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How To Deal With A Bully

Bullying is when someone misuses his authority( 权威) or power inside a relationship.    1    This behavior can cause physical and emotional harm on others and often leaves the victim feeling helpless.

It is never easy to deal with all the unwanted bullying even when you have done nothing wrong.    2    Here are some helpful ways to deal with a bully when you get bullied.

Ask Them To Stop

    3    Sometimes when we do not speak up for ourselves, the bullies continue with their behavior thinking of us as easy targets. Telling them to stop in a firm and confident voice can make them reconsider their actions. This will work only if they have not yet established a pattern of bullying you. It is important to keep in mind that you are trying to de-escalate(弱化) the situation.

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Bullies usually hunt for people who are alone or have isolated themselves from their surroundings. If you are with your friends, or if you are in the company of someone, it is least likely that the bully will disturb you. We are not asking you to make a huge circle of friends, but sometimes all it takes is one loyal friend who will stay by you no matter what.

Ignore Them

Another effective measure to ignore a bully is by ignoring them. They think of it as a game, and when they get an emotional response from you, it satisfies their ego.     5    So if they get nothing, they will stop bothering you because they will know you are not an easy one to attack.

A.Be Accompanied
B.Make More Friends
C.Asking the bully to stop is sometimes an effective measure to deal with them.
D.It can be outside of a relationship too as this behavior knows no bounds.
E.Such bullies will go around spreading rumors and false news.
F.However, doing nothing in return will only result in more intense bullying.
G.When you do not react to what they say or do no matter how hurtful it may be for you, they start to lose interest in you.
【知识点】 方法/策略 校园安全

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【推荐1】How to Be a Good Friend

Being a good friend isn’t always easy. As the years pass, some people will stay by your side, but many won’t. And you’ll realize that each friendship you keep is priceless. Of course, to have a good friend, you should remember the following tips:

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Don’t make a promise that you can’t keep. Nobody’s perfect, and it’s okay if you skip out on a promise occasionally, but don’t make it a regular thing.

Be dependable.

Your friend will need you for support, especially in hard times.     2    

Apologize when you’ve made a mistake.

If you want your friends to trust you, then you can’t act like you’re perfect.     3     Though your friends won’t be happy that you made a mistake, they’ll be very pleased if you admit it instead of just pretending that nothing is wrong.

Be honest.

If you want to be a good friend and to have people trust you, then you have to be honest about your feelings and about how you feel about your friendship. If you’re honest about how you feel, that will make your friends more likely to open up to you.     4    

Be loyal.

    5     Just do it as you’d expect your friend to do for you. Don’t discuss your friend behind his or her back, and don’t n spread rumors.

A.Keep your promises.
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D.If your friend hurts you. don’t be afraid to talk about it.
E.If your friend tells you a secret, keep it and don’t talk about it with anyone else.
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【推荐2】An allowance is an important tool for teaching kids how to budget, save and make their own decisions. Children remember and learn from mistakes when their own dollars are lost or spent foolishly.

How large an allowance is appropriate? Experts say there is no fixed amount. Actual amounts differ from region to region and from family to family.

To set an appropriate allowance for your child, work up a weekly budget. Allow for entertainment expenditures such as movies and snacks. Next, include everyday expenses such as lunch money, bus fare, school supplies. “If you make the child responsible for these bills,” says Josephine Swanson, a consumer specialist, “he or she will learn to budget for necessary expenditures.”

Finally, add some extra money to make saving possible. If you can, keep your child's allowance in line with that of his friends. A child whose purchasing power falls away below his peers' can feel left out.

It can be tough, but avoid excusing your children when they make a mistake with their allowance. When Brooke Stephens was ten and growing up in Jacksonville, her mother gave her $5 a week, $1.75 of which was for bus fare and lunch. “If you lose your money,” Brook's mother told her, “you walk home.”

One week the girl spent all her allowance in a candy store; then she called home for a fare. “Mom made me walk home, ” recalls Stephens, now a financial planner in Brooklyn. “At first I was angry. But I finally realized that she was trying to teach me an important lesson.”

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C.children may feel lost and lonely if they have no pocket money
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【推荐3】Everyone wants to be happy every day, but sometimes we come across some problems which makes us feel bad.     1    

Measure your progress not your distance to the goal.

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Make gratitude lists.

Expressing your appreciation for what you have is an important happiness strategy. It’s one that is worth doing on a daily basis. If you are having trouble thinking of things, you may be thinking too small. You need to widen your view. You can think about nature: the trees, the sun and the sound of a running stream. You can also think about people: family and friends with whom you are grateful to have a relationship.     3    

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There are many benefits that come from helping others, whether helping someone you know or volunteering for a community.     5     Studies have shown that people who volunteer live longer. Volunteering is also a great tool in the flight against depression because it is easier to forget your problems for a while when you turn your attention to the needs of others.

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