It is necessary to be reasonable and flexible (灵活的) enough to avoid conflicts (冲突) as much as possible and live in peace with others.
Don’t get in the center of the conflict.
Sometimes people can get in the center of conflicts due to their enthusiasm (热心) for offering help. Frankly speaking, it is very unwise, because it can make you the main figure of the conflict.
Be kind.
Try to be a peacekeeper.
Peacekeepers tend to cooperate with people without bad emotions which usually lead to arguments and even conflicts. “
When the conflict is gathering pace and you can’t manage to control yourself, you should choose to handle the situation in another way. By all means, try to keep yourself away from stress. It is helpful to put some distance between yourself and the opponent (对手). You should get away from the situation for a while.
A.Walk off. |
B.The greatest victory is a battle not fought. |
C.Conflicts are unavoidable, so try to accept them. |
D.Weak people usually desire others to offer help and support. |
E.Let other people solve their problems without your presence. |
F.When someone pushes you to the limit, try to act kindly towards this person. |
G.Arguing can either break your friendship or affect your relationship to some degree. |
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【推荐1】Like most people, you probably spend a lot of time sitting and gain weight. For the sake of good health, you may balance out your time in the chair with trips to the gym.
● Increase daily walking to stay active and healthy
Walking is one of the easiest, most convenient activities you can do.
● Fight sitting disease by standing at work
Work is a place where many of us sit for hours, and the result is a lost opportunity to burn hundreds of calories every day.
● Make house cleaning a part of your fitness routine
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Preparing food certainly burns more calories. To control what goes in your mouth, you can plan ahead and have a home-cooked meal. This way, you know exactly what went into your meal and it can be prepared faster and less expensively than making that extra stop at a restaurant.
A.A stand-up desk could help to change that |
B.Decorate your home to stay comfortable and active |
C.Actually, it is the best way to go to the gym every day |
D.Control your diet and burn calories by cooking at home |
E.However, losing your weight doesn’t require an expensive gym membership |
F.Cleaning your home regularly is another way to ensure that you stay active |
G.To burn calories, you’d better walk faster and devote more time to each walk |
【推荐2】How to Teach kids About Setting Goals
Set smart goals. A goal needs to be measurable, specific, realistic and timely in order to be effective. Kids prefer generalizing(泛化)when it comes to goal setting. For example, one may want to be the best basketball player in the team.
Write down goals.
Set up review points. You can ask them to write their main goal on the poster and mention the steps they would take for attaining their goal.
A.Goals can’t be accomplished absolutely unless they are written down. |
B.This tip is supported by science as well. |
C.How is a goal like this measured? |
D.Ask them to track their progress once a week or month. |
E.Face goals that are not realistic. |
F.Is it a really big goal? |
G.It is essential for everybody, especially for kids, to set goals in life. |
【推荐3】Love the Process
When you first feel that you love the process more than the result, you will sense it makes you better at dealing with failures. In the end, you won’t care about the outcome if you enjoy the process of getting to it. On the contrary, if you do not enjoy the process, you won’t get the joy of success either.
We all love when our hard work pays off.
But how to do that, in this impatient world, where we see a lot of successful people around and want to compete? Well, that question has the answer in it.
Never Compete.
Be Patient.
Slow down. You need to stop expecting immediate results in what you do and learn to be patient.
Divide the process into small milestones, and give yourself a reward after completing each of them. Rewarding yourself for small accomplishments can go a long way. If you are in the process of weight loss, do a “Cheat day” and enjoy your beloved cake once in a while. You’ve earned that.
A.Never compare yourself with others. |
B.Reward yourself for small achievements. |
C.Impatience is the direct route to losing heart. |
D.Competing with others can’t make you more powerful. |
E.But we never know what will be the result in the end. |
F.You will be successful because you enjoy the process. |
G.Success will be doubled, instead, as you love the whole process. |