The Art of Blooming Late
Mozart struggled during his teens and early twenties. Though already a productive composer, he had to work as an organist (风琴手)to make ends meet.
Underpaid by his frustratingly average work, he felt a
If you aspire to do more personally fulfilling work — say,
In Aristotle’s Way, the classicist Edith Hall describes the ancient philosopher’s belief
What, then, is holding you back? Rich Karlgaard, author of Late Bloomers, argues that our culture’s obsession with early achievement discourages us from pursuing our passions.
As a result, most of us end up choosing professional excellence over personal fulfillment and often we lose ourselves in the process.
The authors of Dark Horse, Todd Rose and Ogi Ogas of Harvard’s School of Education, noticed the negative effects of early specialization in a study of people who came out of nowhere to achieve great success. “Despite feeling
To prompt this kind of revolution in your own life, Rose and Ogas suggest creating a goal tailored to extremely specific activities
Free to soar
One windy spring day, I observed young people having fun using the wind to fly their kites. Multicolored creations of varying shapes and sizes filled the skies like beautiful birds darting and dancing in the heady atmosphere above the earth. As the strong winds gusted against the kites, a string kept them in check.
We may be reluctant to admit
Let us each rise to the great heights life has in store for us. Recognizing that some of the restraints that we
3 . Do We Miss Something in Life?
“In this life what did you miss?” The wife asked the husband when she was 25. Sadly, the husband replied: “I missed a new job opportunity.” When she was 35, the husband angrily told her that he had just missed the bus. At 45, the husband sadly said: “I missed the opportunity seeing my closest relative
In the busy city life, there are many people
They miss the opportunity to be with their children in their growing up. They neglect the
Round table
The most affectionate memory of my childhood is about
When I was still little, my entire family would reunite on almost every traditional festival to have dinner. While the grown-ups were discussing about something
When I got a bit older, my aunt brought back her boyfriend, a tall and shy man, and my grandma joyfully added another seat to the round table. It seemed a little bit
When I was 12, my grandpa passed away because of cancer, but when the entire family reunite once again, his chair, his bowl and his chopsticks remain the same.
We all have a table like this in our homes, which is a symbol of the reunion of our families,
The food on the table may change with time; the people sitting beside it may come and go; the reasons why we come together may be various, but the sensation behind it remains, year after year, the same.
Every year, an annual epic migration takes place in China. Hundreds of people, men and women, young and old, the rich and the poor, the dead and the alive, will find a way to go back home and go to the round table
The power that drives him to do so has been a power that has been sustaining Chinese civilization for thousands of years. And the lives of us, or even the history of our nation have been the stories of looking for a running to the round table
The Impact of Visual Cues on Behavior
During the energy crisis in the 1970s, Dutch researchers began to pay close attention to the country’s energy usage. In one suburb near Amsterdam, they found that some homeowners used 30 percent less energy than their neighbors
It turned out that the houses in this neighborhood were nearly identical except for one feature: the location of the electrical meter. Some had one in the basement.
Every habit
By comparison, creating obvious visual cues can draw your attention toward a
Eventually, I took my own advice and redesigned my environment. I bought a large display bowl and placed it in the middle of the kitchen counter. The next time I bought apples, that was
You know what they say, marriage is like a box of chocolates and you never know what you are gonna get. My wife and I had a “ferocious” argument the other night
Our society
“Intimidated” by my rigorous logic, my wife purposefully shifted the focus of her argument to
However, things started to get much
At the end of the day, I exhibited my vulnerability as requested and she showed her mercy as expected. We just agreed to disagree and lived happily ever after.
Love from the Apple Tree
Once upon a time, there used to be a tall and big apple tree. A little boy, every day to the tree down, climbed up
This is a story of everyone. The tree is like our parent.
8 . Directions: After reading the passage below, fill in the blanks to make the passage coherent and grammatically correct. For the blanks with a given word, fill in each blank with the proper form of the given word; for the other blanks, use one word that best fits each blank.
Reconsidering the Staycation
I’ve always been doubtful of the staycation. The newly-invented word is too cute for
So, I am fascinated to discover, thanks to my colleague Catherine Pearson, that I
I like this saying “Live every day as if it were your last.” Any reminder that time is flying is a good one
Whether or not you have a proper vacation
I received an email from a reader who asked, “Why do some friendships end, no matter how much you want them to last?” She referred to
My simple answer is that friendships end because the situations
Second, the friends themselves may change. A significant reason why friendships often end
“I am so busy.”
I am not exactly sure when I found myself in a position
Perhaps I first started feeling this in high school, when having a social life, good grades, and sleep all seemed to be working in a trade-off system, and people competed to have
In Japanese, the characters for “busy”
Working hard can be good for us, and I believe in the value of immersing yourself in your goals, but
I’ve come to realize that being busy also means losing the space to connect with ourselves, and instead
So