1 . Years ago,I had a quarrel with a friend owing to a misunderstanding. It was ._______my fault, but I was afraid to admit that I was wrong, so we didn’t speak for a long time. Several years later we came across each other and decided to meet for lunch. It was so_______that we kept meeting. After two or three meals together,I felt_______to apologize for my behavior years earlier.
My experience is never unique. Many people_______apologizing because the idea of admitting to wrong behavior makes them_______uncomfortable. Apologies force us to admit to ourselves that we don’t always_______our own standards. We might also fear that the victim won’t_ _______our apology. We all like to_______ourselves as good people—as kind, honest and considerate. For these_______ , an apology can be very difficult to give.
Given my________, there is no doubt that an apology is a vital tool for________a relationship to make it functional again. Usually, a(n) ________apology is called for, but if the victim is angry at the wrong behavior, it may be more________to wait, because their________may prevent them from accepting our apologies. Also a delay________an apology’s effectiveness because it conveys that the offender has time to reflect on his/ her________. But a heartfelt apology has more powerful effects, which can improve our mental health and repair our________ personal relationships.________ ,expressing regret and acknowledging responsibility are equally vital. Without ________, it’s a good reason of your actions ; without responsibility, it’s an excuse.
My friend and I had lunch recently, 15 years after my belated apology. Admitting that everything had been my fault helped us heal our relationship. We’re both________to have our friendship today.
1. A.hardly | B.narrowly | C.completely | D.usually |
2. A.pleasant | B.awkward | C.ridiculous | D.strange . |
3. A.surprised | B.comfortable | C.terrible | D.forced |
4. A.allow | B.avoid | C.appreciate | D.advocate |
5. A.regretfully | B.easily | C.slightly | D.terribly |
6. A.go back to | B.look up to | C.give way to | D.live up to |
7. A.accept | B.analyze | C.exchange | D.check |
8. A.serve | B.view . | C.present | D.treat |
9. A.reasons | B.contents | C.comments | D.examples |
10. A.need | B.sense | C.experience | D.character |
11. A.developing | B.rebuilding | C.announcing | D.practicing |
12. A.frequent | B.permanent | C.immediate | D.formal |
13. A.convenient | B.effective | C.adventurous | D.inspiring |
14. A.anxiety | B.curiosity | C.anger | D.worry |
15. A.discovers | B.records | C.supplies | D.increases |
16. A.misdeeds | B.reputations | C.questions | D.decisions . |
17. A.damaged | B.disturbed | C.required | D.disabled |
18. A.Instead | B.Thus | C.Meanwhile | D.However |
19. A.challenge | B.regret | C.expression | D.influence |
20. A.tolerant | B.cautious | C.enthusiastic . | D.appreciative |