Why do we feel anxiety about starting something new? Why do we hold ourselves back from beginning a new job, a new business, starting or ending a relationship?
The first way we can begin to deal with our anxiety is to acknowledge it. When we don’t acknowledge our fear,
Another way to reduce anxiety is to concentrate your life on leaning, instead of achievement. When you shit your focus away from badges of success and to a learning mindset,
Finally, just remember everyone feels fear. Everyone has to go through learning periods before they find what really works. All the most successful people have actually just failed more than regular people. Though having failed many times, they’ve ended up learning more than most and building something great.
A.it’s easy to let it control us |
B.we’re nervous to reveal ourselves |
C.Next, accept the possibility of failure |
D.it makes trying new things much less scary |
E.Try the following to overcome that fear and move forward |
F.Secondly, failure does not make you any less worthy of trying |
G.Actually, anxiety about starting something new never really goes away |
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【推荐1】Keeping your heart healthy is simple when you do enough exercise, stress less, monitor your weight and so on.
● Spare time to play.
● Reduce pressure. Doing nothing to stay away from pressure can b a big part of keeping your heart healthy.
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● Schedule check-ups. Regular blood pressure, blood sugar and cholesterol (胆固醇) checks, as well as physical examinations, are important to keep your heart healthy. Two conditions that can hurt your heart — high blood pressure and high cholesterol — they are “silent” killers.
A.Be sure to relax yourself daily. |
B.Work toward a healthy body weight. |
C.Spare some time to stay with your friends. |
D.Putting those goals into action, of course,isn’t so simple. |
E.Make exercise playtime and you’ re morel likely to get it done. |
F.And losing some pounds raises the risk of a heart attack and high blood pressure. |
G.That means you won’t know/whether you have them unless you get a physical examination. |
【推荐2】Books that can bring you closer to your goals
Emotional Intelligence
In this book, the psychologist and writer, Daniel Goleman, explores the nature of emotional intelligence and how it affects every aspect of human life. You’ll learn how emotional intelligence gradually develops and how it can be increased.
Flow
What’s the key to experiencing more enjoyment in your life? It’s flow. When you’re involved in an activity or a subject that makes you neither anxious nor bored, you slide into a flow state that keeps you controlled but creative, focused but free.
Csikszentmihalyi is the global leader in research on positive psychology, creativity and motivation.
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
Refuse worries in your life so you can be better. Dale Carnegie explains clearly why worry is so awful for you and offers tools that you can use to cut it out. In typical Dale style, there are also plenty of stories to support his recommendations, including those from Carnegie himself. Until he did a little digging for the secrets to living better, he considered himself to be “one of the unhappiest persons in New York” due to too much worry. This book is the show of long, hard efforts to quit it for good.
Drive
As it turns out, most companies are improving employees’ motivation in the wrong way. In Drive, Daniel H. Pink describes the characteristics of extrinsic (外在的) and intrinsic motivations. Pink shows how we can best motivate ourselves and others by understanding intrinsic motivations.
1. What does Emotional Intelligence tell readers?A.How to be famous writers. |
B.How to know every aspect of life. |
C.How to raise emotional intelligence. |
D.How to measure levels of emotional intelligence. |
A.Drive. |
B.Emotional Intelligence. |
C.Flow. |
D.How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. |
A.By doing research on motivations. |
B.By understanding intrinsic motivations. |
C.By understanding extrinsic motivations. |
D.By making a summary in a short time. |
【推荐3】Have you ever wanted to be a college student? If so, then you must know that you have to be a smart student. This means you have to achieve excellent grades in high school. The following tips may be of great help to you.
Stop spending most of your free time watching TV or surfing the Internet. Your spare time can be spent in studying and reviewing the knowledge your teacher has already spread. Record important notes that your teacher explains in class. This will help reduce your preparation time for tests, which means you could start studying early. You should also read through your notes carefully because most of the things on your notes are likely to appear on the test paper.
Ask your teacher for help if you don’t understand some of the knowledge. Don ‘t be afraid of asking questions, or you will not get a better understanding of the knowledge.
Study for your tests as soon as possible. If you finish it fast, you will have more time to relax and do your favourite things. In addition, waiting until late at night will only make things harder because you may feel tired.
Join a tutoring (家教) service near you if you are really serious about your grades. There are many tutoring services and if you can’t find any near you, there are services available to the public on line. Tutoring services can be a great way to get extra help and can be a great way to prepare yourself for the tests.
1. 阅读短文, 然后在文后表格内完成内容摘要, 每空只填1个词。Title: How to be a smart student | |
Meaning | You have to |
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•Note what your teacher •Study your notes in case the information | |
•Be •If you have questions but don’t ask for help you will not | |
•Try to finish your study for tests before doing what you like •Don’t wait until it is too | |
•Join a tutoring service or an online class, which can be |
2. What are the advantages of taking notes in class?
3. Why should you join tutor services?
4. Who is the passage written for?
【推荐1】Is there something that you’ve always wanted to try but just never had the time? Well, make plans to try it now since you are on summer vacation.Not all vacations call for taking a tour bus to take photos of famous landmarks. Some vacations allow you plenty of opportunities to learn.
The most difficult aspect of a learning vacation vacation may be choosing one because the possibilities are endless.If you enjoy cooking, various companies can take you to Italy, France, Spain, Mexico or even Peru. Once there, you can learn to prepare the local cuisine(烹饪). Trips are often planned to fit in with local food festivals or special events.
The term “learning vacation” often brings language to mind. The best way to learn a language is in an environment where it’s spoken. Study Spanish, French or English. Or attempt a more unusual language like Polish, Estonian or Thai. You’ll be able to learn about the country and absorb the culture at the same time.
If you are fond of sports, you can polish your skills or learn new ones. Golf and tennis schools welcome players of all levels. If you want a bigger thrill, you can learn to surf, go climbing or race cars. It’s even possible to learn the art and techniques of bull fighting while on vacation!
You can also discover our inner artist. Many places offer painting classes in different mediums. The scenic locations of the schools offer plenty of subjects that provide inspiration for practice.
If you prefer capturing the world on film, take a photography vacation. Travel with a small group to photograph beautiful animals or scenery. You can also practise your technique on people or at historical sights.
Once you decide on a vacation, choose a company carefully. Request names of recent customers you can contact, and then ask them for an evaluation. The more you know before you go, the better prepared you’ll be. Then go out and learn something!
1. Why is it hard for you to decide on a learning vacation?A.Because it is hard for you to make plans. |
B.Because the possibilities are unlimited. |
C.Because there are many good foods from abroad. |
D.Because there’re too many food festivals or events. |
A.the environment is fit for you to use the language |
B.you are able to learn the original foreign language |
C.native speakers offer you a lot of chances to practise |
D.you can learn the language and experience its culture |
A.Car racing. | B.Playing tennis. | C.Rock climb. | D.Surfing. |
A. | B. | C. | D. |
A.advertise some popular summer programmes |
B.encourage readers to have a good time relaxing |
C.offer some tips on how to enjoy a learning vacation |
D.attract more readers to spend summer time learning |
【推荐2】Everyone feels a little jealous (妒忌的) once in a while. But when the feeling begins to ruin your relationship and cause you stress, it’s probably time to start looking for ways to get rid of it. Here are some tips to help you along the way.
Sometimes there are deeper underlying (潜在的) issues that fuel jealousy. Once you admit that you’re struggling with jealousy, it’s time to start looking into why you’re feeling that way.
Use your jealousy to motivate yourself
Sometimes jealousy is rooted in feelings of insecurity and a lack of self-confidence.
Constantly comparing yourself to others can fuel feelings of insecurity. It can be tempting to compare yourself to others and want to compete against them. However, constantly setting yourself up against others can just make your jealousy and feelings of insecurity worse. Stop doing that.
A.Find the root of your jealousy |
B.Engage yourself in meaningful activities |
C.Focus on yourself and how you’re doing instead |
D.They are able to help you with increasing your confidence |
E.However, it’s important to find your own unique strengths |
F.For example, low self-confidence is often a cause of jealousy |
G.Your jealousy might be just what you need to seek what you want |
【推荐3】When you watch a movie in the cinema, you may wonder how “the moving pictures” is made and where the voices, and noises and music come from. Now here is the answer.
In modern times, the middle part of a cinema film has lots of small photographs, each one of which is different from the one before it. Each photograph is brought in front of a strong light, and there it stops for a very small part of a second. This photograph, therefore, appears on the screen, and we see it. Then the light is covered and the next photograph is moved to the position in the front of the strong light. Meanwhile, the metal cover turns away from the light. Thus, the second photograph is shown on the screen. This is done again and again, twenty-four times a second, and we think we are watching a moving picture on the screen. But nothing on the screen actually moves. ”The moving picture” is in fact made up of a lot of bits. We see about 86,000 different pictures every hour, but none of them moves.
The voices, noises and music are recorded on the side of the cinema film. The record looks like marks of strange shapes. The side of the film passes in front of another light, and the rays of light which pass through change as the marks change. These marks have been made from the voices and other sounds of the people and events in front of the cinema when the film is being made. The marks may be considered as “printed sounds”.
1. When a cinema film is shown, how long does each photograph appear on the screen?A.One twenty-third of a second. |
B.One twenty-fourth of a second |
C.A few seconds |
D.One thirty-fifth of a second. |
A.We see about 86,000 different pictures every hour. |
B.Each picture is a little different from the former. |
C.Photographs change quickly. |
D.Both B and C. |
A.Small photographs and a strong light. |
B.Small photographs and the sounds. |
C.A lot of bits. |
D.Voices and photographs. |
A.It sounds strange. |
B.It looks as irregular marks. |
C.It is printed in the middle of a film. |
D.It is made while the film is being shown on the screen. |