1 . Parents have problems with their children. Every mother or every father wonders about something like “Why is this so? What can and should I do about it?”Strictly, what are these things that we parents call problems with regard to our children?
To a parent, a problem is some action, habit, or attitude that he doesn't expect, or he doesn't approve of, and that he tries to change but finds that he can't. So,whether it is dawdling (游手好闲) or any other everyday behavior in children,the parent calls it a“problem”. In reality, of course, parents and child specialists don't always agree on what is or isn't a“problem”But this disagreement doesn't make much difference to the anxious parent who feels so sure that he faces a problem.
I think common problems of young children can be grouped into four general categories: habit, management, expectation and adjustment. So, what are they really about? Four common types of problems: 1) Habit or training problems -those that have to do with establishing the fundamental habits of the children. 2) Child management problems -related to managing or controlling the child, directing his self-interest, and trying to get him to live agreeably and socially with other people around him. 3) Expectation problems -those that dealt with the child's learning to fulfill certain expectations. Some of these expectations arise in the parents' view of the child; some arise in the child's own thinking as he looks at the world and his place in it. 4) Adjustment problems—related to the child's sense of security and his emotional adjustment.
Why do these problems arise then? Partly, they arise out of the child's growing up, out of his need to be trained to fit into a world that just wasn't designed especially to meet his wishes. Partly, it is because the parent expects certain things from the child and figures that the child isn't meeting those expectations.
But no matter what causes the problem, it is most probably true that the parent's anxiety and distress are almost sure to increase the problem. For a child is something like a mirror, his behavior reflects the parent's concern about that behavior. That's why it is so important for us to understand why the child behaves as he does. Understanding is the first step in trying to manage a "problem". If you understand, you lose some of your anxiety. If you lose some of your anxiety, the child can relax and improve his behavior.
1. This passage was mainly written for______.A.teachers | B.children |
C.parents | D.specialists |
A.Dealing with children's problems needs a calm mind |
B.Parents and child specialists differ on the definition of a problem. |
C.Parents sometimes find it difficult to solve the problems of their children. |
D.Children are usually anxious to solve their problems with the help of their parents. |
A.habit or training problems | B.child management problems |
C.expectation problems | D.adjustment problems |
A.Children haven't received proper treatment at school. |
B.Parents don't know how to help their children. |
C.Children haven't achieved their aims while growing up. |
D.Parents have expected too little on their children. |
A.introduce some children's problems and how to solve them |
B.advise readers to understand children's problems |
C.offer readers some ways to deal with children's problems |
D.tell readers how to tell different children's problems |
2 . Cook in the kitchen
Earlier last month, my parents and I had a free day — a rare event for us.
For our weekend menu, we decided to make smoked pork. I found this recipe online. It looked interesting and the steps were simple. So we decided to make it for dinner one weekend.
First, according to the recipe, the pork needed to be salted. The process would take a long time.
After that, Dad was responsible for slicing (切片) the pork, Mother was responsible for preparing the ingredients (佐料). I was responsible for spreading the black tea and sugar for smoking on the aluminum foil and then a layer of baking paper.
A.It was easy for me to make the food. |
B.Pork is the main meat source of our food. |
C.We decided to cook together in the kitchen. |
D.Finally, I put the pork on the smoking shelf. |
E.So, Mom started working on it early the night before. |
F.Two days later, the pork was ready for the next steps. |
G.The pork was very delicious and contained the special smell of black tea. |
3 . I had a deadline (截止日期) for a huge project at work. When I’d picked up my son that afternoon, I bought a roast chicken for dinner. I
It was 6:00 p.m., and I was typing, making good
Suddenly I couldn’t help
Twenty minutes later, a plate filled with food appeared on my
Then Julia said, “Mom, for the next two days, we’re ATF. We will
The next two days, my children prepared the meals and
To my great joy, I finished my project
A.doubted | B.promised | C.figured | D.ensured |
A.rely on | B.work on | C.take on | D.look on |
A.money | B.sense | C.difference | D.progress |
A.request | B.decision | C.response | D.choice |
A.complaining | B.exploding | C.struggling | D.panicking |
A.advice | B.blame | C.responsibility | D.pressure |
A.bed | B.chair | C.shelf | D.desk |
A.tired | B.ashamed | C.sure | D.proud |
A.dramatically | B.automatically | C.rapidly | D.suddenly |
A.steady | B.regular | C.challenging | D.creative |
A.manage | B.establish | C.develop | D.accomplish |
A.share | B.ease | C.remove | D.balance |
A.distributed | B.delivered | C.returned | D.attached |
A.break | B.walk | C.bite | D.breath |
A.in silence | B.in peace | C.in detail | D.in advance |
4 . My parents have very different parenting styles. Dad brings out the best in me. He is calm(镇静的)and reasonable and treats me like an adult. Mum, like so many parents of my friends, makes me want to rebel(反抗).
My friends and I think that our parents care too much about us. Take me for example.
Parents need to learn to trust us. There is no point in becoming angry, which just makes things worse. A few months ago, Mum went crazy when I told her I'd been receiving e-mails from a stranger I'd met online. Since then she hasn't allowed me to use the Internet.
I understand them, but they overreact(反应过激).
We love the idea of being really close to our parents.
A.She speaks to me as though I'm still a child. |
B.Some teenagers refuse to open up to their parents. |
C.But she isn't so bad as many of my friends' parents. |
D.We also know deep down that our parents care about us most. |
E.Recently, I wanted to take a train to Portsmouth to see a friend. |
F.Mum, on the other hand, kept suggesting other things I could do |
G.What they do makes us not want to talk about our personal things with them. |
5 . The other day a big, ugly, black bat found its way to my bathroom. I am what is known as “the man of the house”, so it was my
Being a man does not
As I came towards the frightening bat, I
My wife was
A.action | B.job | C.character | D.decision |
A.awful | B.lovely | C.magical | D.intelligent |
A.determine | B.prove | C.explain | D.change |
A.afraid | B.fond | C.tired | D.ashamed |
A.interested | B.trapped | C.involved | D.absorbed |
A.admit | B.expect | C.pretend | D.confirm |
A.difficult | B.accessible | C.small | D.visible |
A.forbids | B.thinks | C.predicts | D.refuses |
A.anxiety | B.promise | C.freedom | D.talent |
A.concluded | B.revealed | C.doubted | D.wondered |
A.eagerly | B.accidentally | C.slowly | D.violently |
A.car | B.engine | C.door | D.window |
A.pleased | B.shocked | C.embarrassed | D.amused |
A.friend | B.master | C.champion | D.hero |
A.escaped | B.stopped | C.continued | D.forgot |
Father’s Day was in two weeks. I didn’t know what to get Dad. Last year I made him a photo album. This year I wanted to do something different.
At dinner, Dad accidentally dropped his favorite blue tie into his soup bowl. The tie was ruined. I suddenly knew what to get Dad for Father’s Day!
“How much does a tie cost?” I asked Mom the next morning.
“Depends,” she said.“ Some can cost twenty dollars. Do you have enough money. Carter?”
“No, ” I said sadly.
When I got to my room to change into my school clothes I noticed a hole in my shirt.
“Mom, I need you to sew(缝补) my shirt, I said loudly, rushing out the door to the school bus.
At school I picked at the hole in my shirt. I thought about how I could come up with enough money to buy a tie. I took a deep sigh, and played with the hold some more. As the hole grew in size, an idea sprung into my mind.
After coming home from school, I dug through my closet trying to find other worn clothes.
“Mom! "I yelled down the hall heading towards her.
Can I cut these clothes up to make Dad a patchwork(拼缝) tie for Father’s Day?” I pointed out the holes to Mom.
“ I guess,” he said.
“And,” I added, “Can you show me how to sew and make tiny stitches(针脚)?”
“Yes, Carter. Let s start now before Dad gets home.” Mom said, heading for her sewing supplies.
I followed Moms instructions and started making a patchwork tie. I gently pressed my foot on the foot pedal(缝纫机脚踏板) . Suddenly, the needle stopped and the machine made a horrible sound. “No!” I said.
“Try again, Carter, ” Mom instructed.
I took a deep breath and gently applied the pedal again. Unluckily, I failed again.
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“Forget it! I can’t do this!” I cried and went to my room.
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On Father’s Day I handed Dad a small box.
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I still remember the last Christmas Granny spent
In December, our
8 . Nuclear (核心的) Family
53.7% of Canadians live in nuclear families. A nuclear family usually has parents and children. It is also called the traditional family. This kind of family was the most popular in the 950sand 1960s. Now the traditional family is choosing to have fewer children than in the past.
Single-Parent Family
In this kind of family, there is only one parent caring for one or more children. The number of single-parent families is becoming larger. The environment of single-parent family is not very good for the mental and physical health of children.
Extended (几代同堂的) Family
There are grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins in this kind of family. Members of the extended family live together for many reasons, such as helping to raise the children, caring for each other and dealing with money problems. The number of this kind of family has increased by 40 percent in the past ten years.
Childless Family
A childless family is the one that choose not to have children. The couple has never had children because of some reasons. Most have thought carefully about whether to be parents but finally give up because they think it wasn’t really right for them. To replace children, childless families usually have pets instead.
1. There are ________ in the nuclear family.A.only parents | B.grandparents and children |
C.parents and children | D.aunts, uncles and cousins |
A.the single-parent family | B.the traditional family |
C.the extended family | D.the childless family |
A.The number of the extended family is the largest of the four kinds of families. |
B.Now the nuclear family is a family that chooses to have more children. |
C.A childless family is a family that chooses to have one child. |
D.Members of the extended family can help each other. |
9 . Arguster grew up on his family’s farm in a remote village. Planting cash crop — cotton, they were breaking even and had to make ends meet. In his childhood, there were nine kids at home. All the boys were in one room with two beds. Two slept at the head while two slept at the foot. Therefore, there was one thing about their feet — washing them before crowding onto the bed.
When there was a hole in Arguster’s jeans, his mother would put a patch on it. However, the hole kept going. It was the naughty kids, Arguster included, that took the jeans out, hung them on a line and shot them to put holes. Aware of that, however, Ben, the father, didn’t rebuke them, knowing it might be the only way to bring laughter to his kids.
Arguster’s first lesson in economics was taught by Ben. The childish kid had worked and made a little extra money. He couldn’t help admiring himself, “I make six dollars! Six dollars! Man! I’m on the top of the world!” With a great thrill, Arguster decided to go to fair, where he played games, ate cotton candy... When asked by Ben how much he had spent, with his head down, Arguster replied, “Daddy, I spent it all...” Looking at his messy hair, Ben sighed, “Boy, you spent all your money and haircut’s gone up to 75 cents. I’m afraid...” From then on, Arguster always kept enough money to get himself a haircut.
Ben taught his kids how to do the right thing and wanted them to do the right thing, which Ben tried to pass on to his kids, in his own way. Ben started a syrup mill(糖坊). People in the community brought their cane and millet for Ben to grind up (磨碎) for syrup. When people paid with buckets of syrup, Ben refused. Arguster got confused, “Daddy, why don’t you let these people pay you?”
“Because we got enough syrup to last for a long time! Son, these people don’t have money to pay. That’s the only way they can pay.”
1. Why should the kids wash their feet before going to bed?A.Because they turned dirty after playing on the farm. |
B.Because they crowded on a small bed with feet close to others’ heads. |
C.Because the beds were made of cotton which was easy to spot. |
D.Because they had to make ends meet, making them seldom bathe. |
A.Question. | B.Oppose. | C.Amuse. | D.Criticize. |
A.He worked and earned money again for his haircut. |
B.He had his hair cut with the money Ben gave him. |
C.He waited for the price of haircut to decrease. |
D.He borrowed money from his mother for his haircut. |
A.Strict. | B.Casual. | C.Considerate. | D.Mean. |