1 . If you’re a perfectionist, that might mean you can be pretty hard on yourself. A mistake at work, for example, could result in some pretty negative self-talk or actions, like depriving yourself of a snack later that day.
But self-punishment doesn’t encourage growth, says Katherine, a psychotherapist and author of “The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control.”
Instead of punishing yourself for making a mistake, it is more effective to practice self-compassion(自我同情). Katherine suggests the broaden-and-build theory, a positive psychology theory that was developed by social psychologist Barbara in 1998.
Broaden-and-build theory suggests that when you’re in a positive headspace you feel more able to face different challenges and make choices based on the possibility of positive outcomes. When you’re in a negative headspace your view narrows and you aren’t inspired or encouraged to think differently.
Research demonstrates self compassion’s positive association with a greater sense of self-worth, more realistic self-evaluations of strengths and weaknesses, lower levels of depression and anxiety.
A.In other words, you’re punishing yourself. |
B.“Punishment doesn’t work.” she writes in her book. |
C.To put yourself in a positive headspace, you need to practice self-compassion. |
D.If you are the source of your own punishment then you learn to avoid yourself. |
E.Punishment can be mistaken for a handful of things like discipline, personal responsibility. |
F.It is also related with increased motivation to learn from past mistakes, and the list goes on. |
G.Instead of being scared to act natural consequence might encourage you to act in a way leading to a positive result. |
1. Where are the speakers?
A.At home. | B.At the office. | C.At the airport. |
A.Anxious. | B.Surprised. | C.Grateful. |
3 . Guide for Teenagers
The teenage years can be tough, and it’s normal to feel sad every now and then. But if these feelings don’t go away or become so intense that you can’t handle them, you may be suffering from depression.
Try not to isolate yourself
When you’re depressed, you may not feel like seeing anybody or doing anything. If you just stay in bed all day and isolate yourself, you will feel more depressed.
Keep your body healthy
Making healthy lifestyle choices can do wonders for your mood. Ever heard of a “runnershigh”? Physical activity can be as effective as medications for depression, so get involved in sports, ride your bike, or take a dance class. Any activity helps!
Avoid alcohol and drugs
You maybe try drinking or use drugs in an effort to escape from your feelings and get a “mood boost”, even if just for a short time. However substance use can not only make depression worse, but can cause you to become more depressed.
Stress and worry can lead to depression. Talk to a teacher if exams or classes seem overwhelming. In addition, if you have a health concern you feel you can’t talk to your parents about, see a doctor. A health professional can help you approach your parents and guide you toward appropriate treatment. If you’re dealing with relationship, friendship, or family problems, talk to an adult you trust.
A.Ask for help if you are stressed. |
B.Even a short walk can be beneficial. |
C.Turn to your parents for help. |
D.But as you get out into the world, you may find yourself feeling better. |
E.In short, drinking and taking drugs will make you feel worse-not better-in the long run. |
F.The more exercise you do, the healthier you will be. |
G.Help is available and you have more power than you think. |
1. How does the woman feel now?
A.Upset. | B.Nervous. | C.Regretful. |
A.She made some serious mistakes. |
B.She quarreled with her parents. |
C.She had difficulty in socializing. |
A.Respect. | B.Patience. | C.Communication. |
1. How does Alina look to the man?
A.Upset. | B.Curious. | C.Delighted. |
A.A little girl. | B.An old lady. | C.A boy. |
A.Annoyed. | B.Excited. | C.Confident. |
1. Why does Ms. McDaniel talk to Frank?
A.He missed a speech. | B.He failed to pass a test. | C.He wanted to drop a class. |
A.Laugh at the speaker. |
B.Sympathize with the speaker. |
C.Persuade the speaker to try again. |
A.Optimistic. | B.Humorous. | C.Encouraging. |
A.Confident. | B.Nervous. | C.Excited. |
9 . A growing number of psychologists are getting out the message that anxiety has a positive role to play in our lives. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, who recently published Future Tense: Why Anxiety Is Good for You (Even Though It Feels Bad), thinks our culture goes too far in demonizing (妖魔化) the difficult emotion.
Psychologist Todd Kashdan, director of the Well-Being Lab at George Mason University in Virginia, is a critic of what he calls happyology. We don’t always have to be smiley and calm, or worry there’s something wrong with us. Sometimes, he says, worry itself is what is right. Fear of heights? Good, because you’re not going to be the person who falls off a cliff while taking a selfie.
These experts wonder if the natural role that anxiety plays in our lives is somehow being forgotten. For example, the World Health Organization (WHO) announced in March 2022 that the prevalence of anxiety had increased globally by 25% over the previous year. The WHO called the finding “a wake-up call to all countries to step up mental health services and support”. Do we know for certain that this data represents a public health crisis? Or could it mean that millions of folks are quite rightly feeling uncertain, stressed out and afraid?
We can experience healthy, often completely valid periods of anxiety without being categorized as mentally ill, according to behavioral psychologists. Anxiety is an adaptive strategy in human evolution. It helps us to prepare for the uncertain future. Anxiety helps us solve unknowns by planning and imagining, by plotting out possible ways.
According to Alice Boyes, who has a PhD in clinical psychology, coping with anxiety by avoiding them just reinforces your insecurity, because you’re not getting better at solving the problem. “Over time, you will feel less and less capable,” she warns.
The key is to manage anxiety before it overtakes us, like tending a garden so the weeds don’t spread. How do you do that? Solutions include meditation, exercise, compassionate connection such as volunteering, access to nature and mentally reframing what we’re experiencing.
1. Which statement is Kashdan’s opinion?A.Fear may prevent you from taking dangerous actions. |
B.Happyology is quite popular among the young nowadays. |
C.Being smiley can stop us from worrying something wrong. |
D.Difficult emotions such as anxiety should not be demonized. |
A.Unclear. | B.Disapproving. | C.Objective. | D.Positive. |
A.Resists. | B.Increases. | C.Adjusts. | D.Reveals. |
A.The upside of anxiety. | B.The key to manage anxiety. |
C.The origin of difficult emotions. | D.The right attitude to negative emotions. |
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