Conflict (冲突) between parents and children is normal. It is part of family life. But conflict that goes on for a long time and gets worse over time can cause stress and can hurt relationships. It is important to communicate with each other and bring conflict to a peaceful solution. You can do this through compromise (让步) or by agreeing to disagree. No matter what else you do, communicate with your children and make sure they know that you love them. This can make dealing with conflict easier and more effective.
In some cases, you may have to change your behaviour to settle a conflict with your child. Some of your child’s behaviour may be a reaction to your behaviour. So, if you want your child to behave in a certain way, one way may be to change your behaviour so that your child will follow your model.
But children should be responsible for their own actions — and the results. All parents want to protect their children. But in some cases, unless the child is in physical danger, it may be best to let the child deal with the negative results of things they do.
Collaborate (合作) to develop specific rules and write them down. These may include statements such as how much time they can spend on electronics, and when homework must be completed. Not only are you modeling for your kids how to work together and resolve differences, but you also are working out important guidelines for how your house will operate.
Have clear results for misconduct. Thus, if your child disobey the rules, make it clear that the right to use the toy will be taken away because of his inability to play with it responsibly. Additionally, create routines so that they know when they have free time to themselves after they have completed tasks set out for them. These could include helping feed the family pet, taking a shower, or finishing homework.
1. What’s the key to solving the conflict between parents and children?A.Advising children to give in. | B.Changing behavior. |
C.Reaching an understanding. | D.Developing rules. |
A.To compromise with their children. |
B.To be responsible for their actions. |
C.To find a reason to punish children. |
D.To set a good example for children. |
A.Teach him how to solve it. |
B.Handle the situation for him. |
C.Let him deal with it himself. |
D.Share the solutions with him. |
A.Improper behavior. | B.Strict rules. |
C.Good performances. | D.Frank words. |
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【推荐1】Online learning has become the new normal during the COVID-19 pandemic (流行病), and all students, right from kindergarten to post-graduate level, have to fix their eyes on mobile phones or PADs to attend online classes, which is impacting their physical as well as mental health.
Proper use of breaks: Usually, a 10-minute break is provided.
Define a space as a classroom: There should be a specified space designed as a classroom / online learning place. The online class should not happen on the bed, in a lying position or with a blanket. It only causes sleep and leads to unhealthy learning.
Structured regularity:
Social connectivity: The lack of social connectivity can cause mental stress and depression. Make sure you meet or at least talk to someone every day.
Exercise, exercise, exercise:
Sleep routines: Screen time should be avoided especially during bedtime as it causes sleep disturbances. Lack of good quality sleep causes mental and physical stress.
A.Exercise is the key to a healthy body and mind. |
B.This clears mental disturbances and eases anxiety. |
C.Mental stress builds up when there is a mess all around. |
D.Students spend most of this time switching to online entertainment. |
E.Education institutions are using the best of technology to adapt to the situation. |
F.These breaks should be used for physical activities or talking to family members. |
G.Therefore, issues of social distancing and lack of physical activities need to be addressed. |
I'll let them fail because as long as they are safe and warm inside their comfort zones, they will never grow. And failure along with loss, heartbreak, disappointment, etc.—will be part of growth for them. Call me the anti-tiger mom, but leaving them alone is, my way of helping them become equipped to fit in this world as we know it today. From terrorism and seemingly endless natural disasters, to our national debt and beyond, if we expect the next generation to stand up to the very real problems of our time, we need to stop feeding them and start teaching them how to fish.
My children now are becoming little masters of compromise, but they try to negotiate everything now. It's a small price to help them learn a skill they'll use for the rest of their lives, including when I don't accompany them on job interviews.
1. Why do parents accompany their kids on job interviews?
A.Because they want to protect their kids from difficulties. |
B.Because they think they can help them on the questions. |
C.Because their kids are too shy to attend interviews. |
D.Because their kids strongly request them to do so. |
A.Sheltering them. | B.Keeping them safe. |
C.Leaving them alone. | D.Blaming them. |
A.To make them stronger than other kids. |
B.To help them grow in this tough world. |
C.To help them develop all social skills. |
D.To make them learn to compromise. |
A.Never Shelter Your Kids |
B.Let Your Kids Fail |
C.Be Eager to Grow Up |
D.Live Without Parents |
【推荐3】Rising through Stages to Realize Ourselves
Many modern people have the problem that they don’t know who they are and what their purpose is.
In the theory of the Hierarchy of Needs, Abraham Maslow put forward a similar situation, which consists of the five levels of a person’s need. The fifth and final level is self- realization, which is where our final achievement lies.
I think self-realization has three major aspects. The first stage is acceptance, the second stage is discovery and the last stage is perseverance.
Acceptance is the first stage. We should be reminded that we are all born unique, so we all have our own strengths and weaknesses.
Once we’ve accepted ourselves, we can discover what we are interested in and what we want to be. Many people tend to go along with social expectations.
The last stage is perseverance.
Through the three stages, we could gain recognition of ourselves. And by this point, whatever our lives were like, we would be able to stand tall, confident of ourselves.
A.It’s nothing to a man of perseverance. |
B.But indeed we should live for ourselves. |
C.Only by acceptance of the past can we change it. |
D.This is especially common among college students. |
E.It is the process of knowing ourselves and finding a purpose. |
F.Exploring our potential isn’t going to be done in a short time. |
G.Only when we understand these can we pursue them or change them. |
【推荐1】Nowadays, people all over the world have various ways of dealing with a common cold. Some take over-the-counter(非处方的) medicines such as aspirin while others try popular home remedies(治疗) like herbal tea or chicken soup. However, here is the tough truth about the common cold:nothing really cures it.
Then why do people sometimes still believe that their remedies work? According to James Taylor, a professor at the University of Washington, colds usually go away on their own in about a week, improving a little each day after symptoms peak, so it’s easy to believe it’s medicine rather than time that deserves to be praised, USA Today reported.
To many of us, it still seems hard to believe that we can deal with more serious diseases yet are powerless against something as common as a cold. Recently, scientists came closer to figuring out why. To understand it, you first need to know how antiviral(抗病毒的) drugs work. They attack the virus by attaching to and changing the surface structures of the virus. To do that, the drug must fit and lock into the virus like the right piece of a jigsaw(拼图), which means scientists have to identify the virus and build a 3-D model to study its surface before they can develop an antiviral drug that is effective enough.
The two cold viruses that scientists had long known about were rhinovirus(鼻病毒) A and B. But they didn’t find out about the existence of a third virus, rhinovirus C, until 2006. All three of them lead to the common cold, but drugs that work well against rhinovirus A and B don’t work well when used against C.
“This accounts for most of the previous failures of drug trials against Thinovirus,” study leader Professor Ann Palmenberg at University of Wisconsin-Madison, US, told Science Daily.
Now, more than 10 years after the discovery of rhinovirus C, scientists have finally built a highly-detailed 3-D model of the virus, showing that the surface of the virus is, as expected, different from that of other cold viruses.
With the model in hand, hopefully a real cure for a common cold is on its way. Soon, we may no longer have to waste our money on medicines that don’t really work.
1. What does the author think of popular remedies for curing a common cold?A.They are really quite effective. |
B.They are slightly helpful. |
C.They still need to be improved. |
D.They actually don’t work. |
A.By identifying the viruses and breaking them up directly. |
B.By reshaping the top layers of the target cold viruses. |
C.By attacking the viruses one after another like finishing a jigsaw. |
D.By absorbing different kinds of cold viruses at the same time. |
A.The surface of cold viruses looks quite similar. |
B.Scientists have already found a cure for the common cold. |
C.Knowing the structure of cold viruses is the key to developing an effective cure. |
D.Scientists were not aware of the existence of rhinovirus C until recently. |
A.Drugs against cold viruses |
B.Helpful home remedies |
C.No current cure for common cold |
D.Research on cold viruses |
【推荐2】You may have heard that some plants and animals are endangered. What does that mean exactly?
Endangered means there are very few of that kind still alive. Someday they might become extinct. You may wonder what people can do to help them.
Plant trees
As the date of Earth Day roughly coincides with U.S.Arbor Day, planting trees is a popular Earth Day activity. Trees helps to reduce greenhouse gas emissions, clean pollution, secure soil in place to prevent erosion, and provide homes for many birds, insects and other animals.
Why not welcome these nonhuman neighbors into your yard? Here is how to do it. Instead of mowing the entire yard, leave a few sections unmoved.
Clean up litter in your community
Many groups use the weekend of Earth Day to clear roadways, highways and neighborhood streets of litter that has accumulated since the last clean-up day.
A.Welcome animals into your yard |
B.Choose flowers that are native to your area. |
C.One way is to protect the animals’ or plants’ habitats |
D.Bees, butterflies, and many other insects will find this inviting |
E.It’s a wonderful community project that you can do as an individual or with a group |
F.So planting trees is a long -lasting act you can do to celebrate Earth Day |
G.Encourage people to respect wild spaces by not damaging animal habitats, littering,and dumpling in the water. |
【推荐3】One thing you probably always wondered about is why Americans drive on a different side of the road than their British cousins. It might seem strange that the UK drivers stay on the left, but they are not alone. Around 35% of the world population does the same, including people in Ireland, Japan, and some Caribbean islands.
It is said that originally almost everybody traveled on the left side of the road. However, their mode of transport was quite different from today: Think four legs instead of four wheels. For medieval (中世纪的) swordsmen on horseback, it made sense to keep to the left to have their right arms closer to enemies. Mounting and dismounting was also easier from the left side of the horse, and safer done by the side of the road than in the center.
Things changed in the late 1700s when large wagons pulled by several pairs of horses were used to transport farm products in France and the US. In the absence of a driver’s seat inside the wagon, the driver sat on the left, with his right arm free to use his whip (鞭子) to keep the horses moving. Since he was sting on the left, and wanted other wagons to pass on his left, so he kept to the right side of the road.
The British Government refused to give up their left﹣hand driving ways and made laws to encourage driving on the left. Meanwhile post-revolution France, under their left﹣handed ruler Napoleon, accepted the right side of the road. During all this driving confusion, the British and the French were giving up their power across the globe, and as part of their rapid colonization (殖民化) they insisted that the countries they occupied drive on the same side of the road. This explains why former British colonies such as Australia, New Zealand, and India drive on the left, while former French colonies like Algeria, Ivory Coast, and Senegal drive on the right.
1. What’s the purpose of the first paragraph?A.To make a question about two driving patterns. |
B.To make a comparison about two driving patterns. |
C.To give background of the text. |
D.To support the following paragraphs. |
A.People in ancient times were accustomed to walking on the right of the road. |
B.People in ancient times usually afforded to hang out by carriage. |
C.Swordsmen rode warhorses to make them fight better. |
D.Swordsmen usually rested their warhorses on the left side. |
A.The history of the left-hand rules in colonial corners. |
B.The evolution process of the left-hand rules. |
C.The medieval history of the left-hand rules. |
D.The progress of the left-hand rules in colonies. |
【推荐1】Think of the last time you disagreed with another person. Maybe you argued with a sibling (兄弟姐妹) over what to watch on TV.
How can you understand both sides of an issue? Often it is best to start by asking questions.
When seeking to understand both sides of the issue, it’s important to know the difference between facts and opinions. Remember, facts are based on true information. Opinions can change from person to person. Paying attention to facts can stop biases (偏见) from taking over in a disagreement.
Disagreements may be uncomfortable at first.
A.In many situations, disagreements are unavoidable. |
B.Questions help us learn about the world around us. |
C.This can help everyone involved see both sides of the issue. |
D.After all, don’t most people just want to prove that their side is right? |
E.Maybe you’re wondering why it’s important to understand both sides of an issue. |
F.Or perhaps you tried to convince grown-ups that ice cream makes a better dinner than vegetables. |
G.However, when both sides truly try to understand each other, they often find they have more in common than they thought. |
【推荐2】Two managers in the same organization were coming into conflict when having disagreements in their work. After thinking about a particularly troubling issue throughout the night, the first manager wrote a letter to the other one, outlining his thoughts as reasonably as possible. He gave it to the other person and asked him to read it later and suggested that after working through their anger, they discuss it again.
The following day the first manager stopped by the office of the other and asked how it would go. The second one admitted that he was very upset at first, but after thinking it over he realized that most of their disagreements were for a lack of understanding. He stated that he felt if they could discuss it without losing their tempers, they could work things out. That is exactly what they did later and got the issue settled with flying colors (成功地).
American president Abraham Lincoln was known for writing two letters when he needed to communicate with someone else who had made him angry. He first wrote a letter that severely conveyed just what he thought. Then he tore up that letter and wrote a second one that was appropriate and reasonable, and sent the letter out.
Effective communication is the key to any relationship. When we allow ourselves to become emotional and react immediately to what we feel without thinking, emotions overwhelm (压倒) the situation and prevent true communication. Step back, think evaluate what happened or what was said, and ask to clarify questions if it is needed. Then, you can respond appropriately.
Don’t let overwhelming emotion control your life. Instead, choose to think and process internally whatever comes your way before externally responding. That is when you can communicate with others effectively and you will be able to keep good relationships with them.
1. What did the first manager do in his letter?A.He expressed his general ideas reasonably. |
B.He explained why the issue was troubling. |
C.He apologized to the second manager sincerely. |
D.He invited the second manager to discuss the issue. |
A.Any great man can get angry. |
B.Making plan B is necessary in work. |
C.Writing letters was very popular in the past. |
D.We should deal with matters after calming down. |
A.A bad first impression. | B.Ineffective communication. |
C.The high chance of failure. | D.The breakdown of a relationship. |
A.Learn to answer questions indirectly. | B.Avoid anger to keep good relationships. |
C.Never be overwhelmed by your emotions. | D.Think reasonably before making a decision. |
【推荐3】The man sitting opposite Robert was the Financial Controller. Everybody called him “the FC” for short. He made all the decisions about money. Robert needed some more. That was why he had to see him. The two men did not get on very well. In fact, they had always disliked each other.
“Your request is out of the question,” the FC said. Robert had difficulty in controlling himself, but he managed somehow. He explained that he wanted the money in order to make more programmes.
“And why do you want to do that?” the FC asked sharply. Again, Robert almost lost his temper. “Because more and more people are listening to my department’s programmes. There’s great demand for them,” he answered.
The FC did not seem to believe him. But Robert had a report on the numbers of listeners to all EBC programmes. The FC became less confident (自信). Robert threw the report down on the table and told him to read it.
The FC looked at it in silence. The figures (数字) proved that he had been wrong, but he did not want to admit it. “Well,” he finally said, “I may have made a small mistake.” Robert noticed the word “may”. He got up to leave. But he had the feeling that he would get the money after all.
1. In the story the Financial Controller was a person who was in charge of______.A.EBC programs. | B.EBC money. |
C.both B and A. | D.Robert’s department’s programs. |
A.possible. | B.impossible. |
C.with some question. | D.without any question |
A.“the FC” disliked him |
B.he wanted to meet the needs of the listeners. |
C.he wanted to show himself off. |
D.the members of his department wanted him to do so. |
A.Nobody. | B.The listeners. |
C.Robert. | D.The Financial Controller. |