1 . My grandfather was a rigid perfectionist. Everything had to be orderly, precise and punctual. I was frightened of him until the day he died. Growing up, my mother desperately wanted to please him. She probably thought he might leave if she didn’t.
In fact, I now think the fear of being left alone, abandoned, was a current throughout much of her life. A few years into my father suffering from Alzheimer, my mother’s voice on the phone sounded so upset that I had to tell her, “Just be with yourself for a little while.”
“No, I can’t do that. I don’t want to do that,” she said abruptly, closing the door on the subject. A while after my father died, she told me that she kept the television on all the time because it made her feel less lonely. “It makes the house seem more lived in,” she said. I had given in to my annoyance and either turned the volume down or turned it off. But after she told me that it filled in some of the loneliness, I never reached for the remote again.
We have had a long journey together, she and I. Over a half-century of memories, now that the journey has ended, I have a choice which ones to study which ones to turn over in my hands and dust off.
I choose to look at the ones that ache with a sweet truth not told often enough: there was love between us. It was just hard to find sometimes. I choose to remember her face on that winter day in Manhattan, when I came to her with a broken heart. I choose to remember walking on the shore with her in summers when we rented a beach house; somehow the sea always transformed us. And how she looked on my wedding day when she handed me a bracelet that had belonged to my grandmother. “Something old,” she said.
1. From the author’s point of view, what did her mother feel in her much time of life?A.A sense of relief. | B.A sense of excitement. |
C.A sense of being deserted. | D.A sense of being pleased. |
A.By giving examples. | B.By stating arguments. |
C.By interviewing her father. | D.By visiting her grandfather. |
A.express regret for her grandfather |
B.show her sympathy toward her mother |
C.reveal her deep feelings for her mother |
D.emphasize her concern about the generation gap |
2 . Positive emotions don’t just feel good—they’re good for you. Research shows that people feel and do their best when they experience at least three times as many positive emotions as negative ones. Here are some ways to increase positive emotions in everyday life.
Identify a positive emotion you want to increase.
Sometimes we forget the way back to feeling positive. We might need a reminder that can lead us back to a happier emotional place.
A.It’s a positivity “treasure chest”. |
B.Let’s say you want to feel more joy. |
C.Happy to see a film with your best friend? |
D.That’s when a positivity box is really helpful. |
E.Happy when your friends remembered your birthday? |
F.Collect things that remind you of positive emotional moments. |
G.Name the positive emotions you’ve experienced in your daily life. |
3 . Life became dull when social distancing began in March due to the coronavirus. The
That is, until July, when one of my
I don't remember the drive there, and even the scenery slowly
The coronavirus brought on the hardest couple of months of my life. But I wholeheartedly
A.years | B.months | C.centuries | D.seasons |
A.talk | B.reason | C.interact | D.compete |
A.ambition | B.determination | C.curiosity | D.desire |
A.relatives | B.friends | C.teachers | D.partners |
A.unwillingly | B.excitedly | C.sadly | D.hopefully |
A.frustration | B.disappointment | C.achievement | D.happiness |
A.profit | B.power | C.appeal | D.magic |
A.separated | B.resigned | C.disappeared | D.collapsed |
A.odd | B.fantastic | C.mixed | D.equal |
A.emptiest | B.largest | C.least | D.fullest |
A.jumped | B.crawled | C.climbed | D.crossed |
A.wild | B.attractive | C.dark | D.dangerous |
A.partly | B.completely | C.strangely | D.sadly |
A.believe | B.explain | C.infer | D.predict |
A.Adding | B.Replacing | C.Checking | D.Losing |
4 . A group of researchers in South West England suspected that young teens who were remote schooling due to the COVID-19 pandemic might be feeling more anxious. When they conducted a survey, however, what they found was surprising to them: the students were actually experiencing less anxiety.
The study, which was carried out by researchers at the university of Bristol, made use of an already ongoing study dealing with social media use and teen mental health. The participants had already done a baseline survey before the pandemic in October 2019. To assess the impact of the pandemic, another survey was done during the April/May time frame. Over 1000 year-nine students from 17 secondary schools in South West England were involved in the study.
The team found that 54 percent of 13-to14-year-old girls were at risk of anxiety prior to the pandemic, with that figure dropping by 10 percent during lockdown. Twenty-six percent of boys in the same age group were at risk during the initial survey, compared to 18 percent during lockdown.
Many of the teens also reported an increased sense of well-being while they were in lockdown.Boys reported a bigger improvement than girls.Also, those who reported the lowest sense of well-being prior to the pandemic experienced the greatest improvement. Emily widnall MSc, who was the lead of author of the study, said that she and her team were surprised when they said the results of the survey. “However when taking a step back,” she said, “we know that school for many young people can be quiet anxiety-provoking in terms of exam pressure and challenging peer relationships including bullying. This has been a really rare opportunity to understand how younger teenagers feel without the day-to-day pressures of school life. ”
Many students also reported feeling a greater connection to their schools with increased opportunities to talk with their teachers despite not physically being at school. “It may be because digital platforms could play a bigger role as a learning tool.”
1. Why did Emily carry out the research?A.To figure out why the teens were anxious during lockdown. |
B.To evaluate the impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic on teen mental health. |
C.To find out to fight with the COVID-19 pandemic. |
D.To know how social media use affect teens. |
A.Junior to. | B.Precious to. | C.Equal to. | D.Familiar to. |
A.Boys suffered from high level of anxiety than girls. |
B.Girls reported a bigger improvement in the sense of well-being than boys. |
C.The study was made up of data collected on two different occasions. |
D.Remote schooling can help teens get rid of pressures. |
A.Teens felt greater connections to schools. |
B.The pandemic had influence on teens. |
C.Teens reported mental improvements in lockdown. |
D.Social media helped the teens relieve stress. |