“Do not tell anyone”. We often hear these words when someone tells us a secret. But keeping a secret is hard. We’re often tempted to “spill the beans”, even if we regret it later.
According to the professor, Asim Shah, keeping a secret may well “become a burden”. This is because people often have an “eager and anxious urge to share it with someone”. An earlier study, led by Anita, a scientist at the University of Notre Dame, US, suggested that keeping a secret could cause stress. People entrusted with secrets can suffer from depression, anxiety, and body aches, reported the Daily Mail.
Secrets are so often getting out. Why do people share them at all? Shah explained that people often feel that it will help them keep a person as a friend. Another reason people share secrets is guilt over keeping it from someone close to them. A sense of distrust can develop when people who are close do not share it with each other. “Keeping or sharing secrets often puts people in a position of either gaining or losing the trust of someone, ”according to Shah.
He added that talkative people could let secrets slip out. But this doesn’t mean that it is a good idea only to share secrets with quiet people. A quiet person may be someone who keeps everything inside. To tell such a person a secret may cause them stress, and make them talk about the secret.
Shah said that to judge whether to tell someone a secret, you’d better put yourself in their position. Think about how you would feel to be told that you mustn’t give the information away. Shah also recommended that if you accidentally give up someone’s secret you should come clean about it. Let the person know that their secret isn’t so secret any more.
1. What does the underlined phrase “spill the beans” mean?A.Keep silent. | B.Tell the truth. | C.Let out a secret. | D.Eat our words. |
A.2. | B.3. | C.4. | D.5. |
A.Quiet people are more likely to keep the secrets to themselves. |
B.Sharing secrets helps establish friendship or get over the sense of guilt. |
C.A person asked to keep a secret will suffer from psychological problems only. |
D.Putting yourself in others’ shoes helps realize the difficulty of keeping secrets. |
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【推荐1】Signs of Healthy Friendships
Once in a while it’s helpful to see if your friendship is as healthy as it can be. You might get used to a friendship over time to the point where you don’t see the room for improvement. And since great friendships are priceless, you should always surround yourself with the kind of people who will lift your spirits, make you laugh, and remind(提醒) you that you are loved.
Friends make you feel comfortable with yourself, so you don’t need to act like someone you’re not. Your friends know your shortcomings and love you anyway. You are perhaps the “best version” of yourself when you’re with your friends.
A healthy friendship includes plenty of gentle honesty. True friends won’t pretend(假装) just to avoid an argument.
They argue in a healthy way.
One of the biggest misunderstandings about good friends is that they never fight. But let’s face it: everyone fights.
Healthy friendships mean you can be friends with someone else, too.
A.Even if you have the best friend, it doesn’t hurt to expand your social circle. |
B.In a positive friendship, your friends won’t lie to you, and they won’t hurt your feelings either. |
C.With an unhealthy friendship, you know clearly that something is “off”. |
D.Arguing isn’t unhealthy. |
E.Good friends lose touch with each other from time to time. |
F.Good friends are real and honest with each other. |
G.Is your friendship as healthy as it can be? |
【推荐2】A new study of 8,000 young people in the journal of Health and Social Behavior shows that although love can make grown-ups live healthily and happily, it is a bad thing for young people. Puppy love (早恋) may bring trouble for young people and can cause depression (沮丧). The study shows that girls become more depressed than boys,and young girls are the worst of all.
The possible reason for the connection between love and higher risk of depression for girls is “loss of self”. According to the study,even though boys would say “lose themselves in a romantic (浪漫的) relationship”, this “loss of self” is much more likely to cause depression when it happens to girls. Young girls who have romantic relationships usually like hiding their feelings and opinions. They won’t tell that to their parents.
Dr. Marianm Kaufman, who works on young people problems, says 15% to 20% of young people will have depression during their growing. Trying romance often causes the depression. She advises kids not to jump into romance too early. During growing up,it is important for young people to build strong friendship and a strong sense of self. She also suggests the parents should encourage their kids to keep close to their friends,attend more interesting school activities and spend enough time with family.
Parents should watch for their children’s eating or mood changes. If they see some,they need to give help. The good news is that the connection between romance and depression seems to become weak with age. Love will always make us feel young,but only maturity (成熟) gives us a chance to avoid its bad side effects.
1. What’s the main idea of the passage?A.Puppy love may bring young people depression. |
B.Parents should agree to their children’s love. |
C.Romance is a two-edged sword for grown-ups. |
D.Romance is good for young people. |
A.Young people who have a strong sense of self. |
B.Young boys whose parents watch for their behavior. |
C.Careless parents whose children are deep in love. |
D.Young girls who always hide their feelings and opinions. |
A.is for | B.is against |
C.is not interested in | D.thinks highly of |
A.chat more on line |
B.keep close to their friends |
C.attend more interesting activities |
D.spend more time with their family |
【推荐3】Sometimes meeting friends can be confusing, especially when you suddenly find yourself in a new school or for whatever reason totally without friends.
Volunteering. Volunteering is a good thing to do all the way around. It helps build your self-esteem, it forces you to connect with others, and it gets you outside of your normal routine.
Joining a book club. If you are into books and authors, there are several great ways to connect with new people. One of them is by joining a book group. I joined a book group that I wouldn’t “normally” have joined. It helped me read books that I would not have picked out myself and communicate with different people.
A.Doing new things. |
B.Joining a new club. |
C.Making new friends can come easy to some people. |
D.Why not make friends while you help someone else? |
E.There have been some very nice surprises this way for me. |
F.Then you’ll be in the mood (心情) to experience something special. |
G.But you can connect with others from several organizations and websites. |
【推荐1】Research found gophers (囊地鼠) might improve conditions for root growth inside their underground tunnels. This could help the root-eating gophers get enough food in areas that don’t naturally contain lots of roots. If gophers aid the growth of food in this way, it might be counted as a type of farming.
Gophers spend a lot of energy digging their tunnels. Two researchers, Jack Putz and Veronica Selden from the University of Florida, got curious about where they got all this energy. So in 2021, the two investigated some gophers in Florida. They studied roots near 12 gopher tunnels to estimate how much root mass a gopher would encounter as it dug a meter of tunnel. Then the researchers calculated how much energy those roots would provide. They found digging cost the gophers about as much energy as the roots provided.
They also examined gopher tunnels. Poop (粪便) was spread along the tunnels. Gophers also seemed to have taken a few bites out of the roots. All suggested the gophers bad provided conditions conducing to root growth. Their poop served as fertilizer. And biting also encouraged root growth. They now think this amounts to a form of farming.
But the idea meets doubts. “I don’t think you could call it farming,” biologist Pynne says, “Biting roots and pooping mightn’t be signs of farming. Gophers could just be doing what all animals do,” Biologist Ulrich Mueller says. “If gophers could be regarded as farmers, then most animals are farmers. These animals also create good growing conditions for the plants they feed on. Take cows, for example. Their poop fertilizes the grass. But farmers don’t consider cows as their colleagues.” Selden understands the doubts but thinks what qualifies the gophers as farmers and sets them apart from other animals is that they develop and maintain this ideal growing environment.
Putz hopes their research makes people kinder to gophers. “If you put in ‘gopher’ online, you’ll see many ways to kill them,” he says. If people see gophers as useful animals, they might treat them better.
1. What did the researchers find about gophers?A.They dug holes on the farm. | B.They bedded roots in the tunnel. |
C.They helped improve farming methods. | D.They acquired energy from roots. |
A.Belonging to. | B.Pointing to. | C.Favouring. | D.Balancing. |
A.To show farmers depend on them. | B.To present they benefit root growth. |
C.To deny gophers are viewed as farmers. | D.To prove their poop can serve as fertilizer. |
A.Treat them as explorers. | B.Avoid hurting them. |
C.Publicize them online. | D.Protect their habitats. |
【推荐2】It is rightly said one can share any secret with a true friend. He may know your deepest fears and weaknesses and yet will never take advantage of you. However, keeping a friend’s secrets to yourself and not telling the world is what makes the bond grow strong and last forever. You need to develop trust and mutual (互相的) understanding before you start sharing secrets with each other. With friends, secret talks never seem to end and it can get really amusing to know what has been going on in your friend’s mind.
There is a certain time in life especially from the teenage years when one starts having a personal periphery (界限) in life and parents are excluded (排斥) from it. It is because there are certain things that they can’t understand and we can’t discuss with them. That is when friends become the best secret sharers. They are the ones to whom one reveals one’s feelings and best kept secrets.
It is a general belief that only girls share secrets. But boys have their own secrets that they discuss with only closest friends. The secret talks can range (变化) from relationships, talks about fights with parents, secret activities and anything that is not supposed to be known to others! If you think secrets are limited to only teenagers, get your facts right! Secrets can be shared at any age and there is no hard and fast rule that secrets are shared only among youngsters.
Sharing secrets with a friend is not just fun, but it also helps to develop a lasting trust in one another. Sometimes, sharing secrets will tell you more about the person. You will come to know whether your friend is reliable and trustworthy and whether it is worth sharing your secrets with them. You can call it a test of friendship.
1. What is an advantage of sharing secrets with a friend?A.It helps a lot in your study. |
B.It leads you to a carefree life. |
C.It makes you popular with other people. |
D.It contributes to a long-term mutual belief. |
A.Parents are always the best people to share secrets with. |
B.Teenagers prefer to share secrets with their friends. |
C.Parents should build trust with teenagers. |
D.Teenagers grow to be independent. |
A.proves | B.tells |
C.gets | D.holds |
A.It’s limited to girls. |
B.It follows strict rules. |
C.It can happen at any age. |
D.It does harm to a strong bond. |
【推荐3】You're out to dinner. The food is delicious and the service is fine. You decide to leave a big fat tip. Why? The answer may not be as simple as you think.
Tipping, psychologists have found, is not just about service. Instead, studies have shown that tipping can be affected by psychological reactions to a series of different factors from the waiter's choice of words, to how they carry themselves while taking orders, to the billl's total.
Even how much waiters remind customers of themselves can determine how much change they pocket by the end of the night.
“Studies before have shown that mimicry (模仿)brings into positive feelings for the mimicker, "wrote Rick van Baaren, a social psychology professor. "These studies show that people who are being mimicked become more generous toward the person who mimicks.
So Rick van Baaren divided 59 waiters into two groups. He requested that half serve with a phrase such as, "Coming up!" Those in the other half were instructed to repeat the orders and preferences back to the customers. Rick van Baaren then compared their takehome pay. The results were clear-it pays to mimic your customer. The copycat (模仿者)waiters earned almost double the amount of tips to the other group.
Leonard Green and Joel Myerson, psychologists at Washington University in St Louis, found the generosity of a tipper may be limited by his bill. After research on the 1,000 tips left for waiters, cabdrivers, hair stylists, they found tip percentages in these three areas dropped as customers' bills went up. In fact, tip percentages appear to plateau (稳定期)when bills topped $100 and a bill for $200 made the worker gain no bigger percentage tip than a bill for $100.
"That's also a point of tipping," Green says. "You have to give a little extra to the cabdriver for being there to pick you up and something to the waiter for being there to serve you. If they weren't there, you'd never get any service. So part of the idea of a tip is for just being there."
1. Besides service, how many other fectors(因素)affecting the customers' tipping are mentioned in the passage?A.1 | B.2 |
C.3 | D.4 |
A.tipping can be affected by physical reactions to many different waiters |
B.the mimic waiters can get almost twice as much money as those who don't mimick others |
C.people who are being mimicked usually tip less to the person who mimics them |
D.mimicry makes the mimicker feel bad |
A. | B. |
C. | D. |
A.object to Mr Green's idea about tipping |
B.think part of Mr Green's explanation is reasonable |
C.support the opinions of Mr Green and Rick van Baaren about tipping |
D.give his generous tip to waiters very often |
【推荐1】Researchers found that compared with young people who spent much of their free time in front of TV sets, those who were physically active often had higher self-respect, better grades and were less likely to have risky behavior like taking drugs, smoking, or drinking. The findings, based on a national survey of nearly 12, 000 middle and high school students, were published in a journal(期刊).
“Across the board, children who engaged in any kind of activity were better off than kids who watched a lot of TV,” said study co-author(合著者) professor Penny Gordon Larsen of the University of North Carolina.
Other studies have linked certain content of television programs, such as violence and sex, to children’s behavior. But beyond this issue, Gordon Larsen said that kids who spend hours watching TV” miss opportunities” to develop skills, learn teamwork and have other experiences that their more active peers(同辈) benefit(受益) from
That doesn’t mean, however, that kids have to be on the football team. The study found that some activities like skating and skateboard(滑板)——which adults sometimes frown upon——were also related to better self-respect and less risk-taking.
That skaters were better behaved than TV-watchers might come as a surprise to some adults who consider these teens to be bad, according to Gordon Larsen. Skateboarding is forbidden in many public areas, and some communities(社区) disagree to build skating parks. But if kids who like to skate have nowhere to do it, “ it’s a shame,” said Gordon Larsen.
Not only should parents encourage their kids to engage(参与) in the physical activities they enjoy, she said, but schools and communities should also do more to create opportunities for children to be active.
1. From the passage we know that______?A.physically active kids get into less trouble |
B.more skating parks are being built. |
C.kids who spend hours watching TV benefit a lot |
D.kids who have nowhere to skate tend to take drugs. |
A.get into the habit of smoking or drinking. | B.develop teamwork spirit. |
C.have risky behaviors. | D.fail in the schoolwork. |
A.offer some information to teachers and parents. |
B.persuade kids not to watch a lot of TV. |
C.urge the public to help children be active. |
D.show the author’s concern about children’s growth. |
A.Some adults don’t understand the sports. |
B.Some adults are impatient with kids. |
C.Adults consider it dangerous to go skating or skateboarding |
D.Some adults think them related to bad behaviors. |
A.kids are not expected to be active by some parents |
B.professor Penny is a famous writer and journalist. |
C.Skateboarding is popular in schools and communities. |
D.kids are not encouraged to join the football team. |
According to an investigation by The Wall Street Journal, all it takes is a tiny file in a computer-a single code consisting of a long series of numbers and letters-to record the computer user's age, gender, location, favorite movies and hobbies.
The newspaper reports that Lotame Solutions Inc., a New York company, uses an advanced software called “beacon” to capture what people are typing on a website.
Lotame packages that data into profiles (个人资料) about individuals, only without their names, and sells the profiles to companies seeking customers. Batches of such data may be sold for a few dollars.
The Wall Street Journal survey discovered that spying on Internet users is one of the fastestgrowing businesses on the World Wide Web.
The “cookie”-a tiny text file put on your PC by websites or marketing firms which might be used to remember your preferences for one site, or to track you across many sites is already old news. There are new and more complex tools such as “beacon” which scan in real time what people are doing on a webpage. These beacons instantly assess the Internet user's location, income, shopping interests and even medical conditions.
Millions of Internet users around the world also face unprecedented (空前的) threats. Private, sensitive, personal and business information is being gathered and sold without their knowledge.
Companies insist the information they gather is anonymous(匿名的) and the data is used harmlessly. But the technology has grown so powerful that even some of the biggest websites in the US don't know that they were installing intrusive files on visitors' computers. These include MSN.com and Yahoo.com.
Next time you visit a webpage and find an ad banner advertising something you've been planning to buy, don't be amazed that your computer can read your mind.
1. The purpose of the passage is to ______.
A.introduce a tiny file in a computer-a single code |
B.show how your individual information was let out when you surf the Internet |
C.show how to protect your privacy |
D.introduce a sophisticated software called “beacon” |
A.Lotame sells the profiles about individuals to companies seeking customers with their age, gender, location, hobbies and names |
B.spying on Internet users is the fastestgrowing business on the World Wide Web |
C.some of the biggest websites in the US know they were installing intrusive files on visitors' computers |
D.a tiny file in a computer-a single code consisting of a long series of numbers and letters can record the user's information |
A.neutral | B.optimistic | C.worried | D.indifferent |
【推荐3】Water shortage is occurring in some of the US’ biggest freshwater reserves and it is also evident in other parts of the planet, according to a research study published in the journal Nature last month.
The research study was conducted by Xander Huggins, a PhD candidate at the University of Victoria and his fellow researchers.
The Earth has less than 3% freshwater with only 1% is accessible to the growing human population. Both natural freshwater reserves and freshwater in reservoirs may be at risk if their amount continues to drop and the population continues to increase. In 2021, there are approximately 7.9 billion people by January 31, according to the United States Census Bureau. The research study found 34 trends in terrestrial (地面上的) water reserves observed by the Gravity Recovery and Climate Experiment ( GRACE ) satellites from 2002 to 2016. These trends were acquired when the researchers examined 1,024 basins across the world with the goal of understanding how water availability couples with social processes in the community.
According to Huggins, the main factor they studied were freshwater stress, which is related to the amount of H2O that naturally leaves the watershed or basin per year. The higher the stress or exit of water from the basin means that there will be less water available for ecosystems and for people’s demands, Huggins explains. The significance of the study can be of interest not only to water specialists and water conservators but also to government policy-makers. Huggins stated that after mapping the most high-risk freshwater sources and creating a framework to identify hotspot basins, policy makers will be able to prioritize a specific location.
Huggins shows that while the US score highly in terms of social adaptiveness based on the study’s freshwater stress factor, the country has many freshwater concerns that goes be-yond between freshwater stress and freshwater storage. The states of Illinois and Ohio have the highest levels of lead (铅) pipes carrying water from freshwater basins to residential households. Meanwhile in Colorado, an estimate from the Colorado Water Center predicts there will be a 20% to 30% less water of the Colorado River Basin by 2050.
1. Why did Huggins and his team examine the basins all over the world?A.To settle the shortage of freshwater in the USA. |
B.To figure out the number of basins across the world. |
C.To learn its pollution of the recent years across the world. |
D.To understand how water availability is related with social processes. |
A.Freshwater stress. | B.People’s demands. |
C.His team’s assumption. | D.Policy makers’ requirements. |
A.The water pipes are too expensive. |
B.The storage of freshwater decreases most sharply. |
C.The water carried to households may be polluted by lead. |
D.The consumption of freshwater gives threats to food security. |
A.These Are the Most Threatened Freshwater Reserves |
B.The US Is Losing Some of Its Biggest Natural Reserves |
C.Water Crisis: Planet’s Freshwater Reserves Are Seriously Polluted |
D.We Are Facing Terrible Water Shortage on Some Biggest Freshwater Reserves |
【推荐1】Anyone who commutes (通勤) by car knows that traffic jams are an unavoidable part of life. But humans are not alone in facing potential backups.
Ants also commute—between their nest and sources of food. The survival of their colonies depends on doing this efficiently.
When humans commute, there’s a point at which cars become dense (稠密) enough to slow down the flow of traffic, causing jam. Motsch, a mathematician in Arizona State University, and his colleagues wanted to know if ants on the move could also get stuck. So they regulated traffic density by constructing bridges of various widths between a colony of Argentine ants and a source of food. Then they waited and watched. “The goal was to try to find out at what point they are going to have a traffic jam.” said Sebastien Motsch.
But it appears that that never happened. They always managed to avoid traffic jam. The flow of ants did increase at the beginning as ants started to fill the bridge and then levelled off at high densities. But it never slowed down or stopped, even when the bridge was nearly filled with ants.
The researchers then took a closer look at how the behaviour of individual ants impacted traffic as a whole. And they found that when ants sense overcrowding, they adjust their speeds and avoid entering high-density areas, which prevents jams. These behaviours may be promoted by pheromones, chemicals that tell other ants where a trail is. The ants also manage to avoid colliding (碰撞) with each other at high densities, which could really slow them down. The study is in the journal eLife.
Can ants help us solve our own traffic problems? Not likely, says Motsch. That’s because when it comes to getting from point A to point B as fast as possible, human drivers put their own goals first. Individual ants have to be more cooperative in order to feed the colony. But the research could be useful in improving traffic flow for self-driving cars, which can be designed to be less like selfish humans—and more like ants.
1. What does the underlined word “this” in para.2 refer to?A.Surviving. | B.Commuting. |
C.Finding food. | D.Avoiding jams. |
A.By finding out the dense points. | B.Through closer observation. |
C.By controlling the widths of their path. | D.By regulating their numbers. |
A.they follow a special route. |
B.they level off at high densities. |
C.they never stop or slow down on the way. |
D.they depend on their natural chemicals to adjust their speeds. |
A.Traffic jams. | B.Unavoidable? Not for ants! |
C.Survival of an ant colony. | D.Difference between human and ants. |
Come along to one of our four public lectures held in the University of Cambridge Institute of Continuing Education throughout this term. These talks are given by leading experts from the University of Cambridge and beyond. | |
Roman Britain as a“foreign country”Event date:April 28,16:20-18:30 Professor Martin Milett speaks on the interactions(相互影响)between native people and the Roman Empire. His research interests focus on the social and economic archaeology(考古学)of the Roman World and the interactions between native people and Roman Empire. | The world of new ideas Event date:March 3,18:20-20:30 Professor Mike Gregory will explore recent developments in innovation(创新)and production,and coming opportunities for Cambridge and beyond. New ideas-who has them,who develops them, who uses them? |
Other worlds:the rise of the multiverse(多元宇宙)in fundamental physics Event date:June 2,17:15-19:30 The idea that our universe is just one of a vast number has been growing increasingly obvious in physics over the past decade. In this lecture,Physicist Harry Cliff will explore the reasons why some physicists have become convinced that we live in a multiverse, and whether experiments will ever be able to tell us something. | Antarctica: another world for peace and science Event date: May 28, 18:30-20:40 Understanding the changes that are taking place in Antarctica is vital for us all-when climate changes, it is the sensitive polar zones that signal the first signs of change to come. The lecturer. Professor Jane Francis, is director of the British Antarctica Survey(BAS), the first woman to hold that position. |
1. What does Mike Gregory mainly talk about in his lecture?
A.The secret of the vast universe. |
B.The exploration of future development. |
C.The side effect of climate change. |
D.The development of Roman Empire. |
A.Antarctica is the most peaceful place in the world. |
B.Protecting the polar environment is urgently needed. |
C.Climate changes usually happen to polar zones first. |
D.Changes in Antarctica are a predictor of global climate. |
A.Marin Millett’s. | B.Mike Gregory’s. |
C.Harry Cliff’s. | D.Jane Francis’ |
【推荐3】Many teenagers feel that the most important people in their lives are their friends. They believe that their family members don't know them as well as their friends do. In large families, it is quite often for brothers and sisters to fight with each other and then they can only go to their friends for some ideas.
It is very important for teenagers to have one good friend or a group of friends. Even when they are not with their friends, they usually spend a lot of time talking among themselves on the phone. This communication is very important in children's growing up, because friends can discuss something. These things are difficult to tell their family members.
However, parents often try to choose their children's friends for them. Some parents may even stop their children from meeting their good friends. Have you ever thought of the following questions?
1.Who chooses your friends?
2.Do you choose your friends or your friends choose you?
3.Have you got a good friend your parents don't like?
Your answers are welcome.
1. When teenagers have something difficult to tell their parents, they usually_______.A.stay alone at home | B.fight with their parents |
C.discuss it with their friends | D.go to their brothers and sisters for help |
A.you are welcome to discuss the questions with us |
B.we've got no idea, so your answers are welcome |
C.your answers are always right |
D.you can give us all the right answers |
A.Parents should choose friends for their children. |
B.Children should choose everything they like. |
C.Parents should understand their children better. |
D.Teenagers should only go to their friends for help. |
A.give information for the parents to make their own judgment (判断) |
B.give advice to children who want to choose their friends |
C.help parents to find better friends for their children |
D.get some information from many readers |