It’s almost impossible to totally avoid stress, but these top tips will help you to get it under control so that it doesn’t take over your life.
Studies of both animals and humans show that social contact can help avoid body’s stress. So cultivate a network of people you can turn to share what’s bothering you with a friend and ask for some helpful advice. Avoid people who always need something without giving back or who are always short with you.
Avoid last-minute rushes
Leave the house 15 minutes early for appointments, set up a system for paying your bills(ask your bank about automatic bill paying), refill your prescriptions a week ahead of time and stock up on birthday cards whenever you see ones you like.
Make time for yourself
Give higher priority to your “relax and renewal” time. Include it in your schedule at least every other day.
Laugh a lot
If you feel you’re experiencing more stress than you can manage, you may want to talk to your doctor about getting help.
A.Lean on other people |
B.Share your problems with friends |
C.So you’d better laugh all day long |
D.A little advance planning can spare you a lot of headaches |
E.Find cartoons, videos, TV shows, writers and comics that make you laugh |
F.If you have to cut out an activity to make time for your hobby—or a warm bath—then do it |
G.When you laugh, you send chemicals called endorphins to your brain that ease pain and enhance your feeling of well |
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【推荐1】Quick Ways to Fight September Blues
September can be an exciting time of year with school starting, fall sports coming back, and the cooling of weather. However, this can also start a difficult season.
Get yourself moving
This might not be what you want to hear, but exercising is an excellent way to keep both your body and mind in good shape. If you feel yourself down or anxious, try exercising can help clear your mind and give you a chance to identify what exactly is causing you stress. Do not worry if you do not have time for an hour long workout.
Spread your social butterfly wings
Get flexible
Yoga is a great way to help reduce stress and get fit. Yoga practice involves learning how to breathe and thinking about your body as you enter each pose. If you are not sure about your balance or flexibility, considering trying a recovering class that focuses on training and recovery.
The tips above will help you.
A.Pressure always forms in September |
B.Some studios will offer recovering classes |
C.When you are feeling low, find a friend or two to talk to |
D.It is hard dealing with the pressures of a new school year |
E.Developing some hobbies is a good way to get rid of stress |
F.Just get 10-20 minutes of movement in and you will still benefit |
G.If you have realized that September blues are something you struggle with, do not be ashamed |
【推荐2】It may help you to know that there is no such thing as a perfect speech. At some point in every speech, every speaker says something that is not understood exactly as he has planned. Fortunately, such moments are usually not obvious(明显的) to the listeners. Why? Because the listeners do not know what the speaker plans to say. They hear only what the speaker does say. If you lose your place for a moment, wrongly change the order of a couple of sentences, or forget to pause at a certain point, no one will be any the wiser. When such moments occur, don't worry about them. Just continue as if nothing happened.
Even if you do make an obvious mistake during a speech, that doesn't really matter. If you have ever listened to Martin Luther King's famous speech---"I have a Dream", you may notice that he stumbles(结巴) over his words twice during the speech. Most likely, however, you don't remember. Why? Because you were fixing your attention on his message rather than on his way of speech-making.
People care a lot about making a mistake in a speech because they regard speech-making as a kind of performance rather than as an act of communication(交流). They feel the listeners are like judges in an ice-skating competition. But, in fact, the listeners are not looking for a perfect performer. They are looking for a well-thought-out speech that expresses the speaker's ideas clearly and directly. Sometimes a mistake or two can actually increase a speaker's attractiveness by making him more human.
As you work on your speech, don't worry about being perfect. Once you free your mind of this, you will find it much easier to give your speech freely.
1. The underlined part in the first paragraph means that no one will ______.A.be smarter than you | B.notice your mistakes |
C.do better than you | D.know what you are talking about |
A.your attention is on the content |
B.you don't fully understand the speech |
C.you don't know what the speaker plans to say |
D.you find the way of speech-making more important |
A.giving a speech is like giving a performance |
B.one or two mistakes in a speech may not be bad |
C.the listeners should pay more attention to how a speech is made |
D.the more mistakes a speaker makes, the more attractive he will be. |
A.How to Be a Perfect Speaker | B.How to Make a Perfect Speech |
C.Don't Expect a Perfect Speech | D.Don't Expect Mistakes in a Speech |
【推荐3】How to Cheer up Your Friend
The following tips will make your friend cheer up. Try one or more of the suggestions below, and hopefully your friend will be happy again in no time.
Send her a card or postcard. Not many people get handwritten notes any more. It’s so rare (稀少的), in fact, that it’s certain to put a smile on her face. Drop a note in the mail to her.
Build up her sellf-esteem (自尊). Everyone needs to hear they are smart, strong, and beautiful sometimes.
Try out new things together. True happiness is in part about the adventure. It may mean you may need to step outside of what’s comfortable and try something new.
Bring her one of her favorite treats.
A.Encourage your friend |
B.Help her to see the positive side |
C.You know what your friend likes |
D.In turn, discover new things you love |
E.Don’t be afraid to tell your friend these things |
F.Similarly, your happiness will affect your friends |
G.If you include one with a funny card, that’s better |
【推荐1】Do you get nervous thinking about geometry, equations or a coming math test? If yes, you are far from alone.
According to a University of Cambridge study, in ordinary life, many people experience some degree of discomfort when faced with a math problem, ranging from mild tension to strong fear.
Comfort comes from the fact that those with math anxiety are not necessarily to be bad at math.
A.Also, there are ways to manage your stress related to math. |
B.Students with math anxiety may be disadvantaged in intelligence. |
C.If a child has math anxiety, don’t assume that they’re not good at math. |
D.Math anxiety has become a common psychological condition among students around the world. |
E.Just because you have a fast heartbeat and sweaty palms, that does not necessarily mean you will fail. |
F.Just like many people get stage fright before delivering a speech, this nervous energy can help to motivate. |
G.Some people also experience physical symptoms such as sweaty palms or a racing heart. |
【推荐2】Although many years have passed, I still remember the last year of my junior school. I had to prepare for the entrance test, which made me stressed (有压力的). I cried several nights.
When we are feeling very stressed, many of us may feel like crying. Shedding tears is a good way to deal with our “dark” emotions (情绪). When we cry, we are letting go of our stress, I certainly felt better after I had cried. After I had calmed myself down, I reached out to some friends and teachers who encouraged me. I managed to get an offer from a qualified senior school.
With increased competition, it isn’t surprising that many students today are feeling stressed out. Many of us think of our “dark” emotions to be our enemies (敌人). It appears silly for us to be so easily beaten by them. That’s why we might feel too shy to cry. When we are feeling sad, we may also have difficulty asking for help or talking to others.
“Dark” emotions are not in themselves a bad thing. Just like happiness, they are common. But you should certainly find ways to manage them. Try to take part in social events. Eat healthy, balanced meals. Find people who can support you. Exercise regularly. These things can all help. The most important thing, though, is to accept your feelings. They are nothing to be ashamed of.
1. Why did the writer cry when preparing the entrance test?A.The time passed quickly. | B.He felt worried. |
C.He missed his junior school. | D.He got little help. |
A.By crying all the time. | B.By reaching out to family. |
C.By entering a qualified senior school. | D.By asking friends and teachers for help. |
A.We are not brave enough to ask for help. |
B.We are not strong enough and look foolish. |
C.We are not wise enough to hide our feelings. |
D.We are not confident enough to talk to others. |
A.Silly. | B.Useful. | C.Natural. | D.Unsatisfying. |
A.To offer us some ways to eat healthy. |
B.To help us to stay away from dark emotions |
C.To tell us to prepare for the entrance test well. |
D.To encourage us to accept our feelings, no matter good or bad. |
【推荐3】Psychological First Aid
Psychological first aid can be an excellent tool to relieve mental health struggles. In this article, we’ll explore the definition, significance, and usage of it.
·What is psychological first aid?
In terms of its definition, experts from the University of Glasgow describe psychological first aid (PFA) as something that can be used to support people who have experienced disasters or other crises.
·Why is mental health first aid important
Mental health first aid can be a crucial tool to ensure that people are able to cope with difficult experiences and build resilience (承受力).
PFA enhances resilience by offering constant support, which will surely increase perceived (感知) capacity to deal with a difficult situation, and improve willingness to accept support and assistance from others.
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While PFA can be used to offer support to anyone who has painful experiences, there are certain circumstances that can arise where it can be particularly useful.
In some of these situations, people having experienced a lot of disasters, will need professional help from consultants because they suffer from serious mental problems.
A.What can psychological first aid be used for? |
B.How can you practise mental health first aid for others? |
C.It is a kind of ability to recover after experiencing difficulties. |
D.There are many people with mental health problems in the world. |
E.It provides a framework, employed to offer support in a respected way. |
F.For those without severe mental issues, it can help them to handle struggling things. |
G.Apart from it, the experts further say that PFA is considerate and supportive assistance for depressed people. |