Love the Process
When you first feel that you love the process more than the result, you will sense it makes you better at dealing with failures. In the end, you won’t care about the outcome if you enjoy the process of getting to it. On the contrary, if you do not enjoy the process, you won’t get the joy of success either.
We all love when our hard work pays off.
But how to do that, in this impatient world, where we see a lot of successful people around and want to compete? Well, that question has the answer in it.
Never Compete.
Be Patient.
Slow down. You need to stop expecting immediate results in what you do and learn to be patient.
Divide the process into small milestones, and give yourself a reward after completing each of them. Rewarding yourself for small accomplishments can go a long way. If you are in the process of weight loss, do a “Cheat day” and enjoy your beloved cake once in a while. You’ve earned that.
A.Never compare yourself with others. |
B.Reward yourself for small achievements. |
C.Impatience is the direct route to losing heart. |
D.Competing with others can’t make you more powerful. |
E.But we never know what will be the result in the end. |
F.You will be successful because you enjoy the process. |
G.Success will be doubled, instead, as you love the whole process. |
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A few minutes later, he spots a patch of sand that appears to have been disturbed by a turtle. Dequina studies the area carefully, figuring out where the eggs have been buried, and then starts digging slowly. After clearing away several centimeters of sand, he uncovers a large group of eggs, roughly the size of ping-pong balls. He picks them up and puts them in the bucket.
Dequina carries the eggs to his hatchery (孵卵所), some 50 meters away from the seashore. The hatchery is really just a sandy patch of land under the coconut trees enclosed by a black fence. It is here that he buries the turtle eggs he has collected. Today, Dequina scoops a hole, puts the eggs in it, and covers them with sand. After 45 to 70 days, the eggs will hatch. Dequina will then carry the hatchlings to the shore, and release them into the sea. He admits to feeling sorrow as he sets the hatchlings free -- most are hunted down by natural predators, and just one percent survive to adulthood.
According to the Philippine Department of Environment and Natural Resources (DENR), eight species of sea turtles face extinction, including four that come to the shores of Sarangani to lay their eggs -- the Hawksbill, Olive Ridley, Loggerhead and Green Turtles.
After learning about their plight (困境), Dequina attended a DENR training session on turtle conservation and decided to take action. He helped the local government to set up the Pawikan Nesting Sanctuary next to his house in 2003.
The hatchery drew the attention of the locals. “They started to change their attitudes towards sea turtles,” 52-year-old Dequina says. “If they see turtle eggs, they will either bring them to me or inform me of the nesting places.” Over the past ten years, more than 3,000 hatchlings have been released to the ocean.
1. Dequina walks along the shore to ________.
A.release small turtles |
B.bury turtle eggs deeper |
C.look for newly laid turtle eggs |
D.clear away trash from the seaside |
A.put them into the sea instantly |
B.just bury them |
C.pick them up and put them in the bucket |
D.take them and go to his house |
A.Doubtful. | B.Disappointed. |
C.Opposed. | D.Supportive. |
A.Dequina feels sad when he releases hatchlings. |
B.Dequina has worked for the hatchery for six years. |
C.The hatchery is far from Dequina’s house. |
D.The hatchery mainly protects injured turtles. |
【推荐2】Losing weight is difficult. For most people, it requires a change in diet, a change in exercise habits, and a change in attitude.
●Set healthy goals.
If you’re overweight and want to change that, the first step is deciding what your target weight is.
●Start small.
Making big behavior changes isn’t something that happens overnight.
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The best way to stick to your diet and exercise rues is to track it. There are plenty of apps that allow you to do this. Or you can do it in an old way and keep a written food and exercise journal. Find what works for you and write down what you’ve achieved every day.
● Evaluate (评估) and adjust.
Every month you should take a look at your goal and see the progress you’ve made towards achieving it.
A.Track your diet and exercise. |
B.Here are some ways to help you. |
C.You might as well start with playing music. |
D.Do not run too much. |
E.So start with 1-2 small things per week and work up from there. |
F.If you’re not what you want to be, make small adjustments. |
G.Write down your goal and set a date by which you want to achieve that goal. |
【推荐3】It is never easy to cope with bullying, and doing nothing in return will only result in more intense bullying.
Bullies usually hunt for people who are alone. If you are with your friends, or if you are in the company of someone, it is least likely that the bully will disturb you.
Asking the bully to stop is sometimes a good way to deal with them. Bullies tend to assume that we will never speak up to them. When we do speak up for ourselves, it takes them by surprise.
Plus, some of us are born comedians, who can turn almost anything into a joke. If you are one of these people, try to take advantage of your gift to turn the situation the bully has created into a joke or just say something funny. This will break the bully’s confidence and they will know that you are strong and sure about who you are.
A.This will make them back off. |
B.Bullying comes in different forms. |
C.There is no simple solution to the problem. |
D.Another effective measure is to ignore them. |
E.You can always shift focus to the bystanders. |
F.Tell them to stop in a firm and confident voice. |
G.We’re not asking you to make a huge circle of friends. |
【推荐1】When we are little, we know nothing about the rights and responsibilities of adulthood.
Still, little by little, we realize that our parents can’t offer us all that we want for certain reasons. We then also understand that parents have their rights. They have the right to scold us when we do something wrong or when they find out that we have lied to them.
The moment we become teenagers, we notice that we should be responsible for the society. Now we have the right to be independent.
A.We think our parents should offer us all we need. |
B.We should believe we can do them by ourselves. |
C.This is a child’s important weapon to threaten his/her parents. |
D.Moreover, they have the right to make choices for us when we are little. |
E.As a matter of fact, parents have a lot of things to be concerned about. |
F.But at the same time they are responsible for many things that happen to us. |
G.However, it’s also time for us to give explanations when we do something wrong. |
【推荐2】Throwing a rock into a calm body of water creates a ripple(涟漪) effect across the calm pond, until those ripples reach the edge of the water. It can be a beautiful experience and it also explains how our actions affect other people. When we display love and kindness to others, the feeling ripples out to people in our inner circle, and the impact of our actions extends out further. The same logic also applies to hate or anger. It is important that we should begin to be more thoughtful about our actions and words.
Love can reach so many different people, making it a powerful force in the world. Hate has the same effect. The world would be a better place if we learn to love and show kindness to others instead of anger. We can't always control what others do, but we have power over our actions and contribute our own ripples into the world.
We don't always know the impact that our actions have on others. There will be times when you are angry. Some people may feel a sense of temporary relief when they throw a rock of hate into the world, but that feeling usually changes into shame and anger towards oneself eventually. Hate hurts yourself and the world in the meanwhile. I recommend walking away for a while when you feel angry. Kindness is like perfume(香水). Spreading love and kindness not only has positive effects on others but also on ourselves. You get to enjoy it, and the people around you can enjoy it too. Personally, I feel my best when I help others and I feel my worst when I've made someone upset. When we put kindness into the world, we'll feel thank- fulness, sympathy, and understanding. Let my kindness guide my decisions and this allows love and connection to ripple out into the world.
It's important that we take care of ourselves when we show love and kindness to others. When we love ourselves, we're then able to love others. And when we let this love and kindness guide our decisions, the world will become more beautiful.
1. Why does the author mention the experience of throwing a rock into a pond?A.To teach us how to make big ripples. |
B.To introduce the topic of this text. |
C.To see how the ripples spread in water. |
D.To share an interesting experience. |
A.Turn to your parents for help. |
B.Talk about your problems with someone else. |
C.Stop those ripples of anger from spreading. |
D.Avoid seeing the person making you angry. |
A.By referring to a theory. | B.By analyzing cause and effect. |
C.By giving some examples. | D.By making comparisons. |
A.Anger has a bad effect on our actions |
B.Love and kindness make the world much more beautiful |
C.Kindness or anger ripples out to other people nearby |
D.Hate usually leads to shame and anger in the end |
【推荐3】I am a big laugher. I’ve been told that even in a room of a thousand people, you can always hear me laughing over the crowd. For me, laughter is the ultimate form of embodied joy. And by “embodied”, I mean that my whole body is involved when I laugh. On the inside, it’s like a bubbling fountain of joy spilling out all over the place.
But what is joy, anyway?
Life can be terrible, but if you decide to follow the sound of the joy-fountain, you will find joy showing up in all kinds of places: pets playfully bouncing around, kindness, or even in nothingness.
How can joy be found? A friend moved into a new apartment and needed some help, so I helped him. Afterwards, he was obviously so much happier and at ease. I noticed that playing even a small part in his happiness brought me great joy, and I took a moment to let this feeling of embodied joy in. We can practice letting joy in by noticing how it feels to smile. Where does your body light up when you smile? When I smile, it makes me want to take a deep breath, and I notice my shoulders and belly relaxing. When I embody caring and loving, it feels great!
Sadly, many of us are unaware of joy, or suspicious of it. Maybe you are afraid to open up to joy, or maybe you are so unfamiliar with what joy feels like that you ignore or resist it when it comes knocking. No one, other than you, owns your happiness, but you might unknowingly block feelings or experiences that help you embody joy. The fact is that when you can’t embody joy, you miss out on one of life’s essential vitamins.
Want more joy? Don’t be afraid to look silly. Silliness helps us take things less personally. It helps us see the world the way a kid does. When we can find more joy in the smalls of everyday life, we can embody happiness, rather than just pursuing it.
1. How is the topic of joy introduced at the beginning of the passage?A.By highlighting a joyful experience. |
B.By stressing the importance of laughing |
C.By sharing the author’s understanding of joy. |
D.By presenting an ultimate form of satisfaction. |
A.Taking a deep breath. | B.Smiling to your friends. |
C.Reflecting on nothingness. | D.Doing small acts of kindness. |
A.That many of us refuse it on purpose. |
B.That many of us are insensitive to joy. |
C.That many of us lack life’s essential vitamins. |
D.That many of us are likely to take joy for granted. |
A.He who laughs last laughs best. |
B.Happy people are happy in childhood. |
C.Worry does not seek, but man seeks it. |
D.Love of joy is belief; the creation of joy is life. |