1 . When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you focus on something you wish were different, and hear a critical inside voice?
1. Start with Mindful Awareness
Being aware of how you are treating yourself is really the first step.
Then, instead of criticizing yourself, be curious about what you did and the reasons behind it. Remind yourself that you are doing the best with what you have. And pay your attention to the positive side of the situation.
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We all are worthy of love and we need to show loving kindness to ourselves. That might seem awkward at first, but with a little practice, the process will become easier. Soon the positive feeling you receive from self-kindness will provide you with a sense of happiness.
One of the best practices to build up your self-kindness is called “Note to a Dear Friend”. When you are facing a challenge or difficulty, write a note to a friend as if they were facing the same problem.
3. Recognize That You Aren’t Alone
Not one of us lives a perfect life. Everyone faces challenges and makes mistakes.
A.Practice Kindness |
B.Show Others Kindness |
C.It is important to face them |
D.Simply name your feeling and inside voice |
E.Write down what you think would help your friend |
F.When we recognize that, valuable things will happen |
G.If so, you may have the tendency to criticize yourself |
2 . My quest started when I was on the New York subway. Some children were whining. Four trains came screaming into the station at once. I put my hands over my ears and cowered (蜷缩) — the noise was deafening. In cities, the ever-present dull background roar of planes, cars, machinery and voices is a fact of life. There is no escape from it and it was beginning to drive me mad.
In an attempt to recapture some peace, I decided to go on a mission to find the quietest place on Earth to discover whether absolute silence exists. The one place I was most excited about visiting was an anechoic chamber (消声室) in Minnesota.
Ironically, far from being peaceful, most people find its perfect quiet upsetting. And yet I booked a 45-minute session—no one had managed to stay in for that long before. When the heavy door shut behind me, I was plunged into darkness — all lights were turned off because they could also make a noise.
For the first few seconds, being in such a quiet place felt like heaven, a remedy for my unsettled nerves. Then, after a minute or two, I became aware of the sound of my breathing. As the minutes ticked by, the beat of my heart became apparent. Then I heard a strange, metallic scraping noise. Was I hallucinating? The feeling of peace was spoiled by a sensation of disappointment — this place wasn’t quiet at all.
Then I stopped obsessing about what bodily functions I could hear and began to enjoy it. I didn’t feel afraid and came out only because my time was up. Everyone was impressed that I’d beaten the record, but having spent so long searching for quiet, I was comfortable with the feeling of absolute stillness. Afterward, I felt wonderfully rested and calm.
My desire for silence changed my life. I found making space for moments of quiet in my day is the key to happiness. If you can occasionally become master of your own sound environment — from turning off the phone to taking a trip to the countryside, you’ll become a lot more accepting of the noises of everyday life.
1. What pushed the author to seek a change?A.The annoying kids. | B.Loud chats in stations. |
C.The roar of subway. | D.Endless noises in daily life. |
A.It might give perfect silence. | B.It launched a time challenge. |
C.It offered professional guidance. | D.It was the only one of its kind. |
A.He started talking to himself. | B.He heard sounds from the outside. |
C.He made some mental adjustments. | D.He felt scared in the first few minutes. |
A.Noises stop us from making progress. | B.Moments of inner quiet better our lives. |
C.We should bravely overcome our fears. | D.A state of peace and calm is hard to attain. |
I was never very neat. Later in life I learned to attribute (把……归因于)this shortcoming to my creative genius, saying that my disorganization was simply the side of my unique gifts and talents. Yet, back at high school, I hadn’t come up with any impressive reasons for my big messes.
As fate would have it, my teacher paired me with Kim as my roommate. I’m not sure why he stuck us together. I don’t think he could have possibly picked two more different people to room together. Kim was extremely organized. She labeled everything and each item she owned had its place. Well, I think my bits and pieces of paper, odds and ends (零碎物品) would find their ways into places automatically. And apparently, my roommate didn’t seem to be on the same page with me.
As time went by, she got neater, while I got messier. She would complain about my dirty clothes. I would complain about Lysol (杀菌消毒剂) headaches. She would push gently my clothing over to one side and I would lay one of my books on her tidy desk.
One October evening, things got ugly. Kim came into the room and lost her temper right away after seeing one of my shoes had found its way beneath her bed. She picked it up, cast it toward my side of the room angrily and managed to knock the layer of clothes onto the floor (by the way, I had planned to fold them later). I jumped off the bed and immediately started yelling about her rudeness. She yelled back, “Look at the mess you’ve made! Could you at least clean up your own table!” I was sitting on my bed, fuming (发怒). She was sitting on hers, fuming. The room was thick with anger. It could have ended a with a violent fight if it hadn’t been for the phone call she received.
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She picked the phone up and I could tell it was bad news from her family.
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I found myself lost for words and I decided to do something.
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4 . Sitting on the sofa in Xiao Jia’s apartment, I learned how difficult it was to apply makeup(化妆品)to a face you cannot see.
I visited Xiao on a winter day. She greeted me with a big smile and then
As we sat next to each other, she touched my face to
“Though many people don’t think it’s
Xiao studied painting for six years before being diagnosed with an eye disease, which left her without
Finally Xiao chose from different shades of lipsticks to match my skin color, which I
When she finished all, I was
A.showed | B.awarded | C.returned | D.threw |
A.explained | B.decorated | C.connected | D.labeled |
A.determine | B.calculate | C.transform | D.paint |
A.making | B.imagining | C.feeling | D.observing |
A.cooperated | B.mixed | C.went | D.lived |
A.gently | B.violently | C.casually | D.suddenly |
A.interesting | B.fortunate | C.necessary | D.dangerous |
A.outcome | B.movement | C.beauty | D.surroundings |
A.income | B.vision | C.doubt | D.hope |
A.inspiration | B.power | C.equipment | D.experience |
A.uploaded | B.copied | C.produced | D.found |
A.responsibility | B.determination | C.patience | D.freedom |
A.teaching | B.curing | C.tending | D.evaluating |
A.give | B.attend | C.manage | D.skip |
A.committed | B.described | C.brought | D.assigned |
A.conveyed | B.introduced | C.applied | D.treated |
A.exposed to | B.stuck in | C.known for | D.filled with |
A.until | B.before | C.after | D.once |
A.solution | B.goal | C.achievement | D.point |
A.lasts | B.differs | C.counts | D.ends |
5 . As I work in the garden, I take my time. And the garden is
I take time to stand back and rest, and to
Getting my hands
I feel attracted to move things around to transplant and to
Perhaps life is like the
A.telling | B.concerning | C.worrying | D.teaching |
A.destroy | B.affect | C.promote | D.exchange |
A.quality | B.color | C.shape | D.weight |
A.water | B.air | C.weather | D.wind |
A.approximately | B.constantly | C.exactly | D.occasionally |
A.pulled | B.planted | C.guarded | D.provided |
A.make sense | B.find out | C.work out | D.make sure |
A.tend | B.observe | C.count | D.examine |
A.beautiful | B.average | C.amazing | D.unique |
A.prevent | B.separate | C.shade | D.remove |
A.open | B.delicate | C.straight | D.vivid |
A.energy | B.light | C.soil | D.space |
A.empty | B.dirty | C.broken | D.free |
A.awake | B.tired | C.alive | D.independent |
A.disturb | B.find | C.enjoy | D.guide |
A.discovers | B.transforms | C.draws | D.follows |
A.changes | B.reflection | C.laws | D.development |
A.plant | B.sun | C.fruit | D.garden |
A.rest | B.quit | C.offer | D.fight |
A.expect | B.accept | C.picture | D.receive |
6 . Being able to travel the world is truly an accomplishment of the modern society.
Many people think that travel is a(n)
When travelling to another country, we
Moreover, travelling is also a process of
A.Naturally | B.Unfortunately | C.Surprisingly | D.Obviously |
A.admit | B.agree | C.suppose | D.realize |
A.expand | B.clarify | C.bend | D.refresh |
A.ordinary | B.relaxing | C.wonderful | D.expensive |
A.matter | B.question | C.case | D.point |
A.make up for | B.make off with | C.make over | D.make of |
A.if | B.unless | C.once | D.since |
A.truth | B.key | C.reason | D.problem |
A.on time | B.on purpose | C.in patience | D.in advance |
A.casual | B.free | C.simple | D.challenging |
A.occasionally | B.hardly | C.unavoidably | D.merely |
A.remember | B.expect | C.create | D.imagine |
A.blind to | B.accustomed to | C.bored with | D.concerned with |
A.complaint | B.disappointment | C.confusion | D.anxiety |
A.difference | B.deal | C.mess | D.hit |
A.self-education | B.self-awareness | C.self-assessment | D.self-acceptance |
A.afford | B.wait | C.manage | D.stand |
A.settled in | B.settled down | C.took off | D.took place |
A.atmosphere | B.consequence | C.course | D.impact |
A.encourages | B.enables | C.forces | D.reminds |