I enjoy being alone. I go to the movies alone. I wander museums alone. I eat meals alone. I sit in coffee shops and get lost in thought. I take the train and go to new towns and walk around alone.
You’re probably thinking that I must be pretty strange and very lonely. Interestingly enough, I was more lonely before I started spending time alone. The feeling like I needed to be around people all the time was loneliness. The feeling of complete anxiety and fear when a boyfriend broke up with me was loneliness. But being alone? This is peace. This is fun. This is what self-esteem (自尊) is built of.
For the past year, I’ve been single by choice, not by circumstance, not because no one will ask me out or I can’t find anyone eligible (合适的). It’s hard for some people to believe that I am choosing not to date, and I often get strange and confused looks from my old aunt and college friends alike.
I’m not the slightest bit embarrassed to say out loud that I’ve been choosing to be alone and it’s been the most nurturing (滋养的), sustainable, and non-anxiety including relationship I’ve ever had. There’s no waiting to be texted back, and there’s no feeling like another person just doesn’t understand me.
That doesn’t mean I don’t plan on bonding with others in future — I definitely do. But I know now that the relationship I’ve built with myself is a model for the relationship I want to be in. I know now that I’m not going into the relationship as a half. I’m going in as a whole.
1. Why does the author choose to do things alone?A.She is lonely by nature. | B.She thinks it beneficial. |
C.She hates waiting for others. | D.She wants to surprise her aunt. |
A.They wonder why. | B.They avoid her on purpose. |
C.They try to change her mind. | D.They refuse to make friends with her. |
A.She feels sorry for herself. |
B.She likes easy-going people. |
C.She is content with her present state. |
D.She intends to be a role model for others. |
A.She will bond better with others. |
B.She has found an eligible boyfriend. |
C.She will not accept a half-devoted friend. |
D.She will not expect to be fully understood. |
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【推荐1】Tim Richter and his wife,Linda,had taught for over 30 years near Buffalo,New York-he in computers,she in special education.“Teaching means everything to us,”Tim would say.In April 1998,he learned he would need a heart operation.It was the kind of news that leads to some serious thinking about life’s purpose.
Not long after the surgery,Tim saw a brochure describing Imagination Library,a program started by Dolly Parton’s foundation(基金会)that mailed a book every month to children from birth to age five in the singer’s home town of Sevier,Tennessee.“I thought,maybe Linda and I could do something like this when we retire,”Tim recalls.He placed the brochure on his desk,“as a reminder.”
Five years later,now retired and with that brochure still on the desk,Tim clicked on imaginationlibrary.com.The program had been opened up to partners who could take advantage of book and postage discounts.
The quality of the books was of great concern to the Richters.Rather than sign up online,they went to Dollywood for a look-see.“We didn’t want to give the children rubbish,”says Linda.The books-reviewed each year by teachers,literacy specialists,and Dollywood board members-included classics such as Ezra Jack Keats’s The Snowy Day and newer books like Anna Dewdney’s Llama Llama series.
Satisfied,the couple set up the Richter Family Foundation and got to work.Since 2004,they have shipped more than 12,200 books to preschoolers in their area.Megan Williams,a mother of four,is more than appreciative:“This program introduces us to books I’ve never heard of.”
The Richters spend about﹩400 a month sending books to 200 children.“Some people sit there and wait to die,”says Tim.“Others get as busy as they can in the time they have left.”
1. What led Tim to think seriously about the meaning of life?________A.His health problem. |
B.His love for teaching. |
C.The influence of his wife. |
D.The news from the Web. |
A.Give out brochures. |
B.Do something similar. |
C.Write books for children. |
D.Retire from being a teacher. |
A.To avoid signing up online. |
B.To meet Dollywood board members. |
C.To make sure the books were the newest. |
D.To see if the books were of good quality. |
A.He needs more money to help the children. |
B.He wonders why some people are so busy. |
C.He tries to save those waiting to die. |
D.He considers his efforts worthwhile. |
【推荐2】Life is so much shorter than you think. The average person in the United States lives only 27, 375 days.
Those who deny your dream.
If you are surrounded by people who deny your dream or make fun of it because they think it’s unachievable, it is not good.
Those who push their own ideas.
There are a lot of selfish people who act as if everything they say is right, and try to deny what you say. No matter how much you explain, those who deny your ideas and push their own ideas to you will never understand. So it’s completely a waste of time, and just leave away.
Those who only think about themselves.
Selfish people are harmful in your life. They basically only care about their own happiness and joy, so they usually treat you badly because they are too selfish to care about how you feel.
Don’t you have those people around you who speak negatively, who believe negatively and who tell you their negative ideas. They are alone, living in a sad and negative world so they are trying to bring you into their world, by making you believe that life is full of sadness and unhappiness.
A.Those who are always negative. |
B.They can influence you in a bad way. |
C.Those who don’t believe in a “Happy Ending”. |
D.Don’t let yourself believe in their stupid ideas. |
E.Life is a very cold place without understanding. |
F.Life is too short to spend time with people who steal your joy and happiness. |
G.Be with open-minded people who will accept your ideas and discuss with you calmly. |
【推荐3】When I was only 3 years old, my mother taught me to memorise and recite poems. She was my first teacher of the arts, and my father was the first to appreciate my performance. Even at that young age, I had a simple understanding of how art and culture affect us as human beings and how we can connect to each other through the arts, which shapes my life to this day.
When I was growing up, my parents supported my interest in taking acting classes and doing community theatre. Their faith in me and the professional training I was getting from my theatre teachers gave me a sense of purpose and a sense of self-confidence. I learned what artistic achievement actually was and what hard work the business was. While many people see the rosy picture to our business, I was really learning what it would require for me to become a professional.
I became an actress, but arts education isn’t just about preparing our young people for a job in the arts. I recently talked to some of the kids attending theatre education. Some of them want to work in theatre, and some don’t. They are learning not only theatre skills, but also about the world around them. They learn about discipline and hard work and what’s required and what they have to do to bring themselves to the work. They learn how they can be of service in the world through the arts. They learn how to work with a team. By studying the arts, these students are open to worlds and lives that they might not have any other way of knowing about or any other way to connect with in their lives the way they are right now.
These young people are our future. We are passing the torch to them. And I think that’s one of the most important reasons why we need to foster(培养) the arts.
1. When the writer was 3 years old, she .A.learned many kinds of arts |
B.did well in communication |
C.recited poems to her father |
D.had a deep understanding of the arts |
A.Bright. | B.Funny. |
C.Terrible. | D.Hopeless. |
A.It was hard for the writer to start business. |
B.It is not easy for one to succeed in arts field. |
C.Parents’ faith is a must for one to be professional. |
D.The writer’s self-confidence led to her artistic achievement. |
A.Attending theatre education does the kids much good. |
B.Students studying the arts should travel around the world. |
C.Discipline and hard work are not included in arts education. |
D.Arts education can only prepare the youth for jobs in the arts. |
【推荐1】Jenna had a secret. Her mum is the head teacher of her school. She didn’t want anyone to know this as her classmates would think that she got special treatment. Not even her friends knew about it. When her friends asked to go to her house, she just refused and said that her parents didn’t allow her to invite guests.
“Bring Your Mum to School” day was coming. Jenna usually told her friends in the past that her mum was out of town. “What does your mum do?” her friends asked. “She is a researcher, so she travels a lot.” Funnily enough, Jenna’s mum was always at “Bring Your Mum to School” day at her high school. A teacher once asked her, “Do you have a daughter?” Jenna’s mum said, “Yes, she is in college now.”
Jenna was very close to getting an A in her calculus (微积分) class. There was only one exam left. Jenna would have to get 100% on the exam to push her grade to an A. The teacher offered the students extra credits (附加分) if they brought their mum to the class on the “Bring Your Mum to School” day. Jenna told her mum that she wanted to tell everyone about their relationship. Jenna’s mum agreed. On “Bring Your Mum to School” day, Jenna brought her mum to her calculus class. She felt her heart was beating fast. She was afraid her classmates would not talk to her because she had told a lie. “Hi, our head teacher. What brings you here?” asked the calculus teacher. “I’m Jenna’s mum,” she answered. All the students in the classroom were surprised and they told Jenna she had a cool mother.
1. Why did Jenna refuse to take her friends to her home?A.She tried to hide her mum’s identity. | B.She didn’t like her friends. |
C.Her parents didn’t welcome guests. | D.Her house was too far away. |
A.She is quite funny. | B.She likes travelling. |
C.She lied about her daughter. | D.She dislikes the school day. |
A.Surprised. | B.Proud. | C.Worried. | D.Calm. |
A.Jenna’s Classmates | B.Jenna’s Secret | C.An Interesting Lesson | D.A Head Teacher |
【推荐2】My biggest survival story lasted for six months — six months of physical and mental struggle.
On the first day, my mother talked as she drove towards the Foothills, near a town called Los Altos in California. She told me that the swimming coach she was taking me to was an Olympian, and she hoped that I was going to improve with the coach.
After driving for 30 minutes, we drove through the gate of what appeared to be an expensive club, and saw the coach waiting for me. “Get into lane four, and do it quickly — you’re late. I want you to freestyle while I talk to your mom.”
I think that was the fastest I’d ever gotten into a pool. But if I thought that was bad, then I had another thing coming.
Each day for the next week, the swimming training was so grueling that I could barely get myself out of the pool after the two-hour class. My coach would yell at me whenever I did something wrong or I was hesitant to perform a task. During the day I was so nervous about this woman, that even at school, I was constantly planning what to say and do at swim practice.
The only reason I stayed as long as I did was because of one girl, whom I met around two weeks into the program. People did not really want to talk when I tried to reach out to them. But this girl saw that I was alone and sat next to me while we were stretching (拉伸).
I “survived” the training because I had someone who could cheer me on and someone that I could have fun with but also be serious with. We stood up for each other when the coach called us out. Sometimes, it felt like it was us against the world when we were on that team. So finally, when we realized that this place just wasn’t for us, we both left and I’ve never seen her since. I obviously wouldn’t have died without her, but I definitely wouldn’t have improved so much as a swimmer and just as a person.
1. What do we know about the author’s swimming coach?A.She seems impatient with her students. |
B.She is quite popular among her students. |
C.She left a good first impression on the author. |
D.She was an Olympian and is known for her freestyle swimming. |
A.boring | B.enjoyable | C.exhausting | D.meaningful |
A.By practicing really hard. |
B.With the help of a new friend. |
C.By chatting with her teammates. |
D.With the encouragement of her coach |
【推荐3】Isabella, whose mother died two years ago after her long battle with a rare illness, has to rely on her father as she approaches the pre-teen struggles every girl faces growing up. Yet, while her father, Philip, has been doing all he can, he has failed to master one skill that remains important for 11-year-olds such as Isabella: hair.
He originally just gave her a short cut because he didn't know how to do anything else. Once her hair grew back, however, Isabella learned to make a simple ponytail (马尾) on her way out the door each morning. It wasn't until she noticed her bus driver, Tracy Dean, braiding (编) another classmate's hair that Isabella gathered the courage to ask her for help.
Dean owes her good relationship with the community she serves to a previous cancer diagnosis (诊断). Seven years ago, she found out she had breast cancer, and one of the things that went through her head was: Who is going to take care of her little ones? Not that her husband couldn’t do it but that’s what moms do.
Dean's selfless deed has also taken social media by storm, rebuilding people's faith in each other, while also inspiring others to share their own stories of kind gestures within their own community.
They say it takes a village to raise a child, and for Isabella, this means she now has a mother figure to look up to as she grows. “I feel like she's pretty much a mom to me,” Isabella said “And it makes me excited to see what she can do for me the next day.”
Dean's selfless act has also had an influence on Isabella at school, as her teacher, Mrs. Freeze, noted that Isabella had her head a little higher that morning after she asked for Dean's help. While this gesture will surely provide Isabella with the power she needs to remain positive for years to come, Dean can find great comfort in knowing that her help has made a lasting influence on Isabella in particular.
1. What was the trouble for Philip when bringing up his daughter?A.To arrange her long hair. | B.To dress her elegant. |
C.To communicate with her. | D.To help her with her study. |
A.Everyone should care about their kid growth. |
B.A small deed has made a big difference to Isabella. |
C.Villagers should help each other in kids’ education. |
D.Isabella has to be brought up by her fellow villagers. |
A.Upset | B.Amazed | C.Awkward | D.Confident. |
A.Indifferent | B.Skeptical | C.Supportive | D.Objective |
【推荐1】This was an unforgettable experience and I would highly recommend traveling with Oyster program. It was completely stress-free as everyone was helpful and events were explained clearly.
Knowing that my work was helping the bears gave me a great sense of accomplishment and opened my eyes to how these animals were mistreated in the past, and still are being mistreated in other countries. The bears at the sanctuary (保护区) are happy, healthy, and well fed — the feeding tour was incredible and gave plenty of opportunities to take some fantastic photographs. My main portion of time working at the sanctuary was spent making the bear ice cream: mixing up dairy products and bread. I found this fun, but should prepare to get messy!
The town of Brașov has some wonderful views, plenty of nice walking routes, and many restaurants to try. I would highly recommend walking up the hill/mountain near the apartment toward the Braşov sign as the views over the town make for some great photos.
In terms of money, I would say that it is absolutely worth it. You seem to be able to get the most in-depth tour of the sanctuary available, the work is very rewarding, and the accommodation was of a very high standard. As a disclaimer, I recommend not paying extra for the Time Tunnel if you do the Bran Castle excursion at the weekend, as it was disappointing (it was just a lift that went down to a corridor with some illuminated portraits), but I do suggest paying extra for the Medieval Torture exhibition as this was fascinating to learn about.
I was only in Romania for one week and wish I had done longer. I will definitely consider doing this again, as it was an overwhelmingly positive experience.
1. What can we know about Oyster program?A.It gives a big discount. | B.It has great views and accommodation. |
C.It organizes many types of cycle routes. | D.It offers free Medieval Torture exhibition. |
A.Be aware of the habits of bears. | B.Get the sense of amusement. |
C.Prepare for making the ice cream. | D.Pre-know the danger from the bears. |
A.Powerfully. | B.Dizzily. | C.Rewardingly. | D.Amazingly. |
A.To describe feelings. | B.To explain reasons. |
C.To state an experience. | D.To commend the traveling. |
【推荐2】In the UK, there is a popular route (线路) for cyclists (bikers): the road from Land's End in England to John O’Groats in Scotland. The road is 874 miles long. It covers almost the full length of Great Britain. The 12-year-old boy named Laurence Chandler became the youngest cyclist to finish the route.
Chandler took 20 days to finish the challenge. Each day, he cycled between 40 to 60 miles. He spent six hours on his mountain bike daily. Chandler had to push through rainy and windy days. Cycling uphill was also hard.
“It was much harder than I thought. I didn’t expect so many hills and how busy the roads were,” Chandler said. “But if you put your mind to anything, then no matter how big, you can do it.”
Chandler first thought of trying the route when he read an article about it two years ago; Later, as his fther's50th birthday came around, he decided to go for it. He was already used to cycling around his village and to school before starting his journey.
During his ride, Chandler raised 600 pounds for Smile Train. Itis a children’s charity that pays for surgery for children in developing countries who have clef lips (兔唇).
1. What do we know about Laurence Chandler in Paragraph l?A.He found a new route for cyclists in the UK. |
B.He became the youngest cyclist in the UK. |
C.He cycled through Great Britain. |
D.He traveled around the UK with his father. |
A.How Chandler felt about his journey. |
B.How Chandler got through hard times. |
C.Why Chandler decided to go biking. |
D.What Chandler did during his trip. |
A.he will cycle the route again in the future |
B.he raised some money during his journey |
C.he started cycling just two years ago |
D.he is afraid of cycling up and down hills |
A.challenging | B.enjoyable | C.dangerous | D.relaxing |
【推荐3】On March 1, Dr. Joseph Dituri began a project to stay for 100 days at a special hotel called Jules’s Undersea Lodge 30 feet under the ocean surface in a conservation area in Key Largo.
The farther you go below the ocean’s surface, the greater the pressure. Dr. Dituri wanted to learn how this pressure would affect the human body over time. He believes that high pressure could help people live longer and stay healthier as they get older. It could also help doctors treat different medical problems, including brain injuries.
While he was living underwater, Dr. Dituri stayed busy. He often exercised in the morning. He kept teaching his college classes virtually and had online chats with over 5,500 students from 15 different countries. He also worked with ocean experts to figure out ways to preserve the ocean. He even had a number of visitors who dove down to spend a little time with him.
On June 9, Dr. Dituri returned to the surface with a new world record, beating the old record of 73 days. Many friends, family, and other supporters were there to greet him and celebrate his success. Doctors quickly checked him out to make sure he was okay.
Actually, Dr. Dituri went through several big changes. For one thing, he became 1. 3 centimeters shorter during his time in the higher undersea pressure. Sleeping much better, his health greatly improved in a couple of ways. Dr. Dituri and his team plan to study the information they collected during the project. In November, Dr. Dituri will speak at an important medical meeting in Scotland about the discoveries the scientists made during the project.
Dr. Dituri says his favorite part of the project was talking with young people. “Who knows?” he said. “Maybe one day, one of them will come back and break the record we just set. My greatest hope is that I have inspired a new generation of explorers and researchers to push past all boundaries.
1. What is Jules’s Undersea Lodge special for?A.Its convenience. | B.Its reputation. | C.Its location. | D.Its luxuriousness. |
A.To treat his brain injuries. | B.To live longer and healthier. |
C.To deal with medical problems. | D.To test one of his academic ideas. |
A.He kept a daily routine almost as usual. |
B.He was busy with medical experiments. |
C.He led a dull life separated from the others. |
D.He set a world record of living 73 days underwater. |
A.Communicate more with him. | B.Explore the unknown bravely. |
C.Study the information of the project. | D.Meet at the conference in Scotland. |