Though many people tell us we can’t succeed, we need to hear others,opinions. I remember my high school English teacher telling me not to apply to Cornell University because they wouldn’t accept me and even if they did, I wouldn’t be able to do the work. I almost didn’t apply but a few days later I saw Ivan Goldfarb, a former teacher and asked him about Cornell. He said, “If you get in,then you go. You can do it.” His words made all the difference. I applied, and was accepted.
Too often we think it’s our role to put “reality” into someone’s life. We think it’s our job to protect people from the pain of failure and defeat. We think we must point out how bad the economy is and how horrible the job market is and how the sky is falling. We think that dreams are meant for others.
I say there are enough “realists” in the world. The world doesn’t need more negativity and impossible thinkers. The world needs more optimists,encouragers,and inspirers. The world needs more people to speak into the hearts of others and say “I believe in you.” “Follow your passion and live your purpose.” “The job market is not great but I believe you’ll find the right job for you.” and so on.
When it comes to encouragement, I know that everyone loves working for and with people who bring out the best in us. And while we'll always remember the negative people who told us we couldn’t accomplish something, we will always cherish and hold a special place in our heart for those who encouraged us.
Today I want to encourage you to be an encourager. So often the difference between success and failure is belief. And so often that belief is instilled (逐步灌输) in us by someone who encouraged us.
1. After a talk with the English teacher, the author thought .A. he would have a try even if he was to meet with a failure |
B.he cast much doubt on what the teacher had said |
C.whether he should give up his dream |
D.he should turn to another person for advice |
A.One who can foresee your failure in the future. |
B.One who can analyze the severe situation ahead. |
C.One who is willing to help you with your work. |
D.One who can stimulate your courage and creativity. |
A.Your casual words may have a big effect on others. |
B.It is better not to tell truth when you are asked for advice. |
C.No one on earth is content to believe a true word. |
D.Teachers should be cautious of what they do. |
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【推荐1】Fitness trackers are damaging youngster's mental health.
"You have physical as well as mental consequences," he said. "I see the early stages of that. It is not long before the competitive instinct (本能) could become quite unhealthy." Then, writing in Attain, the Independent Prep School Association's magazine, he said: "Wearable activity trackers have become steadily more mainstream over the last few years, so much so that an increasing number of children are wearing them.
Mr. Dunlop said that some children are "particularly easy to be influenced by obsessive (过度沉迷的) behavior in pursuit of certain goals, such as 30,000 steps a day". He said "responsible, well-meaning parents" may think they are helping their children by responding to the problem of childhood inactivity.
In fact, Mr. Dunlop says that such items are "entirely unnecessary" as in most cases,
If parents really want their children to develop active lifestyle, they should encourage them to take part in sociable sporting activities, Mr. Dunlop advised.
A.because their children are already very active. |
B.Parents should stop encouraging their children to wear them. |
C.A new tracker designed for children over eight has been launched. |
D.Used well, the data they provide can be invaluable in promoting fitness. |
E.Those include contributing towards anxiety or other mental health issues. |
F.By all means use these things but make sure to get them involved in sports clubs. |
G.The trackers can measure data from the number of steps you take to your heart rate. |
【推荐2】For several months,Cara has been working up the courage to approach her mom about what she saw on Instagram.Not long ago,the 11-year-old girl,like all the other kids in this story,discovered that her mom had been posting her photos for much of her life.“I’ve wanted to bring it up.It’s strange to see myself up there,and sometimes there are pictures I don’t like of myself,”she said.
Like most other modern kids,Cara grew up immersed in social media.While many kids may not yet have accounts themselves,their parents,schools,sports teams,and organizations have been organizing an online presence for them since birth.The shock of realizing that details about your life have been shared online without your permission or knowledge has become an important experience in the lives of many teenagers.Recently a parenting blogger(博主) wrote in a Washington Post essay that despite(不顾) her 14yearold daughter’s horror at discovering that her mother had shared years of highly personal stories and information about her online,she simply could not stop posting on her blog and social media.The writer said that promising her daughter that she would stop posting her publicly on the Internet would mean shutting down a vital part of herself,which isn’t necessarily good for herself or her daughter.
But it’s not just crazy mommy bloggers who construct a child’s online identity;plenty of average parents do the same.There’s even a special word for it: sharenting.Almost a quarter of children begin their digital lives when parents upload their photos to the Internet,according to a study conducted by the Internetsecurity firm AVG.The study also found that 92 percent of kids under the age of 2 already have their own unique digital identity.
1. How does Cara feel about her mom’s behavior?A.It’s aggressive. | B.It’s appropriate. |
C.It’s annoying. | D.It’s favorable. |
A.A quarter of students. |
B.Most ordinary parents. |
C.Kids under the age of 2. |
D.Some crazy bloggers. |
A.Children’s New Trouble |
B.Social Media |
C.Kids’ Online Performance |
D.Mommy Bloggers |
【推荐3】A role model is a person who others look up to admire. A role model provides inspiration and motivation for others. Role models send messages about their beliefs by what they do and say.
Role models are self-confident and happy with who they are. If role models show that they have great confidence, those who look up to them will, too.
Role models handle stress positively. Being humans means having to constantly deal with stress and overcome difficulties.
Role models show respect for others. How you treat others speakers volumes(充分说明)about who you are.
A.Role models are always trustworthy |
B.A good role model also does what he says |
C.Role models have trust in being themselves |
D.Here are some qualities of positive role models |
E.A role model sets a good example of how to deal with pressure |
F.If you want to become a good role model, follow the tips below |
G.A good role model listens to others and also considers opposing points of view |
Use your head. Think of special moments when you were a child, times you’ve shared with your mom, things she did for you, and why you love her. Write down how those moments influenced you. Write down everything you can think of. This is your inspiration for the poem.
Look at what you wrote and pick out those things that are connected(有联系的). See if any words rhyme(押韵). It’s fine to write a free poem(one without rhymes), but many people find poems with rhymes are easier to work with, easier to read and quite catchy(容易记住的). If no words rhyme but you want your poem to, try to find connecting words that can help connect memories.
Once you have a few sentences, put them in a good order. For example, you could start with a childhood memory and end with something you remember from last month.
Add a title that shows the feeling of the poem. Even something as simple as “For Mom” can work, although something more personal might be better.
Write it in pen if you have beautiful handwriting. Read the poem over breakfast on Mother’s Day, and then hand it to your mom. Let’s wait and see the smile and tears of happiness on her face.
1. Why does the author suggest writing down everything you think of?
A.Because it will show your mother’s love. |
B.Because it will bring you inspiration. |
C.Because it can be shared with others. |
D.Because it can help answer questions. |
A.it is easier to read and remember |
B.it makes the poem more interesting |
C.it shows the unforgettable moments |
D.it shows how things are connected |
A.can be read easily and quickly |
B.includes a few sentences |
C.has some special words. |
D.shows the feeling of words. |
A.what to do on Mother’s Day. |
B.what to buy for Mother’s Day. |
C.how to write a Mother’s Day poem. |
D.how to write good poems for Christmas. |
Listen to your inner voice. Remember that inner voice that keeps whispering to you what you really want and need as well as what you do not really want and need. It is about time you started listening to it. In order to get to know yourself in depth, it is important to learn and accept what you want and what you do not want.
Learn to enjoy your own company. You will be surprised to find out how many things you can do by yourself and actually have fun in the process. Reading romantic novels, poetry or science fiction is only a few of the things that you can do by yourself, which can not only offer you hours of enjoyment, but also the chance to get to know yourself better.
Satisfy yourself. Pay special attention to your personal hygiene(卫生).Do your hair and nails often and experiment with new styles. Follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly to stay in good shape. No matter how busy your daily schedule is, always find at least an hour per day for yourself, when you can either relax doing absolutely nothing, or doing something that you enjoy.
Learn to respect your own boundaries. Find out what your boundaries are and learn to respect them. You are the only one who knows what you can and what you cannot accept;no one else can point that out to you, or force you to compromise(妥协).
1. If you want to have a good relationship with others, you should first________.
A.learn to be your own best friend |
B.make many friends in society |
C.always tell the truth |
D.get into the habit of living alone |
A.To keep a good state of mind. |
B.To enjoy the time by yourself. |
C.To know more about yourself. |
D.To form a relationship with others. |
A.eating healthily |
B.exercising regularly |
C.experimenting with new hair styles |
D.keep on struggling |
A.How to develop good relationship with others |
B.Avoid the disadvantages of being alone |
C.The benefit of having good friends |
D.Learn to get along with yourself |
【推荐3】How to deal with frustration
From time to time terrible things occur. When something awful happens in our life, we always feel sorry for ourselves and it is natural to fall into a negative feeling of frustration.
When you feel frustrated by life it can be hard to feel thankful for the blessings in your life.
Another lesson of positive psychology is that your own problems are often relieved when you make an effort to help others. When you’re volunteering your time, doing random acts of kindness, or simply trying to make a positive difference in the lives of others, your brain will produce more dopamine(多巴胺), which gives you a sense of pleasure.
Finally, I am sure you have heard the old saying, “
A.Don’t judge a book by its cover. |
B.The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. |
C.But that is when you need to feel grateful the most. |
D.You should set aside some “me time” to rest and restore. |
E.It hurts us and keeps us from making the proper decisions. |
F.You can actually relieve your own frustration by doing others a favor. |
G.The most practical way to feel grateful is to start a gratitude journal. |