Parents and kids today dress alike, listen to the same music, and are friends. Is this a good thing? Sometimes, when Mr. Ballmer and his 16-year-old daughter, Elizabeth, listen to rock music together and talk about interests both enjoy, such as pop culture, he remembers his more distant relationship with his parents when he was a teenager.
“I would never have said to my mom, ‘Hey, the new Weezer album is really great. How do you like it?” says Ballmer. “There was just a complete gap in taste.”
Music was not the only gulf. From clothing and hairstyles to activities and expectations, earlier generations of parents and children often appeared to move in separate orbits. (轨迹)
Today, the generation gap has not disappeared, but it is getting narrow in many families. Conversations on subjects such as sex and drugs would not have taken place a generation ago. Now they are comfortable and common. And parent-child activities, from shopping to sports, involve (包含) a feeling of trust and friendship that can continue into adulthood.
No wonder greeting cards today carry the message, “To my mother, my best friend.”
But family experts warn that the new equality (平等) can also result in less respect for parents. “There’s still a lot strictness and authority (权威) on the part of parents out there, but there is a change happening,” says Kerrie, a psychology professor at Lebanon Valley College, “In the middle of that change, there is a lot of confusion among parents.”
Family researchers offer a variety of reasons for these changing roles and attitudes. They see the 1960s as a turning point. Great cultural changes led to more open communication and a more democratic (民主) process that encourages everyone to have a say.
“My parents were on the ‘before’ side of that change, but today’s parents, the 40-year-olds, were on the ‘after’ side,” explains Mr. Ballmer. “It’s not something easily accomplished by parents these days, because life is more difficult to understand or deal with, but sharing interests does make it more fun to be a parent now.”
1. The underlined word “gulf” in Para. 3 most probably means _________.A.interest | B.problem | C.difference | D.separation |
A.Parents help their children develop interests in more activities. |
B.Parents put more trust in their children’s abilities. |
C.Parents and children talk more about sex and drugs. |
D.Parents share more interests with their children. |
A.More confusion among parents |
B.New equality between parents and children |
C.Less respect for parents from children |
D.More strictness and authority on the part of parents |
A.describe the difficulties today’s parents have met with |
B.discuss the change of the parent-child relationship |
C.suggest the ways to handle the parent-child relationship |
D.stress the importance of parent-child relationship |
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【推荐1】My son Leon’s passion for surfing began at the age of 13. After school each day, he put on his wet suit, paddled out beyond the surf line and waited to be challenged by his companions.
One afternoon, the lifeguard reported over the phone to my husband Wilson that Leon’s eye was badly injured by his board. Wilson rushed him to the emergency room. He received 26 stitches (缝针) from the corner of his eye to the bridge of his nose.
I was on an airplane flying home. Wilson drove directly to the airport after they left the doctor’s office. He greeted me at the gate and told me Leon was waiting in the car.
“Leon?” I questioned. I remember thinking the waves must have been terrible that day.
“He’s been in an accident, but he’s going to be fine.”
A traveling working mother’s worst nightmare had come true. I ran to the car so fast that the heel of my shoe broke off. I swung open the door, and my son with the patched eye was leaning forward crying, “Oh, Ma, I’m so glad you’re home.”
I cried in his arms telling him how awful I felt about not being with him.
“It’s okay, Mom,” he comforted me. “You don’t know how to surf anyway.”
“What?” I asked, confused by his logic.
“I’ll be fine. The doctor says I can go back in the water in eight days.”
I wanted to tell him he wasn’t allowed to go near water again until he was 35, but instead I bit my tongue and prayed he would forget about surfing.
For the next seven days he kept pressing me to let him surf again. One day after I had repeated “No” to him for the 100th time, he beat me at my own game.
“Mom, you taught us never to give up what we love.”I gave in.
Back then Leon was just a boy with a passion for surfing. Now he ranks among the top 25 professional surfers in the world.
1. How did the author feel when she was told her son was waiting in the car?A.Anxious. | B.Concerned. | C.Heartbroken. | D. Surprised. |
A.He decided to follow the author’s advice. |
B.He persuaded me with my common method. |
C.He was upset about not being able to surf. |
D.He felt like he’d experienced a nightmare. |
A.She is a working mom who rarely supports her son’s hobby. |
B.She immediately told her son to stop surfing after the accident. |
C.She fell into grief when she saw her injured son. |
D.She placed her son’s safety second to his dream. |
A.Strong-willed and creative. | B.Considerate and persistent. |
C.Optimistic and reliable. | D.Responsible and sensitive. |
【推荐2】Quality time with my dad
When I tell people I wrote a book with my dad, they usually say, “It must be nice to think of the legacy (遗产) you created with someone who means so much to you.”
This was a beautiful idea, but it was not the way I, or my dad, ever thought about the cooperation.Though we created something we’re proud of, “nice” is not the word either of us uses to describe the process.
“It was more confrontation(对抗) than cooperation,” my dad likes to say.I agree.When we landed a book deal,we began a writing journey that was more difficult than either of us had expected,but also far more rewarding.
For almost three years.we met once or twice a week at my parents*house and talked daily to plan and outline each chapter.After these meetings,one of us would write a rough draft that the other would build on.I wanted the book to focus on positive vices (不良习惯):such as moderate (适度的) chocolate. However, my dad felt the book should include chapters dealing with things like walking and spending time with family. Eventually, I saw it his way.He said the book was about more than just good vices.It was about encouraging people to enjoy life in healthy ways.
Writing this book was a reminder that our family members share not only our faults but also our strengths. My dad is smart, funny, critical and caring.He has a strong passion for the truth.I hope I share these great qualities. For this book, he researched each topic with an enthusiasm I’d never seen from him, and he insisted that we constantly question and critically analyze every piece of information- even our own conclusions.He was determined to cooperate on a book, not because he couldn’t write one on his own, but because he believed that we could create than we something better together than we could alone.
I’m not sure if our cooperation led to better writing, but it led to a better writing experience.Writing this book was difficult, sometimes more difficult than past projects, but it was never lonely.
1. How would the author describe the writing process according to the first 3 paragraphs?A.Nice. | B.Relaxing. |
C.Struggling | D.Disappointing. |
A.He likes to get to the bottom of things. |
B.He likes to criticize others’ works. |
C.He lacks confidence in himself. |
D.He is not good at writing |
A.Cooperation leads to a better product. |
B.It’s important to make a plan before work. |
C.Communicate more when there is an argument. |
D.It’s worthwhile to work with someone close to you. |
【推荐3】Most of us have been there: Families can be very difficult, and family problems are very painful.
Identify the real problem.
Wait until you’re not angry to discuss this problem. Family problems can be very painful, especially around family-centered times, like holidays.
Accept everyone’s faults, including your own. They say that blood is thicker than water, and that you can choose your friends, but not your family.
A.Avoid the blame game. |
B.Accept blame when you deserve it. |
C.Try to figure out what is indeed going on. |
D.That means avoiding judgment words or name calling of the family member. |
E.However, there are ways to solve family problems and restore peace to the dynamic. |
F.You might be able to cut people out, but it could cause you more pain down the road. |
G.You should take a step back and give yourself some time to think before dealing with them. |
【推荐1】The first apes evolved 20 million years ago in the forests where they would go up a tree to get their food, and then come back down to move on to the next tree. Getting out of a tree presents all kinds of new challenges. Big apes can’t afford to fall because it could kill or badly injure them. Natural selection would have favoured those with body structures that allowed them to descend (下来) safely.
Dartmouth researchers report in the journal Royal Society Open Science that apes probably evolved free-moving shoulders and flexible elbows to slow their descent from trees as gravity pulled on their heavier bodies. These flexible body parts passed on from ancestral apes would have allowed early humans to climb trees at night for safety and comedown in the daylight unhurt. When early humans transitioned from forests to open savannas (热带稀树草原), flexible shoulders and elbows were crucial for gathering food and using tools for hunting and defense.
The researchers used sports analysis and statistical software to study how primates (灵长目动物) like chimpanzees and small monkeys called mangabeys climbed in the wild. They found that chimps and mangabeys scaled (攀爬) trees similarly, with shoulders and elbows mostly bent close to the body. When descending, however, chimpanzees extended their arms above their heads to hold on to branches, much like a person using a ladder, to counteract (抵消) their heavier weight pulling them downward.
Luke Fannin, the lead author of the study, emphasized that their findings highlight the importance of “down climbing” in the evolution of apes and early humans. He explained, “Our research introduces the idea that down climbing played a significant role in shaping the structural differences between monkeys and apes, which eventually showed in humans.”
“Our field has thought about apes climbing up trees for a long time but we’ve been ignoring the second half of this behaviour,” said Professor Jeremy DeSilva. The findings are among the first to identify the significance of “down climbing” in the evolution of apes and early humans.
1. Why should big apes protect themselves from falling off a tree according to the text?A.To avoid being hurt or killed. |
B.To avoid being hunted by humans. |
C.To avoid being caught by other animals. |
D.To avoid being laughed by other apes. |
A.A ladder. |
B.Sports software. |
C.Statistical analysis. |
D.Sports analysis and statistical software. |
A.Apes became humans because of down climbing. |
B.The second half of climbing up trees haven’t been ignored before. |
C.Down climbing was essential in developing the differences between monkeys and apes. |
D.Scientists has thought about apes climbing up trees for a short time. |
A.Monkeys and Chimpanzees: Studies in Nature |
B.Mangabeys and Mankind: A Common Study of Climbing |
C.Apes’ Climbing Methods: How to Descend Safely |
D.Shoulders and Elbows: Evolved as Brakes (刹车) for Down Climbing Apes |
【推荐2】When a leafy plant is under attack, it doesn't sit quietly. Back in 1983,two scientists,Jack Schultz and Ian Baldwin, reported that young maple trees (枫树) getting bitten by insects send out a particular smell that neighboring plants can get. These chemicals come from the injured parts of the plant and seem to be an alarm. What the plants send through the air is a mixture of chemicals known as volatile organic compounds,VOCs for short.
Scientists have found that all kinds of plants give out VOCs when being attacked. It's a plant's way of crying out. But is anyone listening? Obviously. Because we can watch the neighbors react.
Some plants give out smelly chemicals to keep insects away. But others do double duty. They give out smells designed to attract different insects who are natural enemies to the attackers. Once they arrive, the tables are turned. The attacker who was launching now becomes lunch.
In study after study, it appears that these chemical conversations help the neighbors. The damage is usually more serious on the first plant, but the neighbors, relatively speaking,stay safer because they heard the alarm and knew what to do.
Does this mean that plants talk-to-each-other? Scientists don't know. Maybe the first plant just made a cry of pain or was sending a message to its own branches, and so in effect,was talking to itself. Perhaps the neighbors just happened to "overhear” the cry. So information was exchanged,but it wasn’t a true, intentional back and forth.
Charles Darwin, over 150 years ago,imagined a world far busier, noisier and more intimate (亲密的) than the world we can see and hear. Our senses are weak. There's a whole lot going on.
1. What does a plant do when it is under attack?A.It makes noises. | B.It stands quietly. |
C.It gets help from other plants. | D.It sends out certain chemicals. |
A.The attackers will get attacked |
B.The insects will gather under the table. |
C.The plants will get ready to fight back. |
D.The attackers will give out smelly chemicals. |
A.talk to one another on purpose |
B.warn people of a coming danger |
C.protect themselves against insects |
D.help their neighbors who are under attack |
A.The world is changing faster than ever. |
B.People have stronger senses than before. |
C.We don't fully understand the world. |
D.People in Darwin's time were more imaginative |
【推荐3】Did you know that the color of uniforms can influence the performance of an athlete? It may sound strange, but a study suggests this might be true.
Two British scientists studied the results of four sports in the 2004 Athens Olympic Games where the athletes had been given either a red or a blue uniform. They discovered that when there was a big difference in the score, color had no influence on the result. But if it was a close match, the athlete in a red uniform was more likely to win. Then they looked at the uniforms of the soccer teams at the Euro 2004 tournament. Again, teams wearing red won more games.
The two scientists got their idea from earlier studies of wild animals. It had been discovered that when a male shows red on its body, it sends a signal of its power and strength. For example, in many kinds of monkeys, the more the male shows off its red scars, the more females it can attract.
Based on this fact, the British scientists thought that the idea might work for humans, too. According to them, when an athlete sees a competitor in a red uniform, he gets a feeling that his competitor could be stronger than him. And that kind of feeling may have a bad influence on the player’s performance in the actual game.
Although the idea is interesting, most people don’t accept that color signals in the animal world can really be useful to humans in sports. They think that it is unreasonable to develop an idea based on such a small number of examples. Much more research has to be done to prove the influence of uniform colors on the performance of athletes.
1. What did the scientists find out about the 2004 Athens Olympic Games?A.Athletes played equally well in four sports. |
B.Game results had a big influence on the athletes. |
C.Athletes dressed in red scored more in a close match. |
D.There was a big difference in red and blue team’s scores. |
A.It is quite strong. | B.It is a failure. |
C.It has power over other males. | D.It has attracted a lot of females. |
A.weakness | B.pride | C.shame | D.danger |
【推荐1】A survey has shown that what you do on a plane can be determined by which nationality is listed on your passport.
According to the results of an international passenger survey, Australians are the biggest drinkers on board with 36 percent choosing to down the hatch, compared to 35 percent of Americans and 33 percent of Brits.
The Airline Passenger Experience Association(APEX) spoke to around 1,500 people, aged 18 and older, who have traveled by plane at least once during the last three months and were living in the United States, United Kingdom, Germany, Japan, China, Singapore, Australia and Brazil.
The results found Chinese travelers are most likely to nod off once the seat-belt sign switches off. They are also the first to take out their credit card for some in-flight shopping and the biggest fans of gaming. Americans on the other hand like to use their time in the air more productively---- when not drinking---- choosing to work while flying at 35,000 feet.
Meanwhile, Brits and Germans are the best at making chat with random strangers----spending 50 percent more time than any other nationality. Comparatively, Brazilians conduct their conversations online via email, messaging apps or social media.
Despite plane food having a bad reputation, seven out of ten interviewees said they were happy to eat up on the selection of in-flight snacks and meals. In-flight magazines were also popular with four out of five passengers.
The international flyers did however express their desire for better in-flight entertainment. “The industry has greatly improved the comfort, entertainment and onboard service, and passengers are accepting those improvements” said Russell Lemieux, APEX executive director. “At the same time, passengers are demanding more from their air travel experiences which will drive more improvements touching all aspects of the journey.” he added.
1. What can you probably see in the flight according to the passage?A.Brazilians choose to drink. |
B.Americans do in-flight shopping. |
C.Germans chat to kill the time. |
D.The Chinese switch off the seat-belt sign. |
A.passengers from one nation have little in common |
B.most passengers like to read in-flight magazines |
C.more than half of the passengers don’t enjoy plane food |
D.most people tend to use in-flight time to have a good sleep. |
A.Flyers care little about entertainment. |
B.Flyers are not satisfied with the improvements. |
C.Flyers are expecting better flight experiences. |
D.Flyers have more and more demands from airlines. |
A.To entertain readers with interesting stories. |
B.To encourage people to behave well in public. |
C.To criticize impolite behaviors on the plane. |
D.To inform readers of the results of a survey. |
【推荐2】The Tokyo Summer Olympics is going green. The 5,000 medals Japan has made are more special than most.
One novel focus of the Tokyo Olympics is to be “sustainable”— to avoid using too many natural resources, so that the games are easy on the environment. As part of this goal, the organizers decided to make all of the Olympic medals out of metal recycled from old electronics.
Almost all electronics are made with small amounts of “precious metals”, like gold and silver. But collecting enough of these metals to make 5,000 medals was a huge challenge. That’s because the amount of metal in each device is tiny. It would take about 20,000 cell phones to get just 1 kilogram of gold.
Beginning in April 2017, the organizers placed collection boxes around the country, and asked people to turn in their old electronic devices. Soon people began to respond to the initiative, turning in smartphones, digital cameras, hand-held games, and laptops. At first, collection went slowly, but soon more and more areas began to take part. By the end, 1,621 local governments had helped out with the collection process.
Then came the job of breaking those devices down into smaller pieces. After being taken apart and sorted, the small electronics were smelted (熔炼) to get all the gold, silver, and bronze elements. This is a tricky job, which calls for careful attention and good skill. It’s also dangerous, because some of the metals and other things aren’t safe for people to touch or breathe.
By the end of March, 2019, the organizers had hit their targets of getting enough metal for the medals. They had collected around 32 kilograms of gold, 4,100 kilograms of silver and 2,200 kilograms of bronze. And now all the 5,000 medals are available for the would-be winners.
1. Compared with other Olympic games, which word best describes the Tokyo Olympics medals?A.valuable. | B.quality. | C.unique. | D.green. |
A.The difficulty of making the medals. |
B.The process of collecting old electronics. |
C.The purpose to recycle used smartphones. |
D.The classification of the collected devices. |
A.creative | B.well-paid |
C.demanding | D.unique |
A.To advocate (提倡) sustainable use of resources. |
B.To promote the spirit of Olympic Games. |
C.To introduce a new technique to make medals. |
D.To call people’s attention to environmental damage. |
【推荐3】Back in 2015 my colleague Adam Frank of the University of Rochester and I were having lunch near Columbia University's campus in New York City. As at Fermi's lunch 65 years earlier, the conversation was about the nature of spacefaring species. And inspired by Fermi's mental calculation, we were trying to craft an investigative strategy that made the fewest possible unsubstantiated assumptions and that could be somehow tested or constrained with real data. At the center of this exercise was the simple thought that waves of exploration or settlement could come and go across the galaxy, with humans happening to come into being in one of the lonely periods.
This idea relates to Hart's original fact: that there is no evidence here on Earth today of extraterrestrial(外星的)explorers. But it goes further by asking whether we can obtain meaningful limits on galactic(星系的)life by constraining the exact length of time over which Earth might have gone unvisited. Perhaps long, long ago extraterrestrial explorers came and went. A number of scientists have, over the years, discussed the possibility of looking for artifacts that might have been left behind after such visitations of our solar system. The necessary scope of a complete search is hard to predict, but the situation on Earth alone turns out to be a bit more manageable. In 2018 another of my colleagues, Gavin Schmidt of NASA's Goddard Institute for Space Studies, together with Adam Frank, produced a critical assessment of whether we could even tell if there had been an earlier industrial civilization on our planet.
As fantastic as it may seem, Schmidt and Frank argue—as do most planetary scientists—that it is actually very easy for time to erase essentially all signs of technological life on Earth. The only real evidence after a million or more years would boil down to isotopic or chemical stratigraphic anomalies—odd features such as synthetic molecules, plastics or radioactive fallout. Fossil remains and other paleontological markers are so rare that they might not tell us anything in this case.
Indeed, modern human urbanization covers only on order of about 1 percent of the planetary surface, providing a very small target area for any paleontologists(古生物学家)in the distant future. Schmidt and Frank also conclude that nobody has yet performed the necessary experiments to look exhaustively for such non-natural signatures on Earth. The bottom line is, if an industrial civilization on the scale of our own had existed a few million years ago, we might not know about it. That absolutely does not mean one existed; it indicates only that the possibility cannot be completely eliminated.
1. The word “unsubstantiated”(in paragraph 1)is closest in meaning to ________.A.unconscious | B.unknown | C.unnatural | D.unsupported |
A.No other species have ever settled on Earth except human beings. |
B.Extraterrestrial explorers come and go at increasingly short intervals. |
C.No spacefaring species have visited the Earth since humans emerged. |
D.Extraterrestrial explorers once built an industrial civilization on Earth. |
A.turn to isotopic or chemical stratigraphic anomalies |
B.find as many signs of technological life as possible |
C.unearth more fossil remains than we do now |
D.leave behind synthetic things like plastics |
A.Human urbanization should be expanded for the sake of research. |
B.We cannot say for sure that no civilization existed before ours. |
C.Non-natural signatures on Earth have been studied exhaustively. |
D.An industrial civilization came into being a few million years ago. |
【推荐1】Once China’s strict lockdown was lifted, we saw a sharp rise in divorce enquiries. And this behaviour was mirrored around the world. In the US, the UK and throughout Europe, divorce rates have risen violently during the pandemic. Latvia, Lithuania and Belgium lead the way for the highest divorce rates in Europe. And in the USA, between 40-50% of marriages will end in divorce. The country with the lowest divorce rate in the world is India, followed by Chile, Colombia, Mexico and Turkey.
Why they have the lowest divorce rates, and what are they doing differently? In many cases, access to divorce is a driving force behind a country’s divorce rates. A country like Chile only legalized divorce in 2004, so the concept is still quite new and the local uptake is likely to be much slower.
Another key factor in determining divorce rates of a country is the value placed on family life. In countries like Colombia, it’s far more common for multiple generations from the same family to live together. This emphasis on family values places marriage at the heart of everything, so entering into a marriage is a more considered event.
Countries such as India with a strong religious following are more likely to have low divorce rates. This is because marriage is more sacred (神圣的) when viewed from a religious perspective. Couples will be more likely to seek settlements or simply stay together regardless when they hit bumps in the road.
There are a number of factors at play here, so it’s difficult to place a finger on one single factor that ensures couples enjoy a long and happy life together. And low divorce rates don’t always mean that couples are happy, it can just mean that the importance of marriage outweighs individual happiness. Seeking a divorce doesn’t have to be viewed as a failure; it can help you to get your life back on track and help you work towards a brighter and happier future.
1. Which of the following countries has the highest divorce rates?A.Colombia | B.India |
C.USA | D.Mexico |
A.Because people there enjoy a happier and longer life. |
B.Because divorce hasn’t been legal until 2004 in Chile. |
C.Because people there consider marriage the centre of everything. |
D.Because people there think seeking a divorce is evil and blamable. |
A.Divorce without hesitation | B.separate in a peaceful way |
C.stay together regardless of conflicts | D.beg for forgiveness of their god |
A.negative | B.supportive |
C.critical | D.objective |
【推荐2】As most of us know, talking to and listening to parents don’t always go smoothly. Emotions and past experiences can get in the way. Since communication is a two-way street, some depends on your parents and some of what happens depends on you. The way you talk can influence how well a parent listens to and understands you.
•Be clear and direct.
Be as clear as you can about what you think, feel, and want.
•Be honest.
If you’re always honest, a parent will be likely to believe what you say.
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Using a friendly and respectful tone makes it more likely that parents will listen and take what you say seriously. Of course, this is hard for any of us when we’re feeling heated about something.If you think your emotions might get the better of you, do something to let off steam and calm down before talking.
•Try to understand their point of view.
If you have a disagreement, can you see your parents’ side? If you can, say so.
A.Try not to argue. |
B.Communicate as often as possible. |
C.If you lie, they’ll find it hard to trust you. |
D.Make careful preparations before talking to your parents. |
E.Here are some guidelines to consider how to talk to parents. |
F.Give details that can help parents understand your situation. |
G.Telling your parents that you understand their views and feelings helps them be willing to see yours, too. |
【推荐3】Oldest, Youngest, or in the Middle?
Were you the first or last child in your family? Or were you a middle or the only child? Some people think it matters where you were born in your family. But there are different ideas about what birth order means.
Some people say that oldest children are smart and strong-willed. They are very likely to be successful. The reason for this is simple. Parents have a lot of time for their first child. They give him or her a lot of attention. So this child is very likely to do well. An only child will succeed for the same reasons.
What happens to the other children in a family? Middle children don’t get so much attention. So they don’t feel that important. If a family has many children, the middle ones sometimes get lost in the crowd. The youngest child, though, often gets special treatment. He or she is the “baby”. Often this child grows up to be funny and charming.
Do you believe these ideas about birth order? A recent study saw things quite differently. This study found that the first children believed in family rules. They didn’t take many chances in their lives. They usually followed their own ideas . They took chances. And they often did better in life.
Which theory about birth order do you believe? Look at your own family or you friends’ families. Decide which idea fits what you see.
1. This passage is about __________.A.why the oldest children in a family usually succeed |
B.why some children refuse to follow orders |
C.ways in which birth order may affect how children grow up |
D.how people have a lot of trouble agreeing about ideas |
A.they have a poor sense of direction |
B.they don’t get a lot of attention |
C.they have a strong desire to be leaders |
D.they can’t get along with others |
A.idea | B.comparison | C.evidence | D.surprise |