Normally, we talk about the spirit of giving, and it is important to do this. But we hardly hear any talk about the spirit of receiving. Very few people know how to receive a gift kindly. Therefore, while we are receiving a gift, we are actually rejecting it. And we turn off the flow(流动)of love by refusing to allow the other person to experience the joy of giving.
A man knew that his wife dreamed of having a fur coat, but he couldn’t afford to buy her such a coat. He loved his wife very much and he wanted to make her happy. Finally, he decided to start a fur-coat-buying project. He saved money in every way that he could. Two years later, he bought her a fur coat, not one of the most expensive ones, but a nice fur coat. He gave it to his wife on her birthday. When she saw the coat, she said, “Oh, Bill, how could you? You know how much we need a new sofa.” Then after a while, she said, “But it is nice, thank you.” But the husband’s feelings were hurt. Two years of love was hurt by her words—she didn’t accept a gift kindly.
Do we often act this way when we receive a gift? Are we sometimes too proud, or too cold? Or are we not strong enough to let the other person do the giving?
Are you unwilling(不情愿的)to allow the other person to experience the joy of giving? After reading this passage, you may know what to do when you receive a gift next time.
1. The underlined word “rejecting” means________ in Chinese.A.接受 | B.答应 | C.传递 | D.拒绝 |
A.the man had a very good job |
B.the man saved money in order to buy his wife a gift |
C.the woman started a sofa-buying project |
D.the woman thought the fur coat was not as nice as her friend’s |
A.sad | B.happy | C.relaxed | D.shy |
A.giving is more important than receiving |
B.we should be proud of what we have |
C.receiving a gift kindly is very important |
D.the man and his wife should learn how to get along with each other |
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【推荐1】Radio host: Good evening, this is Star Talk. Today we invite our old friend Susan to share her story.
Susan: Good evening. Today I’d like to talk about a girl—Stella Green. She inspired (鼓舞) me most.
I teach climbing in the camp. One morning, we were watching a video about climbing when Stella Green came. She opened the camp door sitting on a wheelchair (轮椅) and told me she wanted to go climbing. We didn’t understand why such a disabled (有残疾的) girl came here.
At first, I was afraid Stella would feel sad. I moved the wheelchair closer to the wall. When Stella stood up, she took the first climbing hold and began to put her feet on the other holds. I soon knew that those legs didn’t need me. They could finish the climbing themselves. And move after move, Stella made me surprised and cry. When reaching the top, she cried out happily.
From this experience, I know Stella and I have a great lesson—never give up (放弃), trust yourself and do all you can.
That’s all. Thank you.
1. Why did Stella come to the camp?A.Because she wanted to watch the video. |
B.Because she wanted to go climbing. |
C.Because she wanted to talk to Susan. |
A.Excited. | B.Understanding. | C.Worried. |
A.梯子 | B.货架 | C.支撑点 |
A.Stella’s action inspired her. |
B.She was so sad to see Stella climbing hard. |
C.She was afraid Stella would get hurt. |
A.e-mail | B.report | C.program |
【推荐2】I’m Jenny. I was moved by a story last summer. When I went to a friend’s house as a guest, I found a wooden sign hung on the door. It reads, “Before entering, bring back your happiness. ”
After entering the house, I saw the wife and the husband were both harmonious(和睦的), two children were friendly and polite.
I naturally asked them about the wooden sign. The wife looked at the husband with a smile, “You tell the story. ”The husband then looked back at the wife, “You tell the story.”
Finally, the wife said softly and slowly, “Once when I got home, with the worried eyes. When my children and husband faced this worried face, what would they feel? If I also faced such a face, what would I feel? Then I could imagine my children’s silence and my husbands indifference(冷淡), I wrote a wooden sign and hung it on the door to remind myself. As a result, the sign reminded myself and the whole family. Something surprising happened in this way. Not only our family but also the guests to our house always become happy.”
1. Where did the writer find the wooden sign? ________A.On the door of her own house. |
B.On the door of her friend’s house. |
C.On the wall of her friend’s house. |
D.On the wall of her friend’s office. |
A.The wife. | B.The husband. | C.The family members. | D.A guest. |
A.The children usually kept silent at home. |
B.The wife returned home with a worried face. |
C.The guests to their house also become happy. |
D.The husband was indifferent at the dinner table. |
A.Bring Happiness Back Home. |
B.Learn to Cook Food for the Family. |
C.Hang a Wooden Sign on the door. |
D.Help Family Members Become Less Worried. |
【推荐3】There lives a young man who thinks himself to be poor. One day he visits a wise man to ask how to become rich. The wise man says, “Young man, you are already(已经) rich now.”
“But where is my wealth(财富)?” the young man asks.
“It is with you. Your eyes are your wealth. You use them to see this world. You use them to see all the beautiful things in this world. Your hands are your wealth. You can use them to work. You can use them to hug(拥抱) your beloved ones. Your legs are your wealth. You can go to any place...” the wise man says.
“You call these wealth? But everyone has them,” the young man says.
“These are wealth. What you have now is not what someone else can luckily have. Would you like to give your eyes to me? I’d like to give you a lot of money to exchange(交换) for them,” the wise man says.
“No, I’m not going to do so! My eyes are important to me!” the young man says.
Everyone is rich. We should treasure(珍惜) our wealth, and take care of it. We should not overuse it because once it is gone, it is gone forever. Remember it is our wealth that we do not want to lose.
1. Why does the young man go to visit the wise man?A.Because he is ill. |
B.Because he wants to be wise. |
C.Because he is the wise man’s friend. |
D.Because he wants to know how to become rich. |
A.the young man’s eyes | B.the young man’s eyes, hands and legs |
C.what someone else luckily have | D.our treasure |
A.he is already rich |
B.he doesn’t like the old man |
C.he thinks his eyes are important to him |
D.he doesn’t like money |
A.We can overuse our wealth. |
B.We should treasure our wealth. |
C.The wise man tells the young man how to make money. |
D.What you have now is what someone else can luckily have. |
A.A wise man | B.How to be rich |
C.Everyone is rich | D.What you don’t have is wealth |
One day he goes to a cinema. It is the first time for him to do that. He buys a ticket and then goes in. But after two or three minutes he comes out, buys a second ticket and goes in again. After a few minutes he comes out again and buys a third ticket. Two or three minutes later he comes out and asks for another ticket. Then the girl in the ticket office asks him before giving him the ticket, "Why do you buy so many tickets? How many friends do you meet?" Tom answer, "No, I have no friends here. But a big boy always stops me at the door and tears(撕)my ticket into pieces."
1. Tom doesn't go to _______himself.
A.the park | B.the fruit shop | C.the museum | D.the cinema |
A.the first | B.the second | C.the third | D.the fourth |
A.One. | B.Two. | C.Three. | D.Four. |
A.Tom goes to the cinema with some friends one day. |
B.Tom goes to the cinema for some times. |
C.Tom thinks the big boy lets him in after he tears the ticket. |
D.Tom doesn't understand what the big boy does. |
A.a teacher | B.a worker | C.a seller | D.a student |
【推荐2】Have you ever read Charlotte’s Web, a classic novel written by E. B. White? It is a story about a spider. She made friends with a pig and helped him.
Wilbur was an ill-fated(倒霉) pig. When he was born, he was so small that the farmer Mr. Arable decided to end his life. Luckily, Wilbur met the lovely and kind-hearted farmer’s daughter Fern, and she stopped him from killing Wibur and asked his father to give her the cute pig as her personal pet to feed in a barnyard(谷仓) .
Fern loved Wilbur more than anything. Wilbur grew day by day and made many friends in the barnyard. They are geese, sheep, a spider and soon. Of all these friends Wilbur’s favorite is Charlotte, a beautiful spider.
As the days went by, Wilbur grew and grew. He enjoyed good health and he gained a lot of weight. One day, the old sheep Samuel in the barnyard told him that he would be served as Christmas dinner this year. Wilbur turned to Charlotte for help. Having promised Wilbur that she would save his life, Charlotte decided to keep her promise. She had the idea of writing words extolling(赞美) Wilbur’s excellence, such as “a famous terrific pig” in her web. She made the farmer believe that Wilbur was some kind of supernatural animal, too important to kill.
Thanks to Charlotte’s efforts, Wilbur not only lived but also won a special prize at the fair(集市). Charlotte did everything in her power to keep Wilbur alive, but she was so tired that she finally died. The novel showed how a strong friendship could last through the hard time.
1. The writer of Charlotte’s Web is _________.A.Charlotte | B.Fern | C.Wilbur | D. E.B. White |
A. | B. | C. | D. |
A.Quiet and shy. | B.Lazy and serious. |
C.Honest and funny. | D.Clever and helpful. |
a. Fern kept Wilbur as her personal pet.
b. Arable decided to end Wilbur’s life.
c. Charlotte did everything in her power to keep Wilbur alive.
d. The old sheep Samuel told Wilbur that he would be killed.
A.b-a-d-c | B.c-a-d-b | C.d-a-b-c | D.a-b-c-d |
A.only the real friends will help you when you are in trouble |
B.Charlotte’s Web is such a funny book that is worth reading |
C.Wilbur was so special that Charlotte tried her best to save him |
D.we’d better make friends with animals because they can help us |
【推荐3】One day a dentist was starting his morning work. Suddenly a man ran in. His face was red and he could only say, “Quick! Quick!” The dentist thought he must be very ill. His assistant helped to make the poor man sit in a chair. The dentist gave the man some medicine to make him sleep. Then, he looked into the man’s mouth and pulled out all the bad teeth. As soon as the man woke up, he said in a low voice, “Quick, doctor, quick.”
“It’s all right now,” the dentist told him. “It’s over.”
“You don’t understand,” said the man. “I come to tell you your house is on fire.”
1. The story took place (发生)________.A.in the morning | B.in the afternoon |
C.in the evening | D.at night |
A.over | B.ill | C.all right | D.rich |
A.began to work | B.began to cry | C.went home | D.went to sleep |
A.a tooth | B.a bad tooth | C.all the bad teeth | D.all the teeth |
A.because he was ill | B.because he wanted to sleep |
C.to tell the dentist that he was all right | D.in order to say that the dentist’s house was on fire |