Giving gifts is a way of showing thanks or love. The rules of accepting (接受) gifts are different in China and in the West.
When Lucy, from the UK, gave a gift to her Chinese friend for the first time, she couldn’t understand it. “He refused (拒绝) to accept it twice, and when he finally accepted it, he didn’t open it. He just took it and put it away. After that, I never heard about it again. He never said he liked it or not.”
In the West, it is polite to open it in front of the giver and say thanks. When you get a gift, the giver hopes that you are thrilled and really like it. But it is different in China. Usually, people don’t open the gift until the giver leaves. If they open the gift in front of the giver, the giver will think they are not polite. For the same reason, the Chinese will refuse a gift twice or three times before accepting it. If you are the giver, give it again until it is accepted after the third time.
Today, some young people in China are turning to Western rules of accepting gifts. That’s OK, but it would be better to follow the Chinese people when it comes to getting gifts from elders.
1. What are different in China and in the West according to Paragraph 1?2. How many times did Lucy’s Chinese friend refuse the gift?
He refused it
3. What word means “兴奋的” in Paragraph 3?
It is “
4. Why didn’t the Chinese open the gift before the giver?
Because the giver will think they are
5. What do you usually do when people give you a gift?
I usually
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Han Ling agrees. “That sounds like my grandparents. A few years ago, my grandparents gave me an orange sweater for my birthday. I used to wear it every time I visited their house, but when I left their house, I took it off! Of course, this made me feel guilty(内疚的). It was a very nice thought, but my grandparents and I have different tastes! I think it’s hard to buy clothes or other personal things for people.”
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3. Why do some people like to give money?
4. What gift does John Wilson like?
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4. In which country do you have to take off your shoes before entering a house?
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*What to bring
Often it is also nice to bring something to your friend’s home. This could be a box of chocolate for you two to share, or maybe a movie that you can watch together. You can also bring some flowers. A little gift is a nice way to show that you are excited to be at his place.
*How to greet
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3. What should you bring when you visit your friend’s home?
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