As an independent, self-reliant person who always handled everything by myself, I didn’t expect parenting to be hard. Oh, sure, it’s difficult for other people. I heard parents complaining all the time — kids are challenging; nothing is ever clean; there’s not enough time in the day to do everything. But that was “other people” and I knew I could handle it. How complicated could it be?
I’d always dreamed of adopting a child, and finally my dream came true one summer afternoon. Even though we had requested only one child, the worker asked, “Could you take another baby and his eleven-year-old brother?” Of course, we could. We had room to have all three boys together.
The first week after they moved in, I spent my days rushing from task to task, cleaning and making sure they had all they needed. I constantly organized our living room, which was suddenly full of toys, and picked up the path of destruction left in the boys’ wake. Cooking and cleaning after meals and snacks seemed to take half of my day. I hardly ever sat; something always needed to be done.
“I think we need a break,” my husband told me one evening as I was falling asleep on the couch as usual.
“No,” I refused. The idea of sending them to a stranger sickened me. However, with each passing day, I was growing more and more exhausted. Besides meeting the physical needs of the boys, there were medical and emotional needs. Both the little ones constantly clung (黏住) to me. It was never quiet in our house; I felt overwhelmed.
One night, my husband said firmly that he needed a break. Whether I “needed” one or not, we were going to take one. With tears rolling down my cheeks, I nodded, knowing it was true, although I didn’t want to admit my weakness.
I called my parents.
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Asking for help is something I must keep re-learning as time goes on, but it’s getting easier.
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2 . “If I wasn’t looking at you, I’d have thought you were white.”
I often get comments like that from classmates, friends and
I’m a descendant (后裔) of Africans
It’s not just friends who
Now, I’m more
A.only | B.even | C.ever | D.still |
A.hurt | B.keep | C.change | D.recover |
A.carried out | B.cared for | C.brought up | D.taken over |
A.ability | B.attitude | C.advantage | D.achievement |
A.Besides | B.Instead | C.Therefore | D.Otherwise |
A.chat | B.equip | C.supply | D.associate |
A.dislike | B.dismiss | C.disappoint | D.discourage |
A.ask | B.tease | C.inform | D.entertain |
A.jokingly | B.seemingly | C.increasingly | D.surprisingly |
A.make | B.show | C.paint | D.write |
A.once | B.until | C.unless | D.before |
A.explanation | B.expectation | C.reservation | D.concentration |
A.feel | B.work | C.see | D.serve |
A.Concerned | B.Curious | C.Nervous | D.Insecure |
A.transform | B.move | C.separate | D.throw |
A.new | B.kind | C.cold | D.true |
A.eager | B.strong | C.pleased | D.embarrassed |
A.rarely | B.finally | C.simply | D.constantly |
A.tired | B.aware | C.afraid | D.ashamed |
A.turning | B.playing | C.acting | D.performing |
3 . A very dear friend has been experiencing various challenges these past few months. She mentioned how it sometimes felt like she was hanging on by a thread with no quick
It reminded me that the caterpillar (毛虫) that I
All the research I’ve done
Many
Hanging on by a thread as we
A.fix | B.look | C.step | D.bite |
A.picked up | B.attended to | C.gave away | D.hunted for |
A.acting | B.working | C.healing | D.eating |
A.comfortable | B.dangerous | C.common | D.practical |
A.bury | B.hide | C.attach | D.abandon |
A.surviving | B.exploring | C.defeating | D.struggling |
A.requires | B.indicates | C.reports | D.forecasts |
A.judge | B.learn | C.imagine | D.access |
A.reforming | B.practicing | C.preparing | D.repairing |
A.shortly | B.rarely | C.lately | D.finally |
A.comparing | B.presenting | C.impressing | D.attracting |
A.inner | B.ideal | C.lucky | D.small |
A.harvest | B.growth | C.freedom | D.knowledge |
A.regards | B.wishes | C.thanks | D.limits |
A.borrowed | B.watched | C.bought | D.raised |
A.program | B.lecture | C.material | D.contest |
A.relaxing | B.convincing | C.amazing | D.demanding |
A.depressed | B.relieved | C.confused | D.addicted |
A.commit | B.transform | C.perform | D.translate |
A.spirit | B.desire | C.talent | D.faith |
4 . Another person’s enthusiasm was what set me moving toward the success I have achieved. That person was my stepmother.
I was nine years old when she entered our home in rural (乡下的)Virginia. My father
My stepmother walked over to me,
That statement began a(n)
She changed many things. She
When I turned fourteen, she bought me a secondhand
What power
You can communicate that power to anyone who needs it. This is probably the greatest work you can do with your enthusiasm.
1.A.rushed | B.introduced | C.carried | D.sent |
A.known | B.good | C.mistaken | D.fit |
A.sooner | B.earlier | C.longer | D.later |
A.dragged | B.shook | C.raised | D.bent |
A.perfect | B.right | C.wrong | D.impolite |
A.but | B.so | C.and | D.or |
A.agreement | B.friendship | C.gap | D.relationship |
A.opinion | B.aim | C.dream | D.mind |
A.begged | B.persuaded | C.ordered | D.invited |
A.successful | B.careful | C.simple | D.difficult |
A.treated | B.entertained | C.educated | D.respected |
A.camera | B.radio | C.bicycle | D.typewriter |
A.considered | B.suspected | C.ignored | D.appreciated |
A.belief | B.request | C.criticism | D.description |
A.teaching | B.writing | C.speaking | D.reading |
A.next | B.same | C.only | D.real |
A.cleverest | B.strongest | C.wealthiest | D.healthiest |
A.enthusiasm | B.sympathy | C.fortune | D.confidence |
A.never | B.hardly | C.seldom | D.often |
A.match | B.win | C.reach | D.doubt |