1 . Do you feel nervous and stressed about living in the dormitory (宿舍)? Sharing a room with strangers may be challenging at the beginning, but it will turn out to be a precious experience in your life. Here are some tips on how to become best friends with your dormmates.
Agree on Some Basic Rules
Decide on the studying time, cleaning and visiting hours. Not only will it make your routine easier, but it can also help to avoid misunderstanding and quarrels.
Discuss the problems at once
You will escape many fights if you start talking about the problem once you feel it's necessary. When you accumulate the little things, they grow bigger and you may say some unpleasant things you don't really mean. Your dormmates simply cannot know or notice some things.
Respect Your Dormmates and Their Stuff
Using without asking is the cause of most conflicts and misunderstandings between dormmates.
Get to Know Each Other Better
You won't become best friends at once, but you can do a lot in order to develop a good relationship from the very start.
Your dormmates may be from other countries with different traditions, religion and views. Be careful with the stereotypes (刻板印象) and prejudgment, your ideas about the subject may be skindeep and incorrect. Most probably your overseas dormmates will need some help during the period of adaptation to the new surrounding and lifestyle. Sharing a room with an international student is a unique chance to learn another culture and language. Don't miss it!
A.Learning from each other |
B.Tolerance (宽容) Makes a Difference |
C.Tell them your own interests and preferences |
D.This is the essential rule of any good relationship |
E.That's why communication is always the right thing to consider |
F.Take an interest in their hobbies, family or academic preferences |
G.Being dormmates doesn't mean sharing everything with each other |
2 . Today, we are talking about money. I can share a bit about my history with money and my new view when it comes to using green paper.
I made a web page with links to posts about our financial (财政的) journey where you can look for more details of where we've been and how we got where we are now. It was a big part of my story in the past and was a huge part of our downsizing(精简) journey. We got out of debt and stayed out of debt.
So I feel eager(渴望的)to share the benefits of being on this side. It takes more planning and more careful thought whenever a dollar is spent now than it did when I had a wallet full of credit cards. I now like to think all of my dollars doing the job. So many of us work for money and don't consider that money should work for us, too. Make your dollars do the job of helping you live the life you want.
Each time money is spent or saved, it should be going toward something that you purposefully want for your life. Last week I was out and I spent $ 20 on food in 3 days. It made me angry because afterward I thought about eating is not at all what I want for my life.
On the other hand, there are times I spend $ 20 while out with my family and it doesn't bother(使烦恼)me one bit. An afternoon out with my kids during which we stop for ice cream, and do something fun together has a completely different feel.
In the end, I want the dollars I spend to have purpose like I can enjoy life while still planning and saving for the future.
1. The underlined words “green paper” in Paragraph 1 refer to“________”.A.money | B.work | C.newspaper | D.book |
A.by reading posts about their financial journey |
B.by going on a financial journey |
C.by making a web page |
D.by writing to him |
A.more credit cards should be used in our daily life |
B.we should work hard to make more money |
C.money should help us live better |
D.saving money is very easy |
A.Because the money is spent on food. |
B.Because the money is spent in doing something fun. |
C.Because eating is what he wants for his life. |
D.Because the money goes toward something that he wants for his life. |