There are many differences in the way different cultures raise kids. International visitors notice the fact that children are special in China. However, the way some Chinese people treat these very special kids may shock some foreign visitors.
When I told a Chinese mother her child was beautiful, I was nonplussed when she replied, “No, she’s not;she’s ugly.”
Since that time I have heard many similar comments(评论), including, “No, he’s not bright; he’s stupid.” This is a huge cultural difference that needs to be understood when you talk about kids with your international visitors.
Someone explained it to me, “We Chinese don’t want to appear too proud.” I’m sure there are other people in the world who feel the same way, but most people in my country would consider you a terrible parent if you said your kid was stupid or ugly. They would think you were breaking the child’s self-confidence. When we Americans say something good about our child, we don’t think we are being proud because we are saying it about the child, not about ourselves. In this way, we separate the child from the parent as two different persons.
You may think I sound too proud when I freely say to another westerner: “My daughter is smart and pretty.” Of course, I still have to teach her not to be proud, but I can be proud of her. It’s just the way she was made, and I’m thankful for that.
So, in the US when we say something nice about our own kids, it is not considered being too proud but rather, being thankful and being a good parent.
根据短文内容, 选择最佳答案。
1. The underlined word “nonplussed” in Paragraph 2 probably means ________.
A.hopeful | B.worried | C.regretful | D.surprised |
A.Yes, she is smart and pretty | B.Yes, she takes after me |
C.No, she is not so beautiful | D.No, her new look doesn’t matter |
A.he is from the US | B.he is visiting America |
C.he is a Chinese parent | D.he is an expert in education |
A.often feel proud of themselves | B.have similar feelings as Chinese parents |
C.just say something nice about the kid | D.try to build a good relationship with their kid |
A.how to teach kids in different countries | B.how to be good parents in different cultures |
C.how US parents feel about themselves | D.how Chinese and US parents talk about kids |
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【推荐1】Many people in Asia and around the world will celebrate the Lunar New Year starting on January 22. The new year is called the Year of the Rabbit in China and the Year of the Cat in Vietnam. How the cat replaced(替代) the rabbit in Vietnam is still the subject of debate.
Both countries follow a calendar based on 12 signs of a zodiac represented by 12 animals. No one knows exactly how the 12 animals came to be named. But ancient storytellers said the Jade Emperor, or the Buddha, organized a race across a river for all the animals in the world. The first 12 to reach the other side would appear in the animal signs
In the Chinese version of the story, the cat and the rat were riding across a river on an ox when the rat pushed the cat into the water. The rat won the race, turning the two animals into enemies. That is why cats have been hunting rats ever since.
In the Chinese story, the rabbit crossed the river by jumping on the tops of stones in the river. When the rabbit got there, no others were around, so it went off to the side and slept. By the time the rabbit woke up, three others had already arrived.
However, in the Vietnamese version—which did not have a rabbit—the cat could swim and ended up arriving fourth. The top twelve finishers which appear in the animal signs were rat, ox, tiger, cat (or rabbit), dragon, snake, horse, goat, monkey, rooster, dog, and pig.
Philippe Papin is a professor on Vietnamese history at the Ecole Pratique des Hautes Etudes in Paris. He told the Northwest Asian Weekly in 2011 that one possible explanation for replacing rabbit with cat might have something to do with language. He said in old Chinese, there is a little-used word tied to the sign of the rabbit that is pronounced like mǎo. The pronunciation is similar to mèo, the Vietnamese word for cat.
This year, a website, VNExpress, said many Vietnamese are buying new cat-themed cases for their mobile phones. And one of the top Google searches in Vietnam is “why there is no cat in the Chinese animal signs.”
1. What is true about Chinese and Vietnam animal signs?A.Both include the Cat and the Rabbit. |
B.Each animal sign represents a lunar month. |
C.There are 12 animal signs appearing in a fixed order. |
D.People know exactly where the animal signs came from. |
A.The rat and the ox. | B.The cat and the rat. |
C.The rabbit and the ox. | D.The cat and the rabbit. |
A.It was decided by a professor. |
B.The cat was better at swimming. |
C.The rabbit arrived fourth in the race across a river. |
D.The Chinese sign mǎo sounds like the Vietnamese word mèo. |
A.Vietnamese like cats more than the other animals. |
B.Buying new cases for mobile phones is a tradition in Vietnam. |
C.The Lunar New Year is celebrated only in China and Vietnam. |
D.More and more people are interested in cultural difference. |
A.Story about Chinese animal signs | B.Race between the Cat and the Rabbit |
C.Year of the Cat or Year of the Rabbit | D.Differences between China and Vietnam |
Even if you, especially young audience(观众)complain about the Spring Festival Gala, watching it while having Lunar New Year’s Eve dinner has become a common way for families to get together. It’s much more than just a TV program, it’s also a way to bring family members together and get them talking during the holiday. Think about how you’ll watch the gala and discover its fun.
1. Share your opinions(观点)about the programs and artists with your family members. Introduce artists who young people enjoy to the elderly memebers of your family, such as “fellow brother” William Chan, or former(以前的)singing group EXO members Kris Wu and Lu Han.
2. Post your compliments and complaints on micro blogs and WeChat moments to share with friends. Then they will know what you’re satisfied with and what you complain about. In recent years, the gala is trying to attract young people by using Internet slang(俚语). Guessing when and what Internet chat lingo(术语)will be mentioned in the show is surely going to be hot on social media. Will there be “drunk and tired”(也是醉了)? Have a bet with friends.
3. Online video websites such as IQiyi and Youku have introduced a real-time online discussion system. All comments(评论)are displayed on the screen. You can try watching the show in this interactive(互动的)way instead of the traditional TV sets so that you may know others’ opinions about the programs in the Spring Festival Gala.
1. What does the underlined word “compliments” mean?
A.praise | B.advice |
C.messages | D.instructions |
A.Using Internet slang to attract young audience. |
B.Introducing types of programs in the Spring Festival Gala. |
C.Watching the Spring Festival Gala on the online video websites. |
D.Posting compliments and complaints on micro blogs and WeChat moments. |
A.not all 1.3 billion Chinese are satisfied with the Spring Festival Gala |
B.winter holiday season is the time when family members get together |
C.several ways for audience to discover the fun of the Spring Festival Gala |
D.the Spring Festival Gala is the best way to bring family members together |
【推荐3】Different countries celebrate the New Year in different ways, and at different times. New Year celebrations in some countries (like the USA) don't last (持续)long. But in some countries (like China, Vietnam, and Korea) they can last two weeks. This is what people often do to celebrate the festival.
Country | Things people do |
Japan | People eat a special kind of noodles, hoping for a long life. |
Mexico | People wear red or yellow clothes for good luck. |
Brazil | People wear white clothes for good luck. |
China | People wear red clothes and eat dumplings. |
Scotland | People open the front door to let in the new year, and open the back door to let out the old year. |
Korea | People drink a kind of cold wine for good health. |
1. New Year celebrations are usually short in ______________.
A.China | B.the USA | C.Vietnam | D.Korea |
A.Mexico and China. | B.Brazil and China. |
C.Scotland and Mexico. | D.Brazil and Scotland. |
A.Because they want to have good luck. |
B.Because the noodles are very nice to eat. |
C.Because they think it can help them live longer. |
D.Because they want to say goodbye to the old year. |
A.They open all the windows. |
B.They open the front and the back doors. |
C.They drink a kind of cold wine. |
D.They wear white clothes for good luck. |
A.People in different countries make different wishes for New Year. |
B.People in different countries eat different food for New Year. |
C.People in different countries wear different clothes to celebrate New Year. |
D.People in different countries celebrate New Year in different ways. |
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When Coach said he was looking for a parent volunteer, I told my dad the team needed his help. He was so excited that he ran to warm up with the other players. Before I could explain to him Coach actually wanted him to prepare halftime snacks, the referee (裁判) blew her whistle.
We all crowded around Coach to find out what positions he wanted us to play. When he asked us what playing soccer was all about, my dad shouted, “Winning!”
“Dad,” I whispered, “playing soccer isn’t all about winning.”
“It isn’t?” he asked in surprise.
“No,” I said. “It’s all about having fun.”
“Got it!” he said.
But I don’t think he got it. He waved to the parents and watched planes fly by. During the rest, I told him what he did wasn’t helping the team. “You need to listen to Coach, Dad,” I said. “You need to get your head in the game!”
“Got it!” he said.
But I don’t think he got it, either, because he started acting like he was the only one on the field instead of playing his own position.
And when the other team scored a goal (进球), he got angry as if our goalkeeper had let the ball in on purpose (故意). “You’re not being a good sport, Dad!” I shouted.
“How can I be a good sport if we’re not winning?” he asked.
“I don’t know what we’re going to do with him,” I whispered to Coach. Coach said my dad had energy and enthusiasm. “If we’re patient and keep showing him what it means to be a team player, I’m sure he’ll understand it,” he said
I agreed to keep working with my dad. And I’m glad I did because you know what? Coach was right!
1. What does the phrase “get your head in the game” mean?A.Take the lead in the game. | B.Pay all your attention to the game. |
C.Play the game with your wisdom. | D.Hit the ball into the net with your head. |
A.Active but helpless. | B.Creative but unconfident. |
C.Energetic but impatient. | D.Humorous but unfriendly. |
A.He would help the team win at last by himself. |
B.He would impress others with his excellent skills. |
C.He would act like he was the only player on the field. |
D.He would cheer others up even if they missed the ball. |
To my surprise, the seller stopped his work, looking at me with puzzled (困惑的) expression, and asked me,"Go ahead?”“Yes," I said, "go ahead". He pointed at the fish in all seriousness, and repeated veryseriously, "Head?" Paying no more attention to him, I turned back to chat with my mother. Suddenly,"Bang, bang, bang," was heard from the counter. Quickly, the seller passed the four fish without headsto me.
I asked loudly, "Why did you cut all the heads off?" The seller was also very angry and said, "Didn't you tell me to go ahead again and again?"On hearing what he said I felt funny as well as angry. It turned out that he considered "go ahead" as "cut the head off". No wonder he asked me several times about it!
1. The writer went to ____ with her mother that day.
A.a restaurant | B.a beach |
C.a supermarket | D.a park |
A.Go on cleaning the fish. |
B.Continue walking. |
C.Cut off the heads of the fish. |
D.Go around. |
A.the writer asked him to do so |
B.he was angry with the writer |
C.he wanted to cut off the heads |
D.he didn't understand what the writer said |
【推荐3】It was my 9 years old that we left our home in Los Angeles and arrived in London on a gray January morning. Everyone in the family was pleased with this new city except me. Without my lovely beaches and endless blue—sky days, for a long time, I couldn’t be used to living here until I found Southbank.
Southbank is the center of British skateboarding. I saw so many people ride skateboards there. I knew it would bring me new life and soon I made friends with the local skaters. We spoke our own language, especially my favorite—Safe. In different situations, Safe had different meanings. It meant cool. It meant hello. It meant don’t worry about it. Once, when trying a certain trick (技巧) on the beam (横杆), I fell onto the stones, hurting my hand, and Toby came over, helping me up. “Safe, man. Safe,” he said. A few minutes later, when I landed successfully, my friends beat their boards, shouting loudly, “Safe! Safe! Safe!” And that is the most important—landing perfectly. It means success.
When I was 15, my family moved to Washington. I tried skateboarding there, but the locals were far less welcoming. Within a couple of years, I’d given it up.
When I returned to London in 2004, one day I came back to Southbank, spending hours there. The day was cold but clear. Tourists and Londoners stopped to watch the skaters. Walking among the kids who rushed by on their boards, I went towards the beam. Then a thin teenager, in a white T-shirt, skidded (滑) up to the beam. He sat next to me and asked, “Are you new here?” “I was a local here 20 years ago,” I told him. Then, slowly, he began to nod his head. “Safe, man. Safe.”
“Yeah,” I said. “Safe.” The sun at that time was so bright that it seemed to bring me back to the past. I belong here and the “Safe” makes me feel at home.
1. What can we learn about the author soon after he moved to London?A.He felt disappointed. | B.He gave up his hobby. |
C.He liked the weather there. | D.He was used to living there as his family. |
A.Be careful! | B.Well done! | C.No way! | D.Don’t worry! |
A.To join in the skateboarding. | B.To make new friends. |
C.To learn more tricks. | D.To experience his childhood days again. |
A.Skateboarding is very interesting. | B.Children need a sense of belonging. |
C.Seeing the world is a must for children. | D.Sport is necessary for children’s health. |