Switching from childhood to adulthood can be challenging. Oftentimes, you may still feel like a child. Work on not acting like a child by managing your emotions. With a little bit of practice,
● Accept responsibility for your actions.
You should take responsibility for your actions, whether they are intentional (故意的) or unintentional.
● Show people respect.
Respect your partner, family members, friends, and strangers.
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When you are faced with a conflict, it is important to keep your emotions in check. Control your anger and avoid becoming aggressive. Take a deep breath, listen, and work through the conflict with the other individual. Give yourself time to cool down if you are really angry. This will prevent you from saying and doing things that you shouldn’t do in the heat of the moment.
● Receive feedback (反馈) positively.
People learn and grow by receiving feedback and criticism from others. You should accept that you don’t know everything and that feedback from an expert is not meant to hurt you.
| A．It is meant to help you. |
| B．Take on responsibilities. |
| C．Develop a way to handle conflict maturely. |
| D．It is a sign of maturity and respect for others. |
| E．Children are often selfish and disrespectful. |
| F．it is impossible for you to reach your goal like an adult |
| G．you will begin to see yourself acting more like an adult than a child |
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【推荐1】You can be hurt by other people in life. That is a fact. And some of those hurts can even leave scars that affect how you think, act and relate to others.
Remember you can’t please every single person especially a critical one.
Refuse to fight back. When we are hurt, the instant reaction is to fight back.
It cannot be denied that dealing with other people effectively is one of the most important things you can learn in life. After you’ve mastered that you’re about 95 percent down the road to finding happiness.
| A．No one can do that. |
| B．Choose emotionally healthy friends. |
| C．Also, the deepest wounds are caused by rejection. |
| D．Realize that you don’t need others’ approval to be happy. |
| E．You should firmly believe you are happy as you choose to be. |
| F．Then how do you handle the people who send you into depression? |
| G．However, striking back only lowers you to the opponent’s level of immaturity. |
【推荐2】When it comes to happiness, our present selves habitually get deprived (剥夺).
When we are doing these, it’s as if we put true happiness in a package addressed to us at some future time when circumstances will be just right for it to happen. Yet, the package keeps getting lost.
What causes this? How can we avoid this result? We should know the reason why we make such choices and why our future selves seem like strangers to us is partially due to the abstractness of tomorrow. The solution is to make the future more vivid and create an emotional connection between the present and future selves. Here are several ways to strengthen the connection.
Visualize the best version of yourself.
Imagine yourself in old age. Looking back at now, what do you wish you would have done more or differently with your time?
Once you do such things, you will make choices that will benefit both your present self and future self.
| A．Start a conversation between the selves. |
| B．What will your future self thank you for? |
| C．We often put feeling happy to the future us. |
| D．Learn to communicate with others through letters. |
| E．What impression did you leave on those around you? |
| F．This can make what you do today for the future more worthwhile. |
| G．As a result, we are left without enjoyment of the moment in front of us. |
【推荐3】The bee population is dropping sharply. In some areas, losses of honeybees are reported to be as high as 75 percent.
Few of us are research scientists and able to spare some lab time to help bees, but there are things we can all do to help bees.
Provide bee shelter. Unlike honeybees, which live in man-made bee boxes, natural bees make use of many kinds of shelter: dead trees, branches and underground nest tunnels.
Avoid using garden pesticides (杀虫剂). Pesticides are bad for bees. Search for organic and natural means of pest control. You’ll find plenty of tips at OrganicGardenPests com.
Support your local beekeepers. Beekeeping as a hobby has reduced in recent years. Lack of funding and changes in bee populations have made raising bees less attractive, but we still rely heavily on honeybees to pollinate our crops and gardens.
| A．Ensure the safety of honeybees. |
| B．Plant things that bees like. |
| C．Seek out your local beekeepers and buy their honey. |
| D．Bees prefer flowers that are blue, purple or yellow. |
| E．The situation means a lot more than high honey prices. |
| F．Try cherry trees, orange trees and other flowering trees. |
| G．You can help wood-nesting bees by setting out a few inexpensive bee blocks. |
