1 . John is a barber, running a very successful business. He has a large group of regulars, some of whom enjoy a daily shave in his shop, while others just come for the occasional haircut. They keep coming because John loves to laugh, and 30 minutes spent in his shop is a medicine that cheers everyone up. His loud, booming laugh is a trademark around his town.
But John wasn’t always a barrel of laughs. In his teens and early adulthood, he suffered from depression. He often had a long face and found it hard to even smile. It was his neighbor, Mrs. Lee, who was a psychologist, that helped him out. She showed him funny videos or read light-hearted books for him, guided him to focus on things he was grateful for, rather than on things that had been bothering him. Following her advice, he forced himself to laugh as wild as possible, even if it felt fake (假的). To his surprise, after a while, he turned his life around, and real laughter came back into his life again.
Researchers say that we’re all born with the ability to laugh and that finding more ways to bring laughter into our lives does not have to be complicated. In fact, the best advice they offer is “Fake it till you make it.” If you focus on finding ways to laugh and enjoy life and try to smile and laugh even when not feeling like it, you can genuinely change your mood and laugh happily.
John also says we shouldn’t hold back our urge to laugh, even at silly things. Next time you see a funny advertisement on television, making you laugh inside, focus on letting out that laughter. Laughter can be contagious, so you may help others around you, too.
1. Why do John’s regular customers keep coming to his shop?A.Because he is a successful barber. |
B.Because they want to buy a medicine. |
C.Because his laughing can lift their spirits. |
D.Because he can offer them best shave and haircut. |
A.Himself. | B.Researchers. | C.His neighbor. | D.His customers. |
A.It is difficult to find ways to laugh. |
B.Laughter can be faked and finally become real. |
C.The ability to laugh should be developed after birth. |
D.We can watch funny videos or read light-hearted books. |
A.spread | B.heard | C.free | D.available |
2 . When you left us, it was the end of a long, painful road. Since then, I was
I remember us taking our family dog for walks together on the
However, Alzheimer began its
Now, I am an adult, I wish I had been
A.reflecting on | B.searching for | C.taking over | D.setting up |
A.messy | B.rainy | C.towering | D.burning |
A.increase | B.dance | C.foil | D.produce |
A.story | B.book | C.picture | D.poem |
A.After all | B.In return | C.By accident | D.On earth |
A.edge | B.length | C.size | D.side |
A.direction | B.harm | C.procedure | D.march |
A.frightened | B.humble | C.frozen | D.cautious |
A.say | B.act | C.do | D.move |
A.brave | B.grateful | C.energetic | D.patient |
A.room | B.need | C.life | D.hole |
A.puzzling | B.boring | C.missing | D.discouraging |
A.had | B.sought | C.enjoyed | D.continued |
A.performances | B.targets | C.demands | D.expectations |
A.mean | B.treasure | C.count | D.value |
3 . Tips for you to overcome comparison
Identify your triggers (诱因) and avoid them. To stop comparing yourself to others, pay attention to the people or events that cause your behavior. Do you feel discontent with your life after looking at luxury goods?
Keep a gratitude journal. To start journaling, reflect on the little things that bring you joy and write down why you’re grateful for them. Keeping a gratitude journal can increase your chances of overcoming comparison, but you may forget about it if you have a busy schedule.
Work on improving your abilities. Instead of focusing on your “weaknesses”, reflect on the areas you can improve.
Appreciate others instead of envying them.
A.Write down your positive qualities. |
B.Do you set goals to achieve your dream? |
C.Consider the advantage that others can bring you. |
D.Recognize everyone’s circumstances are entirely unique. |
E.Take classes or workshops to develop your skills and techniques. |
F.Is there someone who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself? |
G.Set a reminder to write at least once a week so you can actively express appreciation. |
4 . Being highly critical or talking down to yourself are examples of self-criticism that highlight your own weaknesses. You may feel you don’t meet your own personal standards or expectations. Fortunately, you can improve this pattern of self-criticism by changing your thought patterns and practicing positive affirmations (情感上的支持或鼓励).
●What is self-criticism?
Self-criticism is the act of thinking negatively about yourself. Individuals with self-critical tendencies face self-created problems due to their tough standards and internalized social values for self-evaluation.
● Can self-criticism be good?
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People with avoidant (回避反应的) attachment styles avoid closeness. This may prevent them from developing relationships for how to show compassion (同情) for themselves and others. Self-criticism is also likely to arise from shame, insecure attachments, and having low self-esteem.
● Examples of self-Criticism
When individuals engage in negative self-assessment, they create an inner dialogue that uses demeaning (贬低的) and demotivating language.
● How can self-criticism be overcome?
To overcome self-criticism, it’s helpful to be honest with yourself about the role you play. You can start to identify how your self-criticism impacts your mood and daily routine.
A.Self-criticism isn’t always bad. |
B.Where does self-criticism come from? |
C.If so, please step outside your comfort zone. |
D.Self-criticism is associated with little progress. |
E.It’s also important to seek professional help as needed. |
F.Examples of self-criticism include phrases and negative self-talk. |
G.As a result, they’re unsure of their thoughts, feelings, and emotions. |
5 . How to Live a Fulfilling Life
How awesome would it be to get out of bed each morning feeling purposeful and happy about your day? What about going to sleep each night with a grin(露齿的笑)of satisfaction on your lips?
To lead a more fulfilling life, you first need to know what part of your current life is troubling or unsatisfactory. Reflect on different aspects of your life to figure out which are upsetting you the most. Try closing your eyes and questioning “What part of my life dissatisfies me the most?” Whatever comes to mind first is probably where you’ll want to start.
● Building good habits.One of the best ways to build good habits that support a fulfilling life is by doing something each day that challenges you. Identify one thing you can take action on that pushes you beyond your comfort zone and do it. This might be sharing ideas with your boss when you typically stay quiet.
A.Addressing your dissatisfaction. |
B.Learning to avoid dissatisfaction. |
C.It’s important to set aside “me” time. |
D.End each day by reflecting on your daily challenge. |
E.Replacing your bad habits with good ones is also suggested. |
F.That way, it will be just like any other task on your to-do list. |
G.This may seem difficult, but leading a more fulfilling life is entirely possible. |
6 . Emotions help you communicate and connect with others, and they drive your behaviors or decisions in everyday life as well. However, not all emotions are positive or easy to deal with.
The first “S” goes for self-awareness.
The second “S” is self-acceptance. This is often linked to greater well-being, while the experiential avoidance of emotions is linked to more negative emotions and symptoms of depression.
The third skill comes from self-compassion(自我同情). It is crucial to use this when things just don’t go well.
A.The last one is about setting boundaries. |
B.The fourth one refers to personal forgiveness. |
C.Remember to practise some self-care activities. |
D.Especially, mixed emotions can be challenging to manage. |
E.Accepting emotions never means you have to like bad ones. |
F.It is the key to fully understanding your own emotions and others’. |
G.Self-acceptance means tolerating all emotions, healthy or unhealthy. |
7 . A Way Out of Social Anxiety: Volunteering and Acts of Kindness
As a socially anxious introvert, I can attest(证明)to the benefits of serving others through volunteering in my community.
A volunteer job doesn’t need to require stepping into a busy room full of 100 people at a school or hospital.
Social scientists have an apt name for stressful social situations where we need to perform and would likely be judged or evaluated. The “social-evaluative threat” is particularly threatening for people with social anxiety as stress hormones rapidly increase. Any time we are in evaluative situations where we are judged by others, we face this social-evaluative threat and endure a sudden rush of stress hormones that increase anxiety.
“Kindness may help socially anxious people,” says Dr. Lynn Alden, a psychology professor at the University of British Columbia.
A.Some people are naturally reserved while others are rather outgoing. |
B.In social anxiety disorder, fear and anxiety lead to avoidance which can disrupt our life. |
C.Indeed, my own act of kindness has always been a sure bet to bring me out of my shell. |
D.Instead, my volunteer service consists of quiet one-on-one visits with isolated older adults. |
E.When I am giving my free time to help others, I feel truly liberated in my mission to serve. |
F.High-performance events such as public speaking or job interviews can be really unbearable. |
G.She and her colleagues conducted a study with 115 undergraduate students who had reported high levels of social anxiety. |
8 . It’s normal for us to feel nervous in some social situations.
Feelings of shyness or discomfort in certain situations aren’t necessarily signs of social anxiety disorder, particularly in children. Comfort levels in social situations vary, depending on individual personality. Some people are naturally reserved (矜持的).
In contrast to everyday nervousness, social anxiety disorder includes fear, anxiety and avoidance that affect relationships, daily routines, work, school and other activities.
There’s no way to predict what will cause someone to develop social anxiety disorder, but you can take steps to reduce its impact. One approach is to get help early. Anxiety, like many other mental health conditions, can be harder to treat if you wait.
A.And you can also keep a journal. |
B.And others can be more outgoing. |
C.Left untreated, social anxiety disorder can control your life. |
D.Social anxiety disorder typically begins in the early to mid-teens. |
E.There are some typical signs appearing on your body or in your mind. |
F.Several factors can increase the risk of developing social anxiety disorder. |
G.For example, going on a date or giving a speech may make you feel uneasy. |
9 . Feeling upset is a normal part of life. Something stressful may occur everywhere, and make you angry or anxious. We can’t control what is happening around us.
Conflicts with others can be difficult to deal with. Sometimes we need to leave from the unpleasant condition. It is OK to say, “I’m going to take a break” and go for a walk or find a quiet place to sit and cool off. The goal is to give yourself some space to calm down and consider what to do next.
Do breathing exercises to relax
When we’re upset, our nervous system will speed up our heart rate and muscles tense. It prepares the body as if to meet an attack.
Lift your mood with laughter
Laughter relieves the tension we feel when depressed. We can think of a joke or watch a video that always makes us roar with laughter. Afterward, you may be able to lift the fog of frustration. Make sure what you use is not mean-spirited, though.
Change your language
Once things appear disappointing, many of us might punish ourselves with unkind words. In fact, it doesn’t have to be this way.
A.Keep yourself away from the noise |
B.Remove yourself from the situation |
C.We should turn negative thoughts into positive statements. |
D.Those kinds of humor can actually make us feel more down. |
E.Thus, we can be physically and mentally entertained from that. |
F.You can soften such physical reaction by using practical techniques. |
G.However, we can decide how we behave and react to the troubles we face. |
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