As the concept of emotional intelligence (EI) has gone global, we’ve watched professionals fail as they try to improve their emotional intelligence because they either don’t know where to focus their efforts or they haven’t understood how to improve these skills on a practical level. In our work consulting with companies and coaching leaders, we have found that if you’re looking to develop particular EI strengths, it helps to consider areas for improvement others have identified along with the goals you want to achieve and then to actively build habits in those areas rather than simply relying on understanding them conceptually.
The first step is to get a sense of how your self-perception (how you see yourself) differs from your reputation (how others see you). This is especially true for the development of EI because we can be blind to how we express and read the emotional components of our interactions. For example, most of us think that we’re good listeners, but very often that’s really not the case. Without this external reality check, it will be difficult for you to identify the ways that your actions affect your performance. Getting teed back from others can also provide proof of the necessity of shifting our behavior and motivation to do so.
To give you the best sense of where the differences lie between your self-perception and reputation, you should use a 360-degree feedback assessment that takes into account the multiple aspects of EI. The key is to find one to give you feedback, which is focused on development and not on performance assessment. And that can give you a detailed understanding of how other people’s assessments of you differ from your own assessments.
Secondly, when you get your feedback from an assessment, let that inform what you want to improve. But also consider what your goals are. When it comes to cultivating strengths in emotional intelligence, you’re at a huge disadvantage if you’re only interested because others say you should be. Your emotional intelligence is so tied up in your sense of self that being intrinsically (内在的) motivated to make the effort matters more when changing longstanding habits than it does when simply learning a skill.
That means the areas that you choose to actively work on should lie at the intersection of the feedback you’ve gotten and the areas that are most important to your own aspirations (抱负). Understanding the influences of your current EI habits relative to your goals will keep you going over a long period at time as you do the work or strengthening your emotional intelligence.
1. What do we know from the first paragraph?A.EI can be better improved with others’ help. |
B.Leaders are badly in need of improving their EI. |
C.EI plays a key role in professional development. |
D.Professionals fail to understand the concepts of EI. |
A.You help your siblings make a key decision. |
B.Your career development speeds up with others’ help. |
C.You reflected yourself and made a New Year resolution. |
D.Your teacher directed you towards a better attitude in study. |
A.To improve your EI, following your inner call is the most reliable. |
B.It’s bard for others to know your EI because it hides deep inside. |
C.To improve your EI, you should take your goals into consideration. |
D.Acquiring a new skill is more significant than improving your EI. |
A.Your inner self discourages you from improving your EI. |
B.Effective EI development is determined by different factors. |
C.The importance of performance assessment is underestimated. |
D.EI development is unlikely to happen unless you know what EI is. |
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【推荐1】You’re a remarkable person.
In fact, nobody has ever made any progress by standing there still.
First of all, to make you brilliant, you should try to develop yourself and make full use of your talents. In fact, it is required.
You were not born to be "mild".
A.So stop it! |
B.Challenge yourself. |
C.You’re not an exception. |
D.It’s not necessary to be perfect. |
E.Keep in mind that you’re the winner. |
F.You can stand there and enjoy your brilliance. |
G.But, the brilliant "you" are waiting to be discovered. |
【推荐2】Ways to Schedule Downtime
To further improve your productivity and keep a better balance between work and life, you should be aware of how important downtime (休息) is. It always enables you to achieve the most ideal work efficiency.
Making the time
For those who are not used to taking time off work and having a rest, the best way is to set a schedule for downtime.
Treating your downtime strictly
Take using computer as an example.
Optimizing (优化) your downtime
How long did your last week’s breaks last? Is the duration longer or shorter than the scheduled time? Was your work efficiency affected because you lost control and spent a bit too much time enjoying your breaks? Or did you lack sufficient downtime? Modify your plans based on your situation. Once you find the problem lies in carrying out the plan rather than the plan itself, you’d better open a book on self-discipline.
A.Pay attention to the rules. |
B.Have your downtime attached to rules. |
C.Below are some tips for planning these breaks. |
D.Highlight the needed time in black and white. |
E.You can measure whether it is necessary in your downtime. |
F.You’d better close it after you use it. |
G.Following your plan could be difficult at the beginning. |
【推荐3】How did you learn how to ride your bike? Someone probably gave you a few lessons and then you practiced a lot.
Break it up! When there’s a lot to study, it can help to break things into chunks(大块). Let’s say you have a test on 20 spelling words. Instead of thinking about all of the words at once, try breaking them down into a five-word chunks and working on one or two different chunks each night.
Ask for help. You can’t study effectively if you don’t understand the material.
Get a good night’s sleep. So the test is tomorrow and you’ve followed your study plan—but suddenly you can’t remember anything, not even 2+2! Don’t worry. Your brain needs time to digest(消化) all the information you’ve given it. Try to get a good night’s sleep.
A.Plan ahead for tests and projects. |
B.Study regularly instead of just the night before. |
C.You can learn how to study in much the same way. |
D.You’ll be surprised by what comes back to you in the morning. |
E.If you’re studying math or science, do some practice problems. |
F.Be sure to ask your teacher for help if you’re confused about something. |
G.Good studying starts in class. |
【推荐1】P.S. 139, in Brooklyn, New York, has a school garden where students grow their favorite fruits and vegetables. It also has a school cookbook filled with recipes that use those foods, as well as a technology club, a soccer club, an artists' club, and a teachers’ lounge.
All of this is partially thanks to a process called PB. Through PB, students, parents, teachers, and P. S. 139 staff decide each year how to use some of the school’s money. Over the past three years, P. S. 139 has spent nearly $50,000 this way. Usually, only school leaders get to decide how to distribute a budget, but PB lets others weigh in. Shari Davis is one of the heads of the PB Project, a nonprofit group based in New York and California. '' PB opens the door and invites folks to participate in decisions. People who are closest to the problems in a community are often also closest to settling them. '' she told TIME for Kids.
To start the PB process, members of a school community think about changes they’d like to see. Then they submit their ideas to a committee. It organizes the ideas into complete proposals (议案), which include the cost of each project. Lastly, every member votes for the winning projects that will be supported financially.
PB Project co-founder Josh Lerner helped bring the approach to P. S. 139. He finds that leaders are pleasantly surprised by the winning projects, which help them '' better understand what their communities need'', he says.
PB isn't just for schools. It’s also used by city and state governments around the world. New York City has been using PB since 2011. New Yorkers have spent more than $210 million this way. They've provided money for playgrounds, dog parks, and trees for city sidewalks, among other projects.
1. What is special about PB?A.It allows ordinary people to play a role in decisions. |
B.It accepts money from local government. |
C.It helps P S. 139 build a school garden. |
D.It focuses mainly on public schools |
A.Applying to the head master. | B.Putting forward project ideas. |
C.Gathering members to vote. | D.Making a specific budge. |
A.Proud. | B.Shocked. |
C.Delighted. | D.Embarrassed. |
A.To introduce the PB approach. | B.To bring up a social problem. |
C.To offer proposals to communities. | D.To help leaders make better preparation. |
【推荐2】City parks have long been a place for urban residents to get a small amount of green. As cities increasingly feel the impacts of rising seas and temperatures, people are rethinking the roles of urban parks.
All of the dark-gray asphalt (沥青) in cities collect heat. Dallas is one of the country’s fastest-warming cities thanks in part to its extensive impervious (不透水的) surfaces, but with a new $312 million bond package, the city is hoping to change that. Using satellite data, the city is able to see what neighborhoods most need the cooling effect of green spaces.
Cities are increasingly flooding and city planners think parks can help with this issue too. A report published in February by The Nature Conservancy looked at the best ways to deal with flooding in Houston, a city with many neighborhoods built on floodplains and regularly flooded by rising waters. Offering affected homeowners buyouts and transforming homes into green spaces would save more money than installing infrastructure (基础设施) like pipes, they found.
Brendan Shane, a climate program director, says parks can create opportunities for people to exercise and play, in addition to cooling neighborhoods and absorbing floodwater. “The stronger the bonds are from neighbor to neighbor, the better they are able to react to a shock,” he says.
“Not a single solution by itself will avoid the climate crisis. We see parks as an important part of it, but there isn’t a silver bullet,” says Diane Regas, CEO of The Trust for Public Land. “Parks are an example of what we in the environmental community need to do to reach solutions that address climate change at the same time and make people’s lives better.”
1. What does the city Dallas want to deal with?A.The lack of green spaces. | B.The way of collecting heat. |
C.The effect of rising seas. | D.The bond between neighborhoods. |
A.Cities in the world are frequently flooded. | B.City parks may help prevent city flooding. |
C.Cities needn’t invest much money in infrastructure. | D.City parks affect people’s choice of a neighborhood. |
A.They can enable people to get over a shock. | B.They can reduce air pollution effectively. |
C.They can perform positive social functions. | D.They can help people to keep a cool head. |
A.A fast and effective solution. | B.A successful example. |
C.An immediate and clear cause. | D.An impractical method. |
【推荐3】In 2019 air travel accounted for 2.5 percent of global carbon emissions, a number that could be more than doubled by 2050. While some airlines have started making up for their contributions to atmospheric carbon, significant cutbacks are still needed. Electric airplanes could provide the scale of transformation required, and many companies are racing to develop them. Not only would electric propulsion (推进) motors eliminate direct carbon emissions, they could reduce fuel costs by up to 90 percent, maintenance by up to 50 percent and noise by nearly 70 percent.
Cape Air, one of the largest regional airlines, expects to be among the first customers, with plans to buy the nine-passenger electric aircraft from Eviation. Cape Air’s CEO Dan Wolf has said he is interested not only in the environmental benefits but also in potential savings on operation costs. Electric motors generally have longer life spans than the hydrocarbon-fueled engines in his current aircraft; they need repairs at 20,000 hours versus 2,000.
Forward-propulsion engines are not the only ones going electric. NASA’s X-57 Maxwell electric plane, under development, replaces current wings with shorter ones that feature a set of distributed electric propellers (螺旋桨). On traditional jets, wings must be large enough to provide lift when a craft is traveling at a low speed, but the large surface area adds drag at higher speeds. Electric propellers increase lift during takeoff, allowing for smaller wings and overall higher efficiency.
For the foreseeable future, electric planes will be limited in how far they can travel. Today’s best batteries put out far less power by weight than traditional fuels: an energy density of 250 watt-hours per kilogram versus 12,000 watt-hours per kilogram for jet fuel. The batteries required for a given flight are therefore far heavier than standard fuel and take up more space. Approximately half of all flights globally are fewer than 800 kilometers, which is expected to be within the range of battery-powered electric aircraft by 2025.
Electric aviation faces cost and regulatory obstacles, but investors, corporations and governments excited by the progress of this technology are investing significantly in its development: some $250 million flowed to electric aviation start-ups between 2017 and 2019. Currently roughly 170 electric airplane projects are underway. Most electric airplanes are designed for private, corporate and commuter travel, but Airbus says it plans to have 100-passenger versions ready to fly by 2030.
1. What can be inferred from the underlined sentence in paragraph one?A.Airline’s current efforts to reduce carbon emissions are far from enough. |
B.Airline companies haven’t invested enough in their technological development. |
C.Only by promoting electric planes can airlines balance their carbon emission impact. |
D.Airline companies alone cannot realize the global goal of carbon emission reduction. |
A.After frequent maintenance, they last longer and produce less noise. |
B.Electric propellers enable them to fly at low speed with great lift. |
C.They are designed to accommodate a large number of passengers. |
D.They can fly at lower speed with less drag with the help of bigger wings. |
A.the cost of energy per kilogram is higher for electric planes |
B.existing batteries are too large and heavy to be placed inside the planes |
C.the same weight of batteries holds less power than that of traditional fuel |
D.half of the batteries have not been designed to sustain long distance flight |
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