5 . Self-Love: a Foundation for All Healthy Relationships
Why is self-love considered a transformative power in building healthy relationships? We are all engulfed (吞没) with the thought of having fulfilling relationships. One’s that will bring some meaning to our lives and make us happy. We are so overwhelmed with finding true happiness that we often forget that true happiness lies within us. We have heard in countless pep talks that self-love is the foundation of a happy life. 1 ?
We have been taught to be selfless from the start of time. The minute we start thinking about ourselves, everyone around us makes it their personal mission to remind us of how selfish we are being. 2 . Self-love is not selfish. It only helps us better understand which sacrifices are worth making!
3 . The stronger your roots are, the more difficult it will be for winds to knock down the branches. Before exploring this notion, it is very important to understand what self-love truly means. With such a thin line between being ruthless and self-loving, it is too easy to stumble (绊倒) on the darker side.
At the very of self-love lies the care and value one has for oneself. Self-love, in its essence, is to truly accept who you are and what your worth is. It is the art of building a compassionate relationship with your own soul. 4 . We are also taught to look after each other. But has anyone of us ever asked ourselves who we should be caring for the most in the world? Our parents? Family Friends? Relations? I will tell you a simple answer: Ourselves!
The expectation of waiting for someone else to care for you is impossible. 5 . Look after your relations but do not forget to look after yourself. You can only give something that you have in abundance.
A.Why do we still not love ourselves |
B.What should we do to love ourselves |
C.Only you can care for yourself the most |
D.We are taught to care for everyone around us |
E.Self-love is the root of all your healthy relationships |
F.But there is nothing wrong with putting yourself first |
G.You know what you’re willing to accept in a relationship |