1 . Friendships can end. You may be feeling sad about your friend moving away.
Create new habits and routines. When a friendship ends, old habits die hard sometimes.
Set new personal goals. Set some goals that you want to reach and then make a plan to achieve each of those new goals. However, make sure that the goals you set are for you and you alone. Goals set just to spite (怨恨) someone else won’t help you move past the pain of the relationship ending.
A.Give yourself time and space |
B.Avoid playing the blame game. |
C.Avoid feeling sad about losing a friend. |
D.You need new habits to replace your old ones. |
E.Or perhaps you were the one who moved away. |
F.So don’t set a self-improvement goal just to get back at your friend. |
G.However, constant reminders of your old friendship can make letting go really hard. |
2 . Do you know what to do if your friends are under stress (压力) and come to you for help? Here are some ways you can be there for your friend who’s having a hard time.
Go outside with your friends.
Nature helps reduce (减少) stress.
Help out at their home.
Doing housework like cooking or cleaning can make people more upset (心烦的) when they are going through a stressful time.
Think about what your friends really need. Don’t ask them to go for a trip if they need to get more sleep. Don’t encourage them to cut school even if you know that will help reduce their stress for the moment. It might be easy to be the friend who always supports everything.
Make them laugh.
You’ve heard “laughter is the best medicine”, haven’t you? It’s certainly correct.
A.Listen to them. |
B.Be a good influence. |
C.Take a walk outside, or go for a bike ride. |
D.You may know what your friends’ hobbies are. |
E.So why not surprise your friends by bringing over dinner one night? |
F.But more than support, they need someone to help them become better. |
G.Generally speaking, laughter can help reduce stress and increase happiness. |
3 . In the second year in Columbia University, Sanford Greenberg had trouble with his vision (视力): he couldn’t see clearly. That winter, doctors operated on Greenberg’s
But Garfunkel and Speyer came to
Then, one afternoon, Greenberg and Garfunkel went to Midtown Manhattan.
Greenberg finally
A.head | B.face | C.eyes | D.ears |
A.operation | B.plan | C.time | D.hope |
A.weak | B.upset | C.serious | D.nervous |
A.influence | B.thank | C.challenge | D.help |
A.education | B.training | C.performance | D.research |
A.carry | B.copy | C.read | D.buy |
A.fond | B.afraid | C.shy | D.sure |
A.instead | B.besides | C.until | D.so |
A.When | B.If | C.Although | D.That |
A.go back with | B.call at | C.agree with | D.go without |
A.met | B.missed | C.passed | D.took |
A.taste | B.smell | C.shape | D.voice |
A.got | B.required | C.left | D.designed |
A.successful | B.careful | C.strange | D.brave |
A.changes | B.efforts | C.degrees | D.friends |
4 . When you feel down, you are expecting to receive support or comfort from your friends. Your friends feel the same way. However, it may be not easy to cheer up your friends when you can’t be by their side.
Ask if there’s anything you can do to help. Different people prefer to be comforted in different ways. Ask if there’s anything specific you can do to help your friends.
List why you think they’re special.
Send them a gift. Surprise them with something special to make their day. Arrange for flowers to be delivered to their apartment or mail them one of their favorite albums.
A.Send a gift to them to celebrate their success. |
B.Thankfully, there are many ways you can help. |
C.Therefore, you can visit them to cheer them up. |
D.Text them to let them know they’re on your mind. |
E.You don’t have to go all out in terms of spending. |
F.If they’ve been down on themselves lately, they may need a reminder. |
G.The question alone will show you care, and they will appreciate your kind offer. |
My husband and I were watering
Then, the new friend made a
(1) 表达你的理解和安慰。
(2) 解释为什么我们有时候需要说“不”。
(3) 就如何合理地拒绝提供一些建议。
注意:(1) 词数不少于100词;
(2) 可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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注意: 1.词数100左右;2.可以适当增加细节,使行文连贯。
What Makes Good Friends
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