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Small talk has a reputation for being uninteresting, and for good reason. Pointing out the fact that it’s raining seems as ridiculous as pointing out the fact that you have a head—you’re fully aware of both things, and don’t require an outsider to confirm them. But despite being evident and often painfully dull, small talk has an important role to fulfil, enabling us to leap over a number of social obstacles towards improved, meaningful interaction.

Humans can be sensitive souls. We each have our boundaries and lists of potential upsets, which when broken, cause us to either gently back away to an alternative position in the room, or become cross at the person. Small talk is first a way to test the waters with an unfamiliar person, so that you may better understand their personality. When finding yourself positioned closely to a person who you know little about, it’s much safer to point out the rainy sky than to share your political views on a sensitive topic. Until you know the person better, heavier topics should probably be kept under wraps, so you won’t find yourself on the receiving end of a cold stare.

Though insignificant, small talk still has great power. When talking with fellow humans, much of our soul is exposed through non-verbal communication. A response to “how was your weekend” can unveil much about the person’s character. The length of their response might indicate their level of self-confidence; the tone of speaking might show how agreeable a person is; their slightly lowered head, as if protecting themselves from attack, a possible sign of a regrettable history of bullying.

As more of a person’s character is revealed, we have the insight needed to determine whether to broach more significant topics—the things that we actually want to talk about. Conversation is a great educator, and deep conversation establish lasting bonds with our fellow humans, forming precious friendships that paint our lives with vibrant colors. Such friendships begin with small talk.

1. What is described in the first paragraph?
A.The first stage of human interaction.
B.Ridiculous human behavior in communication.
C.Absence of communication between strangers.
D.The difficulty of having deep conversations.
2. Why do people find themselves “on the receiving end of a cold stare”?
A.Because they are fond of heavy subjects.
B.Because they are enthusiastic about politics.
C.Because they are too sensitive about topics.
D.Because they fail to manage interpersonal distance.
3. What might be a sign of friendliness according to paragraph 3?
A.The length of the answer.B.The quality of the voice.
C.The position of the head.D.The distance between speakers.
4. What might be the best title for the text?
A.Reputation of Small TalkB.Ways of Understanding Personality
C.Significance of Small TalkD.Challenges of Deep Conversation

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