The quality of patience goes a long way toward your goal of creating a more peaceful and loving self. The more patient you are, the more accepting you will be of what life is, rather than insisting that life be exactly as you would like it to be. Without patience, life is extremely frustrating.
Patience is a quality of heart that can be greatly enhanced with deliberate practice.
Being patient will help you to keep your perspective. You will see even a difficult situation, say your present challenge, isn’t "life or death" but simply a minor obstacle that must be dealt with.
A.An effective way that I have found to deepen my own patience is to create actual practice periods. |
B.You are more easily annoyed and bothered. |
C.It is generally believed that the quality of being patient is very difficult to develop. |
D.Becoming more patient involves opening your heart to the present moment, even if you don't like it. |
E.Without patience, you will see the same scene as an emergency complete with yelling, frustration, hurt feelings. |
F.If you lack patience, you are destined to fail in what you are pursuing. |
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My mother read the little poem and began to cry. “Buddy, you didn’t really write this beautiful, beautiful poem!” Shyly, I said that I had. My mother poured out her welcome praise. Why, this poem was nothing short of genius!
What time will Father be home?” I asked. I could hardly wait to show him what I had accomplished. My mother said she hoped he would be home around 7. I spent the best part of that afternoon preparing for his arrival. First, I wrote the poem out in my finest handwriting. Then I used colored pens to draw a border around it. Then I confidently placed it right on my father’s plate on the dining table. But my father did not return at 7, Seven-fifteen, Seven-thirty. My father had begun his motion-picture career as a writer. He would be able to appreciate my poem even more than my mother.
It was almost 8 o'clock when my father burst in. He was an hour late, but he could not sit down. I can see him now, a big Havana cigar in one hand, the rapidly disappearing drink in the other, calling down bitter words on his employees.
Suddenly, he paused and glared at his plate. There was a silence. He was reaching for my poem. I lowered my head and stared down into my plate.
“What is this?” I heard him say.
“Ben, a wonderful thing has happened,” my mother said. “Buddy has written his first poem. And it’s beautiful, absolutely amazing”.
“If you don’t mind, I’d like to decide that for myself,” Father said.
I kept my face lowered to my plate. It was only 10 lines long. But it seemed to take hours. I remember wondering why it was taking so long. I could hear him dropping the poem back on the table again. Now was the moment of decision.
“I think it’s bad,” my father said.
I couldn’t look up. My eyes were getting wet.
“Ben, sometimes I don’t understand you,” my mother was saying. “This is just a little boy. You’re not in your studio now. These are the first lines of poetry he’s ever written. He need encouragement.”
“I don’t know why,” my father held his ground. “Isn’t there enough bad poetry in the world already? No law says Buddy has to become a poet.”
I couldn’t stand it another second. I ran from the dining room, threw myself on the bed and cried.
That may have been the end of the anecdote(轶事) — but not of its significance for me.
A few years later I took a second look at that first poem, and unwillingly I had to agree with my father’s tough judgment. It was a pretty bad poem. After a while, I worked up the courage to show him something new, a short story. My father thought it was overwritten but not hopeless. I was learning to rewrite. And my mother was learning that she could disapprove of me without ruining me. You might say we were all learning. I was going on 12.
As I worked my way into other books and plays and films, it became clearer and clearer to me how fortunate I had been to have had a mother who said, “Buddy, it’s wonderful!” and a father who shook his head no and drove me to tears with his, “I think it’s bad.” In fact all of us in life need that mother force, the loving force from which all creation flows; and yet the mother force alone is incomplete, even misleading, finally damaging, without the father force to caution, “Watch. Listen. Review. Improve.” Between the two poles of affirmation (肯定) and doubt, both in the name of love, I try to follow my true course.
1. What did the mother think of the Buddy’s poem?
A.She was so moved that she cried. |
B.She believed Buddy needed advice from his father. |
C.She considered Buddy had no talent for poetry. |
D.She thought the poem was well written. |
A.Then I confidently placed it right on my father’s place on the dining table. |
B.He would be able to appreciate my poem even more than my mother. |
C.I wrote the poem out in my finest handwriting. |
D.I could hardly wait to show him what I had accomplished. |
A.My father began to explain his reasons |
B.My father thought his comment is unreasonable |
C.My father refused to change his opinion |
D.My father got so angry that he rose to his feet |
A.cruel and stubborn | B.loving and matter-of-fact |
C.bad-tempered and rude | D.cautious and strict |
A.The incident helped the writer work his work further as a writer. |
B.The author only realized the significance of the incident after becoming a writer. |
C.After the incident, the author stopped writing but tried his luck in plays and films. |
D.The incident completely changed the author’s course of life. |
【推荐2】I was grocery shopping recently in my hometown, N.Y., when I heard a young voice rise. “Mom, come here, you’ve gotten see this! There’s this lady here my size!”
The mother was mortified and rushed to a boy she called Mikey, who looked to be about seven; then she turned to me to apologize. “Oh, I’m so sorry.”
I smiled and told her, “It’s okay.” Then I looked at her wide-eyed son and said, “Hi, Mikey, I’m Darryl Kramer. How are you?”
He studied me from head to toe, and asked, “Are you a little mommy?” “Yes, I have a son,” I answered.
“Why are you so little?” he asked.
“It’s the way I was made,” I said.
It takes only one glance to see my uniqueness. I stand three feet, nine inches tall. I am an achondroplasia dwarf (软骨发育不全的侏儒). Like most achondroplasia dwarfs, I have two average-height parents, as well as an average-height brother. When I was born, my mother was told in the hospital that I was a dwarf. Not knowing a lot about dwarfism, my mom’s main concern was my health. Our family doctor put her mind at ease when he told her he felt I would not have any major medical concerns. He was right.
When I was growing up, my parents encouraged me to do all the things the kids around me did. So when my neighbors got two-wheel bikes, I got a two-wheel bike. When they roller-skated, I roller-skated. I didn’t see anything different in my parents’ eyes about me. Why should I look at myself differently? Therefore, I just tried to smile and accept the fact that I was going to be noticed my whole life. I was determined to make my uniqueness an advantage rather than a disadvantage. And when I accepted myself as I was, life wasn’t that difficult after all. Most people around me were friendly and protective.
I’m 47 now, and it’s the children’s questions that make my life special. “Why are you so short? How old are you? Are you a mommy?” When I talk with children, they leave content that their questions have been answered. My hope is that in taking time with them, I will encourage them to accept their peers, whatever size and shape they come in, to know that every human deserves due respect.
1. The underlined word mortified is closest in meaning to________.A.angry | B.ashamed | C.interested | D.grateful |
A.That she almost died at birth. |
B.That her parents loved her more than her ordinary-sized brother. |
C.That her parents treated her as an ordinary person. |
D.That all the people around her were protective and kind. |
A.Because she wants to tell them about the rare disease. |
B.Because she notices that children are usually kinder than adults. |
C.Because she also has a child and wants to be a loving mum. |
D.Because she expects them to respect every human. |
【推荐3】Courtney Rich of Utah, was running in the Salt Lake City marathon. But as she headed into Mile 24, she began to feel the one thing that she didn’t want to do: collapse. It began creeping up on her and then suddenly overtook her.
“I wanted them to see Mom finish strongly. Those are things I tell my kids as often as I can when things are hard or they’re playing in their own sports. ‘Just do your best and that best is going to be a little different every day,’” she said. But at that moment, she knew she wasn’t going to be able to finish the race. “When I can feel my legs slowing down and I know I’m going to disappoint my kids,” Rich said. “By Mile 24… I looked at my watch and that’s when I called my husband and was in tears,” she said. “I was just having a little pity party for myself for a minute.”
“Next thing I knew, my daughter ran out,” Rich recounted. “I kind of saw her out of the corner of my left eye and I realized it was Avery. I just put a huge smile on my face. I stuck out my hand, she grabbed it and all of a sudden, my legs that were hurting and the heaviness of my body just felt lighter and we just ran to the finish line hand in hand.”
The proud mom said Avery told her that she did what she knew her mom needed at that moment. “That is absolutely Avery’s character. She sees people. She has sympathy. She notices people and is aware of just feelings and needs,” Rich said.
“Don’t ever brush aside the inspiration to do a small act of kindness for someone because you just never know what impact that will have on people,” Rich added.
1. What happened to Rich on Mile 24?A.She was disturbed by a party. | B.She was overcome by tiredness. |
C.She was struggling to cross the finish line. | D.She received an unexpected call from her husband. |
A.Confused. | B.Refreshed. | C.Astonished. | D.Worried. |
A.She is reliable and creative. | B.She is energetic and friendly. |
C.She is sympathetic and considerate. | D.She is ambitious and intelligent. |
A.Failure is often the case in our life. |
B.Inspiration is more important to a successful mother. |
C.We should hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. |
D.The smallest moment of kindness can have a huge impact. |