Some Chinese parents like to set examples for their children, encouraging them to follow these examples. They like to compare their own children with     1     .

I dislike my parents comparing me with those who are better at something than me. They always look up to them and say that I’m worse than them.     2     it may encourage me to work harder, it will make me lose heart.

Am I really worse than others? Of course     3    . I am interested in Chinese and western history and I’m the king of stories in my class. Besides, as a fan of art, I draw pictures in my free     4     and sell them for money to help poor kids. But my parents can’t see that. All of my classmates hate “the children of others’ families”. So it’s a big problem. We just want our parents to cheer us up     5     of comparing us with others.

I know it’s not just me. Our culture is full of comparisons, and it’s very     6     for us not to look around at what other people are doing, what progress they are making. But all these years I’ve learned one thing: Whatever     7    , you must believe in yourself. Don’t give up. Just keep on doing your important work and     8     to be better and better.