1 . Will your happiness differ if you are doing a kind action without any expectation of rewards or with an expectation of rewards? A study by University of Sussex, headed by Dr. Daniel CampbellMeikeljohn, tried to answer that question. He and his partners analyzed over 1, 000 brain scans from other studies related to reactions to making a decision based on kindness. They split the studies based on who was making a decision for altruistic (无私的) reasons and who was making a decision due to the expectation of an obvious reward. The results were interesting.
In both instances, the reward center of the brain lit up on the MRI scans (磁共振成像扫描). Yet, for those who made their decision without any rewards, other areas of the brain lit up as well. Specifically, it lit up the subgenual anterior cingulate cortex (前扣带皮层区域), which scientists believe plays a role in emotional regulation. Also, it might aid in maintaining excitement related to an event that creates a positive emotional state.
In one study about the subgenual anterior cingulate cortex, it is believed that this brain region could be related to depression if it isn’t developed properly or is dysfunctional. The fact that this part of the brain lights up during acts of generosity and caring without expectation of rewards shows that the altruistic individuals are getting more sustainable pleasure than those motivated by rewards. It also could aid in explaining how it helps depressive individuals feel happier after doing a kind deed.
We live in a society, and no man is a lonely island. We all need each other. For those who genuinely desire to help others regardless of repayment, maintaining a balance of helping others and yourself is very important. It is healthy and necessary to be kind to yourself, as well as to others.
1. Why did the author think the results interesting?A.There are no differences as to the litup area of the brain. |
B.The reward center of the brain lit up in one case alone. |
C.The subgenual anterior cingulate cortex makes no difference. |
D.The reward center of the brain lit up in both cases. |
A.It might help keep calm. | B.It may make a difference to controlling emotion. |
C.It can create positive emotion. | D.It has nothing to do with depression. |
A.Help others regardless of yourself. | B.Treat others and yourself with kindness. |
C.For the sake of yourself, lend a hand. | D.Practise kindness at all costs. |
2 . Signs that You Are Growing
Growing is a lifelong process. Here are the signs that show you are actually growing and not getting stuck in the process.
Often, we see how badly people look when they get overly upset due to unimportant things. So the first sign of maturity (成熟) is letting the small things go and not getting angry over a tiny detail that didn’t go as you planned.
You start forgiving and understanding other people.
When we are young, we are often unforgiving. As we mature, we are better able to understand the world beyond black and white. Becoming more understanding is a sign of strength, not weakness.
You always complete things that matter.
Immature people don’t know when to commit (承诺) themselves and their energy or resources are always not well employed.
You accept the possibility of being wrong.
Being mature is knowing that you are always growing up. You are never done learning and developing.
A.You follow the crowd. |
B.You let the small things go. |
C.Instead, mature people focus on completing things that matter. |
D.Immature and mature people can both have plans for their lives. |
E.This means that you don’t set yourself up as the highest authority. |
F.It enables us to look beyond the obvious and let go of simple judgments. |
G.Mature people appear more confident, however, they are not overconfident. |
3 . While scientists have many ideas, they are not certain why humans yawn(打哈欠). Still, there is one thing experts know—yawns seem to be contagious(传染)!
Have you ever caught a yawn from someone else? Most people have. In fact, a person is six times more likely to yawn after seeing someone else do so. Experts have done many studies into why yawns seem to pass from person to person. As a result, they have a few theories(理论) for the reason behind it.
One possible explanation has something to do with social mirroring, which is caused by mirror neurons(镜像神经元) in the brain. These mirror neurons help the brain notice useful behavior of others and then copy it. When one person sees another yawn, his mirror neurons observe the action and consider it to be beneficial. That may cause him to yawn, too.
Another popular theory is that yawns are contagious because of social relationships. Being social creatures, humans form friendships, families and live together in groups. That’s why many people mirror others, such as smiling when another person smiles. Yawning may be just another example of this. In fact, research has shown that one is most likely to catch yawns from another person if the two share a social relationship.
The answer could even be that yawns aren’t truly contagious at all. Instead, people yawn together simply because they’re in the same environment. Experts say many things may cause yawning, including temperature and time of day. Whatever the explanation is, experts do know that contagious yawns aren’t limited to humans. One study found that lions in South Africa also caught each other’s yawns.
1. What kind of behavior may be copied by mirror neurons?A.Important and attractive. | B.Useful and beneficial. |
C.Hard to understand. | D.Easy to copy. |
A.Those who yawn a lot. | B.Those who like smiling. |
C.Those closely connected with them. | D.Those sharing the same interest with them. |
A.Tips on how to avoid yawning in public. |
B.A real explanation for contagious yawning. |
C.Other examples of animals yawning together. |
D.Things that may cause yawning among humans. |
A.Why yawns are contagious | B.What causes people to yawn |
C.Who yawns more than others | D.Why humans yawn now and then |
4 . A therapy (治疗) client and I are working on an eating disorder and find it originated from a relationship break-up or perhaps being bullied in middle school. Such hurtful experiences led to not eating for a couple of weeks. Then comes a high praise from a friend that totally backfires. Maybe it’s an enthusiastic, “Wow, you look great!’’ In a flash, this praise excites an inner and often unconscious thought: “Oh, people care more about me if I lose weight. So many things feel out of control but I can control people’s affection by not eating.”
Often, very well-intentioned individuals offer praise out of a desire to uplift and connect. Such praise is often tied, directly or indirectly, to a person’s relationship with the standards of a specific group or institution. Sadly, such praise can easily reduce an individual’s dignity to their level in line with the group’s expectations rather than supporting their inherent (固有的) dignity and worth. So, what’s a better way?
One answer is to exit the game of “right and wrong” and enter a more life-giving focus on what needs are present. Returning to our example above, when you see that someone has lost weight and you want to give them a praise, just pause and take a deep breath. Simply ask, “How are you doing?” See them and hear them. Appreciate them as a person of limitless value. Know there may be much more to their inner world than meets the eye. Similarly, when you see someone’s success in school, appreciate the hard work they put into it. Ask with gentle curiosity, “How’s it been for you?” Listen with your full attention that in itself can be a rare gift in today’s hustle and bustle world.
By maintaining your concern and listening to the ways they want to be accompanied and supported — even when it might not be your first instinct — you can see them as a whole person, with complex feelings, very human needs, and inherent dignity.
1. What does the underlined word “backfires” in paragraph 1 refer to?A.Improves the situation. | B.Shows sincere concern. |
C.Removes hurtful feelings. | D.Produces an unexpected result. |
A.Analyzing the phenomenon. | B.Listing another example. |
C.Presenting the solution. | D.Making a proposal. |
A.To start a light conversation. |
B.To focus on one’s inner needs. |
C.To explore the secret of keeping slim. |
D.To show appreciation for one’s efforts. |
A.Say No to the “Right or Wrong” Game |
B.Why We Need to Make Praises to Others. |
C.Follow Me and Be a Qualified Therapist |
D.How Innocent Words can Be Harmful |
5 . It’s a great feeling when someone gives you a compliment (赞美), isn’t it?
When someone does an activity or a task particularly well, let him/her know about it by saying “You did a great job!”
When you’ve bought something new, it feels great when other people are excited about it. For example, if you take out your new mobile phone and a colleague says, “What a cool phone!”, it makes you feel like you made the right decision to buy it.
Compliment someone on their personalities and you'll make a new friend. For example, if you like how happy a coworker is, you can tell him/her, “You are always so happy. It makes my day better.”
A.It’s a useful way to start a conversation, too. |
B.Everyone likes compliments about their appearance. |
C.Be careful with compliments about appearance, though. |
D.So, try giving someone a compliment and see their reaction. |
E.Return the favor by complimenting others on nice things they own. |
F.To make the compliment more meaningful, make it more specific. |
G.Use compliments like this for any quality that you appreciate in a person. |
6 . Clear and effective communication not only can help you get what you want but also is important to successful relationships with your partner coworkers, bosses, and friends. You take part in some form of communication with others many times a day.
Few people have had any training in listening at all and they don’t know how to communicate with others. If you want to interact effectively with me, you first need to understand me. And you can’t do that with techniques alone.
Unless you understand me and my unique situation and feelings you won’t know how to advise me.
A.Being honest is the first step in good communication. |
B.At first there is not enough trust between two strangers. |
C.However, that doesn’t mean you’re communicating well. |
D.What you say is good and fine, but it doesn’t relate to me. |
E.But most people are not good at expressing themselves in public. |
F.Then, I don’t feel safe enough to express my opinions and my true feelings. |
G.If I sense you’re using some techniques, I will wonder what your purposes are. |
7 . Living in a modern society has its advantages and disadvantages. One disadvantage is that you often have to live closer to other people than you would like to. Sometimes, your neighbours make noise that you are not comfortable with.
The best way to solve this problem is to talk with your neighbour first. You should be very polite and ask your neighbour if he knows how thin the walls of your homes are. This way doesn’t criticise (批评) his behaviour; it simply points out that he may not realise how far his sound travels. Tell him that you know that sometimes you make noise as well, but that you do your best to keep it down. Often this will solve the problem right away, but sometimes the neighbour may become angry.
If your neighbour becomes angry with you, there are some more steps you can take. You might write a letter to the neighbourhood committee. Make sure you write down the source of the noise and the time in the letter. They will review the situation and decide whether your neighbour is out of line. Some noise is considered to be reasonable, even if it bothers you. So you may prepare a good pair of earplugs (耳塞).
Even if your neighbour makes too much noise, you don’t have to live your life in discomfort. It’s always a good idea to be friendly with your neighbours. You may clean the rubbish in front of his door. He’s sure to appreciate behaviour like this and be more open to your suggestions about the noise level.
1. What is the first step to deal with the noisy neighbour?A.To buy a good pair of earplugs. |
B.To offer suggestions to the neighbour. |
C.To ask the neighbourhood committee for help. |
D.To tell the neighbour how bad his behaviour is. |
A.terrible | B.loud |
C.proper | D.useful |
A.You should control your noise as well. |
B.You can live comfortably even if there is noise. |
C.Your neighbour may be more friendly than you think. |
D.You should offer some suggestions to your neighbour. |
A.why we should get on well with neighbours |
B.how to relax ourselves in modern society |
C.how to become known among neighbours |
D.what we should do with our noisy neighbours |
8 . When I started secondary school, aged 11, I found myself in a class with only two children I’d met before.
Spot similarities.
A.Pay attention |
B.But I soon got to know everyone |
C.But I soon failed to remember their names |
D.It’s always good to connect new information with things you already know |
9 . Calling someone your partner sounds wonderful, but it becomes even more enjoyable when that person is also your best friend. Here are five things that happen when your partner is your best friend.
Make each other laugh.
Cheer for each other. We all need our own personal cheer leader. Having someone who believes the best in us helps us to know the best in ourselves. Real friends realize our advantages even when we don’t.
Bring out the best in each other. Some people show best parts of themselves while others can bring out the best in you.
Lend a helping hand. Good friends come together to lend a helping hand. They see the need and help to meet the need.
A.Share your hidden side. |
B.Never be afraid of weaknesses. |
C.Great friends know how to get laughs out of one another. |
D.When they join you, you can come up with creative ideasl |
E.When you spend time alone, you feel better about yourselves. |
F.For example, they often help to take out the litter or clean the floor. |
G.They support us and encourage us when we are upset or disappointed. |
10 . Self-confidence is about trusting your judgement and your ability to do something well. It is also about being willing to consider the possibility that you are wrong and change your mind. It is a combination of courage and humility, which leads to open-minded thinking.
·One of the reasons is the home environment where children grow and develop. They may find it difficult to develop self-confidence if their parents are critical or overprotective. Once they fail to fulfill expectations, they may feel bad about themselves and get trapped in the cage of self-doubt.
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Self-confidence can be improved
·Work on positive thinking. A positive attitude will lead to positive results. Go for it and don’t worry about letting others down.
·Set realistic goals for yourself and visualize yourself achieving these goals.
A.Instead, try to make up for lost time |
B.All they expect is that you do your best |
C.Confidence is built an a sense of accomplishment |
D.Children spare no effort to satisfy parents’ expectations |
E.Negative experiences also have a huge impact on self-confidence |
F.Low self-confidence, in contrast, will make you feel unmotivated |
G.The reasons for low self-confidence often differ from person to person |