Don’t get me wrong-I love my parents very much. I know they love me too and would do anything to help me but sometimes they can be really embarrassing. Dad wanting to pick me up from school, Mum getting overexcited when she watches me playing football for the school team.
Choose the behaviour you find most embarrassing
When you’ve decided which issues you want to talk about, keep a diary of all the times your mum or dad do the things that embarrass you most. When, where and how you felt - make a note of all these things. They’ll help you put your case across.
Have a family meeting
It’s time for a little face-to-face chat.The chances are that even if your parents are aware of doing these things, they prob-ably don’t realize how embarrassing they are. Keep calm.
Try and be more understanding
Hopefully your parents will listen and be willing to change their ways, especially if you say you’re happy to change too. Of course, sometimes they might not. Re-member that they once had their own embarrassing parents, and the chances are many of us will be embarrassing parents ourselves one day.
A.Discuss the issues |
B.Collect the evidence |
C.And I know it’s not just me |
D.Let them know how you feel and why |
E.Maybe we shouldn’t be too hard on them |
F.Write down the things that you feel happy |
G.Write a list of all the things you find embarrassing |
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Make a list.
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Give yourself a present.
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Keep off bad habits.
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Be patient.
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Find support.
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