1 . Self-esteem is the ruling view you have of yourself. This includes your beliefs about your inner qualities and how you think others see you.
People with healthy self-esteem don't need to boast about themselves to others. People with low self-esteem may tell you how much everyone loves them, what a great job they do at work, and how amazing they are at pretty everything under the sun even though they really wonder if it's true. People may see them as obnoxious or “full of themselves”.
If you're starting to think you may have low self-esteem, you can work on the way you talk to yourself. When you turn off negative self-talk, you can open the floor to positive reinforcements and access the courage to show different sides of yourself. It isn't going to feel good at first, though. Keep going until it becomes less and less and maybe even a few awkward laughs in the mirror may help.
However, in serious cases of low or even non-existent self-esteem, you may want to call in a professional or a specialist. Good mental health is important, and professionals doing psychotherapy do not pass judgement or give corrections.
A.Self-esteem is not always rooted in reality, though. |
B.You have the power to shape a new self-perception. |
C.This encourages you to speak openly without worry. |
D.The real test of character is whether they can learn from their mistakes. |
E.Self-esteem refers to a person's overall sense of his or her value or worth. |
F.People with a healthy level of self-esteem present themselves with a casual confidence. |
G.With some practice and persistence, you will win this internal struggle to see your self-worth. |
2 . On the morning of September 11th, my closest friend, Kevin Bowser, died in the World Trade Center. The sorrow was so awful, but I was determined to channel it into something with
The next summer, I set off on a two-month bicycle tour to Philadelphia to
Between 2002 and 2015, I
It generated enormous joy. It was not just a hug, but also
A.regret | B.purpose | C.reputation | D.profit |
A.amuse | B.check | C.honour | D.trick |
A.hired | B.met | C.avoided | D.treated |
A.pride | B.emptiness | C.sorrow | D.comfort |
A.strangers | B.volunteers | C.victims | D.consultants |
A.connections | B.schedules | C.donations | D.promises |
A.charted | B.studied | C.cycled | D.secured |
A.destination | B.achievement | C.mission | D.background |
A.particular | B.curious | C.positive | D.hesitant |
A.sincere | B.unclear | C.strange | D.awful |
A.got away | B.opened up | C.gave in | D.looked out |
A.share | B.type | C.edit | D.collect |
A.known | B.ambitious | C.civilized | D.friendly |
A.conversations | B.challenges | C.tensions | D.tolerances |
A.beautifies | B.publicizes | C.enriches | D.shelters |
3 . In a class many years ago, the teacher gave us the “unpardonable”—the class homework! The
You see, five years ago, my father and I had a
The next morning, I went to the office early and
But luckily, Dad did answer the door. I took a deep breath to
Two days after that visit, my dad, who had heart problems, but didn’t tell me, had a heart attack and
A.job | B.suggestion | C.assignment | D.promise |
A.If | B.Although | C.However | D.Also |
A.lost in | B.informed of | C.tired of | D.raised in |
A.unforgettable | B.disturbing | C.heated | D.emotional |
A.considered | B.enjoyed | C.admitted | D.avoided |
A.meetings | B.gatherings | C.celebrations | D.situations |
A.off | B.on | C.above | D.over |
A.left | B.accomplished | C.relaxed | D.stimulated |
A.stay up | B.hang out | C.show up | D.come over |
A.indifferent | B.impatient | C.pleasant | D.bitter |
A.thinking | B.considering | C.hoping | D.wondering |
A.worried | B.excited | C.confused | D.surprised |
A.calm | B.withdraw | C.encourage | D.persuade |
A.darkened | B.softened | C.tightened | D.strengthened |
A.ended up | B.picked up | C.got away | D.passed away |
4 . I am a cognitive behavioral hypnotherapist (认知行为治疗师). I started my practice from sleep disorders, and soon came to realize how strongly loneliness was linked with poor sleep. I’ve focused on my skills and understanding of loneliness in order to know how I could best serve my patients.
Loneliness is an emotion. We probably all experience it at some point, but loneliness is very complicated and unique to each of us. There’s a big difference between loneliness and solitude (独处). Being alone is a choice, while feeling lonely isn’t something we force ourselves. You want to be around people, but something is making you feel unwanted or empty, so you’re not having the meaningful connection you seek.
When you’re feeling lonely over a long period of time, it becomes a chronic (慢性的) problem. It can finally turn into a mental and physical health problem, and can be a symptom or cause of depression. It can affect self-respect. You might turn to food and not feel like exercising, as chronic loneliness is linked to increased risk of high blood pressure, obesity and even dementia (痴呆).
To manage loneliness, you need to accept it. Loneliness is one of the most common feelings people have. Don’t brush it under the carpet, as that doesn’t help solve the problem. Seek joy in little things, like smelling a flower or a walk in nature. Celebrate each small achievement. When you decide to change things and seek a connection in with others, consider ale-minded group. A patient of mine joined a sewing group and it was very successful.
The best way to help somebody who is lonely is to sensitively ask how they are and what they’re doing, and listen to the answer in a non-judgmental way. If you want to invite them to do something with you, do it. If they say no, don’t be discouraged from asking again. They might need time before feeling ready to say yes.
1. Why does the author focus on loneliness?A.To do research on patients’ sleep disorders. |
B.To find out the true reason for loneliness. |
C.To provide better service for patients. |
D.To help poor sleepers gain a better sleep. |
A.Accepting loneliness is the only cure. |
B.Hiding loneliness turns out to be unwise. |
C.Joining a sewing group proves successful. |
D.Meeting people with common interests won’t help. |
A.Invite him later again though he has refused. |
B.Leave him alone for fear of disturbing him. |
C.Tell him right from wrong after listening to him carefully. |
D.Ask about his conditions publicly when noticing him in a bad mood. |
A.Loneliness is a choice that people can choose by themselves. |
B.Loneliness is a factor that can influence your self-reflection. |
C.Loneliness is a serious problem that can cause dementia directly. |
D.Loneliness is a complicated emotion that people may all experience. |
Hunger
When I was a young boy, my mother would place spoonfuls of vegetables onto my plate whether I wanted them or not and the rule in our family was that we always had to clean our plates. However, I rarely saw my mother eat the vegetables herself. She always served us first. She seemed never hungry.
She worked for a rich lady in town, and I always assumed that the reason why she didn’t have our tasteless meals was that she had eaten meats and sweets in the rich lady’s kitchen. Our meals were boring, and there was never enough since there were ten of us — my parents plus eight children.
One afternoon my older sisters were sick, so they couldn’t take care of me. Therefore, my mother had no choice but to bring me with her. It was a long winter day and as my father hadn’t had much work, we had even less food than usual. So I was very excited to go to the rich woman’s house.
My mother placed me in a corner while she rolled out pie crust (饼皮). Then she cooked some meat, and by the afternoon, the pleasant smell filled the kitchen and was making its way into my empty stomach. Then, a bell rang in the kitchen and my mother told me, “Don’t move” and then left.
I tried to do as told, but then I thought it wouldn’t matter if I ate just one blackberry. So I put a single blackberry into my mouth. What an explosion of flavor! The wonderful taste hitting my empty stomach was more than I could handle! Soon I was throwing blackberries into my mouth with two hands! It wasn’t until I was staring at the empty bowl that I noticed the empty, unbaked pie crust sitting on the table waiting for the berries. I looked around for more berries, but there was none. Suddenly, I heard footsteps approaching, so I quickly hid into the cupboard (碗柜).
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1. 续写词数应为150左右;
2. 请在答题卡的相应位置作答。
Just at the moment, my mother entered the kitchen, following a well-dressed lady.
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After the lady left, I crept(爬) out of the cupboard with tears streaming down my face.
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6 . Auntie Zeny took care of me from the time I was born until I was 15. She didn’t join us for
It was
After leaving Hong Kong to attend high school in the USA, and
Now, my parents regularly send some of their allowance to Auntie Zeny to show their
A.talks | B.games | C.parties | D.meals |
A.separately | B.quickly | C.secretly | D.sadly |
A.signed | B.persuaded | C.ordered | D.encouraged |
A.opinion | B.solution | C.point | D.sense |
A.necessary | B.hard | C.possible | D.important |
A.ignore | B.blame | C.leave | D.defend |
A.complain | B.talk | C.tease | D.comment |
A.explanations | B.reasons | C.advice | D.evidence |
A.agreeing | B.fighting | C.claiming | D.offering |
A.basically | B.eventually | C.briefly | D.consequently |
A.understanding | B.missing | C.amusing | D.praising |
A.time | B.health | C.feelings | D.savings |
A.unknown | B.unqualified | C.unwelcome | D.unimportant |
A.fried | B.shared | C.healthy | D.formal |
A.admiration | B.kindness | C.understanding | D.appreciation |
7 . How to Practice Gratitude (感激) in Your Daily Life
Gratitude is a positive emotion. Learning how to practice it is an effort to remind yourself of the good in life and to show an internal appreciation for yourself and others.
Create a gratitude list. The intense stress of life can get you so caught up that we may fail to recognize the positive events or interactions we encounter on a daily basis.
Make a gratitude jar (罐). Make the jar fun and personable by decorating it and placing it where you can always see it. Every day, write down what you’re grateful for on a slip of paper and put it in the jar.
In conclusion, engaging in daily gratitude exercises can make a great difference. Showing gratitude helps you connect with positive emotions, focus on acknowledging the good, and shift your focus to positive aspects of life.
A.Share your gratitude with others |
B.Seek out opportunities to help others |
C.There are several gratitude activities and exercises |
D.As you fill it, it serves as a good reminder of good times |
E.It is better to keep track of whatever happens in your life |
F.You’ll also harvest the greatest rewards when it becomes a habit |
G.Writing down the positive moments helps put life into a better perspective |
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2. 可适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
Dear professor Wang,
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Silent friends in a life storm
Dear Annalisa,
My dad died unexpectedly a few months ago and I feel angry with some of my oldest friends, who have hardly contacted me since it happened.
Three months on, I’ve finally heard from some of them through text about other matters. I didn’t mention my sad stories, and they didn’t ask.
I understand that death is a frightening subject and that people might worry about saying the wrong thing. Yet I still feel a bit hurt by their lack of contact after my dad’s funeral (葬礼).
Now I don’t want to face them because I don’t want to make them feel guilty (内疚的). Normally they are extremely good friends who I love very much. I have other friends, so I can manage this without their support. I just want to let go of the anger so I can get through this sadness. Hope to receive your advice.
Yours,
Amy
Dear Amy,
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad’s death.
Your anger may come from being unable to ask for the help you need. You also seem worried about troubling your friends too much.
It is likely that your friends are very concerned about you. Perhaps their own fear of the subject is too big to comfort you and, just as you say, they are frightened of saying the wrong thing. Also, people often want to “fix” things, but no one can fix death, so they may feel powerless to help you. In these situations, you have to be brave to break the ice and tell them not only what you need, but also how to offer help.
If you really can’t ask your “silent” friends for help, maybe you could count more on those other friends. You might find some psychological (心理的) treatment useful as well. Talking to someone with professional knowledge who understands your situation can help you carry the burden of sadness.
Yours,
Annalisa
1. 根据文章内容,使用文章中的原词完成下列表格,每空一词。Amy’s problem | Some of her oldest friends have seldom contacted her since her dad’s death, making her feel angry and |
Annalisa’s analysis (分析) | ● Amy’s anger comes from the fact that she is ● The subject of death is so frightening that her friends are at a loss what to say to ● Her friends may feel powerless to help her solve the problem so they choose to keep |
Annalisa’s | ● Be brave to start a conversation with her friends. ● ● Seek |
2. 假如你是 Amy,请给Annalisa回一封信,表示感谢并告诉她你打算怎么做。写作词数应为40左右。
Dear Annalisa,
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Yours,
Amy
3. 假定你是Amy的朋友,得知她的困扰,你将如何提供帮助?请用英语写出你可以做的三件事。10 . Even though we may believe that it’s important to say thank you, sometimes expressing gratitude is easier said than done. We might find ourselves getting hung up on the best way to deliver the message.
However, it’s possible that we might be making our thanks more complex. In a paper, researchers compared the effects of expressing thanks in person, over a video call, and over text. And, while people generally expect an in-person thank you to be the most effective, what happened in reality was quite different: Sending a thank-you over text was almost as effective as that. Additionally, texting may be especially well-suited for situations where we feel awkward or embarrassed about expressing our appreciation.
In the study, 219 college students participated in a gratitude activity in which they wrote about three things they were grateful for over a two- week period. After writing, the students were asked to actually thank the persons involved. Some connected with the gratitude recipients (接受者) in person, others via video call, and others via text. At the beginning and end of the two weeks,participants completed surveys measuring their feelings of well-being, connections with others, loneliness and happiness.
The researchers found that people who expressed gratitude gained increased happiness, with only a few differences for the different methods of gratitude expression. Overall, video calls were just as beneficial as meeting in person. Texting was slightly less effective than video calling- it didn’t make people feel more connected and happier, while video calling did. However, participants who sent their thanks over text still experienced benefits: Texting improved their well- being and reduced their loneliness.
Overall, however, the message is that we shouldn’t worry about finding just the “best” way to express our gratitude. In fact, you re better off sending a quick thank you shortly after you receive the kindness than waiting for an occasion to schedule an in-person visit. Don’t put it off just for finding the best way—many times our gratitude goes unsaid because we spend too much time on the details.
1. What does the underlined word “that” in paragraph 2 refer to?A.Making a video call. | B.Sending a text message. |
C.Expressing thanks in person. | D.Writing a thank-you letter. |
A.To find the effect of expressing thanks on them. |
B.To measure their physical health. |
C.To collect a lot more ways to express thanks. |
D.To know their views on gratitude. |
A.In-person gratitude was less likely to be accepted. |
B.Expressing gratitude could benefit mental health. |
C.Ways of gratitude expression should be improved. |
D.Texting made the gratitude recipients much happier. |
A.Search for the best way. | B.Wait for an in-person visit. |
C.Express gratitude in time. | D.Make careful preparations. |