1 . When it starts to smell like home
In casual conversations, government documents, and formal job interviews, there is a simple question: “Where are you from?”
No matter what answer I choose, a small voice whispers in my head: I am not enough to say I am from Peru, Mexico, or the United States. To be from somewhere carries expectations of understanding, accepting, and reforming “your” culture, “your” home.
When I was walking through a supermarket, a memorable smell of bread drifted into my nose. Whenever Mom and I would stop by the bakery section of HEB, a Mexican supermarket, she would buy me this cheap sausage bread, the kind where the sausage would fall out of it on the first bite and you’re left eating the buttery, salty bread by itself.
Sadly, even with this inner feeling, nothing outer has changed. I will always feel a sense of loss in not having a physical home to “go back to”. Yet when a smell catches me off guard with the memories it brings, I am lucky enough to feel like I am “at home” in these brief moments.
A.I can never answer without hesitating. |
B.Instead what better home can I ask for? |
C.As if the blown dandelion have landed to grow. |
D.This sometimes leads to uncomfortable feelings. |
E.But what does it take for something to be “mine”? |
F.There are times when I feel envious of my friends. |
G.A simple smell of bread brings up a simple pleasure. |
2 . Having an off day when you feel stressed or sad is totally normal.
Take a few minutes to breathe deeply. The simple action of taking full, deep breaths can help you start to feel better. Deep breathing increases oxygen supply throughout the body.
Start keeping diaries.
Rely on your support system. Studies have shown the benefits of having a close support system of family and friends to whom you can turn. Social support leads to a sense of belonging and security rather than loneliness while dealing with emotional pain.
A.Take a break to laugh. |
B.Go ahead and cry if you need to. |
C.Take some time for yourself and treat yourself. |
D.It’s also been linked to an increased sense of self-worth. |
E.Writing down your feelings provides a great benefit. |
F.This can help to relax muscles and reduce your blood pressure. |
G.The good news is that there are things you can do for yourself to start feeling better. |
3 . Anger has a bad reputation.
But what if anger is a valuable-friend, not an adversary (对手) to be defeated?
Anger has one main purpose — to secure our safety and survival. We respond with anger when we are threatened or when our boundaries are violated (侵犯).
What we need is a willingness to experience anger without suppressing it or discharging it immediately. When we have the courage to remain present with our anger, we can look directly at it. We can investigate and come to understand it, and we can extract its wisdom.
Anger, like a fire, is a force. Left unchecked, it can be destructive.
A.Uncovering the wisdom of anger begins with feeling it fully. |
B.It gives us energy and power to overcome threatening situations. |
C.Yet when it is used wisely, it can be powerful beneficial instrument. |
D.When you come to see anger as a friend, you change your relationship with it. |
E.While anger sometimes involves aggressive tendencies, it also carries great wisdom. |
F.When we have the courage to remain present with our anger, we can look directly at it. |
G.When it bursts out, it can take control of our body, our thoughts, our senses, and our actions. |
4 . Have you ever wondered about the significance of emotions in our life?
Try using “I” statements.
Whenever your feelings are disrupted or you get hurt, it is good to tell others how you really feel.
In some situations, your loved ones could be hurting you through their words or their actions, and you could also be wrong. You must not let negative thoughts question your judgment. What happens in more than 70% of situations is that we let negative thoughts take hold of us, which is completely wrong. Whenever the other person is behaving in an upsetting manner, ask yourself if you have done anything to make them feel like that.
Take responsibility for your actions.
Just like your words, you need to take full responsibility for your actions. If you don’t own whatever you say or do, how can you become emotionally strong? Many people make silly excuses and don’t take responsibility for their actions, and that is where they hurt others and themselves. If you have made a mistake and hurt others in the process, apologize immediately.
Avoid negative people.
A.Always question your thoughts. |
B.Pay attention to emotional value. |
C.It won’t bring your self-respect down. |
D.You are known by the company you keep. |
E.Emotions play a critical part in our lives. |
F.Taking care of yourself should be prioritized over anything else. |
G.Masking your feelings or trying to be emotionless will only harm you. |
5 . We all know that staying healthy is important. So here is another health tip: Empathy, which refers to the ability to share another person’s feelings and emotions as if they were your own. How can this be? Isn’t empathy about focusing on the other person?
Empathy helps you survive
Empathy can save your life, which certainly is good for your health!
Empathy connects you to others
Stress may be brought on by many different things. Over periods of time, this state of pressure becomes unhealthy. When you fully engage in empathy, you draw on skills for emotion regulation (调节). In doing so, you are also controlling emotions that can be stressful.
Empathy guides your moral code of conduct
Perhaps larger than almost everything is how you treat others and expect to be treated.
A.Empathy can lower your stress |
B.How does practicing empathy benefit you |
C.Empathy encourages you to show your emotions |
D.How can empathy help you behave well in a connected world |
E.The ability to read others helps you make decisions in your favor |
F.Empathy connects you to other people in deep and meaningful ways |
G.Empathy helps you identify what you consider to be acceptable behavior |
6 . Test anxiety is a form of performance anxiety. Wanting to perform well can be a strong encouraging factor that helps you prepare for success.
Get a good night’s sleep. Since your brain is responsible for taking all the information you’ve studied and storing it for test day, getting seven to nine hours of sleep will help you remember what you’ve learned. Proper rest is also important for calming yourself.
Try to do some exercise. The importance of exercise goes far beyond (超出) its physical benefits. Exercise can also help you to calm your mind and relax. You can lift weights and practice yoga in the gym.
Form a picture of success in your mind. When you imagine success, you create a mental image (心理意象) of yourself performing well on the test and achieving your goal.
A.Take time to master what you’ve learned. |
B.Feeling rushed will only increase the anxiety. |
C.Don’t pay attention to what other people are doing. |
D.You can also go for a walk with your family outside. |
E.Therefore, have a good sleep when preparing for a big test. |
F.This can help prepare your mind and body for the test experience. |
G.However, the pressure to get a good grade may cause you to experience anxiety. |
7 . Confidence is a feeling of trust in your abilities, qualities and judgment. Building confidence is like building a house. You need to start with a solid foundation, then construct everything else from there. It takes time and effort to improve your confidence, especially if you haven’t had the opportunity to prove your skills in the past.
Do things you’re good at. What happens when you do things that you are good at?
Spend time with positive people. The people around you greatly impact how you feel about yourself. If judgmental or critical people surround you, it’ll take a toll(产生负面影响)on your mental strength. If, however, you’re interacting with people who can cheer others on and support one another, you’ll feel much better.
Take care of yourself. Focusing on you and what you need sometimes feel like it’s selfish,but it’s not!
A.Act as if you feel confident. |
B.Your self-confidence starts to rise. |
C.It’s a necessary part of being human. |
D.However, it is something that everyone can do! |
E.Think positively about yourself and your skills. |
F.Actually, it’s hard to feel good about yourself if you overuse your health. |
G.So focus on creating healthier relationships with the positive people in your life. |
8 . A growing number of psychologists are getting out the message that anxiety has a positive role to play in our lives. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, who recently published Future Tense: Why Anxiety Is Good for You (Even Though It Feels Bad), thinks our culture goes too far in demonizing (妖魔化) the difficult emotion.
Psychologist Todd Kashdan, director of the Well-Being Lab at George Mason University in Virginia, is a critic of what he calls happyology. We don’t always have to be smiley and calm, or worry there’s something wrong with us. Sometimes, he says, worry itself is what is right. Fear of heights? Good, because you’re not going to be the person who falls off a cliff while taking a selfie.
These experts wonder if the natural role that anxiety plays in our lives is somehow being forgotten. For example, the World Health Organization (WHO) announced in March 2022 that the prevalence of anxiety had increased globally by 25% over the previous year. The WHO called the finding “a wake-up call to all countries to step up mental health services and support”. Do we know for certain that this data represents a public health crisis? Or could it mean that millions of folks are quite rightly feeling uncertain, stressed out and afraid?
We can experience healthy, often completely valid periods of anxiety without being categorized as mentally ill, according to behavioral psychologists. Anxiety is an adaptive strategy in human evolution. It helps us to prepare for the uncertain future. Anxiety helps us solve unknowns by planning and imagining, by plotting out possible ways.
According to Alice Boyes, who has a PhD in clinical psychology, coping with anxiety by avoiding them just reinforces your insecurity, because you’re not getting better at solving the problem. “Over time, you will feel less and less capable,” she warns.
The key is to manage anxiety before it overtakes us, like tending a garden so the weeds don’t spread. How do you do that? Solutions include meditation, exercise, compassionate connection such as volunteering, access to nature and mentally reframing what we’re experiencing.
1. Which statement is Kashdan’s opinion?A.Fear may prevent you from taking dangerous actions. |
B.Happyology is quite popular among the young nowadays. |
C.Being smiley can stop us from worrying something wrong. |
D.Difficult emotions such as anxiety should not be demonized. |
A.Unclear. | B.Disapproving. | C.Objective. | D.Positive. |
A.Resists. | B.Increases. | C.Adjusts. | D.Reveals. |
A.The upside of anxiety. | B.The key to manage anxiety. |
C.The origin of difficult emotions. | D.The right attitude to negative emotions. |
9 . Do you think you need to shout at yourself to force yourself to finish your homework? If so, think again.
Self-compassion is the practice of being kind and supportive to ourselves. The opposite is being self-critical and mean to ourselves when we make a mistake.
A 2017 study found people who practice self-compassion tend to handle stress better. Their bodies have less of a stress response when, for example, they meet with difficulties at work or school.
With practice, we can learn to treat ourselves with kindness and unconditional love — not tough love.
A.So how do we develop self-compassion? |
B.It may be more effective to be kind to yourself. |
C.It includes letting go of your strict self-criticism. |
D.Mindfulness is the key to practicing self-compassion. |
E.But this approach does not make us feel or perform better. |
F.They have more confidence to look for areas where they can improve. |
G.Also, show ourselves kindness in ways that nourish (滋养) our spirit and body. |
10 . They say you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. But when it comes to tackling a tricky task, researchers have found that getting angry can also be a powerful motivator.
The experiments suggest people who are angry perform better on a set of challenging tasks than those who are emotionally neutral.
The study, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, details how researchers at Texas A&M University conducted experiments involving more than 1,000 people, and analysed survey data from more than 1,400 people to explore the possible impact of anger on people in various circumstances.
In one experiment, students were shown images previously found to cause anger, desire, amusement, sadness or no particular emotion at all. Participants were subsequently asked to solve a series of anagrams (变形词).
The results reveal that for a challenging set of anagrams, those who were angry did better — although no difference was seen for easy anagrams.
The researchers say one explanation could be down to a link between anger and greater persistence (坚持), with the team finding those who were angry spent more time on the difficult set of anagrams.
In another experiment, participants who were angry did better at avoiding flags in a skiing video game than those who were neutral or sad, and were on a par with (同水平) those who felt amusement or desire.
“This pattern could indicate that general physical arousal (激起) had a benefit for game scores, as this would be greater in anger, amused, and desire conditions compared to the sad and neutral conditions,” the researchers write. However, no such differences in performance was found when it came to an easier video game.
“People often prefer to use positive emotions as tools more than negative and tend to see negative emotions as undesirable,” said Lench, the first author of the study. “Our research adds to the growing evidence that a mix of positive and negative emotions promotes wellbeing, and that using negative emotions as tools can be particularly effective in some situations.”
1. What tasks did the researchers set for the students?A.Catching flies with honey. |
B.Helping analyze survey data. |
C.Putting tasks into different categories. |
D.Performing tasks in various emotional states. |
A.It brings team spirit into full play. |
B.It promotes a deep insight into the tasks. |
C.It increases effort toward attaining a goal. |
D.It changes challenging tasks into easy ones. |
A.Research result consistent with previous findings. |
B.Potential application of the research finding. |
C.A further explanation of the research method. |
D.A reasonable doubt about the research process. |
A.To present more proofs. | B.To draw a conclusion. |
C.To make a comparison. | D.To criticize old practices. |