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Conflict (冲突) between parents and children is normal. It is part of family life. But conflict that goes on for a long time and gets worse over time can cause stress and can hurt relationships. It is important to communicate with each other and bring conflict to a peaceful solution. You can do this through compromise (让步) or by agreeing to disagree. No matter what else you do, communicate with your children and make sure they know that you love them. This can make dealing with conflict easier and more effective.

In some cases, you may have to change your behaviour to settle a conflict with your child. Some of your child’s behaviour may be a reaction to your behaviour. So, if you want your child to behave in a certain way, one way may be to change your behaviour so that your child will follow your model.

But children should be responsible for their own actions — and the results. All parents want to protect their children. But in some cases, unless the child is in physical danger, it may be best to let the child deal with the negative results of things they do.

Collaborate (合作) to develop specific rules and write them down. These may include statements such as how much time they can spend on electronics, and when homework must be completed. Not only are you modeling for your kids how to work together and resolve differences, but you also are working out important guidelines for how your house will operate.

Have clear results for misconduct. Thus, if your child disobey the rules, make it clear that the right to use the toy will be taken away because of his inability to play with it responsibly. Additionally, create routines so that they know when they have free time to themselves after they have completed tasks set out for them. These could include helping feed the family pet, taking a shower, or finishing homework.

1. What’s the key to solving the conflict between parents and children?
A.Advising children to give in.B.Changing behavior.
C.Reaching an understanding.D.Developing rules.
2. Why do parents need to change their behavior first in the conflict?
A.To compromise with their children.
B.To be responsible for their actions.
C.To find a reason to punish children.
D.To set a good example for children.
3. What should parents do if the child causes something bad to happen?
A.Teach him how to solve it.
B.Handle the situation for him.
C.Let him deal with it himself.
D.Share the solutions with him.
4. What does the underlined word “misconduct” in Paragraph 5 mean?
A.Improper behavior.B.Strict rules.
C.Good performances.D.Frank words.

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