Bob’s problems began during his formative years. His parents got divorced when he was young, and neither of his parents wanted to raise him or his brother and sister, so he
Unfortunately, his foster father was a strict authoritarian and often beat him. Bob rebelled against this strict upbringing, and by the time he was eight years old, he
This has raised some interesting questions about the modern family system.
In fact, many people believe that we
I have a lovely brother. He is 4 years younger than me. I still remember that day when he was born. He is
As time went by, he
Now,
We do a lot of secret things without informing our parents and if
More and more people live in large cities these days, which
Teenagers especially need their own personal space at home
You know what they say, marriage is like a box of chocolates and you never know what you are gonna get. My wife and I had a “ferocious” argument the other night
Our society
“Intimidated” by my rigorous logic, my wife purposefully shifted the focus of her argument to
However, things started to get much
At the end of the day, I exhibited my vulnerability as requested and she showed her mercy as expected. We just agreed to disagree and lived happily ever after.
Family meals are important in living with a family. A recent survey
Firstly,
Secondly, family meals also play
Behaviour contracts for teenagers
The conflict between you and your son or daughter is a problem, maybe it’s time you thought about setting up a ‘home rules contract’. This is an idea that’s being used more and more often, especially in families with rebellious teenage children. We interviewed Dr Amy Barker, a psychologist, who is in favour of the idea.
What is a home rules contract?
Dr Barker: It’s a formal agreement about the rules of behavior that teenagers
Who
Dr Barker: All the adults who have a parental role should be engaged. It’s important that they all agree and stick to the rules themselves. At the same time, the teenagers should also contribute their ideas.
What are the advantages of a contract?
Dr Barker: It makes it very clear to teens what they are and aren’t allowed
What areas should be covered in a contract?
Dr Barker: That depends. You can’t make rules for everything, so you have to decide what’s most important and
Do contracts solve
Dr Barker: No, of course not! There will always be conflicts and disagreements
Brad closed the door slowly as Sue left home to visit her mother.
Things started well, but just after eight o’clock, his three little “good kids”-Mike, Randy, and Alex-came down the stairs in their night clothes and shouted “breakfast, daddy.” When food had not appeared within thirty seconds, Randy began using his spoon on Alex’s head
Life became worse after breakfast. Mike wore Randy’s underwear on his head. Randy locked
By ten o’clock, things were out of control. Alex was wondering why the fish in the jar refused his bread and butter. Mike was trying to show off his talent by decorating the kitchen wall
At exactly 11:17, Brad called the daycare centre. “I suddenly have to go into work and my wife’s away.
The evidence for harmony may not be obvious in some families. But it seems that four out of five young people now get on with their parents, which is the opposite of the popular-held image of unhappy teenagers
An important new study into teenage attitudes surprisingly shows that their family life is more harmonious than it has ever been in the past. “We were surprised by just
So it seems that this generation of parents is much more likely than parents of 30 years ago
Maybe this positive view of family life should not be unexpected. It is possible that the idea of teenage rebellion is not rooted in real facts. A researcher comments, “Our surprise
Cross-cultural Marriage
Previously, cross-cultural marriages were not accepted. However, most people get married out of love for one another, not because of one's race. Cross-cultural marriages, therefore,
Cross-cultural marriage may be particularly