people gain confidence in initiating conversations with strangers. Sandstrom said, “By the end, those participants don’t want to stop talking.”
Sandstrom wanted to take this success a step further and she started hosting events where people were forced to talk with strangers. For example, using the app GooseChase, Sandstrom made a campaign that required participants to talk to people with a variety of characteristics. This event was also successful with four fifths of participants sharing that they learned something new, and nearly half hoping to keep in touch with a new-found friend.
People spend so much of our day around strangers, such as in line at the store, on public transportation, and in the office. Why not take advantage of being around people you don’t know? Flash a smile or start up a conversation, and you will make two people’s day nicer.
1. Why does Nicholas Epley mention air pollution?A.To show the strong impact of loneliness on mood. |
B.To highlight the significance of making connections. |
C.To introduce the benefits of conversing with strangers. |
D.To prove the necessity of creating a good environment. |
A.They provide new job opportunities. |
B.They are highly enjoyed by the participants. |
C.They boost people’s confidence in society. |
D.They explore why people don’t talk to strangers. |
A.By referring to quotes. | B.By listing examples. |
C.By making comparisons. | D.By showing statistics. |
A.To urge people to interact with strangers. |
B.To relieve commuters from awkwardness. |
C.To help people improve communication skills. |
D.To remind people to pay attention to their surroundings. |
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I am a 30-year-old woman with no friends. I have always been shy and a bit of lonely.
In the first couple of years after graduation I kept in touch with most of my friends but gradually they scattered(分散) around the country. My best friend Lily and I were roommates for a while but we had a fight. We both admitted mistakes but refused to apologize. After that she grew very close to the new roommate she got after I moved out. Then she moved across the country and that just made it harder to repair our friendship.
About three years ago I was seriously injured in an accident. After that I got chronic(慢性的) pain. I had to change my job as a result. I get along well with the colleagues (同事) at my new job but no friendships really form, mostly because of large age differences. And at the same time, the friends from my old job gradually gave me up. They said that I never gave them enough attention.
I live in a small town with very little to do. The entire social place is only made up of bars, bars and more bars. It’s really not my thing. I can’t drink because of the medicine I take, and it’s really no fun to go to a bar and be the only person there who doesn’t drink.
I don’t think I’m a difficult person. I’m kind, patient, and a good listener. People seem to like me, but no one seems to want to be friends with me. What should I do?
Yours,
Erica
1. What is Erica’s problem?A.She can’t find a job. |
B.She suffers from chronic pain. |
C.She has difficulty making friends. |
D.She can’t get along well with her colleagues. |
A.she doesn’t enjoy drinking |
B.she pays little attention to her colleagues |
C.she is too shy to communicate with others |
D.she isn’t in the same age group as her colleagues |
A.ask for advice | B.share her problems |
C.complain of her loneliness | D.apologize to Lily |
【推荐2】How can teenagers keep themselves from suffering from loneliness? Here are some suggestions for speeding a recovery from loneliness.
Find a safe place to make connections. If going to the dancing party makes you feel like you just don't belong, try joining a special-interest group.
Find other ways of making connections. Lonely people hunger for friendship. Sometimes feeling accepted and liked comes more easily when you do something for others rather than waiting for them to make you feel better.
You get what you expect, so expect the best. If you expect others to be friendly, you will behave in proper ways that encourage people to be friendlier to you.
A.Choose the right people. |
B.Loneliness won’t last long. |
C.So consider becoming a volunteer. |
D.Reach out to others but start small. |
E.It can be hard work to be positive toward others. |
F.Maybe it's the drama club or the marching band. |
G.This harmful attitude can continue into adulthood. |
【推荐3】I was first introduced to Puppies Behind Bars (PBB) when I watched a special on Animal Planet. This non-profit organization is the brainchild of Gloria Gilbert Stoga, a kind-hearted woman from New York PBB is a program in which specially-selected prisoners from prisons are trained in the preparation of puppies to become service dogs for the handicapped(残疾人), or police dogs to serve police forces.
My wife and I were so moved when we watched the program. It is a win-win situation at all points. First, it makes a prisoner, who may never have the chance to be released, go back to the community by joining in this program and offering every minute of every day working, loving, and training a puppy for future service. It is difficult for them, but they realize the importance of this program. In addition, most of them have the chance ( for the first time in their lives) to experience warm love through an animal.
Second, the program saves tens of thousands of dollars that it would cost to train these dogs through traditional ways. All donations to the program are used to buy dog food, training supplies, and veterinary care.
Finally, our society benefits from service dogs which can protect people from danger, search and rescue humans after a serious disaster, or become the lifeline for a handicapped person. The last of these goes far beyond the fact that dogs can open.
Fridges, answer the phone or do a dozen other daily tasks. They give a sense of freedom back to a person who has had it taken away by illness, accident, or warfare.
Because of this we have given a lot of monetary support of this meaningful program.
1. What does the underlined word "brainchild" in Paragraph 1 probably mean?A.Founder. |
B.Idea. |
C.Pain. |
D.Wealth. |
A.are being trained for the government |
B.will be adopted by prisoners |
C.will serve the disabled and police |
D.can play games with children |
A.be for policemen and prisoners |
B.be spent on things for dogs |
C.be used to train dogs in traditional ways |
D.be handed out to the disabled |
A.To ask people to support the police. |
B.To indicate the significance of PBB. |
C.To call on people to care for dogs. |
D.To praise Gloria and her workmates. |
【推荐1】“What will you do if a person you don’t know wants to give you a ride?” I asked my children. “What if he says Mom is hurt, and you have to come to the hospital with him?” I knew they pretended to listen to me, because I interrupted their TV time.
Here I also want to ask some parents, “Have you ever told your children how to protect themselves?” If you haven’t, I would like to give you four words to help you teach your children how to protect themselves.
No! If a stranger walks to the children, they should keep their distance from the stranger. If the stranger keeps walking to them in a terrible manner, they should run quickly and shout “No!” as loudly as possible.
Go! If the shout does not change the situation, they should run as quickly as possible to a safe place. It is helpful for children to know some safe places such as schools, restaurants and gas stations.
Yell! It means that the children should shout loudly. They can yell out, “Stranger!”
Call! Once they get to a safe place, they should call their parents, teachers or other persons they trust.
1. The underlined word “pretend” means in Chinese.A.故意 | B.假装 | C.喜欢 | D.讨厌 |
A.One. | B.Two. | C.Three. | D.Four. |
A.a teacher | B.a policeman | C.a mother | D.a doctor |
A.In a travel guide. | B.In an ad. |
C.In a storybook. | D.In a newspaper. |
【推荐2】Americans celebrate Labor Day this year on September 5. The national holiday began more than 100 years ago to honor low-paid factory workers.
Labor Day also marks the end of summer. Many students return to school after Labor Day. The hot days of summer turn cooler. Many Americans celebrate the holiday with an outdoor family picnic.
But Labor Day started with a struggle(奋斗). On May 1,1889,workers marched(游行) on the streets of Paris, France. International Labor Day was born. Most industrialized countries in the world—except the United States and Canada—celebrate Labor Day on the first of May.
On September 5, 1882, in New York City, about 10,000 workers walked through the streets to show the strength of labor organizations. For many years after that, American workers used the first Monday in September to ask for better working conditions and pay. Music was a part of many of those marches.
Labor songs traditionally tell stories of conflicts(冲突) and hopes for a better life.Many traditional American labor songs came from workers in the coal mines of the South. Mine owners were against workers’ unions. In Kentucky, the company police searched for union leaders. They waited outside a worker’s home for several days to stop him from organizing marches. The coal miner’s wife, Florence Reece, stayed inside with her children. She wrote this song, “Which Side Are You On?”
Another American labor song is called “Bread and Roses”. Based on a poem by James Oppenheim, it was published in December of 1911. The poem speaks about the women’s labor movement. At that time, conditions in factories, where many women worked, were dreadful. A fire at a clothing factory in New York killed 146 people.
A month after Oppenheim’s poem was published, women workers in Lawrence, Massachusetts went on with their marches, which won them higher pay and better working conditions. Oppenheim’s poem received more attention.
1. What does Labor Day mean to students in the United States?A.It’s time to have a picnic. |
B.Their summer vacation is over. |
C.It teaches them to respect labor. |
D.They can learn about history through activities. |
A.To force him to stay at home. |
B.To prevent his wife writing the song. |
C.To try to communicate with him. |
D.To stop marches from being organized. |
A.Pleasant. | B.Freezing. | C.Terrible. | D.Controllable. |
A.He cared for working women’s rights. |
B.He created the song “Bread and Roses”. |
C.He reported the fire at a clothing factory. |
D.He led the labor movement in Lawrence. |
【推荐3】Asia has long tradition of tea-drinking. And China is no exception.
However, lately more and more Chinese people are turning to a different drink. Coffee has become an increasingly popular choice of Chinese people living abroad and in the country’s huge cities. It is also a popular crop among those living in the mountains of southern Yunnan Province.
In big cities such as Beijing, coffee shops seem to be on nearly every major street corner. These shops are not just selling drinks from Starbucks, the world-famous coffee company. Coffee businesses from South Korea, Taiwan, HongKong and Britain are also operating in China.
Tea-drinking is steeped in the culture and traditions of many countries, like China and Japan. But is that changing? Are young people from Asia now choosing a cup of coffee instead of tea?
BeiBei Su is from China. She has been living in the United States for the past eight years. Before that, she lived in Italy for two years. Ms. Su says she likes tea better than coffee. But she adds that may not be true among the young generation in China. Many young Chinese people drink coffee socially ---when meeting with friends. Yang Lin lives in the U.S. but comes from an area in China famous for growing tea. She used to only drink tea while in China. But now, she says, she drinks both and for different reasons.
Yang Lin says that drinking coffee for her is a social event. She and her co-workers like to sit in a cafe and talk over a cup of coffee. Voyo is another Chinese woman who now lives in Washington, D.C. She says that after moving to the U.S. her tastes changed. We would call her a coffee convert, someone who now chooses to drink coffee.
With more people drinking coffee, many see an economic(经济的)opportunity for Chinese-grown beans. China-grown coffee could be a money-maker even if most of the coffee on sale in China is imported(进口的).
1. What does the author mainly introduce?A.Chinese people have long tradition of tea-drinking. |
B.More and more Chinese are choosing coffee to drink. |
C.People in big cities like drinking coffee better than tea. |
D.More Asian people are turning to different drinks. |
A.A person who has changed to drink coffee. |
B.A person who has changed to drink tea. |
C.A person who has changed to grow tea. |
D.A person who has changed to grow coffee. |
A.Because she lives in the U.S. Now. |
B.Because she can talk with friends. |
C.Because she has drunk tea so long. |
D.Because her tastes has changed. |
A.less and less coffee will be imported in China in the future. |
B.the China-grown coffee beans will be sold to the world soon. |
C.the need of coffee will offer more chances to make money. |
D.Chinese economy will depend on coffee beans in the future. |