1 . Eyes can speak
Much meaning can be conveyed, clearly, with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.
The same is true in our daily life. If you are stared at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down to see if there is anything wrong with you.
Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive.
However, when two people are engaged in a conversation, the speaker will only look into the listener’s eyes from time to time to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking.
Actually, eye contact should be made based on specific relationships and situations.
A.That’s what normal eye contact is all about. |
B.But things are different when it comes to staring at the opposite sex |
C.Therefore, continuous eye contact is limited to lovers only. |
D.On the contrary, it will give him away. |
E.After all, nobody likes to be stared at for quite a long time. |
F.Do you have such kind of experience? |
G.If nothing goes wrong, you will feel annoyed at being stared at that way. |
2 . Will Covid-19 Kill the Handshake?
The handshake might date back to the 14th century, when knights and soldiers would extend their unclenched (松开的) right hands toward each other in greeting to show that they were carrying no weapons.
Now that a novel coronavirus is spreading fast, our hands are being cast in a new, doubtful light.
Could this be the end of the handshake? In fact, the tradition of shaking hands isn’t the only greeting to take a fresh look. A Maori tribe in New Zealand put the brakes on hongi, the traditional nose-to-nose hello.
COVID-19 is a real threat, and we shouldn’t take the warning lightly. We may, indeed, need to keep our hands to ourselves for the time being.
A.Could we hug each other or nod? |
B.As we all know, shaking hands has become a habit. |
C.But we’re not ready to send handshake into the dustbin of history. |
D.After all, our friendly intentions were not to infect or be infected by others. |
E.These days, it would seem, the potential weapon isn’t a knife, but the hand itself. |
F.We’re being drilled in hand washing techniques as if we were all second-graders. |
G.The French have been advised to abandon the familiar kiss on the cheek greeting. |
How often do you say “thank you” to someone? Expressing we respect the persons we are grateful to can make our relationship
Expressing gratitude shows we care for the person who receives the gratitude. When we say “thank you” to another, we often respond with
In addition to serving as a response to a good deed, it is clear that sharing in feelings of kindness in our relationship
Expressing gratitude
Expressing gratitude makes us feel happy,
The American writer Mark Twain once
Compliments also play
It is also important to know how to accept a compliment
5 . Teens who have good, supportive relationships with their teachers enjoy better health as adults, according to research published by an American research center.
“This research suggests that improving students’ relationships with teachers could have positive and long-lasting effects beyond just academic success,” said Jinho Kim, a professor at Korea University and author of the study. “It could also bring about health implications in the long run.” Previous research has suggested that teens’ social relationships might be linked to health outcomes in adulthood. However, it is not clear whether the link between teen relationships and lifetime health is causal (因果的) — it could be that other factors, such as different family backgrounds, might contribute to both relationship problems in adolescence and to poor health in adulthood. Also, most research has focused on teens’ relationships with their peers (同龄人), rather than on their relationships with teachers.
To explore those questions further, Kim analyzed data on nearly 20, 000 participants from the Add Health study, a national study in the U. S. that followed participants from seventh grade into early adulthood. The participant pool included more than 3, 400 pairs of siblings (兄弟姐妹). As teens, participants answered questions, like “How often have you had trouble getting along with other students and your teachers?” As adults, participants were asked about their physical and mental health.
Kim found that participants who had reported better relationships with both their peers and teachers in middle and high school also reported better physical and mental health in their mid-20s. However, when he controlled for family background by looking at pairs of siblings together, only the link between good teacher relationships and adult health remained significant.
The results suggest teacher relationships are more important than previously realized and that schools should invest in training teachers on how to build warm and supportive relationships with their students. “This is not something that most teachers receive much training in,” Kim said, “but it should be.”
1. What does the underlined word “implications” in Paragraph 2 refer to?A.Recipes. | B.Habits. | C.Risks. | D.Benefits. |
A.Poor health in adolescence. | B.Teens’ relationships with their peers. |
C.Limitations of the previous research. | D.Factors affecting health in adulthood. |
A.Positive student-teacher relationship helps students’ adult health. |
B.Good family background promises long-term adult health. |
C.Healthy peer relationships leads to students’ academic success. |
D.Good adult health depends on teens’ good teachers. |
A.A medical report. | B.A health magazine. | C.A term paper. | D.A family survey. |
6 . Getting along with people can be tough.
Accept human nature.
Humans make mistakes. People aren’t always nice. They also have all of the problems that you have in your life.
People are all very different: that’s what makes life interesting. And just like people are all different, the world is also very complex. Every situation is different, always. Just because someone doesn’t make the choice that you would make or just because they take a less efficient or smart path to get where they’re going doesn’t make them wrong.
Practice forgiveness.
Do something together.
A.Think about what your words really say. |
B.Respect that there are lots of valid choices. |
C.The following are some suggestions that can help you in some way. |
D.Everyone is dealing with their own set of problems. |
E.Doing things together is a great way to bond with people and make friends. |
F.Forgive people when they do make mistakes. |
G.Even when someone’s making you mad, thank them for their effort to help or their suggestions. |
7 . In the days before air conditioning, a wife and her husband were visiting her parents in a small town. As they were relaxing one day, the wife’s father suggested that they all drive to Abilene for dinner. The son-in-law dreaded the hot drive to a town 53 miles away, but said OK to avoid being a rude guest. The wife and mother-in-law both said it sounded good, so they went off.
Having the not very good food and returning home hot and sweaty, the mother-in-law said they would never have taken the terrible trip if it had been up to her. The son-in-law said that he chose to agree because the others wanted to go. Finally, the father-in-law said he only suggested it because he thought the younger couple might be bored at home.
This story happened to Jerry B. Harvey who later became a university professor. In 1974 he told it in an article entitled, “The Abilene Paradox (悖论): The Management of Agreement”, which shows that sometimes a consensus (一致) of opinion may not lead to achieving the desired result. The Abilene paradox sounds like groupthink. But in fact, groupthink members are voting according to their conscience (是非感) while Abilene “paradoxers” are not.
Going along to get along arises from a desire to avoid conflict and unwillingness to be seen as the “spoiler” who criticizes ideas and plans that others favor. The choice to go against one’s conscience to please the group produces cognitive dissonance (认识失调), and could involve personal risk to relationships or career or both.
The only way for either groupthink or the Abilene paradox in planning or decision-making situations is to avoid agreeing publicly with something you disagree with privately. You can’t control what others in the group do, but at least you can speak up, “I’ll go if everyone else wants to, but I’d be just happy to stay here and relax”.
1. What do we know about the son-in-law?A.He was good at pleasing others. | B.He didn’t want to take the trip. |
C.He behaved badly during the visit. | D.He was treated as an honored guest. |
A.She helped the family make a decision. | B.She suggested taking some food along. |
C.She had an argument with her family. | D.She made a complaint about the trip. |
A.It is difficult to make a balance. |
B.It is impossible to avoid a conflict. |
C.It is unnecessary to satisfy everyone. |
D.It is impolite to blame a person publicly. |
A.A man should find right ways to relax. |
B.A man should consider others’ ideas deeply. |
C.A man should actively participate in group discussions. |
D.A man should express himself directly in decision-making. |
8 . “Did you hear what happened to Adam Last Friday?” Lindsey whispers to Tori.
With her eyes shining, Tori brags, “You bet I did, Sean told me two days ago.”
Who are Lindsey and Tori talking about? It just happened to be yours truly, Adam Freedman. I can tell you that what they are saying is not nice and not even true. Still, Lindsey and Tori aren’t very different from most students here at Linton High School, including me. Many of our conversations are gossip (闲话). I have noticed three effects of gossip: it can hurt people, it can give gossipers a strange kind of satisfaction, and it can cause social pressures in a group.
An important negative effect of gossip is that it can hurt the person being talked about. Usually, gossip spreads information about a topic — breakups, trouble at home, even dropping out — at a person would rather keep secret. The more embarrassing or shameful the secret is, the juicier the gossip it makes. Probably the worst type of gossip is the absolute lie. People often think of gossipers as harmless, but cruel lies can cause pain.
If we know that gossip can be harmful, then why do so many of us do it? The answer lies in another effect of gossip: the satisfaction it gives us. Sharing the latest rumor (传言) can make a person feel important because he or she knows something that others don’t. Similarly, hearing the latest rumor can make a person feel like part of the “in group.” In other words, gossip is satisfying because it gives people a sense of belonging or even superiority (优越).
Gossip also can have a third effect: it strengthens unwritten, unspoken rules about how people should act. Professor David Wilson explains that gossip is important in policing behaviors in a group. Translated into high school terms, this means that if everybody you hang around with is laughing at what John wore or what Jane said, then you can bet that wearing or saying something similar will get you the same kind of negative attention. The do’s and don’ts conveyed through gossip will never show up in any student handbook.
The effects of gossip vary depending on the situation. The next time you feel the urge to spread the latest news, think about why you want to gossip and what effects your “juicy story” might have.
1. The author uses a conversation at the beginning of the passage to ________.A.clarify his writing purpose |
B.present an argument |
C.describe the characters |
D.introduce a topic |
A.causes unpleasant experiences |
B.embarrasses the listener |
C.spreads information around |
D.breaks op relationships |
A.help them to make more friends |
B.gives them a feeling of pleasure |
C.makes them better at telling stories |
D.enables them to meet important people |
A.help people watch their own behaviors |
B.provide students with written rules |
C.force school to improve student handbooks |
D.attract the police’s attention to group behaviors |
A.Never become a gossiper. |
B.Think twice before you gossip. |
C.Don’t let gossip turn into lies. |
D.Stay away from gossipers. |
9 . The continuous increase in the number of COVID-19 cases worldwide has had a deep and broad effect on how we live and interact with one another, resulting in many changes that are likely to be long-lasting.
For example, to reduce contact during COVID-19, shaking hands, a standard style of greeting used by officials and businessmen has been replaced. In the US, the country hardest-hit by the outbreak, with over 36 million confirmed cases of COVID-19 and more than 610,000 deaths, the top health official said such social gatherings should end, even when COVID-19 is over. Anthony Fauci, director of the US National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, told The Wall Street Journal, “I don't think we should ever shake hands ever again, to be honest with you.” Neel Gandhi, a professor at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, told ESPN, a US sports broadcaster, “When we talk about transmission, the hands are the place that I focus on the most.”
If such advice from health experts is followed, it will produce a big shift in human behavior. However, some people are finding alternative ways to greet one another at a time when direct contact is disapproved of. In South Korea, bowing deeply has become popular. In Australia, officials have suggested that people pat each other on the back instead of shaking hands.
Handshakes are just one form of contact that has largely ended during COVIO-19, along with hugging and high-fives. As many people worldwide rebuild their social lives, experts are predicting that some degree of social contact will disappear for good.
Chen Xuefeng, deputy director of the Institute of Psychology at the Chinese Academy of Sciences, said. “In the post-COVID-19 era, people are likely to behave more discreetly for a while. They will pay more attention to themselves, such as caring for their health, spending more time alone, moving offline activities online, socializing less and saving more.” Chen added, “This new way of life means that some industries whore old habits are deep-rooted will face challenges in upgrading.”
1. What does Anthony Eauci suggest doing in the face of COVID-19?A.Avoiding handshakes. | B.Ending social gatherings. |
C.Moving offline activities online. | D.Using a standard style of greeting. |
A.By data. | B.By example. |
C.By experiment. | D.By imagination. |
A.Carefully. | B.Confidently. |
C.Capably. | D.Comically. |
A.Old unnecessary habits worldwide. |
B.Traditional forms of communication. |
C.The disasters in the post-COVID-19 era. |
D.The social contact changes caused by COVID-19. |
10 . Teachers often encourage students to express the spirit of generosity and kindness.
●Create a connected classroom. The best way to create the emotional association is to set up a safe and caring classroom. Therefore, work together with your students to make kindness and understand the classroom rule. As they develop a stronger sense of belonging students will become more unselfish. And building this type of "connected" classroom can help to strengthen their generous motivation.
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●Don't reward unselfish behavior!
A.It can also improve their grades. |
B.It is children's nature to help others. |
C.And actually they do it for good reasons. |
D.Keep telling students the language of connection. |
E.Many students find it very hard for them to express their natural goodness. |
F.Telling stories about extraordinary acts of kindness can inspire unselfish behavior. |
G.Therefore, have students write a handful of sentences about those who care about them. |