Have you ever found yourself waiting at the stop for your bus to arrive and have a stranger ask a commonplace question? Perhaps you’ve stood in line waiting for a coffee and feel the need to just look over to the person next to you and ask about the weather.
Small talk may seem like a waste of time.
The benefits of such conversations can actually contribute to our happiness and benefit our lives as a whole. Researchers found that having a healthy amount of acquaintances (熟人) and maintaining these relationships contribute to one’s sense of belonging to a community.
Who knows where this can lead?
A.Some people don’t like small talk. |
B.So how does one start making small talk? |
C.Small talk is a natural way for people to connect. |
D.But it serves an important role in our social interactions. |
E.In fact, the small connections we make can lead to big results. |
F.This is small talk, and despite the name, it’s actually a big part of daily life. |
G.Often, we find ourselves making small talk with the same people from time to time. |
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【推荐1】What limits you from hiking more often? Many complain that they don't have a suitable partner to go with. Why not take a look at the great hiking clubs across Canada?
• Yukon Outdoors Club
Website: yukonoutdoorsclub.ca
Membership cost: $10 for a single membership; $15 for a family membership
Description: The club arranges day hikes, backpacking trips, canoe trips, mountain biking, cross-country skiing trips, snowshoeing trips and various workshops for members to gain new skills and valuable information.
• UBC Varsity Outdoor Club
Website: ubc-voc.com
Membership cost: Students $40; non-UBC students $60
Description: The UBC Varsity Outdoor Club is a social group that hikes, mountaineers, rock climbs and ice climbs. Travel and outdoor-minded UBC students and non-students are welcome to join. The UBC VOC has also constructed a few backcountry cottages in the Coast Mountains.
• Pender Harbor Hiking Group
Website: penderharbourhiking.weebly. Com
Membership cost: Free.
Description: The Pender Harbor Hiking Group offers hikes scheduled two months in advance, so get on the mailing list or check the website regularly to find a hike that's right for you! Hikes are usually one and a half to two hours long, but some full-day hikes are scheduled, depending on members, interest.
• Vernon Outdoors Club
Website: vernonoutdoorsclub. Org
Membership cost: A single membership is $25, and students pay $10, Children are free.
Description: Boasting a membership of close to 200 people, the Vernon Outdoors Club is an active group that enjoys hiking and cycling. The group organizes a Tuesday Rambles event each week and also hosts multi-day trips.
1. Which club has built remote shelters for hikers?A.The Yukon Outdoors Club. |
B.The Vernon Outdoors Club. |
C.The UBC Varsity Outdoor Club. |
D.The Pender Harbor Hiking Group. |
A.Make a proper appointment. |
B.Follow the website or the mail. |
C.Develop your interest in hiking. |
D.Arrange two months ahead of time. |
A.Booking in advance. |
B.Charging membership fee. |
C.Providing skill workshops. |
D.Organizing hiking activities. |
【推荐2】Hong Kong Science Museum
You might really like this museum if you are interested in science. Hong Kong Science Museum wants to teach kids science and give them a place to have fun with computers. Kids like running around and playing with the equipment there. However, adults can learn some knowledge, too.
Since its opening in April, 1991, Hong Kong Science Museum has presented itself to be a good place for science learning. Through having better exhibits and fun science programs in an enjoyable environment, the museum wants to popularize science to the public and support science education in schools. Visitors at the science museum can visit the exhibition in their own way and enjoy the fun of discovery learning.
The museum is 6,500 m’ and has over 500 exhibits and nearly 70 percent of them are suitable for visitors of all ages. Among them, the best exhibit is the largest equipment of its kind in the world: the Energy Machine. Another attraction is the DC-3 airplane which is the first local airliner and the first exhibit moved into the museum building. The museum also has a 745 m’ Special Exhibition Hall, a 295-seat Lecture Hall, a Classroom, a Computer Classroom, a Laboratory and a Resource Centre. Other ancillary facilities(附属设施) include a Gift Shop and a Bookshop.
Apart from permanent(永久的) exhibitions, the museum regularly presents some temporary exhibitions on all kinds of topics related to science and modern technology. The museum also organizes and develops lots of extension activities and educational programs for the public. lf you want to have a visit, you’d better read the following information carefully.
Opening hours
Monday to Wednesday and Friday: 10:00 am-7:00 pm
Saturday, Sunday and Public Holidays: 10:00 am-9:00 pm
Christmas Eve and Chinese New Year’s Eve: 10:00am-5:00pm
Closed on Thursday and the two days before the
Chinese New Year’s Eve
Ticket information:
Standard Ticket: $30
Concessionary(特惠的)Ticket: $15
Free for kids under 4 years old
Free on Wednesday
1. What can we infer from the passage?
A.Hong Kong Science Museum aims at offering happy holidays to adults. |
B.Both adults and kids can learn things in Hong Kong Science Museum. |
C.Kids in Hong Kong Science Museum are encouraged to help others. |
D.Hong Kong Science Museum offers free lunch to kids under 4 years old. |
A.Helping poor kids learn about real science. |
B.Making all exhibits suitable for visitors of all ages. |
C.Setting up all kinds of ancillary facilities. |
D.Making science popular among the public. |
A.Visitors cannot visit the science museum at 8 pm on weekends. |
B.The concessionary ticket is prepared for people with disabilities. |
C.Visitors cannot visit Hong Kong Science Museum on Thursday. |
D.People can buy the museum’s concessionary tickets on Wednesday. |
【推荐3】Wonderful trip around the Mediterranean
Days 1-2 Barcelona, Spain
Discover the interesting buildings, Catalan culture and Gothic Quarter in Gaudi’s city of Barcelona.
Day 3 Board Regal Princess
Day 4 Relaxing at sea
Day 5 Gibraltar
You’ve got a full day to get to know this British territory (领土), home to many cultures. Choose to ride the cable car (缆车) for great views of the Rock of Gibraltar or discover the beautiful lighthouse.
Day 6 Relaxing at sea
Day 7 Marseille, France
Enjoy a full day discovering all that Provence has to offer — flower fields, fishing boats or Roman ruins (遗迹). City or countryside, you decide.
Day 8 Genoa, Italy
Get to know this busy town by walking through the wonderful streets and piazzas (public squares, especially in an Italian town).
Day 9 Florence / Pisa
Choose to visit wonderful wineries (酒庄) in Tuscany or the famous Leaning Tower of Pisa on your last day in Italy.
Day 10 Disembark (下船) Regal Princess
Go to the airport for your flight home.
Your holiday includes
• Direct flights
• 2 nights 4 star Barcelona hotel incl breakfast
• 7 nights aboard Regal Princess
• Private guide
10 day holiday from
Single room £1,199
Mini double room £1,949
1. What can a visitor do on Day 5?
A.See a lighthouse. | B.Go rock climbing. |
C.Enjoy Catalan food. | D.Visit the English countryside. |
A.One day. | B.Two days. | C.Three days. | D.Eight days. |
A.A tour diary. | B.A business report. |
C.A travel magazine. | D.A geography textbook. |
The increase in divorce rates follows to the increase in women working outside the home. Yet, it may be wrong to jump to any simple cause-and-effect conclusions. The impact of a wife’s work on divorce is no less cloudy than its impact on marriage decisions. The realization that she can be a good provider may increase the chances that a working wife will choose divorce over an unsatisfactory marriage. But the reverse is equally plausible(似是而非的). Tensions grounded in financial problems often play a key role in ending a marriage. By raising a family’s standard of living, a working wife may strengthen her family’s financial and emotional stability.
Psychological factors also should be considered. For example, a wife blocked from a career outside the home may feel caged in the house. She may view her only choice as seeking a divorce. On the other hand, if she can find fulfillment through work outside the home, work and marriage can go together to create a stronger and more stable union.
Also, a major part of women’s inequality in marriage has been due to the fact that, in most cases, men have remained the main breadwinners. A working wife may rob a husband of being the master of the house. Depending upon how the couple reacts to these new conditions, it could create a stronger equal partnership or it could create new insecurities.
1. It is said in the passage that when the economy falls_____
A.men would choose working women as their marriage partners |
B.more women would get married to seek financial security |
C.even working women would worry about their marriages |
D.more people would prefer to remain single for the time being |
A.they are more likely to dominate their marriage partners |
B.their husbands are expected to do more housework |
C.their marriage ties can be strengthened |
D.they tend to put their career before marriage |
A.they feel that they have been robbed of their freedom |
B.they are afraid of being bossed around by their husbands |
C.they feel that their partners fail to live up to their expectations |
D.they tend to suspect their husbands loyalty to their marriage |
A.The stability of marriage and the divorce rate may reflect the economic situation of the country |
B.Even when economically independent, most women have to struggle for real equality in marriage |
C.In order to secure their marriage women should work outside the home and remain independent |
D.The impact of the growing female workforce on marriage varies from case to case. |
【推荐2】The continuous increase in the number of COVID-19 cases worldwide has had a deep and broad effect on how we live and interact with one another, resulting in many changes that are likely to be long-lasting.
For example, to reduce contact during COVID-19, shaking hands, a standard style of greeting used by officials and businessmen has been replaced. In the US, the country hardest-hit by the outbreak, with over 36 million confirmed cases of COVID-19 and more than 610,000 deaths, the top health official said such social gatherings should end, even when COVID-19 is over. Anthony Fauci, director of the US National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, told The Wall Street Journal, “I don't think we should ever shake hands ever again, to be honest with you.” Neel Gandhi, a professor at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, told ESPN, a US sports broadcaster, “When we talk about transmission, the hands are the place that I focus on the most.”
If such advice from health experts is followed, it will produce a big shift in human behavior. However, some people are finding alternative ways to greet one another at a time when direct contact is disapproved of. In South Korea, bowing deeply has become popular. In Australia, officials have suggested that people pat each other on the back instead of shaking hands.
Handshakes are just one form of contact that has largely ended during COVIO-19, along with hugging and high-fives. As many people worldwide rebuild their social lives, experts are predicting that some degree of social contact will disappear for good.
Chen Xuefeng, deputy director of the Institute of Psychology at the Chinese Academy of Sciences, said. “In the post-COVID-19 era, people are likely to behave more discreetly for a while. They will pay more attention to themselves, such as caring for their health, spending more time alone, moving offline activities online, socializing less and saving more.” Chen added, “This new way of life means that some industries whore old habits are deep-rooted will face challenges in upgrading.”
1. What does Anthony Eauci suggest doing in the face of COVID-19?A.Avoiding handshakes. | B.Ending social gatherings. |
C.Moving offline activities online. | D.Using a standard style of greeting. |
A.By data. | B.By example. |
C.By experiment. | D.By imagination. |
A.Carefully. | B.Confidently. |
C.Capably. | D.Comically. |
A.Old unnecessary habits worldwide. |
B.Traditional forms of communication. |
C.The disasters in the post-COVID-19 era. |
D.The social contact changes caused by COVID-19. |
【推荐3】If you’re not sure which relationships to prioritize (优先考虑), here are some types of people to keep close.
It’s essential that we can trust the people around us. Honesty is not just about someone refraining from lying or coming forward when they screw up. It’s also about finding a way to tell us truths that we don’t want to hear. It’s important to be around individuals who will call us out when we are wrong or heading down a path that they know is not leading to a destination we want.
People who make space for your emotions. Many people are good at having stimulating conversations but lack the emotional availability needed to make space for how we feel. We all need individuals who respect our feelings understand that sometimes all we need is to be heard.
People who model qualities you admire, understand and accept you, and show up authentically are also valuable.
Let’s remember to apply these criteria to every type of relationship in our life.
A.People who tell us lies |
B.People who tell us the truth |
C.People who encourage and support you |
D.Find people who are not satisfied with everything you do |
E.They will sit with us through the hard or painful moments |
F.Our time is valuable, so spend it with people who deserve it |
G.Find people who areas happy about your wins as they would be about their own |