1 . When you set a foot outside of your door to drop trash, go to a social event or go for a walk, thoughts like “I hope I don’t see anyone I know” or “please don’t talk to me” may run through your mind. I’ve also said such things to myself. Sometimes the last thing you want to do is to talk with someone, especially someone new.
Why do we go out of our ways to avoid people? Do we think meeting new people is a waste of time? Or are we just lazy, thinking that meeting someone new really is a trouble?
Communication is the key to life. We have been told that many times. Take the past generations, like our parents, for example. They seem to take full advantage of that whole “communication” idea because they grew up talking face to face while Generation-Y grew up staring at screens. We spend hours of our days sitting on Facebook. We send messages to our friends and think about all of the things we want to say to certain people that we don’t have the courage to do in reality.
Nowadays, we are so caught up in our little circle of friends—our comfort zone. We love it that they laugh at our jokes, understand our feelings and can read our minds. Most importantly, they know when we want to be alone. They just get us.
Holding a conversation with someone new means agreeing with things that you don’t really believe and being someone you think they want you to be—it is, as I said before, a trouble. It takes up so much energy, and at some point or another, it is too tiring.
But meeting new people is important. Life is too short, so meet all the people you can meet, make the effort to go out and laugh. Remember, every “hello” leads to a smile—and a smile is worth a lot.
1. What do we learn about the author?A.He likes to meet someone new. | B.He feels stressed out lately. |
C.He’s active in attending social events. | D.He used to be afraid of talking to others. |
A.They rely on the Internet to socialize. | B.They are less confident in themselves. |
C.They have difficulty in communicating. | D.They are unwilling to make new friends. |
A.They think it troublesome. | B.They are busy with their study. |
C.They fear to disappoint their friends. | D.They want to do meaningful work. |
A.To stress the importance of friends. |
B.To give tips on how to meet new people. |
C.To encourage people to meet new people. |
D.To display the disadvantages of Generation-Y. |
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It was Sunday. I was doing housework while someone knocked at the door. It was a milkman who sent a bottle of milk. But I didn’t order them. Feeling confused, I noticed a note stick to it. The note says “Dear neighbor, I’m sorry about a noise made by our decoration that will last for three days. The bottle of milk is given to you as a gift show our apology.”
The next day, everyone in the neighborhood were talking about the milk and our coming neighbor. With the decoration being finished, the family finally moved into the neighborhood. People came to help. I was deep touched by this scene which was full on consideration and appreciation.
3 . Everyone can benefit from better communication.
Verbal language is only one aspect of the communication—body language is another aspect. If you ever wanted to know how to tell if someone is lying, body language is the answer. Your body language tells other people what you aren’t verbally saying, such as if you are anxious, confident, confused, angry or any other type of emotion or state of mind. If you become great at reading body language,it will help you become a better communicator.
Listen to others
Before you ever begin to speak, take a minute to see if anyone else has something to say.
Think before you speak
You parents probably told you this as a child, but many people still do not take a moment to think about the words they are about to say.
A.This is not and over-night thing. |
B.Singing a song for them is good. |
C.Become fluent in body language |
D.Don’t try to make the conversation go your way. |
E.You should decide what you want to get in any conversation before you choose your words. |
F.If you are too anxious, you can’t find the right body language to use in the communication. |
G.In fact, if everybody were excellent communicators, the world would be a much better place. |
4 . Eyes can speak
Much meaning can be conveyed, clearly, with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.
The same is true in our daily life. If you are stared at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down to see if there is anything wrong with you.
Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive.
However, when two people are engaged in a conversation, the speaker will only look into the listener’s eyes from time to time to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking.
Actually, eye contact should be made based on specific relationships and situations.
A.That’s what normal eye contact is all about. |
B.But things are different when it comes to staring at the opposite sex |
C.Therefore, continuous eye contact is limited to lovers only. |
D.On the contrary, it will give him away. |
E.After all, nobody likes to be stared at for quite a long time. |
F.Do you have such kind of experience? |
G.If nothing goes wrong, you will feel annoyed at being stared at that way. |
5 . Quite often, no matter how good you are, your success is dependent on how other people such as your boss, peers, clients and customers perceive your communication and responses. So when you come to people who make the key difference between helping you or holding you back, how can you influence and persuade them to give what you want?
Psychological researches repeatedly show that people generally make up their minds on whether to help or hinder you based on whether they like you or not. It is human nature. What can you do about it? You need to make a good impression on others to ensure they like you and give you what you want. Research again shows that people give opportunities to the people they like best. In fact, most people actually make up their minds about other people in the first five minutes or less of meeting someone. These are called first impressions or “moments of truth” .
Once they make up their minds, they tend to be very reluctant to change their opinions. You hardly have room for error when making that first impression on a new acquaintance. Therefore, whether you are applying for a job, going for an interview, attending a meeting with your boss or peers, or serving a customer, you need to prepare yourself mentally and rehearse how you will manage the first few minutes of your interaction. This includes doing your homework to gather information and researching all possible issues so you will know how to address them should the other party raise them unexpectedly.
It is amazing how poorly some people can come across at the beginning. The worst thing is that they do not even seem to realize it. Having good qualifications and an excellent work performance does not excuse candidates from trying to make a good first impression.
1. What is the passage mainly about?A.Persuading people to like you. | B.People making the key difference. |
C.Winning strategies for a job interview. | D.Making a good first impression. |
A.They make quick decisions. |
B.They change their opinions frequently. |
C.They prefer people who are experienced. |
D.They pay much attention to good qualifications. |
A.Show your friendliness and confidence. |
B.Ask the interviewers for homework to do. |
C.Know as much as possible about the situation. |
D.Do something unexpected to impress interviewers. |
A.Examples of how good first impressions help people succeed. |
B.Some practical advice to help make a good first impression. |
C.Questions that might be asked by the interviewers. |
D.How to win over people who don't like you at first. |
Have you ever been too shy to express thanks towards someone? Well, a new study says you should not worry about that so much.
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8 . Every parent has experienced the mixed bag of emotions when it comes to their kids being invited to their friends’ birthday parties.
The newest birthday party trend is here to change that dilemma.
If your child is constantly invited to birthday parties, the costs can really add up. By cutting down the cost, parents can save a lot of money. By cutting down on the number of toys, it is both environmentally friendly and teaches children that value of owning thigs that they actually want and need, rather than be surrounded by a sea of $20 toys they will never touch.
Another benefit is that it evens out the playing field.
This new trend lets kids be kids and allows them to focus on the real purpose of the birthday party: having fun with their friends.
A.Many gifts may end up lying around your house untouched. |
B.This is also a win for all of the parents whose kids are invited to the party. |
C.The “Fiver Party” might be a brilliant solution to this very problem. |
D.This practical approach reduces waste and overconsumption. |
E.The “Fiver Party” takes the guesswork out of trying to purchase the perfect gift. |
F.On one hand, they’re happy because their child is being included and has an active social life. |
G.Every child brings the same exact gift without worrying about whether their gift was “good enough”. |
9 . Living together with other students may be a wonderful experience for you. If you can deal with it well, you and your roommates will probably enjoy a happy life and even build a lifelong friendship.
Choose your roommates carefully if you are given permission. Combining the living spaces of several students into one location can be an exciting and beneficial experience for the outgoing students.
Divide the bills equally. Some students are far less responsible than their roommates.
Carry your part of the load. Everyone has to clean the bathroom and the kitchen sometimes. Don't avoid your part of responsibility. Student accommodation can get messy and it involves everyone to keep tidy and healthy.
Be open and honest. Hostility between roommates may cause problems that can't be fixed. Everyone brings different standards and expectations to group living.
A.They tend to let their part of the finance slide. |
B.Here are a few tips for student accommodation. |
C.It is quite easy to get along with outgoing students. |
D.Think about someone else before you think about yourself. |
E.It's in everyone's best interest to put them into the open. |
F.If you are on the shy side, or prefer a quiet group, pick quieter roommates. |
G.Telling a lie or saying rude words to your roommates may hurt their feelings. |
Living by the Rules
Almost every community in the real world has some form of rules. A community is a group of people who are united by a number of factors, including geography, language, and values that dictate acceptable behavior. So why do we have rules, and what makes people follow them?
Studies have suggested that the reason we don’t like cheating and rule-breaking is because fairness is programmed into our brains. Tricomi et al (2010) have found that the brain reacts in a particular way when we feel we are being treated unfairly. The study identified a reaction in a specific part of the brain when test subjects were given less money than others. A fair situation makes our brains respond in ways that lead to feelings of comfort and even happiness, but unfairness causes our brains to respond with negative feelings such as anger and pain. The study found that this also happened when subjects saw other people being treated unfairly. They concluded that fairness is a basic human need along with food and social contact.
Our sense of fairness depends on the influences in our culture, the situation we are in, and our own self-interest. If we have a feeling of fairness, it means that we consider different points of view. Regardless of the disagreement, people almost always need to compromise. But it can be difficult to arrive at a compromise when there are conflicting interests. This is why communities have rules that everyone must follow.
Social controls are an important factor in setting and following rules. They influence the way we behave, and can be internal or external. Internal controls come from within and are based on our values and fears. Most of us don’t steal, for example, because we believe that theft is wrong. External controls include rewards and punishments. They do not come from within but are implemented by an authority. Rewards are designed to encourage people to act in the interest of the whole community, while punishments can prevent people from acting against the community’s best interests, regardless of their values.
People need their communities to function smoothly. Because of this, humans most often behave in orderly and fair ways. If there were no rules, the majority of people would probably continue to interact positively, like the subjects in the online avatar study. However, there would always be a minority who would not, with serious consequences. This is why a society without rules is unlikely to become a reality any time soon—at least not in the real world.
1. What is the passage mainly about?2. Why do researchers believe that fairness is a basic human need?
3. What is the difference between internal controls and external controls?
4. Would you like to live in a community with no rules? Why or why not? (about 40 words)