Speaking of self-improvement, perhaps you want to become more productive, read more books, take regular exercise or learn something new.
Observe your emotional reactions.
Our emotions can often overwhelm (击败) us and make us behave in ways we’d rather not. The first step in dealing with your emotions is to recognize your current feelings.
Develop a way to express your emotions.
Chris Martin, the singer-songwriter and frontman of the band Coldplay, once said, “You've got to express yourself in life, and it's better out than in. What you reveal, you heal.”
Sometimes emotions can be overwhelming even if you undertake all other steps to manage them. In this case, the only left option is to find a therapist (治疗师). Many successful, respected people like J. K. Rowling, Emma Stone, and Michael Phelps all promote therapy’s benefits. Turning to these professionals is one of the best ways to improve yourself. These trained professionals can provide guidance and support when it comes to coping with your emotions.
A.Work with a licensed therapist. |
B.Receive professional training as therapists. |
C.This can feel incredibly uncomfortable at first. |
D.There are so many ways to let out your emotions. |
E.Remember you can’t manage what you don't know. |
F.It will help you improve your concentration. |
G.Have you thought of learning to control your emotions? |
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【推荐1】As soon as you meet, or even see, a person, you form an impression of him based on his postures, gestures and facial expressions. This is why it is important to make a good first impression on the person who will be interviewing you. Within the first 60 seconds of meeting you, the interviewer will have formed an impression about what type of person you are and what kind of employee you would become,and 55% of this will be based only on your body language. Here are some tips to make that impression a good one.
First of all, relax. Think positive thoughts and you are more likely to come across as a positive, confident person during the interview. Dress smartly, as your appearance is one of the first things an interviewer will notice you. Stand up straight, and walk in with your shoulders back and your head up. Try to avoid slowing down as you walk into the room because this suggests fear and uncertainty. Shake hands with the interviewer firmly. You should have a positive handshake and a warm smile. Opening your coat or jacket as you sit down shows that you, too, are open.
Posture is important. You should be sitting well back in your seat. Sit up straight and lean forward slightly, but not too much. Sitting at too much of an angle(角度) expresses discomfort and distrust. Two of the most common defensive(防卫的) signals are crossing your arms and legs, so try to avoid them.
Another important issue is eye contact. Looking someone in the eye shows confidence in yourself and trust in the other person. However, don't overdo it, as too much eye contact or staring will make the other person uncomfortable. Use more eye contact when listening than when talking, and when you look away, look down. Looking up at the ceiling will make you seem bored or rude.
1. The purpose of the first paragraph is to tell readers ________.A.what a good first impression is |
B.how to make a good first impression |
C.how long it takes to make a first impression |
D.the importance of making a good first impression |
A.Cross your arms or legs. |
B.Open your coat or jacket when sitting down. |
C.Go into the room more slowly than usual. |
D.Avoid looking at the eyes of the interviewer directly. |
A.you are very bored | B.you are too nervous |
C.you don't have confidence | D.you don't trust others |
【推荐2】For many of us, work diaries are practical things. We use them to make notes of appointments or meetings, writing words next to dates to remind us of what we need to do later. But journaling is also about feelings. It’s a personal diary, often kept far from prying eyes, sometimes containing our secrets and desires.
It can be difficult to say exactly what we’re feeling due to anxiety or frustration. For some of us, putting pen to paper and taking down our thoughts is much easier than saying them.
Writing about what is on our minds can help us to be more mindful. It is also good for mental health overall.
Another thing to consider is that our memories fade over time.
A.And journaling isn’t just limited to words. |
B.Journaling is not a record of only happy moments. |
C.But what are the benefits of writing down our feelings? |
D.It’s about allowing ourselves to learn from our mistakes. |
E.So, when something is on our minds, we should put it down on paper. |
F.What is clear on our minds today may be forgotten a few years down the line. |
G.Not just that, but writing things down can help us understand our ideas, emotions and feelings. |
【推荐3】Do you know that every year volunteers collect millions of rubbish on beaches around the world? More and more people are searching for ways to reduce plastic use. A few small changes of your daily habits can quickly lead to less plastic waste.
Choose reusable bags instead of plastic bags.
Take your dinner set with you. It’s helpful to carry a diner set and a cloth napkin in your bag.
Keep reusable bags or boxes nearby. Plastic-free living is easier if your reusable bags or boxes are easy to get, so make sure you keep them in your bag, car, or at your office.
A.That way, you’ll never have to use a plastic bag while you’re busy. |
B.Use reusable water bottles. |
C.If you have to use a straw, try a paper one. |
D.At the store, try shopping for things without single-use plastic bags. |
E.A for kanda spoon are small enough and they don’t take up much space. |
Men usually want to have their own way.They want to think and act as they like.No one,however,can have his own way all the time.A man cannot live in society without considering the interests of others as well as his own interests."Society" means a group of people with the same laws and the same way of life People in society may make their own decisions,but these decisions ought not to be unjust or harmful to others.One man's decisions may so easily harm another person.For example,a motorist may be in a hurry to get to a friend's house.He sets out,driving at full speed like a competitor in a motor race.There are other vehicles and also pedestrians(步行者) on the road.Suddenly there is a crash.There are screams and confusion.One careless motorist has struck another car.The collision has injured two of the passengers and killed the third.Too many road accidents happen through the thoughtlessness of selfish drivers.
We have governments,the police and the law courts to prevent or to punish such criminal acts.But in addition,all men ought to observe certain rules of conduct.Every man ought to behave with consideration for other men.He ought not to steal,cheat,or destroy the property of others.There is no place of this sort of behavior in a civilized society.
1. A man cannot have his own way all the time because ______.
A.he may have no interest in other people |
B.he has to share the same in terest with the people in the same society |
C.his decisions are always unjust |
D.his decisions may harm other people |
A.tell people how to behave in society |
B.illustrate the importance of laws |
C.teach people how to prevent criminal |
D.persuade people not to make their own decision |
A.the drivers are more considerate of other people |
B.there are fewer cars or walkers in the street |
C.the motorists are not always in a hurry |
D.the passengers are calm but not confused before the accidents |
A.the government should contribute more efforts |
B.the criminals should be more severely punished |
C.man should be more strict with himself |
D.man should have more and more similar interests |
Tears are also a sign of strong emotion.We cry when we are sad and we cry when we are happy.
And tears seem to be uniquely (惟独) human.We know that animals also experience emotion ——fear, pleasure, loneliness——but they do not shed (流) tears.From this, we can conclude that tears are closely related to the emotional and biological make-up(结构;组成) of the human species.
Biologically speaking, tears are actually drops of saline fluid, which is a little bit salty, produced by a gland (腺) in the body.Because salt is an important component, tears may actually constitute the most conclusive evidence that the human animal is the end product of a long evolutionary process that began in the sea.
And it is clear that, in addition to (除了) the emotional benefits (好处), the shedding of tears has a specific biological function as well.Through tears, we can eliminate from our body certain chemicals which build up in response to stress and create a chemical imbalance(不平衡) in the body.Crying actually makes us feel better by correcting that imbalance and making us feel good again.And thus the emotional and biological functions of tears merge (合并) into one and make us even more “human” than we would otherwise be.
1. According to the passage, human beings may have originated (起源于) in_______.
A.the sea | B.the salt | C.chemicals | D.animals |
A.Biological | B.Emotional | C.Political | D.Chemical |
A.add | B.produce | C.replace | D.remove |
A.Tears are a sign of strong emotion. |
B.Tears are always making us feel more comfortable. |
C.Tears are uniquely human. |
D.Tears have certain biological function. |
The risk of having a heart attack on any given day should be one in seven, but a six-year study helped by researchers at the Free University of Berlin of more than 2,600 Germans showed that the average person had a 20 per cent higher chance of having a heart attack on a Monday than on any other day.
Working Germans are particularly not protected against attack, with a 33 per cent higher risk at the beginning of the working week. Non-workers, by comparison, appear to be no more at risk on a Monday than any other day.
A study of 11,000 Italians proved 8 am on a Monday morning as the most stressful time for the heart, and both studies showed that Sunday is the least stressful day, with fewer heart attacks in both countries.
The findings could lead to a better understanding of what is the immediate cause of heart attacks, according to Dr Stefan Willich of the Free University. “We know a lot about long-term risk factors such as smoking and cholesterol(胆固醇)but we don’t know what actually causes heart attacks, so we can’t give clear advice on how to prevent them,” he said.
Monday mornings have a double helping of stress for the working body as it makes a rapid change from sleep to activity, and from the relaxing weekend to the pressures of work.
“When people get up, their blood pressure and heart rate go up and there are hormonal(内分泌)changes in their bodies,” Willich explained. “All these things can have an unfavourable effect in the blood system and increase the risk of a clot(血凝块)in the arteries(动脉)which will cause a heart attack.”
“When people return to work after a weekend off, the pace of their life changes. They have a higher workload, more stress, more anger and more physical activity,” said Willich.
1. Monday morning feeling, as this passage shows, .
A.is not so serious as people thought |
B.is harmful to working people in developed countries. |
C.is the first killer in Germany and Italy. |
D.is created by researchers in Germany and Italy |
A.people’s working time |
B.people’s living place |
C.people’s diet and lifestyle |
D.people’s nationalities |
A.blood pressure | B.heart rate |
C.hormonal changes | D.blood group |
A.Stop working on Monday |
B.Create a pleasant working environment |
C.Get up late on Monday morning |
D.Go to work with a doctor |