While everyone feels lonely at times, being alone too much can negatively affect your physical and emotional health. Studies have found that loneliness can be just as harmful to your health as smoking 15 cigarettes per day.
·Acknowledge that you’re feeling alone
Admitting feeling alone doesn’t mean you’re a loser or you’re weak.
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When you are feeling alone, sometimes it’s easier to connect with old friends than it is to make new ones. Perhaps you have lost touch with your college roommates over the years. You might reach out and see how they’re doing. Talk about how you’ve missed being able to catch up and say that you’d like to reconnect.
·Join a group or club
·Learn something new
Getting excited about something you’re learning— whether it’s a new language or a new skill— might help when you are feeling alone.
A.It just means you’re human |
B.Connect with people from your past |
C.Address how you feel about being lonely |
D.Loneliness is also linked with cognitive decline |
E.It also might open up doors to meeting new people |
F.Look for community activities that might be a good fit for you |
G.It isn’t unusual to be alone and feel that you have few or no close friends |
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【推荐1】Goals give our lives meaning and help us become better versions of ourselves.
As humans, we are built to naturally see the problems and easily punish ourselves for bad behavior. Our mindset can bring us down when we feel we’ve failed.
So what is the secret to achieving big goals? Many people may put the success of others down to luck or a natural talent.
The key to success is realizing that our big goals aren’t going to happen overnight.
A.Yes, this can be the case, but not always. |
B.We all want to be successful in our goals. |
C.Take Thomas Edison, who invented the light bulb for example. |
D.This usually results in giving up on dreams and goals. |
E.We tend to focus on the end goals rather than the small steps. |
F.We must invest in the small things over a long period of time. |
G.But have you ever tried to reach a big goal only to eventually give up? |
【推荐2】How to Beat the Afternoon Slump and Regain Your Focus
It’s 3 pm, and the very last thing you want to do is work. You are so tired that you could go back to bed.
Grab a Healthy Snack
If you’re feeling tired, try giving your body some energy with a healthy snack. Sugary, prepackaged snacks seem to be a good choice because they provide you with a quick hit of energy. But after this boost of energy, you’ll quickly experience a “sugar crash”.
Get Some Exercise
One of the quickest ways to increase your energy is to do some exercise. If you’ve been sitting at your desk all day, then getting your blood pumping (涌流) can give you the boost you need to continue your work.
Our final piece of advice isn’t a specific action, but rather a larger change in the way you work. If you know that you’re going to have less energy in the afternoon, try to use that time for tasks that require less energy. For instance, I prefer to do my most creative and high-energy work in the morning and lower energy tasks like processing email in the afternoon.
While you can’t beat the afternoon slump completely, you can take steps to regain the energy and focus you need to stay productive even in the face of tiredness.
A.Schedule Your Work Around Your Energy |
B.Do Less Demanding Tasks to Keep Energetic |
C.If you’ve experienced this feeling, you’re not alone. |
D.It means that you may feel even more tired than before. |
E.For maximum effectiveness, combine the exercise with healthy snacks. |
F.With this approach, you can anticipate the afternoon slum and arrange your work. |
G.The specific exercise doesn’t really matter, and it doesn’t have to be long or complicated. |
【推荐3】How To Overcome Laziness
Laziness can be harmful to your overall quality of life. If you are physically lazy, you may be at risk of developing a variety of health problems. If you consistently fall behind at work because of laziness, you might develop more stress.
Set realistic targets. If you set unrealistic goals for yourself, you can get burnt out, which can result in laziness sometimes.
Ask for help when you need it. It can be harmful to try to handle everything on your own, so you should not hesitate to ask for help.
Find ways to make boring tasks fun. A lot of people do not like to focus on their to-do lists because they get bored quickly.
Now you know the harm of being laziness and have some effective methods for crushing it. If well planned, you can overcome laziness and lead a more productive life once and for all.
A.Don’t expect to be perfect. |
B.Avoid overloading yourself by setting gainable goals. |
C.Laziness can also damage your relationships with others. |
D.Interest will draw you to bury yourself in what you are doing. |
E.Make a list of short tasks that will help you get to your long-term goal. |
F.You can tell yourself that you can break this habit of laziness now and then. |
G.If necessary, you can reach out to family members, friends, or even experts. |
Dad---This poem came directly from my heart. I love you so much! It scares and amazes me that you go out every day and risk everything to provide us with all that we have. I wrote this to express how much I love you and how much lost I’d be without you-Laura. P.S.: Hey, let’s be careful out there.
Titled “The Ultimate Cop”, Laura’s poem was dedicated “To all the cops in the world who have daughters who love them with all their hearts. And especially to my dad.” It was about a police-officer’s daughter who sees on the night time news that her father has been shot. Part of poem: “Daddy, my Daddy, can you hear me cry? Oh, God, I need my Daddy, please don’t let him die.”
Ken Knapcik stood alone as he read the poem. “It took me several minutes,” he said. “I’d get through part of it and have to stop before I could go on. I was weeping. She had never told me she was scared.” He took the poem to work the next day and showed it to his fellow officers. “I’ve never seen so many grown men cry. Some couldn’t finish it.”
Knapcik keeps Laura’s poem in the pocket of his police jacket. He takes it with him every time he leaves the house for a new shift. “I don’t want to be out there without it.” he said, “I’ll probably carry it with me forever.”
1. Laura wrote the poem ______.
A.in memory of her father who was shot in the drug arrest |
B.to show her great sorrow in losing her father |
C.to show her respect to all the cops who lost their lives |
D.to tell Officer Ken Knapcik how much she loved him |
A.Jay Brunkella was shot and died |
B.they were greatly touched by the poem |
C.the poem was so sad that they couldn’t hold back their tears |
D.they thought of their dangerous life |
A.to treasure her daughter’s love and to value his own life |
B.to keep it from missing |
C.because he can’t go out without it |
D.to mourn over the death of officer Jay Brunkella |
A.Poem for a cop | B.An officer’s death |
C.Daughter’s love | D.Love my job, love my daughter |
【推荐2】I'm not much of a gardener. I love having beautiful flowers-but I don't have a good track record when it comes to making them grow.
A few months after our son left for the Middle East, my friend gifted me a box of tulip bulbs (郁金香球茎). She explained that these bulbs were put into the ground in the fall and lay sleeping all winter. They had all the nutrients they needed inside the bulb and would come out in the spring. ''When you see the leaves of the tiny flowers pushing toward the sun, you'll know that it's almost time for your son to come home. They'll give you what you need most.'' She walked me through the process of planting them. I thanked her — trying to show my gratitude for her gift.
It was a long winter — cold and dark. I endured both the weather and the loneliness and fear I felt with my son away. Dead leaves, frost and finally a heavy snow covered the area where I'd planted those flowers, and I soon forgot they were there.
Finally the weather began to warm. One day, as I walked down my front steps, I noticed an area of green. I bent down to inspect the situation more clearly and saw that those tulips had begun to grow, their tiny leaves forcing their way to the sun.
Day after day I noted the flowers' progress. And day after day, the time approached when my son would finally be home. Now with spring just around the corner, nothing could keep either of us from marching toward the light. Almost all of those bulbs bloomed. And with each brightly colored flower, I marked off one day closer to getting to hold my son in my arms again.
1. What can we know about the author?A.She is a professional gardener. |
B.She is not good at growing flowers. |
C.She never plants flowers at home. |
D.She often sends friends flowers as gifts. |
A.The bitter winter reminded her of her son far away. |
B.She was discouraged from making another attempt. |
C.They failed to live through the cold and long winter. |
D.She had no hope for beautiful flowers indeed. |
A.A physical representation of the hope. |
B.Things deep inside her heart and soul. |
C.A lesson she will never forget completely. |
D.The trouble she had in making them come out. |
A.A dark winter with hope. | B.Planting hope in winter. |
C.An area of green in spring. | D.Living a changeable life. |
【推荐3】Teachers help shape us into the people we become. They teach us academic skills, but their impact extends far beyond the classroom. Teacher Appreciation Week runs from May 2 to May 6. People across the country use this special week to show teachers how important they are to their lives. We asked our teachers to tell us about their most inspiring teachers. Read about these outstanding educators and recommend your favourite ones.
The teachers who inspires me is my art teacher, Mrs. Imel. Mrs. Imel is the best person I have known. She is always smiling and saying, “I love it! I love it” She believes in me and in every child she teaches.
——Makena Weiscopf, 11
Ms. Berra has helped me become a happier learner. She makes her class funny, and makes school funnier. When the class doesn’t understand anything, she explains it in a funny way that makes sense. She makes everybody laugh all through her class.
——Victor Padilla, 10
My 6thgrade language and literature teacher in my former school in India was Mrs. Dias. She always made sure we got to class on time and helped us with problems outside of school. Mrs. Dias also taught me to always believe in myself, no matter what the odds were. I will always remember the valuable lessons she taught me and I will always remember her.
——Akshitha Veeramachaneni, 12
I am a Chinese citizen and moved to the US in 2014. In fifth grade, I met a teacher named Mr. Mabushay. Every day, I went to his class and he taught me how to speak to people and act according to American culture. He taught me the importance of having an open mind. He inspired me to expand my vocabulary and come out of my shell. Now, I am no longer feeling lonely. It feels great to have lasting friendship with my classmates and my English continues to get better every day. Thanks, Mr. Mabushay!
—— Tingwei Ye,13
1. What can we learn about Mrs. Imel?A.She is feeling very lonely. | B.She teaches language and literature. |
C.She tends to make her class funny. | D.she loves smiling. |
A.humorous | B.kind-hearted. | C.strict | D.dull. |
A.Smile every day | B.Believe in yourself. |
C.Communicate with others. | D.Become a creative artist |